Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[vanillacream_91]

im a father of 4. my teaching philosophy for my children is to let them experience the pain so that they learn more from it. my unsolicited advice to the people who are in love with prostitutes: i hope you learn from your experience and come back to this thread and share to us your success or failure stories.

 

history is the best teacher. we've seen a lot of posts here and the chances right now is at 10%. so if you feel like you want to take the risk and play the game then we salute you! may kasabihan nga, its better to have loved and failed than not loved at all.

 

i agree.

[ericahot]

wow this thread masyado nagiging malalim. better not fall inlove with client when you changed do it on your own way ng walang sumbatan walang bilangan ng naibigay whatever. Love doesnt end in money matters not even in sex even your both sex guro if you both mentally incapacitated it will really not work. When you love just love unselfishly unconditionally if doesnt work just dont regret,gather lessons, but doesnt mean your gonna limit your love already. A lot of factors need to consider in a relationship di lang puro promises and words but less action. Everbody may kanya kanya bisyo kanya kanya problems to solve pintas dirt etc...nobodys perfect!!! When theres real love both will gonna change for the better :cool:

[THUG]

posted by iwa:

posted by thug:

Iwa, life is complicated for people who chose complication. there are a lot of poor simple people, look at Payatas, look at the garbage dumps. these simple poor people are "kahig tuka" yet they are happier than most of the rich who worry about compounded bank interests, worried about their multi million business in some foreign land.

 

my unsolicited advice to ate allysa's family: live simply, value work.

 

I find thugs rebuttal easy and quick. Easy on guilt, quick to dismiss the situation. Most of the time I hear sad stories of our PSP friends and to numb myself I give myself a double dose of the "quick and easy" capsule, and turn away. taking Thugs comment the extreme, mongoloid ba lahat ng kapamilya nya at napaka useless nila lahat?

 

lets do the math here. a typical MPA will take home about 1.5K a day on a bad week. ON A BAD WEEK. thats 7.5K in five days. 7.5 is enough to start a sari sari store, how come nothings change for most of the MPAs? maybe the people in the family do not know how to work?

 

 

correct.. even I am surprised.. my ex gf hauls a lot more cash than i do, and has still keep on saying that she has got relatives to support.. everything just doesn't seem to fit, for the following reasons:

 

1) before she applied as mpa she was only in manila for a vacation, and never really intended to get a job, nor is she in dire need of a job.

2) her father supports her even before she had the job

3) she comes from a not so poor family in the province, they even have a car.

4) she was able to build a large, over a million peso house for her parents and relatives in just less than a couple of years at work. So try to figure out how much money she accumulates in a year less the expenses.

 

 

my guess is, she enjoys the job, she finds the lure of easy money the ultimate fun job. Because she enjoys the job, and she's popular in the MP, she just can't leave that MP. (I asked her why won't she transfer to other class A mp's and she told me that she's a star and popular in the MP where she works so if she transfers very few guests will recognize her)

 

i guess you could probably put lots of money on a person yet still that person still can't find happines just having lots of money. You see money can't buy you happines. These MPA's are happy just being with their regular guests. Just being able to talk and mingle with co-MPA's. Its not all about the money. The money just comes as a bonus for them.

 

 

and lastly and most importantly:

 

a lot of GUYS had given my ex-gf true love (that includes me). Provided for her. Treated her well. She had wealthy single, good looking ex-bf's that gave her the love that she needed. Yet still nothing has changed with her. The same reasons why these guys leave her is the same reason why I leave her, and that is her work. I somehow think, people really have each of their own destinies. If she's destined to be a star veteran MPA someday, then no matter what others do, they can't.

Edited May 24, 2007 by THUG

[THUG]

napaka pathetic naman talaga ng reason na kaya sila nag MPA ay dahil sa hirap ng buhay dahil sa may sinusuportahang kamag anak..

 

aba'y kung lahat ng babae naging ganyan ang reason aba'y sana ang mga maging anak ko e babae para masuportahan din ako..hehe..

 

hay.. kakaawa naman tayong mga pilipino.. sabi nga ang pilipina kilala sa mundo na prostitute.. pag sinabing pilipina iba na ang meaning..

[blow_gobi]

mga dudes, i find it difficult to know if a MPA really loves you... in their kind of work there use in making you feel important and secure whenever your with them and that makes it difficult for me to distinguish reality from fraud love...

The simplest approach i can think of is to not make any presumption that love drives the relationship. But do enjoy those moments that you're together - and treat her nicely and generously. After all, that's what you're spending your time (and money) for. Be friends with each other, perhaps even FB's.

[batnball2005]

been there, it ain't easy.

