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Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex


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i think when people get really comfortable, like you can take off snots from your big nose or fart everytime in the morning while heading towards the bathroom when you're with your partner...i think marraige puts on a lot of bad habits on the table, everyone's complaining about intimacy..Geeze! why would i make love to someone when his finger dipped in yucky green goo???!

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If I'm not serious, I wouldnt last long without getting any meat :evil:

But if I'm serious, popoy wouldnt even be in the picture.

 

(Lately, I'm surprising myself that I can actually do the latter)

Sawa ka na siguro wahehe... tapos sasabihin mo seryoso ka na... peace bro!

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First, are you sure it's love? It could be something else.

 

It could be what is called Limerence, an unpopular feeling.

 

Here's a distinction of love from other emotions, especially limerence:

 

1. Love involves concern for the other person's welfare and feeling, while limerence does not.

2. Affection and fondness exist only as a disposition towards another person, irrespective of whether those feelings are reciprocated, whereas limerence demands return.

3. Sex with the object is neither essential nor sufficient to an individual experiencing limerence, unlike one experiencing sexual attraction.

4. Limerence is much longer-lived than feelings such as crushes, infatuation, romantic passion, and puppy love, enduring for months or even years.

 

Check it out on Wikipedia.

I'm very much guilty of this. It's only now, after reading this, that I realized that I'm on the wrong track. I've been on it for the past three years. And within those three years I've wasted opportunities to be with someone and even to be with the girl in question. For me, this is a very dangerous state to be in.

 

Be warned.

 

4. Limerence is much longer-lived than feelings such as crushes, infatuation, romantic passion, and puppy love, enduring for months or even years. - WTF! I think I'm beginning to have some symptoms of this..

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