punkus Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 doesn't matter....we have to remember that in a relationship trust and respect is of utmost importance...trust and respect that what happened in the past will remain in the past.... saka kadalasan mas ok din pag "experienced" na ang girlfriend mo..... Quote Link to comment
miss_b Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 Would it matter if she is a virgin or not. Depends on the guys way of thinking... It could be: 1. WOW!2. Why?3. Hmm... My personal preference would be a virgin. But if not, it wouldn't matter. Preference lang naman yan eh. If we make it a topic of our relationship, it would be throwing a spanner in the works. Would you mess with an engine that is running perfectly? If you let the virginity issue consume you, then a girlfriend is not what you are really looking for. You're in love with the girl, not her virginity. It would be nice to have a virgin girlfriend, but would it be better if you can care less about her past? Look past the things she has done. She's done them already, short of taking away her previous experiences, it just can not be done. What I'm really getting at is, love the now, not the past. It'll eat you alive... :evil:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> well said expedia :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
[U2] Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 Are relationships based on a piece of hymen? Quote Link to comment
dark-knight Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 ok lang, di din naman nya ko nakuha ng virgin e, hehe... Quote Link to comment
imijin Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 okey lang.... basta nasa tamang edad na kami.. pero kung sakaling dina siya V ng gf ko siya at halimbawa HS palang kami... naku! ka batang nyakers naman nun.. naunahan pa niya ako. Quote Link to comment
Expedia33 Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 well said expedia :thumbsupsmiley:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> why thank you!! Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 Ok lang yun basta wla lang sisidebet habang kmi pa :evil: Quote Link to comment
revi Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 Dudes, I have a question: If you are a virgin and you learned that your GF isn't a virgin anymore, how would you feel? Hindi mo ba maiisip na parang unfair yun for you? In our conservative culture hindi pa din ganun ka-tanggap ang hindi virgin na babae when she gets married, although the culture is now slowly being altered by time.. there are still cases of non-acceptance di ba? For me, love should go beyond virginity.. if the girl isn't a virgin anymore.. and I am still a virgin.. ok lang.. But there's one catch: as long as I am really madly in love with that girl.. it only means that if you love someone you love her for whoever and whatever happened to her life.. and virginity is just a stupid issue that should not really matter.. e kayo whatchathink? Quote Link to comment
homy Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 The thing they did to consider her a non-virgin... Quote Link to comment
allanon Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 Love is all that matters. If you really love her, so what if she's a virgin or not. Love means accepting her for all she is, good and bad. If you can't accept her and her past, then I don't think it's really love. Quote Link to comment
Itachi Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 It doenst matter kung di na sya virgin... people make mistake when they give thier virginity to someone and that someone didnt appreciate it. Quote Link to comment
silverhand Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 Naguguluhan ako mga tsong. Me mahal na mahal akong girl pero feeling ko inde na siya virgin. Balak ko pa naman siyang seryosohin alam niyo na. Pakasalan balang araw. Sabi niya virgin pa siya kaya lang pag nag mamakeout kami something tells me she's not and i can tell she knows some things. one time i got shocked becaused she sat on me facing me and started gyrating hers to me while kissing her. We still haven't had sex and i don't why. I have other girls who i can have sex with anytime i want but i really do love her. She's the one i would want to bring home to my mom. Please mga tol, kahit sino. Hindi ko masabi sa barkada kasi alam ko pintasero ako nuon saka mapili sa tsiks. t*ang*na, nakarma ata ako. Grabe pare mahal na mahal ko siya at talagang pinaghirapan ko un. Pahirapan talaga. Nalulungkot akong di ko maintindihan. Nagdadalawang isip kasi ako. Kaya ba ayokong nagsseryoso sa babae nakakasira ng utak eh. Quote Link to comment
zipzamzowee Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 Dude, If you really love the girl as you claimed, I don't think "a piece of torn skin" should be an issue to you. Since you are not a virgin anymore(too), better trash the double-standards. Besides, we only get what we deserve. Quote Link to comment
Guest Dave Batista Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 Once again the stereotypical pinoy male rears his ugly head. God forbid you take a girl who isn't a virgin seriously. Oh no, going out and f#&king some random girl is perfectly fine unless you actually plan on having a relationship. You want a virginal girl you can take home to mommy, get serious, get married then go out and f#&k some two bit whore because you dont do that sort of thing with your wife. Guys like you make me sick. Quote Link to comment
