Solaryan Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 Gusto ko sana dumalaw sa bulubunduking siyudad ng Antipolo but it's really out of the way. Anyway, try to get other therapists to desensitize yourself from the seemingly elusive therapist you are after. Madaming pagpipilian sa sister spas sa Cubao at Antipolo. Oo nga.. out of way talaga ang "bulubunduking siyudad ng Antipolo" hehehe Pero, I am betting na worth it yun pupuntahan ko. Kaya susuungin ko na rin. Yup, that's what I was trying to do lasy year pa, sana talaga next we meet, normal mode na ako Quote Link to comment
Lesluthor Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 Solaryan, ill take 2 guesses for those 2 theras na u want to mit, Jaira of Luxe and May of Midas?haha Quote Link to comment
Solaryan Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 Solaryan, ill take 2 guesses for those 2 theras na u want to mit, Jaira of Luxe and May of Midas?haha Haha! Kilalang kilala na ng idol ko kung sino mga gusto kong ma-meet Based on the field reviews and my gut instinct, I believe worth it puntahan yung sister spas. My gut instinct tells me there are three therapists in the sister spas whom I won't regret availing. Siguro magandang gawin is to have a mindset that the therapist and you are an item for an hour. Then shut that mindset after exiting the spa. This mindset can be hard to apply, especially, if the therapist's GFE is out of this world, but, it can be done. Aside from the mountainous city of Antipolo, one also has to deal with the Midas Mountain Range. Johnny! Galing mo.. Hahaha! Yan ang "balanced" mindset na gusto ko ma-achieve. Yun habang nasa loob kami ay parang GF ko sya pero after nun, wala na akong hangups na sana makasama ko sya outside or maka-date etc... Mas okay yun enjoy lang namin sana yun moments no matter how short (3hours na nga, bitin pa ako)... Anyway, next na madadalaw ko sya, yun na moment of truth ko, kung favorite na ba ang tinign ko sa kanya or gusto ko pa rin siyang iuwi na at pakasalan, hahaha Quote Link to comment
Solaryan Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 I was once in awe of the GFE of a certain therapist when I visited her. The GFE started in the cubicle up to the time she escorted me out of the spa. She was very sweet aside from being pretty and sexy with big bumpers to boot. While driving home, she occupied my mind but when I got home, I snapped out of it. Pero binalikan ko siya one more time. The 5 times I visited my "crush" thera. I completely and utterly failed to snap out of it. LOL Even now, I still have a few lingering thoughts about her...the way she smelled, the way she looks at me and the way she speaks. Those are the things that haunted me, and gave me a lot of sleepless nights. Wishing that I can steal from her bf. But, after a few weeks of not being in her presence, I had a sober-like realization that I am being a dumb ass.. So, I decided to desensitize my current emotional state and find a way to enjoy all of this. Like I mentioned in my other posts, I am just here to enjoy and pamper myself. If along the way, I become friends with other GMs or therapists, then good for me. If not, then no problem. As long as I know why I'm doing what I'm doing and I like what I'm getting, then everything should be fine and dandy. As of now, I have already identified 1 or 2 favorites beside my "crush" and I think I'll try to keep it simple. Maybe just a top 5 favorite will be perfect for me. I like what another idol GM said before: dapat may mga back-up ka, kasi panu pag nagretire ang favorite thera mo, nganga ka". This really stuck to me, I thought to myself "ayoko ngang ngumnga ako ag nangyari yun" hehe.. So for now, may mga iikutan pa ako, sort of to check them out in terms of everything (about thera etc), including distance of spa to my home base. Hehe.. Then, dun na ako mag paplan ng year-long EScapades ko. LOL.. Nadadala ko work attitude ko pati dito Quote Link to comment
