paradox1113 Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 A number of my hubby's friends have all said their wives have refused to sleep/make-love with them. These men are on their 2 weeks vacation from war in Iraq and they haven't seen their wives for months. The wives are arguing and fighting with them and demanding them for divorce. I think it's the cruelest thing to do to man...nasa giyera ka na nga tapos instead na magpahinga ka for 2 weeks aawayin at mag-aask pa nang divorce. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> yes, it happened to me too. exactly what you describe although i dont work abroad. im working in manila although i am really cebu based. my wife stays in cebu and when i get home for a vacation she wont have sex with me. i dont want to force the issue because i hate having sex with someone who dont want it. it's really painful because she changed a lot. i've been working hard and away from them and that's how she repays me for it. the only thing that keep us together now is our lovely 8 year old daughter. she is the only one who shows how much she misses me and how much she loves me. a lot of times, we men are the featured as the "bad guy". but it's not true in our case. Quote Link to comment
pkeyman Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 shes not normal, unless shes professional............ Quote Link to comment
transcience Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 intuition. tried and tested 'to. Quote Link to comment
krystalgold Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 Ang sama naman ng inabot mo Paradox....Its hurt, and nakaka bwesit, parang gusto mo mag wala yan ang feeling ko rin dahil parehas tayo..Hmmm ano kaya ang magandang gawin sa ganyan..Advice naman dyan ohh...? thanks Quote Link to comment
krystalgold Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 Pahabol... Buti sana kung girlfriend lang eh madali lang palitan kaso ASAWA eh..ang sama Quote Link to comment
paradox1113 Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 oo nga. hirap pag asawa mo na. you cant divorce her anytime and if you do malaki pa ga gastusin mo. how i cope with it? subsub ko na lang sarili ko sa trabaho, gym and my daughter. she's my little angel and my source of sanity amidst all insanity that is happening around me. Quote Link to comment
SUENOS Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 A number of my hubby's friends have all said their wives have refused to sleep/make-love with them. These men are on their 2 weeks vacation from war in Iraq and they haven't seen their wives for months. The wives are arguing and fighting with them and demanding them for divorce. I think it's the cruelest thing to do to man...nasa giyera ka na nga tapos instead na magpahinga ka for 2 weeks aawayin at mag-aask pa nang divorce. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> That's just not right :grr: I was in the Navy before and you can't believe the number of 'Dear John' letters guys would get in the middle of the deployement. Devestating. At least they could have had the decency to tell the guy before we deployed so he could of enjoyed port calls. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Gentlemen, I hope this one helps. Some may disagree with me and I welcome it. At the instance of what happened you ask the question What wrong have you done and whether you now have a BITCH by your side. Why not. The fact that you sweat it out for the family and this is what you get. You do not deserve this crap. Come one spare us the woman thing. Hahanapan lang kayo ng butas to justify their adulterous affairs. You now have a disfuctional wife/partner and welcome to the club. What to do?Tama lang ang ginagawa nyo. Just act normally as far as the kids know, just do the job of raising you them the right way. Propagate your values, instill to them your beliefs, be a father, a friend .... As for your disfunctional wives.... set them aside ....Matira matibay, huwag nyo awayin, remember RA9208 kapag nanakit kayoStart to run your lives, do not let the her run it for you ....She asked for it (nothing) then give it (nothing)You let them know that you are capable of being normal, despite The sex thing ..... you earn your freedom ..... just be careful Lomex yes, it happened to me too. exactly what you describe although i dont work abroad. im working in manila although i am really cebu based. my wife stays in cebu and when i get home for a vacation she wont have sex with me. i dont want to force the issue because i hate having sex with someone who dont want it. it's really painful because she changed a lot. i've been working hard and away from them and that's how she repays me for it. the only thing that keep us together now is our lovely 8 year old daughter. she is the only one who shows how much she misses me and how much she loves me. a lot of times, we men are the featured as the "bad guy". but it's not true in our case.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ang sama naman ng inabot mo Paradox....Its hurt, and nakaka bwesit, parang gusto mo mag wala yan ang feeling ko rin dahil parehas tayo..Hmmm ano kaya ang magandang gawin sa ganyan..Advice naman dyan ohh...? thanks<{POST_SNAPBACK}> oo nga. hirap pag asawa mo na. you cant divorce her anytime and if you do malaki pa ga gastusin mo. how i cope with it? subsub ko na lang sarili ko sa trabaho, gym and my daughter. she's my little angel and my source of sanity amidst all insanity that is happening around me.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
Kyle_Rayner Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 gut feeling , it does not lie. there was a time when my hubby came back from vacation, nothing seemed unusual at first, his firt night back we made passionate love. but i noticed madalas malayo ang tingin niya, parang me iniisip siya. every chnce he got he would volunteer to go out, we ran out of milk, he would be the one to go out, one of the kids need a ride, he would volunteer to drive. before he would call me on his way to work, to let me know, to leave earlier for work, he stopped calling me in the morning.. nahulian ko me tinatawagn siya na girl that he met while he was on vacation. ayaw pa umamin.. eh tinawagn ko yung girl, hindi na siya nakaila . busted siya ! i always listen to my instinct, they are more reliable that his words.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I agree. Don't ignore your gut feeling. Pag napapadalas yung kutob mo then better take action but make sure you have it well planned. Expect the worst also. The usual signs yung madaming excuses, and pag nasa labas kayo malingat ka ng konte nagmamadaling mag check ng phone. Quote Link to comment
agamulach_experience2000 Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Woman's instinct. Quote Link to comment
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Design Posted July 14, 2006 Share Posted July 14, 2006 ..Cheat. Observe. Compare. -Design™ Quote Link to comment
simple_denise Posted July 19, 2006 Share Posted July 19, 2006 Girls instinct are always right! Quote Link to comment
fatso8 Posted July 19, 2006 Share Posted July 19, 2006 pag nanlalamig sya sa yo.. or ayaw pakita mga messages sa phone nya... Quote Link to comment
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