Guest simply_tinA Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 Yes sabi nya but sa pagkakaalam ako he hurted me most.. Quote Link to comment
moon_bunny Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 When I want out, I give the silent treatment. Yun ang closure ko. I know girls need a more "tangible" closure, pero I just dont want the drama that comes with it.ditto.... well guys in my case... I just leave them without saying anything. Quote Link to comment
dixiechiq Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 maybe. but if i did, i dont really think it's super intentional. im very frank so people tend to say that is my way of hurting them. with my mean mean words. i get vile when im really upset. ewan labo ako eh. Quote Link to comment
ralph_130 Posted May 29, 2007 Share Posted May 29, 2007 ditto.... well guys in my case... I just leave them without saying anything. This hurts the most... silence could k*ll, too much emotional burden. mind blowing yes hurt somebody somehow, but she already knows the deal... Cant give her what she wants.. well untintentional maybe but I still feel guilty bout it. Quote Link to comment
TheDRAGON Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 cheated on an ex... found someone else and broke up with her without telling her the real reason. she eventually found out that i was already seeing the other girl while we were still together... not proud of it. Quote Link to comment
ko5he4 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 ive hurt a lot but its not my intention Quote Link to comment
LickMeDownThere Posted July 27, 2007 Share Posted July 27, 2007 yes.. coz i lost my faith in him when i caught him cheating on me Quote Link to comment
circleguy Posted July 27, 2007 Share Posted July 27, 2007 ive hurt a lot but its not my intentionsame here, after i got separated with my exwife and annulment, many women came into my life and unintentioanlly hurt them, i even had an in between girl, meaning id see her if im not with anyone at the moment and she would take me all in pa rin but then nagcing sya so di na kami nagkikita, come to think of it, ang dami nila Quote Link to comment
singkit` Posted July 27, 2007 Share Posted July 27, 2007 Yes, as far as I don't want. I was with her when I was twenty, 7 years past and I said to her, it's not you I really want. Quote Link to comment
Guest jeyg Posted July 27, 2007 Share Posted July 27, 2007 (edited) unintentionally and due to jealousy, yes.. as I look back now, it is one of those things I am not proud of.. it makes me think even today why I did such things especially to those I care.. regrets.. regrets.. Edited July 27, 2007 by jeyg Quote Link to comment
Justin Nicholas Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 (edited) Physically? Lalake lang ang kaya kong saktan. Emotionally? Yes. I told her frankly that I wasn't just ready to be committed. Wala lang sa isip ko na ma-involve sa relationship. I guess I was too honest or even rude. Now I regret what I've done Edited July 28, 2007 by justin nicholas Quote Link to comment
tagpi Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 I have been an emotional wreck for a very long time. I quit on my ex wife, i had a lot of in-betweens and all those shitty things stupid guys do. Right, i am a dick. Jeez. I don't know, i hope something runs me over and knock the senses back into me. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
revi Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 (edited) Have I hurt someone? Physically? Well, a few of my classmates before in Elementary and High School.. Yung tipong, "Square tayo sa football field.." :upside: Emotionally? Also a few but these events are kinda recent.. How and Why? I'd rather not go into details.. To be honest, I always regret hurting people.. But sometimes, circumstances warrant me leaving (and hurting them in the process) for their betterment.. Ngunit ni minsan hindi ko pinagsisihan ang makilala sila.. I never regretted falling for them and them falling for me.. Why? Coz at the end of the day, they have made my life better at some point.. At some point I needed them.. And I believe that even for a brief moment (or for a short span of their lives) I made their lives better too.. And I can never regret that.. I miss them.. But I had to do what I did.. Coz in the long run, I would've ruined their lives because I can never give more or equally give than what they have given me or what they would have given me in the future.. So, the process of hurting would never stop.. And it would pain me to see that.. I also get hurt when I hurt people.. I believe in empahty, and that is the reason, why I sometimes have difficulty letting go.. But letting go (corny as it seems) sometimes is just like saying you care.. Why? Coz there are instances that letting go and leaving is just the logical and actually the best thing to do.. I am sorry for hurting them, but they have to understand that leaving them also did hurt me.. But there would always be a special place for them in my heart.. Corny ba? But that is the truth.. Edited July 28, 2007 by revi Quote Link to comment
SLUGGER Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 physically? no... i hate hurting peopleemotionally? who doesnt? you do nothing u still hurt someone... Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted July 29, 2007 Share Posted July 29, 2007 I may have, but regardless of the circumstances, regardless of who initiated the break up, I always end up getting hurt the most.....sometimes I wonder if there is ever an end to this.....which makes me all the more cynical about better things to come....if there are such. Too much pain, inflicted too many times.....just numbs me. Quote Link to comment
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