[Boysbe]

napaka pathetic naman talaga ng reason na kaya sila nag MPA ay dahil sa hirap ng buhay dahil sa may sinusuportahang kamag anak..

 

aba'y kung lahat ng babae naging ganyan ang reason aba'y sana ang mga maging anak ko e babae para masuportahan din ako..hehe..

 

hay.. kakaawa naman tayong mga pilipino.. sabi nga ang pilipina kilala sa mundo na prostitute.. pag sinabing pilipina iba na ang meaning..

 

Hmm, funny, filipinos are known around the world as laborers, hard workers, OCWS, but prostitutes? I mean really, its that kind of line that would really deminish filipino women. Dekalidad naman po and mga babae natin dito sa pilipinas, at kahit man yun ang pinili nilang line of work ay hindi rin natin sila masisisi, dahil yung iba forced na magkaroon ng ganung line of work,either by illegal recruiter,kamaganak,ama,o tinatakot ng bf. The filipina has world class beauty,grace and intelligence, kung prostitution lang ang paguusapan, Amsterdam and Taiwan has a bigger prostitution problem than here in the Philippines. MPAs choose that type of work to sustain their children, some are even too young, hindi man lang nakapag collage, kahit man mag scholarship may amount pa rin na babayaran. So kung hindi nga sila nakapagaral anung work ang kukunin nila?

[nightrider077]

tnx 4 sharing ur stories bro! it keeps me inspire 2 continue our relationship! its true its hard 2 fall inlove mpa, some times i ask here if she really loves me! she assures me nman that she loves me! a have to understand her work! trabaho lng! we had lots of trialls away bati, mensan nagtatalo about her costumer! many times naabutan ko n sla sa lobby of course some guys ask 4 akiss b4 going! sakit sa akin! so i decide 2 quit! na maghiwalay mna! after one day she calls me para ayusin nmin relationship ulit! she told if i still love her! of course i admit! sabi nya we just need 2 adjust nlng! she cried 4 me asking 4 a chance! ilove her bro! so tangapin kng ano sya! i prove 2 my self how much she loves me1 we have plans n magsama n by nxt year! tnx 4 dis tread !

correct.. even I am surprised.. my ex gf hauls a lot more cash than i do, and has still keep on saying that she has got relatives to support.. everything just doesn't seem to fit, for the following reasons:

 

1) before she applied as mpa she was only in manila for a vacation, and never really intended to get a job, nor is she in dire need of a job.

2) her father supports her even before she had the job

3) she comes from a not so poor family in the province, they even have a car.

4) she was able to build a large, over a million peso house for her parents and relatives in just less than a couple of years at work. So try to figure out how much money she accumulates in a year less the expenses.

my guess is, she enjoys the job, she finds the lure of easy money the ultimate fun job. Because she enjoys the job, and she's popular in the MP, she just can't leave that MP. (I asked her why won't she transfer to other class A mp's and she told me that she's a star and popular in the MP where she works so if she transfers very few guests will recognize her)

 

i guess you could probably put lots of money on a person yet still that person still can't find happines just having lots of money. You see money can't buy you happines. These MPA's are happy just being with their regular guests. Just being able to talk and mingle with co-MPA's. Its not all about the money. The money just comes as a bonus for them.

and lastly and most importantly:

 

a lot of GUYS had given my ex-gf true love (that includes me). Provided for her. Treated her well. She had wealthy single, good looking ex-bf's that gave her the love that she needed. Yet still nothing has changed with her. The same reasons why these guys leave her is the same reason why I leave her, and that is her work. I somehow think, people really have each of their own destinies. If she's destined to be a star veteran MPA someday, then no matter what others do, they can't.

[cuatro_ojos]

hay.. kakaawa naman tayong mga pilipino.. sabi nga ang pilipina kilala sa mundo na prostitute.. pag sinabing pilipina iba na ang meaning..

 

Sino naman nagsabi nun?

 

Funny, but I haven't heard of any Pinay service worker where I live in this side of Europe. Household helpers, yes. In the hundreds. In Spain, they even have a chocolate biscuit brand called "Filipinos" When I saw a pack of these biscuits in Costa Brava, I asked the store owner if they were good. When she asked me why, I told her that I'm curious because I'm Filipino. To which she replied, "si, es muy bueno."

 

In fact, it's easier to find Thai sex workers (who are as hot as their dishes) here. Just open the local newspaper and you'll find their ads splashed on several pages (along with those of other nationalities -- but no Pinays at all).

