Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[hyuga]

For the super rich is different they can have as much as thera/prostitute as their mistress. Their money is unlimited. But if we take thera/prostitute as WIFE that different i think man. Will your family your parents can accept their grandson/granddaugther is born from prostitute? 

[Exec]

12 hours ago, simonnag said:

Sex sells but its overrated. Relationships matter.

 

Saludos!  Beautifully written piece presented on a structure that is effective and logical.

Thank you for sharing these views of a veteran on a complex situation.  I will definitely ponder the last four paragraphs for some time.  Admittedly,  myself being an amateur,  a few of the ideas presented depart from my current thinking.   This could be education for me.

 

Love is a state rather than an end.  Whether it becomes forever or time limited is not the more relevant matter.  It is the supreme happiness that state brings each moment which is priceless and draws the two into the relationship.  It is the discovery of your one soul mate.  The healing starts outright even as the two are battling the challenges that ensue from a complicated relationship.  This,  even before the two achieve the fruition of the “deliberate plan to totally leave this place permanently”.  It would be interesting to read your thoughts if Satine and Christian see the one and half years of the relationship as well worth it despite the anguish of its ending.

Edited January 4, 2023 by Exec

[JasonWorkMode]

Lols

[Exec]

On a lighter note:

One of the annoyances of the relationship with a thera -  She starts to get busy as you leave the office.  You're essentially in different time zones. 

Edited January 5, 2023 by Exec

[knightdavion]

Goodluck to gm - thera relationship!
 

[knightdavion]

14 hours ago, simonnag said:

Again, Sex sells but its overrated. Relationships matter. True love has healing powers. It can truly heal what was previously broken, including bodies. Most of all, it heals the soul of, ultimately, two people. And that's all that matters. 

Good luck.

Actually its good if thera and gm relationship can be well and the gm can help the thera of out her be better life. That is great ! But just i cant stand for the theras who just using people for advantages or maybe the one make relationsgip with many other men take as sponsor or help her life.

[FidelTorres]

mahirap tanggapin pag alam mong thera ang jojowain mo tapos continue parin sa pag thethera not unless mapabago mo at inlab na inlab ka talaga na kaya mong tanggapin

[Marbel]

I would just like to share my personal experience as a GM... And our relationship going for 2 years. 

OUR STORY: We first met and were in a GF/BF relationship 13 years ago. We are very young then, just around in our late 20's. We were passionate to make something of ourselves - we both dreamt big! We thought we were a match. To cut the painful story short - She chose another man over me! To be honest, I had some regrets letting her go but I believe it was for the better since I also had to leave for Singapore and pursue my dream as to be the Best Engineer that I can be... She eventually married the "other man" she chose over me and they had a child.

At first, we still kept in touch as friends through social media, SMS and calls while I was in SG for a while. She was candid on the fact that they were both not making enough here in Philippines and to make it worse, their child had a condition that required them to be "more" financially stable. Thus, she had to leave for Taiwan (as an Production QA) to pursue Greener Pasteur while her husband has to stay in Philippines to take care of their child.

We had a big argument before she left for Taiwan because I strongly advised against their situation - It should be the other way around! I explained that her husband should be the one to leave the country to work and provide for their family, not her. She, as a mother, should be the one to stay and take care of their child but she ignore my plea. During this time, I was hurt and was also convinced that she no longer needed my advise from thereon. Thus, caused us to stop our communication.

Fast-forward 13 years into the pandemic, she was forced to come back home in Philippines because she lost her job in middle-east while I was offered a year earlier by my company to manage our investments here in Philippines.

Again, to cut the long story short, we had an opportunity to meet again but this time we already are very different. I already have a family of my own and she was separated from her husband (not legally) and left with their child. She was forced to work odd-jobs and once was in Pasay as a **you know what** to support her family 

At first, I was so disappointed on what she has done and what she had to went through. It was very far from her plans. And then it struck me, what if she chose me? What if we chose each other? Thus, I made her stop working and just supported her financially. I also had a lot of time because I have the opportunity to work at home during the pandemic. In fact, we already have our own child together but she had a miscarriage **OUCH!**

I tried to support her as much as I can emotionally and financially... Or at least until she could get back on her feet and not let her be eaten up by flesh-slavery industry - my apologies for the term.. After more than 2 years of answering most of our "WHAT IFs" she's again leaving for Taiwan since the pandemic is over. She is a very strong woman... I have to admit that I LOVE HER but perhaps, I'm just an instrument to give her a little push into the path of her dreams again.

This time, she's no longer starting from scratch but from a good experience. Goodluck to her! Goodluck to me! Goodluck to us! Godspeed!

