Guest simply_tinA Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Yes... as long na babalik at babalikan nya ko.. mabait naman akong gf un nga lan sorry na lan dapat maging patas tanggapin nya karma nya... Quote Link to comment
frost1017 Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Already did it... not going to again. Quote Link to comment
mata_hari Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 If I have also cheated on my partner, then by all means I can find forgiveness in my heart. But if I have always been faithful yet I was cheated, then I say it will be a different story. Quote Link to comment
Sweetstinger Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 It's obvious he's lying. But if you love him enough to live with his lies...(which i don't recommend)...it's really all up to you.Nobody's perfect....but there is always one who's perfect for us....so they say. i already told him that its already his past and im ready to accept that. i only wanted him to stop that already since he is already with me. the question is, if i can still trust him that he wont go to these places anymore. ang masama pa nito siya ang galit! labo! Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 i already told him that its already his past and im ready to accept that. i only wanted him to stop that already since he is already with me. the question is, if i can still trust him that he wont go to these places anymore. ang masama pa nito siya ang galit! labo! If its already in the past, then I think you should not argue anymore with him. If he lied, maybe because he doesn't want to hurt your feeling anymore. If he shows anger when you ask him this thing, probably he thinks that this is the way for you not to open this issue anymore. So in order for you to have a happy relationship devoid of any arguments and petty quarrels, just accept him as what he is right now and do not try to uncover the grave of his past, wala ka nang magagawa dun e. About the trust, well I think no one knows if their partner will cheat or lie to them in the future. Kahit na ung mukhang pinaka mukhang inosente or mukhang napaka responsableng partner sa ngayon, still is not a 100% guarantee that they will not cheat on you. Anyway, if he will do it again then thats the time you need to decide if you are still going to keep the relationship or not. Quote Link to comment
Sweetstinger Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 If its already in the past, then I think you should not argue anymore with him. If he lied, maybe because he doesn't want to hurt your feeling anymore. If he shows anger when you ask him this thing, probably he thinks that this is the way for you not to open this issue anymore. So in order for you to have a happy relationship devoid of any arguments and petty quarrels, just accept him as what he is right now and do not try to uncover the grave of his past, wala ka nang magagawa dun e. About the trust, well I think no one knows if their partner will cheat or lie to them in the future. Kahit na ung mukhang pinaka mukhang inosente or mukhang napaka responsableng partner sa ngayon, still is not a 100% guarantee that they will not cheat on you. Anyway, if he will do it again then thats the time you need to decide if you are still going to keep the relationship or not. thanks so much for ur advice. i have to admit when i read his posts sa thread ng sylvanus, i started shivering and cried. i didnt expect talaga na he would post or even think much less do all those things. i know i sound naive. i am not. very open minded ako about these things BUT he made me believe talaga na he's not like that. he got me going for a while pero fate has its way of showing these to me. i dont know why. i already asked him to take the medical test for all STDs and VDs including AIDS and i'll do the same. sobrang takot ako right now na may sakit na ako bec of what he did before. ur right, people will cheat when they will cheat hindi ko na mapipigilan yan. i just have to learn to accept the fact na may past siya and it doesnt necessarily mean na yun din magiging future namin. i hope everything turns out well for us. kung may us pa... he's not talking to me now and he keeps pushing me away. i dont know exactly why... pero i promised him ill be here lang until kaya ko. it hurts that hes doing that to me pero i think thats how he is dealing with this situation right now. ps: alam niyo ba san ok magpa check up for STDs and VDs? how much? please PM me Quote Link to comment
SQUIRTERBITCH Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 if he already cheated on me once.... sana nde na nya ulit ulitin pa dba... once is enough.... kung may kasunod pa hmmm malabong mapatawad ko pa sya.... i guess i better let him go nalang... Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 I'd look at myself first....maybe there is a reason why he did such? Quote Link to comment
reset Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 first of all, it is not your fault and you are not the reason why he keeps going to these places.secondly, i do not think he loves you less by going to these places.it is just because he enjoys the liberty and excitement in going to these places.thirdly, if you are willing to accept him for that, because you truly believe that he loves you then i commend you for that.bottom line is... cheating is cheating.... so if he still wants to continue to go to these places and you allow him to do so then sainthood for you is not so far away. Quote Link to comment
chelly Posted October 3, 2007 Share Posted October 3, 2007 i'll GO...no two ways about it and he wont see me get ballistic over it...i'll just walk quietly away...with finality. He wants someone else? fine...he can have that but he cant have me. Quote Link to comment
Oakleydude Posted October 3, 2007 Share Posted October 3, 2007 I have a question? What constitutes cheating? 1. Is deleting all traces of a text, calls and all call logs on your mobile phone so that your bf/gf won't see it considered cheating? 2. Is not telling your ex that you now have a bf/gf that you live with but yet you continue to communicate with your ex via calls and text considered cheating?3. Is not telling your current bf/gf about your constant communication with your ex considered cheating as well? Quote Link to comment
princeal007 Posted October 3, 2007 Share Posted October 3, 2007 (edited) I would still continue but you know the damage has been done and its irreversable. Relationship laws does not apply to me anymore if my partner cheated. Its her decision if she still wanted to continue.. ^^ Coz I really want to get even ^^ I have a question? What constitutes cheating? 1. Is deleting all traces of a text, calls and all call logs on your mobile phone so that your bf/gf won't see it considered cheating? 2. Is not telling your ex that you now have a bf/gf that you live with but yet you continue to communicate with your ex via calls and text considered cheating?3. Is not telling your current bf/gf about your constant communication with your ex considered cheating as well? answers: 1. absolutely2. I think she/he just needed a fubu3. same thing because there are some instances that the ur bf/gf could not open sex on ur relationships but they do it regularly on their x... ^^ Edited October 3, 2007 by princeal007 Quote Link to comment
Oakleydude Posted October 3, 2007 Share Posted October 3, 2007 I would still continue but you know the damage has been done and its irreversable. Relationship laws does not apply to me anymore if my partner cheated. Its her decision if she still wanted to continue.. ^^ Coz I really want to get even ^^answers: 1. absolutely2. I think she/he just needed a fubu3. same thing because there are some instances that the ur bf/gf could not open sex on ur relationships but they do it regularly on their x... ^^ Ok, what if the ex lives in a different country? That would rule out fubu, right? Quote Link to comment
krazie_daizie Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 (edited) Anything that is deliberately kept secret from our partner is CHEATING. If one does something that he/she would not otherwise do if his/her partner were present is cheating. Why do we delete texts we don't want our partner to see? We may say we don't want to hurt him/her so we withhold information. Therefore, don't do it if we think it will hurt the other person. It's called HONESTY. Edited October 5, 2007 by krazie_daizie Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 if he already cheated on me once.... sana nde na nya ulit ulitin pa dba... once is enough.... kung may kasunod pa hmmm malabong mapatawad ko pa sya.... i guess i better let him go nalang... Let me quote Melanie Marquez on this:"You can fool me once, you can even fool me twice, you can evenfool me thrice. But you can never fool me four" Quote Link to comment
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