bruiser Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 IMHO falling is love is not easy, whether it is with an MPA/GRO/PSP/FUBU or even a regular girl...falling in love involves a deep emotional attachment that transcends the physical aspect of a person, you tend to go deeper and discover the inner beauty and overall compatibility of your potential partner. As to falling for any of the four mentioned above, one must truly discern what he truly feels, among the considerations are: 1. Are you just enjoying the sex?2. Have you accepted your partner through and through...despite the shortcomings (assuming everything is disclosed)3. When the MPA/GRO/PSP/FUBU loses her physical charms, will you still be in love with her?4. Given the situation, are you willing to fight for her -- remember this situation may entail a "You and Me against the World" scenario.5. Are you at peace with yourself over this situation... There are other factors to consider, a lot of them way beyond my comprehension as of now, but one thing is for sure, if the basic tenets (as in the 5 factors mentioned above) are present, then I think one may be ready to take things to the next level. I know the feeling because I have a friend who fell in love with a girl who was originally just a FUBU...they were just in it for the sex but after a while, they fell in love and got married. My friend was practically ostracized and disowned by his family and a lot of his friends were against the relationship (regrettably, including myself at the start...) because the girl was not really what you would call someone who you can be proud of...anyway, he stuck through the relationship despite the strong opposition. Their family life right now is not really a bed of roses, but I can safely say that in terms of happiness, they are a picture of bliss and they have been blessed with a very beautiful and intelligent son. Peace to all... Quote Link to comment
Little Johnny Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 I never really experience falling in love with a PSP or evenso to someone engage in a similar profession. But I never discounted the possibility of such.. At any rate, love is something beyond explanation.. I do not agree that love is something you can learn or be taught.. Love is beyond explanation.. we just simply felt it. Falling in love with a PSP though generally not recommendable but something you cannot deny (if it struck you..). You love the person not because of his/her profession or status.. you love person because you love her... Quote Link to comment
cinnamon Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 Loving an MPa is more of a discovery ng sarili at mundo, Tama si bruiser, marami talagang paghihirap ang madadaanan kapag nagmahal k ng katulad nila, but like all kinds of love, lahat may sari sarili na pagsubok na kailangan maranasan, at kung kayang ma over come yung paghihirap na yan, well most likely the relationship will work well. But sa 22o, makikita m na finally ang mga masasamang ugali ng mga tao, kahit na mga tao sa tabi m, mga gagawin nilang di m na isip n kaya nilang gawin at ang lahat ng paghihirap na kaya nilang tapunin sa inyo dalawa para lang maghiwalay kayo, tama ba itong ginagawa nila, di man lang nila iniintindi bakit.... Quote Link to comment
hk9889 Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 (edited) . Edited August 22, 2007 by hk9889 Quote Link to comment
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singkit` Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Masisisi ba natin sila, anak ka or kaibigan lang, they wanted the best in you. Kahit papaano they don't want you to fall for someone na ganoon ang trabaho. Quote Link to comment
tsinita Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Masisisi ba natin sila, anak ka or kaibigan lang, they wanted the best in you. Kahit papaano they don't want you to fall for someone na ganoon ang trabaho. Hindi mo nga sila masisisi kung ayaw nila sa mga babaeng ganun ang trabaho.. pero hindi mo naman pwedeng sabihin sa puso mo na hindi siya ang dapat para sa'yo.. hindi mo rin pwedeng sisihin ang sarili mo kasi kahit naman ikaw di mo gustong ma-inlove sa ganung babae.. eh anong gagawin mo kung yun ang tinitibok ng puso mo? give her up dahil sabi ng family and friends mo hindi sya karapat-dapat sa'yo? Quote Link to comment
