Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Nestor Avila]

12 hours ago, Drizzy69 said:

Totoo sir. Okay lang naman sana kung aminin niya and knowing na hindi ganon masyado ang napprovide ng partner niya. Pero yung malalaman mo na may ibang nakikinabang tapos tinago pa sayo eh for me parang abuso na. 

 

Thank god for FB talaga boss. Hahaha dun ko din nalaman lahat. Buti may pagka imbestigador ako. Hahaha

Kung alam lang nila todo kayod ka para lang maprovide need nya. Tapos sasagutin kapa ng "hiningi ko ba sayo yon"

[plug]

20 hours ago, Exec said:

The thera is with you if you have the screen lock password of her mobile phone and can check ALL her messages, photos, etc.

Hindi kaya dating sa kanya niyang insecurity or doubtfullness?

[OpalBlack]

Share ko itong medyo bittersweet na story, para mabawasan naman ung lungkot sa thread na ito haha

May na kilala ko before na Mpa, naging regular ko sya and we were even going out on dates. One time during one of our sessions sa MP, she confessed na mahal nya ako. It made me feel really good to hear her say it but at the time I couldn't say it back kasi iniisip ko na sinasabi lang nya yun so niyakap ko lang sya ng mahigpit and kissed her good bye kasi time na.🤦

We kept seeing each other regularly after thay, naging halos BF-GF kami but i always kept being somewhat emotionally distant, siguro nag aalangan ako or something. Eventually, she got tired and before I noticed it I was just another regular to her. I visited her less and less, until eventually we just stopped seeing each other.

After a year or two, I came accross her fb page and noticed that she just got engaged. I swear, my heart skipped a beat! First time ko naramdaman yun ganun. Masakit nung simula but it immediately became bitterweet. Basta napakaweird na feeling. After a short while I realized, na minahal ko pala talaga sya, that's why nag react ako ng ganun.... sobrang late reaction hahaha... TBH, I was kinda jealous of the guy she's with in the pictures. But shortly after, I just felt genuinely happy for her seeing her so happy in the photos made me smile as well.

To this day, I sometimes wonder what it would have been like if I said "I love you" back when she first confessed and if I opened up to her. I think i would have quit MTC a long time ago, but alas here I am still doing the same things... Still single and up to no good... Browsing this site, sharing my simple story of loss to the rest of you degene.... Err, GMs. 😅

If you got this far, thank you for reading. Good to share some times. 

 

 

[Drizzy69]

On 2/9/2023 at 1:51 AM, knightdavion said:

Agree sir sometimes its just feel like being scam when we found out their lie about dont have partner and dont have people support their live but we found out in fb they have bf/partner and the most hurt when in the fb they seems have luxury life.

Yes. Well some of them are sorry, some are not and will still deny it. Pero ang hirap nalang paniwalaan ulit if kung ano sa mga sinasabi nila ang totoo.

23 hours ago, Nestor Avila said:

Kung alam lang nila todo kayod ka para lang maprovide need nya. Tapos sasagutin kapa ng "hiningi ko ba sayo yon"

Tapos babanatan ka pa ng "bayaran/balik ko nalang sayo". Hahaha. Honesty nalang sana eh noh

[plug]

On 2/9/2023 at 2:17 AM, Nestor Avila said:

Kung alam lang nila todo kayod ka para lang maprovide need nya. Tapos sasagutin kapa ng "hiningi ko ba sayo yon"

 

7 hours ago, Drizzy69 said:

Yes. Well some of them are sorry, some are not and will still deny it. Pero ang hirap nalang paniwalaan ulit if kung ano sa mga sinasabi nila ang totoo.

Tapos babanatan ka pa ng "bayaran/balik ko nalang sayo". Hahaha. Honesty nalang sana eh noh

 

34 minutes ago, Julio D said:

Kahit anong lalim pa ng pagmamahal mo. Madadala at madadala ka lalo na't ikaw lagi umuunawa sa mga ginagawa nya.

Yung bang parang sinasadya na nya. Girls don't test your boys be real. Remember you are also being tested

Babae kasi sila sa bisyo. Ikaw ang lumapit sa kanya so nasa iyong pagdadala kung magiging maayos o magulo.

Usually maaga pa lang alam mo ng may duda ka sa kanya e pinapalipas mo pa rin. Thinking tolerable o pwede pa sa dahilan na rin marahil na ayaw mo rin mawala siya sa iyo.

Pag lumala na at di mo na kaya away ang pupuntahan at siyempre may pagka panalo si girl. May pera o nagka negosyo pwedeng pang sabihin nagamit ka.

Ikaw ngayon nawalan ng girl so hanap lang baka maiba naman.

Pero kung maayos naman ang relasyon at tumagal sigurado walang magrereklamo.

Perang binitawan sa babae, hiniram o inutang hwag nang asahan babalik pa. Tapon ng lahat iyon. Bisyo yan hindi patubuan o lending. 