Chupapi Muñañio Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 Payo ko lang sa mga nerdy bagets dito. I'm already in my mid 30s and I assume that some of you are younger than me... If you're 20 years old and you don't know how to socialize, that's fine. Mamroblema ka if you're already 40 and you're STILL anti-social. Avoid na makipag pataasan ng IHI sa ibang lalake. Swag is nothing. Confidence is important. They're not necessarily the same. Isipin mo na lang yung guy dun sa FLIPPISH (Who's That Girl?). Panay swag, ang pangit naman. Ilang beses nang humahalik sa mga lasing na babae sa bar, ang chaka pa rin. And don't act like you think those girls are super damn gorgeous. Mas maganda yung mga naging THERA mo. Ang goal mo is to get the level of sexual satisfaction that you want, not to prove to other guys that you have a better sex life than them. Pakikipag pataasan ng ihi is like the ADMIN of FLIPPISH arguing with the ADMIN of RBREEZY. Akala mo kung sinong gwapo, eh ni hindi man lang nila kaya tikman si Abbie Tolentino. Spa patrons have availed far better girls than ABBIE TOLENTINO, to be honest. What you need to do is socialize, empower yourself (i.e., work on your career). Your accomplishments in life will give you confidence, but your swag cannot pay the bills. LOL! If you need to go to a spa just so that you can have confidence in women, then do it. One of the biggest turn off sa babae is a guy who has no idea what to do. If you get great theras here in there, then good for you. You'll end up having that smile on your face, but no need to brag with another guy that you get a better sex life than anyone. I second on that.... Quote Link to comment
Drew13Nash Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 Totoo pala yung "SPARK". Buti naniwala ako.. Quote Link to comment
oliverqueen Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 The antidote to this is to get another therapist. I'll say it now. There is an oversupply of therapists, hence, there are a lot to choose from. Sometimes getting another therapist just doesn't work. I have tried that. Di ko nga alam kung pinaglalaruan lang puso ko ng crushie ko na thera eh. I told her na kasi I like her and tried to explain very hard that it's not because of the service she was giving. Pero sagot naman niya, "bawal mag-fall". Well, I am just happy I still get to see and talk to her once in a while. Quote Link to comment
NMD Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 Hehe.. YGPM Bro. I don't think we are talking about the same thera.. But, let's see.Responded to your PM. Quote Link to comment
Uncl3Dr3w Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 It's tempting at first.. Quote Link to comment
pepejoe Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 Visited some of my old friends in QC yesterday. I wish I'll be able to finally sched my trip to the valley. Quote Link to comment
Drew13Nash Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 Falling in love on a therapist is very hard to believe for both side either for a GM or therapist herself. But i experience this one yesterday. Its too juvenile to say that i fall for her easily, but whay can i do this is what i feel and i want to let her know that somebody as in somebody can love them seriously. It doesnt matter if she's single mom i can accept that. Even shebis asking me "is it alright that this is my job??" Yes i will accept that. Because im that type of guy. I told her my story that i've been through worst from my previous relationship and i will not elaborate regarding this anymore. But my point is that if you that "spark" as you are saying i know you have the time to read this. I was holding to your word that there was a "spark" between us. Even though is hard for both of us i know we have alot of question going on our mind. As i am saying to you I dont care about then job that you are having right now, its just that its you thatbi want to know, i want to be with. Because if we kept on thinking that way we will never understand each other. I dont care what other people or GM will have to stay regarding on this post but i just want to know that the time that i saw and be with you, i'd wished that someday we can be together in a way that we want to be. Quote Link to comment
CardingTigas Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 kung kaya mo mag mahal ng babae na may bahid ng tamod ng iba't ibang lalake sa labi eh, bakit hndi, kung kaya mo na tinotorjak ng iba un girlfriend mo, sige gorabells, pero kung hindi, mag isip isip ka na brad, sayang lang effort mo, putukan mo nalang din para masaya, Been there, done that, hahaha Quote Link to comment
