cinnamon Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 mahirap, lalo na kung nakikita mo ano ang mga pinagsususlat nila dito sa MTC, tungkol sa GF m... parang gusto k isa isa sila huntingan at patayin, syempre masakait sa puso, pero kung mahal mo, mahal ko, kahit ano mangyare... Quote Link to comment
yanzmyk Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 mahirap, lalo na kung nakikita mo ano ang mga pinagsususlat nila dito sa MTC, tungkol sa GF m... parang gusto k isa isa sila huntingan at patayin, syempre masakait sa puso, pero kung mahal mo, mahal ko, kahit ano mangyare... Curious lang bro. You speaking from experience? Quote Link to comment
raymonddantes Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 ISA LANG MASASABI KO MGA PRE- Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy................. Quote Link to comment
saucybabe Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 it surely isn't easy to fall for someone with this work. hell, having a relationship isn't easy already. but i hope these girls know how lucky they are that they found guys like you. Quote Link to comment
dj_xandman Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 Galing talaga ng kwento mo pareng ck, pero tanung lang guys, panu yun kung nasa point na sobrang kahirapan, will you still stick it out with her? as in well pinakilala ko yung GF k sa parents k and... alam nila trabaho noya so pinaglalayo kami, ngayun nasa canada na ako at sa pinas pa din siya, pero everyday pa din kami naguusap...long distance ( trabaho ako para makabili ng card pang tawag, mahal din $5 para 30 mins)....we both know na wala na ako pera dahil wala na ako mana... and she is working still para makaipon, sa 22o syempre, nahihirapan ako sobra, ngayun buong angkan at friends ko alam anu trabaho niya so half of my family galit saakin at mga kaibigan k, mixed reactions...Sobra talaga nakak pamatay ang ganitong pangyayare, sa loob ko di k siya iiwan kahit ano mangyayare but maybe sa 22o i also want to hear other peoples opinion, my plan is to go home and have a family with her, work at live with her...sya naman mag stop na siya pagkauwi ko and she will finish her studies, work legit..... sabi nga nila, "been there done that" lost everythingwhole family knew, even those abroadnasa point na sobrang kahirapan? How bout wala kayong makainit took 10 years before my dad and I talked, and i mean really talked married for 10 years, barely gets by, no savings, earnings just enoughhas ups and downs like any other family The thing is, it's no different from any other relationships, you have to stick it out TOGETHER to be able to make it work Question: why does she have to wait for you to return before she stops working or finish her studies or WORK LEGIT? Quote Link to comment
hk9889 Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 (edited) . Edited August 21, 2007 by hk9889 Quote Link to comment
cinnamon Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Curious lang bro. You speaking from experience? Yeh, im speaking from experience, bec. im still in one, ang hirap pa ay isa siya sa mga top.... Quote Link to comment
cinnamon Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 sabi nga nila, "been there done that" lost everythingwhole family knew, even those abroadnasa point na sobrang kahirapan? How bout wala kayong makainit took 10 years before my dad and I talked, and i mean really talked married for 10 years, barely gets by, no savings, earnings just enoughhas ups and downs like any other family The thing is, it's no different from any other relationships, you have to stick it out TOGETHER to be able to make it work Question: why does she have to wait for you to return before she stops working or finish her studies or WORK LEGIT? before we met she, bumili siya ng car and now shes trying to pay it off as soon as possible... Quote Link to comment
singkit` Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 mahirap, lalo na kung nakikita mo ano ang mga pinagsususlat nila dito sa MTC, tungkol sa GF m... parang gusto k isa isa sila huntingan at patayin, syempre masakait sa puso, pero kung mahal mo, mahal ko, kahit ano mangyare...Di ba tanggap mo trabaho niya!? Quote Link to comment
darling Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 Di ba tanggap mo trabaho niya!? Even if a guy has accepted that his girl is in that line of work, it will still hurt. Acceptance doesn't mean that the problem has gone away--it merely helps you cope. Quote Link to comment
cinnamon Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 Di ba tanggap mo trabaho niya!? yap, tanggap ko, pero kasi pagka top dami nagkukulit saakin at dami maiingay...nakakainis lang..yan lang naman Quote Link to comment
_Honey_ Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 AMF talaga sya T_T Becareful sa isang PSP dito.. huhuhuhu.. She likes playing games with people's heart.. ahmm... they exist. Quote Link to comment
_Honey_ Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 i beg to disagree. id rather lay my cards on the table- take it or leave it. ganon din ako sa babaeng mamahalin ko. if she has a "past" lay it down rite from the start. as an example: if tinago ng isang babae na GRO/MPA siya dati, at pag mag-syota na kayo, pinakilala mo sa family, yun pala naging customer niya dati ang dad/brother mo? or sa opisina, bigla na lang pinagbubulungan pinagtatawanan ka, un pala ang magaling mong opismate dating cliente ng gf mo, tsinismis na ang FR nya. gusto mo ba U r d last to know? secrets have a way of being unravelled. rite ruffa? u wont keep ur secret for the rest of your life. it requires timing. may mga bagay na hindi dapat minamadali. at may mga bagay na pinag-iisipan munang mabuti bago sabihin. that's what i meant. kung umpisa pa lang ng unang araw na magbf kayo, sinabi na nya agad, the risk of losing the relationship is at its peak. pero if things turned out different in favor of u, lucky u. but it doesnt end there, how will u make it last will be a much bigger challenge. Quote Link to comment
_Honey_ Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 (edited) well, yah, sinasabi ko nga sakanya mag start na siya sa pagaaral niya, but you gt to understand din yung perosnality niya, shes a little moody...and she wants to finish all her debts before starting a new life, sana maintindihan m yan, parang one time nalang magpaka.... and after, kalimutan na ang lahat, wala nang balik balik... oo naiintindihan koyung ibang sinasabi mo, but pinagusapan na namin na mag tipid na sobra, but hopefuly talaga, i can be able to support her na when i get home.... kahit mga simple stuff lang... kailangan natin maniwala, at magasa.. well pero salamat talaga sa advice mo sobra!! it helped... look, u gotta talk real seriously. communicate. you're not just talking about the money per se but the "job" it is. and her health too. remember, all what she does today, would affect her health. if u think she's the woman u want to marry and u want to bear child with, then gotta take care of her reproductive health. sa ngayon, kaya pa kasi bata siya. pero it is actually prone to infections, long term infections pag bata pa ang organ. we're talking about science now and practical appilicatoins in life. cinnamon naman. i don't have anything against her. but u might wanna tell her to go school. i don't know what debt ur pertainig too maliban sa sasakyang binili niya. but a moody personality has to be moderated. if u change ur mind from time to time which affects ur long term goal, thats really scary. she can never get out of it. malalaspag lang sya. sorry for the word guys but you know it's true. i appreciate how u stand by her. but don't just to. influence her and her decision. Edited July 1, 2007 by _Honey_ Quote Link to comment
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