idLe`HanDs Posted June 25, 2009 Share Posted June 25, 2009 pano kung wala ka naman talagang ginagawang masama sa relationship nyo? tapos ayaw parin maniwala,pano kung d mo matakasan ang apoy? ayaw tumigil?sinubukan kong mag walk out eh ayun lalong lumala. ayun nasampal ko tuloy. pano naman po yung mga lalake na sinasaktan ng mga babae. meron ding mga babae na d marunong pumili ng lugar kung makipag talo. kahit anong sabihin mo d ka paniniwalaan. ang lagay ba eh babae lang ba d pwedeng saktan? sa mga lalake kse when they say YES it means yes, NO means no.sa babae naman masyadong complicated Quote Link to comment
karenin Posted June 25, 2009 Share Posted June 25, 2009 been choked and hit before when 1. i ddnt answer (not a word) when he asked me reapeatedly what's wrong with me2. when i tried to walk out of him when he saw me crying, he came to his senses and said sorry. he promised me before that never will he hit me. i guess he did it because that's just his nature. Quote Link to comment
Guest takenbyjo Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 My ex would hit me when he's feeling guilty. He would project his guilt on me so that he won't feel bad. He would hit me when he doesn't get his way. I believe that its a sign of cowardice, masked as being macho. Its a good thing I finally came to my senses and left him. I am with someone else now who has never hit me and I don't think he will. Should he, I am chucking him out the door. Quote Link to comment
Fusarium_jimini Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 ang babae minamahal, hindi sinasaktan Men who act like animals and batter their better halves have no place in society.. Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 if men physically abuse women, women mentally and emotionally abuse men haay.. in the case my last awful break-up, i really wanna vent out my anger physically. i don't wanna hit anyone bec. i don't wanna stoop on that level so i punched the wall several times.. atleast the pain of love subsided, the pain on my knuckles just remained longer than expected.. hahaha! Quote Link to comment
SamanthaJones Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 I guess they just can't seem to control their temper that it gets the best of them, the slightest mistake that their partner make can turn then into a Mr. Hyde. Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 12, 2009 Share Posted July 12, 2009 if your partner hits you, then call for help and get him/her a psychiatrist.. its already a psychiatric and mental problem Quote Link to comment
Zephiroth Posted July 17, 2009 Share Posted July 17, 2009 guys are more physical.. when it comes to what they feel? hmmm Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 17, 2009 Share Posted July 17, 2009 physically violent guys have some loose screws in their heads.. Quote Link to comment
chai04 Posted July 17, 2009 Share Posted July 17, 2009 if were gonna be one-sided for this matter i'm sure clearly Guys are the villain.but sometimes we have to look at it at a bigger scale,i dont think that guys just looks at their partner and see a punching bag or something ryt?however,kahit saan anggulo natin tignan its still not good to see a guy hit a girl im just sharing my thoughts about the issue at hand! tnx GOOD DAY! Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 18, 2009 Share Posted July 18, 2009 i often hear some battered husbands, for one is my friend.. lol Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 the news today (at least in yahoo) said something about Chris Brown personally apologizing to rihanna, after beating her up months back. i honestly doubt.....if this wouldn't happen again. Quote Link to comment
goodshepperd Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 :hypocritesmiley: In my humble opinion, guys that hurt women must be literally SICK or just plain NUTS... No man in their right mind would dare do such a thing... :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
queenann Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 Being abused physically would leave a great mark and trauma actually. No matter how hard you try to forget the bad experience, somehow it would still affect you mentally and emotionally. Lagi ka ng may certain alangan, kahit pa sabihin mong napaka loving ng partner mo sa ngayon, di mo pa rin mapipigilang ma praning pag tuwing may arguments kayo , feeling mo anytime baka pwede ka pa ding masaktan nung lalaki physically or even verbally. On a positive note : Women who have been physically abused are wiser and much careful on picking their man Kaya guys, no matter how difficult the woman would get, don't ever ever hurt them... same thing goes for the women out there na nag tatantrums at nakakasakit din ng lalaki physically kahit di sinasadya. It's really hard to cope up from that trauma..... agree! 100% i had an abusive partner beforeand its like 9 years ago pero the trauma is still inmy system although napatawad ko na ung guy as in totally napatawad and up to now mahal ko pa din cya pero ung physical abuse na ginawa nya grabe kahit sa panaginip nag-fuflush back pa rin sa akin kse muntik ko ng ikamatay un hay..............buhay talaga Quote Link to comment
cydney_maldita Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 bakit? kasi yun ang way nila to terrorize us (women) syempre nga naman pag nambugbug automatic na matatakot na si babae di na mag tatanong ng kung ano ano i lalake naman feeling macho kasi dimaka angal ang partner nya Quote Link to comment
Zephiroth Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 maybe something bad happened way back? Quote Link to comment
angelofdeath86 Posted July 22, 2009 Share Posted July 22, 2009 reason is that it is being "masculine", superiority. kung i-ttrace mu pa yung roots, kasi daw kaya nga hinugot lang sa tadyang ni adan si eba, para maging sunod sunuran. maraming dahilan kung bakit ginagawa ng lalake ang manakit. ego, pride, para ipa.kita na sya yung malakas, sya yung nasusunod. It's not an excuse. Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 22, 2009 Share Posted July 22, 2009 to hurt someone is absurd.. hurting the person you love is even worse Quote Link to comment
Aey.Sean Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 i think guys hurt gals physically because they like to show them their dominance... of course naturaly, guys are just stronger than women in physical aspects... dont get me wrong, i dont support and i certainly dont hurt my woman its just my opinion... Quote Link to comment
fuseikou Posted July 25, 2009 Share Posted July 25, 2009 ako takot aq sa ganyan kc ung tatay q binubugbog nya q kea lumayas aq samin soo sna kungmagkaka asawa q sna di aq bugbugin ng hubby q Quote Link to comment
Ethel Posted July 25, 2009 Share Posted July 25, 2009 dapat walang sakitan - both ways. Quote Link to comment
malambingdxb1 Posted July 25, 2009 Share Posted July 25, 2009 siguro... 1.) mmm.. wala na kasi syang utak, kaya pinapairal nalang ang kamay ... 2.) family upbringing 3.) napikon siguro sa pagtatalak ng babae nya... 4.) baka nahuli niya nanlalake babae nya... 5.) walang pera 6.) walang trabaho... 7.) walang makakain... 8.) sobrang pagod 9.) nasisante kaya sa babae nya binuntol ang pagsisisi 10.) ayaw bigyan ng pera Quote Link to comment
eyeball29 Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 coz those men who hurt women physically are gay, you can take that to the bank Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 lack of judgment.. easily persuaded by the feelings they feel and convert it to actions which is physical abuse Quote Link to comment
Ellehcar28 Posted July 30, 2009 Share Posted July 30, 2009 I don't know ha if may mag-aagree... but 7/10 guys na nananakit, usually yung mga walang bisyo... i know a lot of men na they don't smoke or drink, or whatever... SIGURO WALANG IBANG OUTLET pag galit? I don't know... But yeah, that's my logic.. hi Quote Link to comment
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