-DELETED- Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 It is easy to fall in love. You can fall in love with her looks, with her attitude, the way she treated you or with her other characteristics that you can see especially if it feeds your eye and sexual drive. As to others, those are only infatuation. What's important is to make your head clear at all times. Faliing in love or being infatuated with someone doesn't mean you have to engage in a relationship with them. Makiramdam ka. Will the situation permits you? Is it for long term o baka naman kinati ka lang? Is it acceptable to you? Is it acceptable to your environment? Don't BS me with your flowery answer na "Hindi mahalaga ang sasabihin ng iba basta mahal ko sya". In order to have a healthy relationship is kung yung partner mo ay tanggap at close sa family and friends mo (iba pang taong mahahalaga sa buhay mo). Other than that, tanggap mo ba sya kung ano sya dati? and finally, anong plano mo when you engage into a relationship with her? Hindi pwedeng ang plano mo eh magmamahalan lang kayo. Hindi ka na bata simula nung napadpad ka dito sa MTC. Will you take care of her needs para hindi na sya mag tuloy sa current work nya? Again, don't BS me with the answer "Ok lang mag aadjust ako at hindi mag seselos at tatanggapin ang work nya". Lalaki ka, hanggang kelan ka tatagal sa kaiisip na yung babaeng mamahalin mo eh kapiling ng iba? Falling in love is good. I can see no problems with it. Loving is a good thing. But before you engage or try to engage in a relationship with a thera. remember all of these. It is not easy as it sounds. Quote Link to comment
- The Godfather - Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Falling in love on a therapist is very hard to believe for both side either for a GM or therapist herself. But i experience this one yesterday. Its too juvenile to say that i fall for her easily, but whay can i do this is what i feel and i want to let her know that somebody as in somebody can love them seriously. It doesnt matter if she's single mom i can accept that. Even shebis asking me "is it alright that this is my job??" Yes i will accept that. Because im that type of guy. I told her my story that i've been through worst from my previous relationship and i will not elaborate regarding this anymore. But my point is that if you that "spark" as you are saying i know you have the time to read this. I was holding to your word that there was a "spark" between us. Even though is hard for both of us i know we have alot of question going on our mind. As i am saying to you I dont care about then job that you are having right now, its just that its you thatbi want to know, i want to be with. Because if we kept on thinking that way we will never understand each other. I dont care what other people or GM will have to stay regarding on this post but i just want to know that the time that i saw and be with you, i'd wished that someday we can be together in a way that we want to be. "Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass." (Excerpt from Desiderata) Proceed with your planned actions if you must...but exercise caution, for the world is full of trickery! Quote Link to comment
CardingTigas Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 the scent of jizz on her breath, every time you kiss her hahaha Quote Link to comment
pepejoe Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Pero if you're a gm. You get used to it. Hehehehe Quote Link to comment
Mogster Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Sharing. Nainlove na ako last year sa thera ko. It was really so bad that I fell so hard and was even harder when she retired to lead a private life. Ngayon, may mga thera din akong nagugustuhan of course. Pero alam ko na ang feeling na gusto ko ang thera vs in love ako sa thera. So far, hindi pa ako naiinlove uli. Parang hindi na yata mauulit yon. Haha. Siya pa rin. Quote Link to comment
pepejoe Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 I know the feeling ng iniwan ng theras. Either nag-abroad or nagkabf or nagka-papa Quote Link to comment
CardingTigas Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 (edited) Padre, naalala ko lang na you once defended the "pro-falling for therapists GMs" with fervor. Ngayon parang umiba na ang ihip ng hangin. Si ED pa nga yung katunggali mo dati. It was a passionate exchange and it was fun reading your exchanges with ED. Yes padre, totoo un, I Won't deny, in-fact baka mabasa pa un discussion before, circa 2014, kung hindi pa binubura ng admin, yes dinepensahan ko talaga sila, blinded talaga ako nun, nung mga panahon na un, I came from a very bad break up, kinda run away bride un nangyare, that's why I resovled to try this realm of carnal desire, masarap kasi labasan, it eases the pain of losing someone you've been with for 7 years, kaya nakaka confuse un pag ibig at libog during those days, kaya nga I'm speaking from my own experience, kaya sa mga gusto pasukin un sakit sa ulo nato, wag na hahahaha... pera pera lang talaga, napatunayan ko yan, ok lang have fun, f#&k a lot, pero wag na ma inlab, sakit sa ulo lang... Edited February 1, 2017 by CardingTigas Quote Link to comment
Lesluthor Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 I know the feeling ng iniwan ng theras. Either nag-abroad or nagkabf or nagka-papaApir sir...I know it too...haha Quote Link to comment
