[U2] Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 It's a very big "Depends", The girl that I was describing in my "Stalking" thread, just made one mistake during our relationship and I never gave her a second chance.... She got pregnant. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 ack! this is kinda hard to accept. if this is the case and he cant give me a good explaination...i'd have to say goodbye to him<{POST_SNAPBACK}> So, you mean that pride is going to prevail more than the love you have for him? Siguro kaya hindi sya makapagbigay ng explanation, kasi para hindi na lang lumaki pa at ma-ungkat ng ma-ungkat pa ung gulo. Kasi kung ung guy naman ay willing na talagang hindi na niya gagawin ulit yun, mas okey na wag na lang pag-usapan ung nangyari na yun. Instead, gagawa na lang ng sya nga mga bagay kung saan para maibalik nya ung trust nung partner niya. I agree with Honey. It is hard to accept Mike. Men like [you] ( no offense meant) makes it hard for women to trust.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Its ok Ms. Swit. That's my opinion, and if a girl will find it hard to trust and understand me, then i also have no reason to stay with her. Kahit na gaano mo siya kamahal, its better to let her go na lang, at baka mas makahanap pa siya ng lalakeng "hindi manloloko" sa kanya. You have the choices, mag-i stay ka dun sa partner mo na gumawa ng kalokohan sa iyo, pero willing siyang magbago, or iwanan mo na lang siya at mag take ng risk na makahanap ng bagong partner without the assurance na hindi ka rin lolokohin nung bagong partner na iyon. Quote Link to comment
honey Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 (edited) So, you mean that pride is going to prevail more than the love you have for him? Siguro kaya hindi sya makapagbigay ng explanation, kasi para hindi na lang lumaki pa at ma-ungkat ng ma-ungkat pa ung gulo. Kasi kung ung guy naman ay willing na talagang hindi na niya gagawin ulit yun, mas okey na wag na lang pag-usapan ung nangyari na yun. Instead, gagawa na lang ng sya nga mga bagay kung saan para maibalik nya ung trust nung partner niya. i feel that the right thing to do is to let go because it really is hard to accept kasi how can you move on and forgive if the person involved wont even say sorry kasi nga pinaninidigan na walang ginawang masama. but you know, this happened to me and i did give the guy a second chance. see, magulo Edited October 17, 2005 by honey Quote Link to comment
*twilightzone* Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 siguro if one has cheated first and then the other cheats back then maybe there should be a chance.... otherwiseif one is clean then its up to the other to decide..... pwede naman siguro magpatawad kung kung kaya mong lunukin... Quote Link to comment
Lingerie_girL Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 based on my experience, it really depends. somehow you still have to assess whether he deserves another chance or not. if he's worthy of another chance... tao langnaman taung lahat. nagkakamali...pero syempre, ask yourself may mapapala ka nga ba kung pagbibigyan mo pa sya.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> i agree with you....... Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 (edited) So, you mean that pride is going to prevail more than the love you have for him? Siguro kaya hindi sya makapagbigay ng explanation, kasi para hindi na lang lumaki pa at ma-ungkat ng ma-ungkat pa ung gulo. Its ok Ms. Swit. That's my opinion, and if a girl will find it hard to trust and understand me, then i also have no reason to stay with her. Kahit na gaano mo siya kamahal, its better to let her go na lang, at baka mas makahanap pa siya ng lalakeng "hindi manloloko" sa kanya.You have the choices, mag-i stay ka dun sa partner mo na gumawa ng kalokohan sa iyo, pero willing siyang magbago, or iwanan mo na lang siya at mag take ng risk na makahanap ng bagong partner without the assurance na hindi ka rin lolokohin nung bagong partner na iyon. I know of several relationships were this happened and although I don't agree, I don't fault them nor think less of the 'hurt' party. I guess I've never really loved [nor needed] anyone more than I loved myself to actually forgive the insult. And the one time it happened, I guess I wasn't really inlove, because the minute I confirmed that there was a third party, I just walked away. I didn't even hurt anymore. I just hope I never find out if I can love a person enough to forgive such sin Edited October 17, 2005 by Switlass Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 cheaters will always be cheaters. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Cheaters = Damage Goods Quote Link to comment
kilawin Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Christ forgave our sins, who are we not to give someone ( husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend ) another chance. Is that the price he/she must have to pay? :sick:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> What a HYPOCRITE!!! I just wish this topic becomes reality in your personal life! Quote Link to comment
yessss_noooo Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Uulitin? Maybe...Nagkamali? Maybe...Love? Maybe... Depends... Quote Link to comment
clubgoer Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 no to cheaterspero... how big a difference would it make between a guy cheater and a gal cheater?!? Quote Link to comment
snoopy23 Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Once nag cheat yun guy, somehow, deep inside a woman's heart, they would think if you do it again. It's bec of her insecurity that you've caused. For me, if i discovered he cheated, I leave him to her. It's self-sacrifice. Bec he's happy with her. So let them be happy. (Khit masakit yun!) But if after I left him and he comes back, I'll accept him if he promises to change. May effort e. But d tlga mawawala sa system ng women ang doubt. Just assure her ALWAYS of your love. Quote Link to comment
Barenaked-NoMre Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Its better NOT to get caught! ;-) Hmm ... really depends. But once I found out that my THEN BF ... had someone else in his life, what's the point continuing the relationship. He CANT have his cake and eat it too! It's NOT a nice thing to happen ... esp. when your partner REALLY loves you to bits. It hurts. Usually, when the WOMAN does the cheating ... it scars a MAN more. Harder for them to love again. It just takes WOMEN more time to love again ... they do. ;-) Quote Link to comment
cactusjack Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 pa inglis inglis pa kayo! kayong mga babae kasi ayw ninyo ng niloloko kayo! ayaw nyo pang tanggapin ang realidad, kayo ay tagapaglingkod lang ng mga lalaki! at yun ang totoo! hindi ninyo ba alam o nagbubulagbulagan lang kayo? bilyong beses na na niloko ng lalaki si babae sa istorya ng mundo! kaya wag na kayong magpa tweetums effect! yan lang ang papel nyo talaga, girls! Quote Link to comment
honey Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 pa inglis inglis pa kayo! kayong mga babae kasi ayw ninyo ng niloloko kayo! ayaw nyo pang tanggapin ang realidad, kayo ay tagapaglingkod lang ng mga lalaki! at yun ang totoo! hindi ninyo ba alam o nagbubulagbulagan lang kayo? bilyong beses na na niloko ng lalaki si babae sa istorya ng mundo! kaya wag na kayong magpa tweetums effect! yan lang ang papel nyo talaga, girls!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> errr while we appreciate the honest comment, medyo nde ata maganda bro yung pagkakasabi mo and how you think of women. sorry mods and admins, medyo off topic...nde ko lang natiis Quote Link to comment
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