Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex

[Eunice of Clam]

may ganun ba ? parang diko kaya 😂🤣😂🤣

[PROJECTCADMUS]

LDR pwede

[The Philippines]

Na experience ko siya during year 2020 may nililigawan ako but may ibang nanliligaw na pala sa kanya. We're still friends kahit hnd naging kami. Nung mga time na yun wla akong naramdaman na libog basta gusto ko lang is mahalin siya. But I guess we're not meant to be for each other.

[Duel of Fate]

had a gf 1yr kami. no sex as in penetration. daty and finger outside clit lang. twice nya lang ako na hj. 

she couldnt. psychological trauma reasons. 

mali ko was when game na sha and we finally did it, mejo nawala ako sa control and semi forced hardfck on her three rounds. nagbleed ng ilang araw. might have contributed to her breaking up with me less than two months later. 

[InsomniacNinja]

Experiencing it now.... Nafall ako dun sa last thera na na-avail ko... tbh mabilis lang talaga ako labasan pero pag sa kanya ang tagal, parang hindi ako mashadong nalilibugan kahit libog na libog ako before ko siya imeet, during sex hindi yung mismong sex yung naiisip ko sa kanya at yung service niya mas pleasurable(libog wise) pa yung mga previous na naexperience ko sa iba pero inaavail ko parin siya para makasama lang siya or for bonding/jamming/kwentuhan moments... Actually mas nag e-enjoy pa ako kapag nagkwekwentuhan kami at tingin ko mas pleasurable pa yung feeling kapag kakwentuhan ko lang siya at kasama lang siya... sinubukan ko siyang yayain lumabas pero laging wrong timing(yata) ako kaya hindi siya sumasama.. gusto ko siya i-avail para makipagkwentuhan or lambing moments lang pero di ko ginagawa para hindi niya malaman na nafall na ako sa kanya... gusto ko sabihin sa kanya pero baka maging awkward na kapag binisita ko ulit siya... baka hindi ko na siya makachat... hindi talaga ako kumportable kapag may kasama akong ibang tao na kami lang, pero pag siya kasama ko parang gusto kong bumagal yung oras para makasama siya ng matagal... soon sasabihin ko din sa kanya pero not now. hindi ko pa kaya... SKL

[Howdy Doody]

I met a thera once who had a very engaging personality. She had a natural talent to soothe your feelings, by just having conversation. In due time, I seek her company even without having sex. I invited her for lunch or dinner. She would obliged. Of course, after our date I'll give her some money to help her out even if she didn't ask for it.  However, in her mind she wasn't feeling satisfied if she didn't give me some sexual satisfaction. So, she would insist in giving me a release, albeit, a quick BBBJ even in the car.

Edited February 18, 2022 by Howdy Doody

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

Its possible. Happened to me once. After that, hindi na naulit. Hehehe. 

[Richelle]

On 2/19/2022 at 3:25 AM, InsomniacNinja said:

Experiencing it now.... Nafall ako dun sa last thera na na-avail ko... tbh mabilis lang talaga ako labasan pero pag sa kanya ang tagal, parang hindi ako mashadong nalilibugan kahit libog na libog ako before ko siya imeet, during sex hindi yung mismong sex yung naiisip ko sa kanya at yung service niya mas pleasurable(libog wise) pa yung mga previous na naexperience ko sa iba pero inaavail ko parin siya para makasama lang siya or for bonding/jamming/kwentuhan moments... Actually mas nag e-enjoy pa ako kapag nagkwekwentuhan kami at tingin ko mas pleasurable pa yung feeling kapag kakwentuhan ko lang siya at kasama lang siya... sinubukan ko siyang yayain lumabas pero laging wrong timing(yata) ako kaya hindi siya sumasama.. gusto ko siya i-avail para makipagkwentuhan or lambing moments lang pero di ko ginagawa para hindi niya malaman na nafall na ako sa kanya... gusto ko sabihin sa kanya pero baka maging awkward na kapag binisita ko ulit siya... baka hindi ko na siya makachat... hindi talaga ako kumportable kapag may kasama akong ibang tao na kami lang, pero pag siya kasama ko parang gusto kong bumagal yung oras para makasama siya ng matagal... soon sasabihin ko din sa kanya pero not now. hindi ko pa kaya... SKL

Sana maging ok naman pag nasabe mo na.  Baka kasi client lang din tingin sa yo. Wag ka lang ma disappoint at handa mo lang sarili mo. Good luck. 