CardingTigas Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 This is a complete 180 from the position you took two years ago. Matindi yung balitaktakan nun. I would have to agree with you on this one. My position has always been against it since, more often than not, this type of relationship would be doomed from the start. more of 270 degrees, may ilan na nag stay, un kaibigan lang talaga, madalas ko pa din sila kasama, lalo na pag may family occasion sila, I get to hang out with them, kainuman, party, minsan pag may sobra sila, sila nag ttreat, nangibabaw un friendship over client-thera relationship, voluntary on my part na kung mag engage kame sa rub and thug session, syempre, compensated sya dun, wala na kasi emosyon pag ganun, libog nalang talaga, which in my opinion, normal lang, kasi nagkataon na taglibog ka, and she's engaged in that line of work, might as well go to a friend who offer that service and get some perks out of it =) 1 Quote Link to comment
Drew13Nash Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Yes padre, totoo un, I Won't deny, in-fact baka mabasa pa un discussion before, circa 2014, kung hindi pa binubura ng admin, yes dinepensahan ko talaga sila, blinded talaga ako nun, nung mga panahon na un, I came from a very bad break up, kinda run away bride un nangyare, that's why I resovled to try this realm of carnal desire, masarap kasi labasan, it eases the pain of losing someone you've been with for 7 years, kaya nakaka confuse un pag ibig at libog during those days, kaya nga I'm speaking from my own experience, kaya sa mga gusto pasukin un sakit sa ulo nato, wag na hahahaha... pera pera lang talaga, napatunayan ko yan, ok lang have fun, f#&k a lot, pero wag na ma inlab, sakit sa ulo lang... Yun nga bro what i am seeing right now is the situation you have before.. tipong she's a run away bride yung tipong nag ipon ka tlga abroad para sa kasal niyo then suddenly ayun nasulot ng iba.. sayang ang 5 yrs namin.. somewhat infatuated siguro dahil nakasama mo nga si thera.. well i guess tama kayo mga brad.. dinlang tlga maiwasan coming from a very hard break up 9 months ago. Kaya siguro until now hirap pa rin.. still looking for a affection ng iba kaya na rin siguro nagkakaganito.. Quote Link to comment
CardingTigas Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 May I suggest, na spend time with your family nalang, yun pamilya natin ang talagang deserving para sa ating, atensyon, oras at pera, don't let your family pay for the mistakes na pwde mo magawa pag nalulong ka sa ganito, self control,kamutin nalang un kati, wag na panggigilan hehehe Quote Link to comment
Solaryan Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 LOL. Di ko alam alin unang regreplyan, andaming napost agad mula kaninang umaga na napasilip ako.. Anyway, una. dun sa comment na amoy jizz pagkiniss mo ang gf mong thera.. lol.. di ba muna sya mag toothbrush at shower bago ka tatagpuin o pag sinundo mo na sya? Pag ganun, medyo pede mo naman cguro syang sabihan ng maayos na di makaka offend sa gf mo. hehe pangalawa, oo naman! agree ako sa mga exchanges na nabasa ko, mahirap, masakit at matinding pagsubok sa pagkalalaki at pagkatao mo kung papasok ka sa isang relasyon na alam mong "nature" ng work ng gf mo. So somehow, cautionary tales talaga mga nagpopost dito and for that, thank you po mga boss! Nagbabasa lang kami nalalasahan namin ang pait ng sinapit ng mga relasyon nyo sa thera na naging gf nyo.. Keep on sharing pa rin po ah. Kasi, kelangan mabasa ng mga nagbabalak yan... Pangatlo, Ang taong in love, tanga yan madalas.. Kahit na di logical or sensible na bagay, gagawin pa rin naman nila.. Pero it does not hurt to advise them otherwise. Or to discourage them. Kasi nga libre lang magpost. So payuhan natin sila at sabihan ng mga past experiences, what they do with it, Will be up to them.. Right? Pang apat, bwahahaha! marami pala tayo na nakadiscover ng ESpa dahil sa sawing pag ibig.. mga brothers!!! Panglima, sana wag ko muna maranasan yun pag retire ng mga kinagigiliwan kong thera... mukhang sad yun... That's all po muna... Quote Link to comment
JFK Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 May I suggest, na spend time with your family nalang, yun pamilya natin ang talagang deserving para sa ating, atensyon, oras at pera, don't let your family pay for the mistakes na pwde mo magawa pag nalulong ka sa ganito, self control,kamutin nalang un kati, wag na panggigilan hehehe I definitely agree with this piece of advice. Saludo ako sa yo, Sir. Quote Link to comment
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