singkit` Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Hindi mo nga sila masisisi kung ayaw nila sa mga babaeng ganun ang trabaho.. pero hindi mo naman pwedeng sabihin sa puso mo na hindi siya ang dapat para sa'yo.. hindi mo rin pwedeng sisihin ang sarili mo kasi kahit naman ikaw di mo gustong ma-inlove sa ganung babae.. eh anong gagawin mo kung yun ang tinitibok ng puso mo? give her up dahil sabi ng family and friends mo hindi sya karapat-dapat sa'yo?Kaya nga you have to make sure of yourself, kung tibok ba nga yan ng puso o tibok ng puson? Kung puso at puson, go ahead, hindi ko naman sinabing huwag ka ma-inlove. Iba ang love ng parents sa anak, iba ang friendship but they are all concern, kapakanan mo rin naman iniisip nila. Pero who knows better of yourself, it was you. Love the girl on that nature, get her out of the job at patunayan mo na mali ang parents mo at mga kaibigan mo. I have a friend who fall in love with a dancer, definitely the parents disagree and a part of me as a friend. But they continue the relationship. The girl at the start of their relationship quit the job. Now they have their own kids, the house they build is just beside the house of my friend's parent. One of my co worker in a semicon industry, always being left by his GFs (decent girls like nurse, midwife and even a heiress of a well known family). I know, because he wants me to join him drinking in a place somewhere in Libertad. Now ended up marrying a girl we met there. Quote Link to comment
djmhix Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Madaling ma in love sa mga girls na to, ang mahirap eh kung pano mo masisiguro na mahal ka nga nila, in my case wala naman akong pera, walang makukuha sa akin, yet she agreed to be my girl, sa huli kaawan ko lang pala ang habol niya. Kaya ayun umayaw na ko. He he he :goatee: Quote Link to comment
baby.boy Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 out of the question. pera lang ang habol ng mga yan. Quote Link to comment
machogwapito69 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 (edited) Its SOOOOOO HARD to fall in love with these kind of girls.......... Majority of these girls start out as "LUKE SKYWALKERS" or "JEDI KNIGHTS" sa madaling salita mga HEROES sila You hear reasons like these:Nagtrabaho kami dahil kailangan ng pera ni Inay, ni Itay, ng mga kapatid ko, kapitbahay namin etc. or Hindi kasi kami nakapagaral kaya wala kaming alam gawin.......eto lang alam namin etc. Well pwedeng totoo yung mga sinasabi nila eh Its because that most of these girls came from provinces which are soooo poor.........Places where people earn P1,000-P2,000 monthly(mataas na yun)........So pagdating nila sa Manila tapos nakapasok sila sa ganitong trabaho.........PATAY NA After these girls receive money and eventually become addicted to it.........They end up as "DARTH VADERS":thumbsdownsmiley: They eventually give up to the "DARK SIDE" They either end up as "MALUHO/OVERSPENDERS" or "DRUG ADDICTS".........Worse case scenario....Because of their access to immediate cash...They become both :thumbsdownsmiley: So my bottomline is......Based on my experience.....Mahirap ng baguhin ang lifestyle nila Thus........Falling in love with them is like falling in love with a "TIME BOMB" Very limited time.........Very limited choices.........Very limited chances If you diffuse the bomb then good for you.........If you don't.........Then another one bites the dust In my case.........When I fell in love with an MPA.......I did not force myself to DIFFUSE the BOMB when I knew that I cannot DIFFUSE the bomb........I LEFT IT Why? I Was not able to diffuse it.....So when it explodes.........I don't want to be with it I did my BEST.........pero mahirap talaga tumulong sa taong ayaw magpatulong...... So IMO....in my experience with that MPA.....I did not WIN nor did I LOSE..............I JUST LEARNED Edited June 3, 2007 by machogwapito69 Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 If we look at people as bombs then we will never Love/like them as people ..... If their imperfections does not appeal to our senses or are beyond our tolerance levels .... we simply leave them alone....... they are just people .... If you feel you were betrayed when an MPA say she will change ..... perhaps we may partly blame ourselvesfor believing onto people who were not able to make good of what they say .... Perhaps we just feel sorry for them .... One day, they will learn their lesson perhaps like a BOMB that will hit them ..... If you diffuse the bomb then good for you.........If you don't.........Then another one bites the dust In my case.........When I fell in love with an MPA.......I did not force myself to DIFFUSE the BOMB when I knew that I cannot DIFFUSE the bomb........I LEFT IT Why? I Was not able to diffuse it.....So when it explodes.........I don't want to be with it I did my BEST.........pero mahirap talaga tumulong sa taong ayaw magpatulong...... So IMO....in my experience with that MPA.....I did not WIN nor did I LOSE..............I JUST LEARNED Quote Link to comment
cinnamon Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 life is something that comes to us as a very short term event, sa 22o lang lahat tayo, parang bomba din na pwedeng sumabog.. kaya mas maganda wag mag pasa na ibang tao ay bomba, simple lang naman ang buhay talaga e, just live it, and live it happy and the best way you can, yan lang, lahat din tayo, mga na inlove, mga nag work, mga ayaw mag mahal, sooner or later, mawawala din sa mundong ito, so,lets not judge and give ppl a chance yan lang, ppl loose direction, pero lahat naman ay nakakahanap naman muli.. walang taong napanganak o talagang masama, sori kung parang santo ako magsalita pero yan lang talaga ang tingin k.. hehehehe, enjoy Quote Link to comment
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