[InsomniacNinja]

8 hours ago, Richelle said:

Sana maging ok naman pag nasabe mo na.  Baka kasi client lang din tingin sa yo. Wag ka lang ma disappoint at handa mo lang sarili mo. Good luck. 

Salamat boss. Hindi ko naman ine-expect na maging kami. Gusto ko lang kahit maging kaibigan or bestfriend ko siya. Kasi isa siya sa few people or siya yung pinaka comfortable ako kasama at kausap. Pero kung may chance na may feelings din siya sakin and willing or may plan siya umalis agad sa industry na yun, papatulan ko hahaha

[Redboy36]

I had a so called gf and she was asexual.  
At first she was very sexually curious and was doing a lot of kinky stuff. But after a few years, she mellowed and prefer to have sex once a week nlng. She needs to set her mind and schedule it I guess because of work stress din. But during our deed naman, she was still the same  and enjoyed sex everytime. There may be people din na need to stimulate yung mind nila. Just my two cents. 

[maxx_pee]

there are couples who are together just for the sake of companionship. No lust      

 

[rednblack]

hindi ba ganun naman talaga dapat? falling in love with the person not with sex, sex is just a bonus. imo

[itsmejay]

There /are/ asexual people. Di naman necessarily dependent ang romance sa sex. Pero hindi yan for all cases at walang /dapat/ talaga. For some, sex is an important, if not one primary, aspect of a relationship. Walang mali naman basta all parties are okay.

[Christian.Grey]

Hmmmm..... paano kaya yan 

[bigboybaluyut]

imposible ito. pag naiinlove ako sa mga pokpok, kantutan lang talaga ang gusto ko     

 

[Hellspawn_r]

To answer this first and foremost you have to know how the male reproductive system works especially the genitals. Pag may problem ang blood circulation talagang maaapektuhan ang erection. Dugo ang laman ng muscles ng penis. Best consult a doctor for appropriate treatment. 

[Hellspawn_r]

4 hours ago, kianacruz said:

 

I just want to ask about possible reasons bakit during sex, biglang lumalambot ang junjun? Haha. Parang it started kasi nung umatake yung highblood nya, yun yung worst exp nya about it. Nilagnat, di makakain, etc. Pero nung naka recover na sya after two weeks, we have sex though hndi maganda yung timing kasi na stuck dn kami sa traffic that day due to kampanya ng mga local politicians. So pagod, plus yung pag iisip sa oras, I understand naman. Then after 2days we tried again, kaso pagsundo nya palang sakin masakit na talaga ulo nya so hndi na namin tinuloy. A week after which is today, we tried again. Morning na nga kami nagkita para kundisyon daw haha kasi hndi pa pagod, but ayun Same sa nangyari nung una, nilambutan haha. Natapos nman ako a lot of times. Tapos sya he looks so disappointed to his self, like ano daw kaya nangyayari sakanya. Baka need nya daw mag robust, katapusan na daw ba ng maliligayang araw nya haha. I asked him na dn nman if may mga iniisip ba sya, kung may problema ba sya, kung pagod ba sya etc etc. Pero hndi nman daw. Nung first time nangyare to, nagtanong na dn ako if may nakakaturn off ba sakin, or panget ba ko, mataba ba ako, etc etc. Perow wala nman daw talaga. He even told me na magpa check up nalang daw kaya sya? 
Ano kayang possible reasons bat nangyayari yung ganto?

kung kelan ako nagpaganda, nagpasexy saka nagkaganto. Ayoko nman mag isip na ako yung problema kasi with the confidence i have right now (sobrang hirap at tagal kong winork out to) i dont want to think na nasa akin yung problema. I dont wanna ruin my peace again.

he’s 31 yrs old btw, im 21. We’ve been together for 1year&4months now.
 

Super active ng sexlife namin nung bago palang kami e like 3-4x a week, hanggang naging twice a week, once a week tapos eto ngayon once a week mgkta hndi pag nagsesex minsan. So ayoko sana isiping umay o baka di na ko mahal kasi ganun pa dn nman sya, he still gives time parin nman and spoil me padn., its just that nawala yung activeness sa  sex. Maybe dahil nga sa ibang dahilan?

 

what do you think guys?

To answer this first and foremost you have to know how the male reproductive system works especially the genitals. Pag may problem ang blood circulation talagang maaapektuhan ang erection. Dugo ang laman ng muscles ng penis. Best consult a doctor for appropriate treatment. 