MOANERlisa Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 cmon, we are on the 20th century where sex has become as casual as it gets..we gurls dont mind if our guys are virgins, so why would you?..too shallow if you ask me. Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 you as well is not a virgin anymore, so how come thinking your girl is not a virgin is a big deal.grow up dude... Quote Link to comment
Joyboy Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 its shouldnt matter if your girl aint a virgin or not. its her you love and not her virginity... so what if she looks like she knows some things... there are porn videos scattered everywhere.....dude, if you really love her like you said u do, this aint a problem. Quote Link to comment
doux Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 so, what else is new? everybody is no longer a virgin anymore. besides, if you truly love the girl, would her past mistake, or can we really call it a mistake, be a show stopper? Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 Naguguluhan ako mga tsong. Me mahal na mahal akong girl pero feeling ko inde na siya virgin. Balak ko pa naman siyang seryosohin alam niyo na. Pakasalan balang araw. Sabi niya virgin pa siya kaya lang pag nag mamakeout kami something tells me she's not and i can tell she knows some things. one time i got shocked becaused she sat on me facing me and started gyrating hers to me while kissing her. We still haven't had sex and i don't why. I have other girls who i can have sex with anytime i want but i really do love her. She's the one i would want to bring home to my mom. Please mga tol, kahit sino. Hindi ko masabi sa barkada kasi alam ko pintasero ako nuon saka mapili sa tsiks. t*ang*na, nakarma ata ako. Grabe pare mahal na mahal ko siya at talagang pinaghirapan ko un. Pahirapan talaga. Nalulungkot akong di ko maintindihan. Nagdadalawang isip kasi ako. Kaya ba ayokong nagsseryoso sa babae nakakasira ng utak eh.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> ang sabi mo nga you can have other girls whom you can have sex with naisip mo na ba na kung sakali may nagmahal sa mga babaeng yun katulad ng pagmamahal mo ano kaya ang iisipin nila sa girl na yun? hindi kaya ikaw ang isa sa mga may sala kung bakit hindi na sila virgin ngayon and here you are now expecting your girl to be a virgin!!! sino ka ba para mag asta ng ganyan? if we want to have more virgins sa mga girls natin we should start from ourselves not to f**k anyone para dumami ang lahi nila. another point is .. so what kung hindi na siya virgin??? gusto mo ikaw ang makauna? what if after mo siya tirahin then naghiwalay kayo ano kaya mangyayari??? maghahanap ka ulit ng virgin??? e kapal pala ng mukha mo pare!!! wag ganya lets be fair naman. SORRY PO IF MEDYO HAR DNAG MGA WORDINGS KO THE TRUTH HURTS. NO INTENTION MAKIPAG AWAY PO. :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
simple_denise Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 So, what's the problem if the girl is no longer a virgin? Beside, di naman yun ang reason para mahalin mo ang girl ah. Kung yun ang habol mo sa kanya, you're sick. Tsaka di ka na virgin ah...Di kata ata fair noh. Quote Link to comment
Tanya08 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 kawawa nman yung girl na yun.. if she's still a virgin.. pare she dont deserve a guy like you! :thumbsdownsmiley: she probably deserve someone better. you said mahal n mahal mo sya? wat a crap! Quote Link to comment
Hudson Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 i think you're rearing the classic madonna/whore complex. let me ask you a question? What if a girl you really love happens to say that she would only marry a virgin guy, How would you feel as you are not a virgin anymore? Grow up man!!! Quote Link to comment
MTBCommuter Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 I have no problems about virginity, Probably because I'm already old enough not to care too much about the issue Quote Link to comment
stonerockbato Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 unbelievable tsk tsk tsk Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 i agree with everyone in this forum. virginity should not be an issue here....because you yourself is not a virgin. please dont be too selfish to demand something from a girl that you yourself do not have. i once required that my gf be a virgin. but that was many years ago, when i was still a virgin. sabit ko, i'd like to make out with someone who's as pure as i was. sabi ko pa, yun ang gusto kong pakasalan. yung virgin pareho ko. but man, after we consumed our virginity, the relationship did not work out well. point of the story is, don't keep the girl for the wrong reasons. bakit ba siya pinili mo? so you can brag about her, a virgin, to your friends and your mom? that's very shallow dude. i tell you, that will make your life miserable in the end. virginity is still important, i must agree....but for me it's not necessary in order to love someone very deep. love your girl for the right reasons, not for her tight p*ssy. tell you what, I've had a few encounters with virgins before. upon knowing that that would be their first....i walked away. because i felt that they didnt deserve me. call me stupid....but some people have the right to preserve their dignity through saving their virginity....i couldnt bear the guilt of snatching a priced possession for just moment of pleasure. i'm selfish at times....but during those times, i couldnt afford to be one. Quote Link to comment
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