Thanks for having time to read my... our story!

[Chiananicole]

Para kang kape'! sa una lang mainit! pagtumagal malamig na!.('..").

Edited January 5, 2023 by Chiananicole

[Chiananicole]

Wag kang mai inlove sa taong sweet sayo paaasahin ka lang nyan.

[Chiananicole]

The real question is “mananatili ka pa rin ba kahit wala na ang kilig?”. The truth is, feelings will change and priorities will adjust. Just make sure to be with someone who’s willing to stay committed to you, even on the most boring days.

[Chiananicole]

Train your mind to be stronger than your feelings. Para hindi ka palagi umiiyak o magkaroon ng madalas na mental breakdowns. Okay lang 'yun. Oo, hindi madali pero posible. Gawin nating motivation 'yung mga pangit na karanasan natin.

Life is not meant to be easy. Life is full of surprises, unexpected moments and tough challenges. Sometimes we are happy and one day we are sad. It's a rollercoaster ride of emotions.

But did you you realized? After all the hardships that you've been through. I'm really glad that you never gave up. That's you are still here still going strong.

You still have a future. You are doing great. And if no one says this to you, I want to tell you that I'm very proud of you. Magpakatatag ka lang. Walang permanenteng mahirap na sitwasyon. Mapapalitan din yan ng maraming kasiyahan.

Stay strong lang warrior and things will get better. Keep your heads up & know you're lovely. 🤗❤

[Chiananicole]

To my dearest self from three years ago,

Breathe. I know that so many things have been going through your mind now. Too tousled like the puppetry strings. You think you’re too young to know better and too old to start something new. You don’t know what to do with your life while people the same your age already have fixed plans for their future. You’re there, wondering how everyone had it easier. You’re empty, dull, and confused.

You’re too distant with yourself that you taught love would be a great remedy to distract you, only to realize in the end that it’s also destroying you. You despise how love can be both the most dangerous place to stay and the first place to open its doors when you desperately need comfort.

You certainly have no idea what to do with your life. Everything seemed to be moving way too slowly, so your plans kept transitioning from time to time. Now all that’s left is unrealistic and unpractical. You have big plans for yourself, but you’ve been surrounded by toxicity that you have come to witness for the first time. That’s why you don’t know how to treat it yourself, so you let it mistreat you.

It’s quite dark there, I know. I’ve been there. You’ve been gaslighted and still call it love. You have so many dreams for yourself, but every step you take leads you to worse situations. You’re afraid. You’re held hostage by your ugly decisions. You hate how you keep running away only to find yourself coming back when you end up lost along the way.

But believe me. You can make it. Three years later, you’ll find yourself smiling. You’ll find yourself loved by the person you also love equally. It’ll be a healthy love where there’s no need for you to hide or explain why you chose what you chose. You will find yourself doing the things you’re passionate about and make a living out of it. You’ll find your way out, young darling. You’ll reach the day where you’ll finally have the courage to say goodbye to everything that wrongly wrought you.

[Chiananicole]

❝Wag mong pagsisihan ang pagkakamaling nangyari na.
Tandaan mo nalang ang aral na natutunan mo para hindi na maulit pa muli.❞

Edited January 5, 2023 by Chiananicole

[SilentReader]

Mahirap mag mahal ng therapist.
Iiwanan ka lang basta para sa pera.
where tinulungan mo naman both in emotional and financial aspect ung tao.
Kahit inahon mo cya from the industry, nandun pa rin ung perspective ng tao na sa pera naaakit. (Konting bitterness hahaha.. minahal ko rin ung tao e)

Anyway, not all will be a story like that.
May frend din naman ako na successful ang story. 
In my case, forgive but don't forget the lesson. 😃

[Marbel]

8 minutes ago, SilentReader said:

Mahirap mag mahal ng therapist.
Iiwanan ka lang basta para sa pera.
where tinulungan mo naman both in emotional and financial aspect ung tao.
Kahit inahon mo cya from the industry, nandun pa rin ung perspective ng tao na sa pera naaakit. (Konting bitterness hahaha.. minahal ko rin ung tao e)

Anyway, not all will be a story like that.
May frend din naman ako na successful ang story. 
In my case, forgive but don't forget the lesson. 😃

At least nasagot ung WHAT IFs... may regrets ka naloko or nagamit ka pero wala ka regrets na kung sana mas minahal mo sya

[knightdavion]

50 minutes ago, SilentReader said:

Mahirap mag mahal ng therapist.
Iiwanan ka lang basta para sa pera.
where tinulungan mo naman both in emotional and financial aspect ung tao.
Kahit inahon mo cya from the industry, nandun pa rin ung perspective ng tao na sa pera naaakit. (Konting bitterness hahaha.. minahal ko rin ung tao e)

Anyway, not all will be a story like that.
May frend din naman ako na successful ang story. 
In my case, forgive but don't forget the lesson. 😃

Just take it a lesson. Believe it karma will return to the thera who using you for money. Not all but most of theras is like that. Close,care,sweet when MONEY involve once we cut money all the close,care,sweet gone too.