 

 

 

 

[handsomebob]

16 hours ago, kianacruz said:

 

I just want to ask about possible reasons bakit during sex, biglang lumalambot ang junjun? Haha. Parang it started kasi nung umatake yung highblood nya, yun yung worst exp nya about it. Nilagnat, di makakain, etc. Pero nung naka recover na sya after two weeks, we have sex though hndi maganda yung timing kasi na stuck dn kami sa traffic that day due to kampanya ng mga local politicians. So pagod, plus yung pag iisip sa oras, I understand naman. Then after 2days we tried again, kaso pagsundo nya palang sakin masakit na talaga ulo nya so hndi na namin tinuloy. A week after which is today, we tried again. Morning na nga kami nagkita para kundisyon daw haha kasi hndi pa pagod, but ayun Same sa nangyari nung una, nilambutan haha. Natapos nman ako a lot of times. Tapos sya he looks so disappointed to his self, like ano daw kaya nangyayari sakanya. Baka need nya daw mag robust, katapusan na daw ba ng maliligayang araw nya haha. I asked him na dn nman if may mga iniisip ba sya, kung may problema ba sya, kung pagod ba sya etc etc. Pero hndi nman daw. Nung first time nangyare to, nagtanong na dn ako if may nakakaturn off ba sakin, or panget ba ko, mataba ba ako, etc etc. Perow wala nman daw talaga. He even told me na magpa check up nalang daw kaya sya? 
Ano kayang possible reasons bat nangyayari yung ganto?

kung kelan ako nagpaganda, nagpasexy saka nagkaganto. Ayoko nman mag isip na ako yung problema kasi with the confidence i have right now (sobrang hirap at tagal kong winork out to) i dont want to think na nasa akin yung problema. I dont wanna ruin my peace again.

he’s 31 yrs old btw, im 21. We’ve been together for 1year&4months now.
 

Super active ng sexlife namin nung bago palang kami e like 3-4x a week, hanggang naging twice a week, once a week tapos eto ngayon once a week mgkta hndi pag nagsesex minsan. So ayoko sana isiping umay o baka di na ko mahal kasi ganun pa dn nman sya, he still gives time parin nman and spoil me padn., its just that nawala yung activeness sa  sex. Maybe dahil nga sa ibang dahilan?

 

what do you think guys?

31 bata pa yan....is he taking vitamins?? if so, what are they??

kung urges and hard on ang problema I advice him to take capsules na may "TONGKAT ALI" or yung mga MEN'S VITAMINS like PHARMATON or ROGIN E consistently....ok din na pa check up siya baka nga may iba siyang tinatagong sakit from you...hindi nga umay yan as what @X-23said kasi bago pa lang kayo siguro kung mga 4 years and up baka pwede pa....

also, pwede siya mag robust 1/2 tablet muna assuming wala siyang heart condition..

[Gerogerogero]

possible but rare

[Abdula]

Possible ba walang sex ang both married person (kabit parehong may asawa isang LDR at isang busy ang asawa) na nagkaroon ng relationship for chit chat only, add up to smack and hugs only no sex at all?

[handsomebob]

19 minutes ago, Abdula said:

Possible ba walang sex ang both married person (kabit parehong may asawa isang LDR at isang busy ang asawa) na nagkaroon ng relationship for chit chat only, add up to smack and hugs only no sex at all?

I think that is possible, maybe sa maturity niyong 2 and yung high na kasama mo yung person is enough na hindi na kailangan ng sex, but if ever there were sex na mangyayari in the near future..I think it will be intense as the anticipation will be overhwelming for both parties!

but that can happen more often than people think!

[courtesanhunter]

malaki ang chance na magkaganito ang isang lalaki kapag may erectile dysfunction na. in rare cases kapag biktima ang lalaki ng pamumutol ng ari. iba na ang reaksyon ng katawan ng lalaki sa babae kapag may kulang na sa kanya. pero kaya pa ring magmahal ng lalaki kahit sa ganung sitwasyon.

[Howdy Doody]

Love devoid of sex is sometimes a sign of purer love. Speaks of your nobler intention on her. 

It happened to me with this one GL Thera. Of course we had sex but the sex takes a back seat in our relationship. It was the companionship and togetherness that was more important. 

[Buggy boy]

Mahirap ata to mga parekoy di ko kaya mainlove ng walang sexual adventure. 

[kevin12684]

tingin ko naman very possible pero at some point, siyempre aabangan din yung sex lalo na for people who believe in sex after marriage. walang point magpakasal kung walang sex after. might as well stay as friends lang kayo.