Falling For Somebody 15 Years Older

[Yassi of Elysium]

In my previous relationship mostly my partner is ahead of me and for me its not a big deal!

Even if he ages 35,40 and so on? So what? As long as you love each other and happy together it definitely okay!

[mitchiko0]

I am waiting for my 3rd ( still wanna do it who is 15 years older than me )

[ADAM]

im a 25 year old guy and i have fallen for lady 15 years older than me.

 

i'd like to know if anybody has experienced this. what were the obstacles you encountered?

 

if you haven't had such a relationship. what do you think of it?

Una, define muna kung anong klaseng "Fallen." Yan ba yung kumakapit sa buhok ng bubuyog/paruparo mula sa bulaklak? Fallen ba as in fallen prey? I-assume na lang natin na yung huli. Este, fallen inlababo. Gento kasi yan, sa edad mo, 25 + 15 sya = 41. Marami kasing factors na naglalaro sa ganyang mga relasyon. Ayon sa mga pagsasaliksik ng mga tambay sa Quezon Ave., ang mga sumusunod ang mga dahilan kung bakit ito nangyayari:

 

 

1. Pangit ka, pangit din sya

2. Gwapo ka pero tyope; pangit sya, sinamantala ang kahinaan mo

3. Gwapo sya pero gipit sa buhay; pangit sya, pero madaming pera

4. Pangit ka, tas okay naman ang hanap buhay; maganda sya pero napag iwanan na, at nagdevelop na ng chronic case ng tyaga

5. Pangit ka; maganda sya at self-made, pero guniguni mo lang ang relasyon nyo

6. Pangit ka; maganda sya, sexy, mayaman, pero may sakit sa pagiisip

7. 0.0082 % ng mga cases na pinag aralan, trulab daw

 

 

 

99.9928% ng mga kaso ng ganitong relasyon ay hindi naging successful.

 

 

1. Pagtungtong ni guy sa edad na 30, napansin na nya ang dami ng wrinkles ni girl at sabi nya, "eeeew" kaya naghanap sya ng mas bata sa kanya

2. Ubos na ng pera ni girl, kaya naghanap sya ng nasa 40 din pero may budget pa. Di baleng bading.

3. Nabisto ni girl ang modus ni guy na pineperahan lang sya nang makita nyang ang motor na regalo nya kay guy ay gamit ng isang sexy, makinis, at napagandang dilag na malaki ang bumpers

4. Lakas makayaya ni guy mag-settle down na daw sila, gayung pati carsuncillo ni guy, charged pa sa credit card ni girl

5. Nagka-uban na sa pube si girl at napansin ito ni guy nang sumabit ang isa between his teeth at sabe nya, "Sheth, 'di naman ako nagfo-floss! Ang gross!"

6. Ayaw ng pamilya ni girl na si guy ang maging asawa ng tanging tagapagmana ng mga hacienda, at mga korporasyon na ipinundar nila through the years

7. Di na kinaya ni girl kasi maliit si Tutoy ni guy kaya naghanap sya ng malaki ang

Paninindigan. Kahit mahal ang bayad

8. Gumana ang mga experimental medicines at treatments at gumaling si girl sa sakit sa isip

 

 

 

Pero wag mawalan ng pag asa. Meron namang 0.0082% chance na maging successful ang relasyon. Dasal lang. Dasal lang ng dasal at matinding pananalig, it may work. Or may not. Basta. Go lang. May feeling ako na magtatagumpay ka. Machi-cheer ako sa inyo.

 

 

 

 

I-share mo naman sa amin balang araw kung ba't kayo naghiwalay mga approximately 5 years from now.

[camus]

No problem. what matters is you can have an intelligent conversation and still be able to relate to one another. And of course, the sex should be good.

[ElkOlOcOy]

Nope, gap to big for me...

[ms. July ❤❤]

great feeling for me ! wala naman sa edad yan ee , i love him so much kahit malaki ang age gap nmin :)

[xx.phoebe]

im 22 , he's 37.. t#ang%na ! isip bata . to think pamilyado tao pa sya!👊🏻

Edited November 9, 2016 by xx.sandra

[boobsyliciouszzz]

older men are more mature and knows what they want in life

[jojo67]

may nain love sa akin before 20 yr younger than me 42 ako 22 siya. naging sobrang possessive always wanted to possess my wallet and credit cards. dont know tuloy if ako ang gusto o ang pera ko e.

[interrobang0210]

I fell to someone 16 years older than me. She was married and damn! She is still hot as hell until now. We became strangers again after his husband found out about us. It was a good year and I still can't stop thinking about her.

[tazdevil069]

well you need to really think about it. Because let say you get married to a guy or girl who is 15 years older than you. let say she is still 35 and you are 20. Ok pa sya for the first few years but just imagine this, after 15 years you are 35 and she is already 50. Old lady na sya and ikaw you too young pa rin.i know this because i feel inlove to a girl which 10 years older than me. i am 22 at the time and because i am too young hindi ko naisip na pag naging 35 na ako she will 45 na. Buti na lang di kami nagkatuluyan:-)

[lone23]

Hindi ko pa naranasan pero ok lang siguro kung mahal mo talaga.

[curvermay]

Age is only a number. Important thing the feelings are real.

[lone23]

Age is only a number. Important thing the feelings are real.

Hmm. True.

[syato]

WALA SA edad yan.

[Raizenne]

Age doesn't matter. However,the compatibility, understanding, and priorities for everything becomes a challenge and normally causes the break up.

[ms. July ❤❤]

sobrang sarap ng feeling kasi kahit anung isip bata mo, kaya nyang hawakan at pag xa ang nagpapalambing.. ancute ! nakakainlove sobra!

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sobrang sarap ng feeling kasi kahit anung isip bata mo, kaya nyang hawakan at pag xa ang nagpapalambing.. ancute ! nakakainlove sobra!

 

Hahaha eh d kayo na brad! sobrang sarap talaga ah hahahaha

 

Ako, I never experience pa. Pero hindi ako against sa idea na to. Age is not an issue para sakin. Wag lang siguro yung 20 years age gap mahirap na kasi un.

[KAPITAN_Tutan]

Depende kung ano edad mo ngayon, haha.

[nobita doraemon]

kailangan mag-adjust. Emotionally, and physically.

[Cherrylim]

18 & 20 years older .. hahaha mas masarap pala magmahal pag ganyan yung age gap .. hahaha nakaka-stress nga lang minsa.. hindi sweet pero ako yung naging sweet sakanila .. HAHAHA

Edited May 25, 2017 by Cherrylim

[suade]

dami ko na na date age 20-24 kadalasan na kama ko rin karamihan lol

[Unwritten]

15 yeas older or younger, age rarely play a factor in love or romance... it's all 'bout the chemistry folks. Cheers!

[DocAlex]

Some says its only numbers but in my case hindi suguro...

 

15 years older than me .......BIG No senior citizen na yun

15 years younger than me .....Big Yes

[LoveYUI]

hindi ko pa na experience