[simonnag]

On 1/4/2023 at 10:21 PM, hyuga said:

For the super rich is different they can have as much as thera/prostitute as their mistress. Their money is unlimited. But if we take thera/prostitute as WIFE that different i think man. Will your family your parents can accept their grandson/granddaugther is born from prostitute? 

The super rich or just the plain rich has a slightly different take on it. They dont think with quantity. If they have 6 million pesos to spare, they wont buy 12 vios cars. They will buy one range rover. 
 

On your last question, what do you think happened when Tony Boy bedded Gretchen? There’s a clue on how the super rich operate. 

[Drizzy69]

Mahirap. Mag-ooverthink ka lang palagi to the point na na-ddrain ka na. Yung akala mo special ka sa kanya pero same treatment lang pala sa lahat ng gents. Kaya I think it's better talaga if mag explore. Hindi yung stick to one thera lang to avoid attachments.

[Noname01]

37 minutes ago, Drizzy69 said:

Mahirap. Mag-ooverthink ka lang palagi to the point na na-ddrain ka na. Yung akala mo special ka sa kanya pero same treatment lang pala sa lahat ng gents. Kaya I think it's better talaga if mag explore. Hindi yung stick to one thera lang to avoid attachments.

Plus 1 million to this! If your attached to thera both sides will suffer emotionally. Thera's also a human being that can feel the love and special attention you give to them. Once attached na kayo to each other it will be difficult to get out, so better yet dont stick to one thera always look and hunt. 

[Howdy Doody]

Who can anyone even think of falling in love with a theraphist, I shrudder just thinking about their body counts.

Kukuha ka lang na i po "pokpok" mo sa ulo mo sa taas at baba.

Edited January 7, 2023 by Howdy Doody

[Exec]

On 1/5/2023 at 7:03 PM, Chiananicole said:

❝Wag mong pagsisihan ang pagkakamaling nangyari na.
Tandaan mo nalang ang aral na natutunan mo para hindi na maulit pa muli.❞

 

The worst experience can bring out a person's deepest strength.

[Asteria of Geisha]

11 hours ago, Howdy Doody said:

Who can anyone even think of falling in love with a theraphist, I shrudder just thinking about their body counts.

Kukuha ka lang na i po "pokpok" mo sa ulo mo sa taas at baba.

Wag nyo naman po sanang lahatin na i degrade yung mga thera... hindi porket ganto mga work namen na napili ibaba nyo na kame sobra..... my mga thera din na totoong nagmamahal ng client nila...at my mga client din naman na ng gagamet at nagpapa fall sa mga thera para lng makalibre at pag sawa na sila iiwan nalang din nila.... pero hindi ko nilalahat ng client karamihan kaya sana wag nyo ring lahatin mga thera....

[Asteria of Geisha]

On 5/2/2022 at 11:00 PM, mosy_24 said:

This is my own opinion lang...

We all know na yung mga thera na nasa ganitong industriya hindi rin naman nila ginusto mapunta sa ganitong trabaho e ito lang ang alam nilang paraan para makatulong sa pamilya o may mailagay sa hapagkainan sa araw araw pero wag sana natin gawin dahilan yun para hindi sila respetuhin bilamg isang babae. Tao lang sila na deserve ng pagmamahal at respeto.

Nice one boss

Ganda po ng message nyo

[AngGwapo]

42 minutes ago, Summer of Belle Ame said:

Wag nyo naman po sanang lahatin na i degrade yung mga thera... hindi porket ganto mga work namen na napili ibaba nyo na kame sobra..... my mga thera din na totoong nagmamahal ng client nila...at my mga client din naman na ng gagamet at nagpapa fall sa mga thera para lng makalibre at pag sawa na sila iiwan nalang din nila.... pero hindi ko nilalahat ng client karamihan kaya sana wag nyo ring lahatin mga thera....

I agree with @Summer of Belle Ame

We are all human beings. In fact, in other countries, it is very normal to have relationships regardless of what people do, their SEC levels in society, race, religion, beliefs, or anything for that matter. Huwag lang ibang species.

Your and others' opinion are yours though. God also gave us the ability to discern, think for ourselves, and act on what we hold dear @Howdy Doody.

Have a good afternoon!