[Djbudots1010]

hanggat maaari wag na wag ka ma iinlove kasi trabaho lang tlga yan. dapat laging ilalagay sa isipan na panandalian lang ang serbisyo nila. no money no honey 🤣

[Tipreth]

34 minutes ago, plug said:

Babae kasi sila sa bisyo. Ikaw ang lumapit sa kanya so nasa iyong pagdadala kung magiging maayos o magulo.

Usually maaga pa lang alam mo ng may duda ka sa kanya e pinapalipas mo pa rin. Thinking tolerable o pwede pa sa dahilan na rin marahil na ayaw mo rin mawala siya sa iyo.

Pag lumala na at di mo na kaya away ang pupuntahan at siyempre may pagka panalo si girl. May pera o nagka negosyo pwedeng pang sabihin nagamit ka.

Ikaw ngayon nawalan ng girl so hanap lang baka maiba naman.

Pero kung maayos naman ang relasyon at tumagal sigurado walang magrereklamo.

Perang binitawan sa babae, hiniram o inutang hwag nang asahan babalik pa. Tapon ng lahat iyon. Bisyo yan hindi patubuan o lending. 

Amen! Trophy for you my brother 

[Simpler]

1 hour ago, plug said:

 

 

Babae kasi sila sa bisyo. Ikaw ang lumapit sa kanya so nasa iyong pagdadala kung magiging maayos o magulo.

Usually maaga pa lang alam mo ng may duda ka sa kanya e pinapalipas mo pa rin. Thinking tolerable o pwede pa sa dahilan na rin marahil na ayaw mo rin mawala siya sa iyo.

Pag lumala na at di mo na kaya away ang pupuntahan at siyempre may pagka panalo si girl. May pera o nagka negosyo pwedeng pang sabihin nagamit ka.

Ikaw ngayon nawalan ng girl so hanap lang baka maiba naman.

Pero kung maayos naman ang relasyon at tumagal sigurado walang magrereklamo.

Perang binitawan sa babae, hiniram o inutang hwag nang asahan babalik pa. Tapon ng lahat iyon. Bisyo yan hindi patubuan o lending. 

I had this girl before na ospital sya true nman then I offer a hand kasi favorite girl ko sya at nag worry ako,binigyan Ko pera Hindi n ako umasa na ibabalik nya,even though sabi nya she pay me back.To make the story short pag kalabas ng hospital nag Kita kmi at syempre alam na nxt then nag abot ako ng money for payment Pero d nya tinanggap kasi tinulungan Ko daw sya,and that makes me respect her more l,every time n lalabas kmi ayaw nya tanggapin  ang pera Ko,kaya if may need nya d ako nag dadalawang isip to help,until I realize Hindi Ko na sya macontact yun pla tapos n rn yung pera na hiniram nya 😔 😔😔bigla n lng sya naglaho nung natapos na nya ako bayaran.Sayang gusto Ko Sana Ligawan Pero hirap mag 1st moved.

[hi_hello]

On 2/9/2023 at 2:17 AM, Nestor Avila said:

Kung alam lang nila todo kayod ka para lang maprovide need nya. Tapos sasagutin kapa ng "hiningi ko ba sayo yon"

Sobrang sakit nyan. Ung todo bigay ka sabay sasagutin ka ng ganyan. Sobrang walang utang na loob. Dapat naglilista ka ng mga binigay mo sakanila at singilin mo sila kapag ganyan sila na ingrata hahaha

[Nestor Avila]

3 minutes ago, hi_hello said:

Sobrang sakit nyan. Ung todo bigay ka sabay sasagutin ka ng ganyan. Sobrang walang utang na loob. Dapat naglilista ka ng mga binigay mo sakanila at singilin mo sila kapag ganyan sila na ingrata hahaha

eto yung mga panahong 5am ang start ng duty at matatapos 2am kinabukasan. at sa mga "no show" na client ka nalang umaasa maka singit ng kain ,CR at ligo

[Mang Ricky]

Kung ilan beses na ako nagkaron ng "crush" sa ilan nakilala ko sa spa or MP. Hindi ko lang talaga maituloy to fall for them. Na realize ko come and go lang sa mga babae ang GM. Kahit na anong buti o hindi ng GM sa kanila, kahit na sobra tip, parehas lang ang tingin nila sa lahat ng GM. Customer si GM at trabaho nila paligayahin si GM.

[Exec]

On 2/9/2023 at 6:07 PM, plug said:

Hindi kaya dating sa kanya niyang insecurity or doubtfullness?

It was freely given for convenience.  There are many times she asks me to use her phone - e.g take photos of her,  write an email for her,  setup her apps etc.  She got tired of frequently opening the screen lock and gave the PW to me.

 

She also knows the screen lock PW of my phone

[jonlennon]

Four letters : DON’T

[Howdy Doody]

5 hours ago, jonlennon said:

Four letters : DON’T

Yup. DON'T FALL FOR A THERA!