Edited May 24, 2007 by cuatro_ojos

[bbenz31]

wow this thread masyado nagiging malalim. better not fall inlove with client when you changed do it on your own way ng walang sumbatan walang bilangan ng naibigay whatever. Love doesnt end in money matters not even in sex even your both sex guro if you both mentally incapacitated it will really not work. When you love just love unselfishly unconditionally if doesnt work just dont regret,gather lessons, but doesnt mean your gonna limit your love already. A lot of factors need to consider in a relationship di lang puro promises and words but less action. Everbody may kanya kanya bisyo kanya kanya problems to solve pintas dirt etc...nobodys perfect!!! When theres real love both will gonna change for the better :cool:

 

I never did "walang sumbatan walang bilangan ng naibigay whatever" to her i accepted her for who she is, she is the one who doubt me for having a kid "as in may sabit na ako", she knows my story i told her but yet my words ain't enough.

 

"When you love just love unselfishly unconditionally if doesnt work just dont regret,gather lessons, but doesnt mean your gonna limit your love already." I do my love for her i only regret is time which i dont have, maybe you cant understand me why it ain't that easy to love again because im not looking for a girlfriend what im looking is someone to spend my life with i thought she would understand me, believe me, love me and yet now she is having second thoughts.

 

"A lot of factors need to consider in a relationship di lang puro promises and words but less action" So tell me in your part how can you show and prove to the guy if the guy like me is miles away working and saving for the future and needs a whole lot of time before he can give the girl the promises he made? Im a guy who makes good on my promises especially when i made that promise to God as my witness thats why even though im hurting and in pain i can endure because i know God is by my side giving me strength to follow through on my promises.

 

"A lot of factors need to consider in a relationship di lang puro promises and words but less action. Everbody may kanya kanya bisyo kanya kanya problems to solve pintas dirt etc...nobodys perfect!!! When theres real love both will gonna change for the better" Thats why im still here and will always be here for her, will support and pray for her thats how i love her maybe this is the only thing i can give now.

 

Only time will tell and God's divine plans for each and every one of us, i will just do what im supposed to do here in the first place im here to work, work my ass off and save for me and my kid if ever she still loves me then when the time comes i will welcome her with open arms and make a family she dreams and wants because she is still part of why im here in this country.

[SinisterPurpose]

Clients falling in love with MPAs/PSPs/GROs....Suggest one finds someone with the same core values as theirs. Chances for success are greater. :flowers:

[razorv3]

hmm...both are true, i guess. but then again, maybe thug hasn't been in a situation where he has to spend an evening with gnawing stomach due to hunger and family members all looking numb and helpless...believe me for true, thug. when this happens to you, you'll end up swallowing pride, dignity, and even self respect just to put food in the table.

 

and yes, filipinos are known as hard workers and stuff, but you cannot ignore the fact that one of the..uhhh...commodities offered for tourists are sex services, that along with "medical" services (kidney, anyone?!?!) and other stuff, all to encourage tourism. BTW, the kidney stuff is not yet legal, but yeah, a bill was passed to legalize it as well as to standardize it =)

[ericahot]

A lot of factors need to consider in a relationship di lang puro promises and words but less action" So tell me in your part how can you show and prove to the guy if the guy like me is miles away working and saving for the future and needs a whole lot of time before he can give the girl the promises he made? Im a guy who makes good on my promises especially when i made that promise to God as my witness thats why even though im hurting and in pain i can endure because i know God is by my side giving me strength to follow through on my promise

 

Why girl gonna prove something first di ba dapat you guys mag exert ng effort to prove your love> can you pls read again what you posted. again comment why have to accept everything for those guys keep posting allowing her gf still f#&king diffrent guys hey wake up wheres your pride is this something to be proud of. if you love her change her or if she loves you shes gonna change for you. If you cannt do something to support her then why both enter relationship. I dont think i can love a guy gonna accpt everything and not man enough to take care of me protect me. :cool:

[1st_ichiban]

Loving a clubgirl?

 

Ok lang yan. Just dont be too bitter when it doesn't work out after. Kaya ka nga nag mamahal di ba? No expectations. Tapos pag di mo na kaya, e di tigil ka.

 

Kung hindi, e di hindi. Kung oo, e di oo. Take it like a man.

 

very sensible, took the liberty to emphasize the last part.

 

if there is really something between the service provider and client that is worth exploring and the client is willing risk it then go for it...

 

but be man enough to face the consequences/repercussions.

 

In short, there is nothing to wrong with falling in love...

In addition, maybe not all of these type of relationships fail...

as some say, each of us may find his/her soulmate

does the past of the soulmate really matter?

 

just my two cents...

:mtc:

Edited May 25, 2007 by 1st_ichiban

[BnF95]

Love happens, we can't control it ... whether it works out or not ... is a different story.