goddessofperpetualdeliciousness Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 ok lang basta sex parin kau ng asawa mo after divorce<{POST_SNAPBACK}> hello po? para que yun nagpakorte ka pa? once you said enough e tama na po. i think that, not only for you, sweetie, dun sa nagpaplano pa lang think of the best reason why you are going to get married. mali yun sagot ko e. i was aked twice on different occasions, once the day before the civil rites and second, about a year later. i am not yet taking my case to court. he might. he might not. consider careers and family. double standard? :hypocritesmiley: welcome to the philippines. Quote Link to comment
vek_slayer Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 esep esep muna bago magpasakal ay kasal pala para ala hasle balang araw... Quote Link to comment
UNDergroundX Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 As people nowadays have better knowledge and grasp of situation, i guess there should be divorce.My opinion lang. Why would you stil live with each other if u already knw that future with ur partner is bleak ? Quote Link to comment
chololo Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 divorce is a better option for broken families Quote Link to comment
LadyMariko Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 yes agree! i strongly agree!!!! a lot of couples got married early and ended up separated. it's basically a mistake. you have to try out which on would work out for you. getting married is a very big risk without the option of a divorce. dapat may divorce na Quote Link to comment
hitman531ph Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 The Philippines is one of the handful of countries that does not allow it since the Catholic Church has strong influence on who to vote on the next elections. Strangely enought, Italy, where the Vatican is found, permits divorce. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 (edited) My 12-year marriage is a mistake ..... Edited February 23, 2006 by lomex32 Quote Link to comment
buddy01 Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 i agree that divorce should be allowed in the philippines. the world is changing and it is a better alternative than broken families or just plain separation. Quote Link to comment
edc Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 Ok lng mag-divorce pero hindi pde mag-asawa ulit para hindi ma-abuso if ever magkaroon ng divorce law. Pede lang mag-asawa pag namatay na yung partner nila. Nasa Bible din ito eh. Wag gagayahin yung sa states na parang laro lang yung kasal na after mag-divorce may kapalit na agad. Quote Link to comment
MA Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 (edited) Ok lng mag-divorce pero hindi pde mag-asawa ulit para hindi ma-abuso if ever magkaroon ng divorce law. Pede lang mag-asawa pag namatay na yung partner nila. Nasa Bible din ito eh. Wag gagayahin yung sa states na parang laro lang yung kasal na after mag-divorce may kapalit na agad.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Now this is something that you cannot impose on anyone, let alone a divorcee. People petition for the dissolution of marriage for a lot of reasons, and unless the case is highly publicized, said reasons are pretty much private and are often discussed only by the parties involved. But one thing's for certain, married couples who petition for divorce do so because they want to pursue invidual happiness - or they may have already found someone (or something) that causes their endorphin-producing glands to go into overdrive. And if the reason happens to be a "someone (else)", who's going to stop the "involved" party to make an honest man or woman out of the other person, especially after the previous marital ties have been severed legally? To kibitzers, especially those who refuse to keep an open mind about situations that defy age-old norms, marrying more than once in this lifetime could mean making a mockery out of the sacrament of marriage. Maybe. Maybe not. But then again, who are we to judge these people? So they got married once, twice, thrice, maybe even four or five times? What is it to us? Why don't we, instead of going all didactic and biblical about it, think just for one second and maybe if it's not too much of a stretch, try and put ourselves in the shoes of these people who seem to be in a perpetual pursuit of happiness and have gone through so many partners in the process. Maybe then we'll see that underneath the seemingly disintegrating morals and utter disregard for the sanctity of the institution of marriage are REAL PEOPLE who are great believers of true love and are willing to go through so many hurdles (and divorces) just to have a taste and feel of it. And even if the reasons for the infinite cycle of marriage-divorce-marriage-divorce-marriage are not as honorable or romantic as love, still, we are not in any authority to pass on bigoted judgments. People marry primarily to be happy. Some of them file for divorce in order to dissociate themselves from things/situations that have ceased to bring them happiness. At some point they remarry because they find themselves happy again. Such, my dear, is life. Edited February 23, 2006 by MA Quote Link to comment
kayesantos Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 Ok lng mag-divorce pero hindi pde mag-asawa ulit para hindi ma-abuso if ever magkaroon ng divorce law. Pede lang mag-asawa pag namatay na yung partner nila. Nasa Bible din ito eh. Wag gagayahin yung sa states na parang laro lang yung kasal na after mag-divorce may kapalit na agad.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> so what you mean is not really divorce, but legal separation? it is not divorce. and in my opinion, i hate it when the bible is used as a basis for the law. there are many religions. why base it on the bible alone? and speaking of the bible, it was written there that divorce was allowed. especially in the old testament. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 Refer to the Quran then ... so what you mean is not really divorce, but legal separation? it is not divorce. and in my opinion, i hate it when the bible is used as a basis for the law. there are many religions. why base it on the bible alone? and speaking of the bible, it was written there that divorce was allowed. especially in the old testament.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
drunken_mama Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 [/font][/font] I agree! As of now kasi marami nang mag aasawa dito sa Philippines ang naghihiwalay. Kung may divorce, hindi na mahihirapang mag let go ang bawat isa. Mas makakakabuti rin yon para magkaroon din ang bawat isa ng chance to love again and makahanap ng real partner in life.... Kaya if ever na magpapakasal kayo, think of it a thousand times.... :* Quote Link to comment
edc Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 so what you mean is not really divorce, but legal separation? it is not divorce. and in my opinion, i hate it when the bible is used as a basis for the law. there are many religions. why base it on the bible alone? and speaking of the bible, it was written there that divorce was allowed. especially in the old testament.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Allowed nga sa bible ang divorce nasa New testament pero hindi pede mag-asawa ulit. Sabi pag namatay na yung isa dun pde mag-asawa. Kahit yung law ng governtment natin sa Bible din binebasis usually. Pero nasa sa inyo naman yun kung gusto nyo mag-asawa ulit. Pero ok lng sa akin Mag-Divorce pero marami guidelines para hindi maabuso. Quote Link to comment
Knight-pardz Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 I AGREE!! IF THE SITUATION REALLY COMES INTO WORST... Quote Link to comment
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