[knightdavion]

7 hours ago, jonlennon said:

Four letters : DON’T

 

1 hour ago, Howdy Doody said:

Yup. DON'T FALL FOR A THERA!

YEAH ! 
DON'T FALL FOR A THERA/MPA/P**

Find your true love not in them 

[MrKobe]

I had two serious relationships na sa thera. napaka emotional challenging. Selos, money matters, lies but at some point meron ding true love. I read na sobrang same situation and stories dito kaya sobrang relate. Lies about their partners meron pala, undeclared child, children pa nga. Mga hinaing sa pamilya life everything part ata yun ng sympathy to catch ur attention.

Sa mga mag attemp pa lang or nasa current situation na... set boundaries, if meron nang red flag stop immediately, if kaya nyo to know them more and chill ka lang mas okay. Even mageffort ka and support mo sila at the end tama ung GM's iba ang takbo ng isip nila Goals nila, objectives, intentions... Save your time and energy don sa deserve person na makaksama nyo.

sa mga thera.. dont blame GMs na d nagseseryoso sa inyo because maybe naging defense mechanism na nila yan kc naloko na cla its just a cycle of spa world. 

If you need company lng and someone lng na nanjan para sayo go theb have fun.

 

 

[darwin2k4]

Alam nyo guys, hindi kayo dapat nagpa-pakatanga sa isang babae, ke Thera pa yan or kahit ano pa siya

dapat marami sila, hindi isa lang, para masaya 😍 the more the merrier 😍

[Skemedu]

1 hour ago, darwin2k4 said:

Alam nyo guys, hindi kayo dapat nagpa-pakatanga sa isang babae, ke Thera pa yan or kahit ano pa siya

dapat marami sila, hindi isa lang, para masaya 😍 the more the merrier 😍

I second the motion

[courtesanhunter]

23 hours ago, MrKobe said:

I had two serious relationships na sa thera. napaka emotional challenging. Selos, money matters, lies but at some point meron ding true love. I read na sobrang same situation and stories dito kaya sobrang relate. Lies about their partners meron pala, undeclared child, children pa nga. Mga hinaing sa pamilya life everything part ata yun ng sympathy to catch ur attention.

Sa mga mag attemp pa lang or nasa current situation na... set boundaries, if meron nang red flag stop immediately, if kaya nyo to know them more and chill ka lang mas okay. Even mageffort ka and support mo sila at the end tama ung GM's iba ang takbo ng isip nila Goals nila, objectives, intentions... Save your time and energy don sa deserve person na makaksama nyo.

sa mga thera.. dont blame GMs na d nagseseryoso sa inyo because maybe naging defense mechanism na nila yan kc naloko na cla its just a cycle of spa world. 

If you need company lng and someone lng na nanjan para sayo go theb have fun.

 

 

very nice message sir.

 

14 hours ago, darwin2k4 said:

Alam nyo guys, hindi kayo dapat nagpa-pakatanga sa isang babae, ke Thera pa yan or kahit ano pa siya

dapat marami sila, hindi isa lang, para masaya 😍 the more the merrier 😍

ito talaga ang best solution para hindi mafocus ang atensyon sa isang service provider. haha!

[Magdaleno Lucban]

Just don't be obsessed or be possessive with your thera. Accept them for what they are, for the life they live and whatever else they have in life. In the process of being serviced by her and knowing her, I got friends with her partner and their children. She is already out of the industry. Yet I go out with them on family occasions. I am on good terms with this thera since 2016.

[glyr]

Yes. But you have to draw the line.

[Mev@Framax]

Although.. there are only few success stories for this kind of relationship and also much lesser here on this thread, it is highly unlikely that they would still write in here as they would have already left behind mtc.

[Exec]

2 minutes ago, Mev@Framax said:

Although.. there are only few success stories for this kind of relationship and also much lesser here on this thread, it is highly unlikely that they would still write in here as they would have already left behind mtc.

 

I am still here

[Botajun]

For me I will just consider them as friends even kahit may away bati mentality just like some of my buddies. However, having relationship with that's a long road to go. Actually some of them told me not to fall in love with them which I actually agree likewise I don't want to bother their personal lives. After all I cannot blame them for what they get into. Well, I rather keep rather keep the appointments with them as a memory. I feel sorry whenever I have arguments with some. 

Falling in Love with a Thera depends actually but that will be a tough one and there is nothing wrong. Much better to find a true one because we can always find the righteous one.

There will be times we are not anymore setting appointments with them when we move on.   

#justanopinion no point of arguments.

Edited February 19, 2023 by Botajun

[JinKazama01]

Nakita ko yung story ni Catriona (Classique) sa IG nya may kaholding hands sya jowa nya cguro yun 😟 I know isa lang syang attendant sa MP at pilit kong itinatanim sa utak ko na wala dapat akong pakialam sa kanya pero bakit ansakit sa dibdib na makita syang may kasamang iba😢🥺