katreena0301 Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 this happened to my fubu. they have 1 lovechild then his ex-girlfriend (common law wife) got knocked up by someone after so many years of them living in together.... all this happening while he was fooling around with me na. we were already in the friends with benefits status --- it turns out both of them were fooling around na at the same time -- bad thing was lang the ex-gf got knocked up nga. still, i made sure to be there for him since that was a trying time for him. there came even a point that i berated him for hitting the ex-gf when he found out that she was carrying the child of another man. i told him he has no right regardless of what she did because she is still the mother of his child (they have a kid together) and while she was cheating on him, HE WAS IN FACT CHEATING ON HER WITH ME. i say, double standards talaga ang society natin. if a man impregnates another woman, ok lang "kasi lalaki naman" but if it happens to a woman in a relationship she becomes a social pariah. Quote Link to comment
simpatiko Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 Thanks God coz at least it will be sorry for her and lucky for me to soon have a wife that is not like her... Quote Link to comment
graphik Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 ... pang fubu na o gangbg Quote Link to comment
hardheadeddick Posted October 24, 2008 Share Posted October 24, 2008 it varies cgro kung gaano mo kamahal yung gf mo...but definitely, ill leave her. Quote Link to comment
Eddy Syet Posted October 24, 2008 Share Posted October 24, 2008 I'd leave her. Yes, and it doesn't matter how much I love her. I don't care what others may think about me but that would really be too much for me to take. I'm just being honest. Quote Link to comment
zyclonenuz Posted October 25, 2008 Share Posted October 25, 2008 Like they said "If you really love her you have to set her free" especially she got pregnant by another guy... so dump her and move on. because if you stayed in that relationship chances are she will do it again. Quote Link to comment
Athelas Posted October 29, 2008 Share Posted October 29, 2008 We'd need to have a long and hard talk about what she'd like to do now. Whether or not she wants to be with the other guy, or remain with me. Should she choose me, then I would raise the child as my own. As for whether or not the father of the child will be a part of the equation? That would really depend on the circumstances surrounding their indiscretion and obviously we'd need to have a little chat as well. Of course, this is the ideal situation. Quote Link to comment
RockmanZero Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 sbihin ko n lng.. " I won't k*ll you, but I don't have to save you... from your parents " Quote Link to comment
mischievousmon Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 answer is SIMPLE! Leave!!! but i'm sure it is SOMEHOW a difficult thing to do when you're the one involved in that fateful relationship. Anyhow, just MOVE ON... and be thankful it happened with your GF... it could be worse if it happens to your wife... just like the FUBU of Katreena0301 o diba? saan ka pa pupunta? kasal na kayo eh... Quote Link to comment
peterparker Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 i pity the fool who would get to ride on this boat.. if it happened to me, yeah i would ask for a paternity test.. if it turns out to be not mine, mag-uusap kami nang masinsinan.. i will listen to her side.. then i will say goodbye.. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Victor Davion Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 say "bye bye bye" and grab a new GF! Simple solution to a simple question. I don't know why other guys have to agonize about this question. Quote Link to comment
Kharnall Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 (edited) We'd need to have a long and hard talk about what she'd like to do now. Whether or not she wants to be with the other guy, or remain with me. Should she choose me, then I would raise the child as my own. As for whether or not the father of the child will be a part of the equation? That would really depend on the circumstances surrounding their indiscretion and obviously we'd need to have a little chat as well. Of course, this is the ideal situation. it is a fitting answer if you planned to be a martyr. I might agree with you on some cases , if she really loves me and she truly regretted her indescretion i will accept her and be a good father of the child , but regarding the father of the child , he better not be a part of the equation else he will be celebrating his birthday on the 2nd of November Edited February 2, 2009 by Kharnall Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 not all can take this. for me ill leave her its the easiest way out because everytime you'll see the child thats a result of her beeing a flirt..that will k*ll every living part in you. Quote Link to comment
baletetree Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Iwan na. Her fault naman e. Quote Link to comment
don_miguel_arkanghel Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 of course malabo na tuluyan ko pa sya. she cheated. but i wont leave her in her darkest times. most of my ex gf's were my friends even before we started going out so hindi man kami magkarelasyon, at least i still have the responsibility to help her out. parang sa pelikula lang nangyayari pero naranasan ko na eh. ngayon, ninong pa ako ng panganay nya. hahaha!!! Quote Link to comment
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