What Comes To Mind When Your Gf Is Not A Virgin?

[Agent_mulder]

Well, maganda kung virgin yung gf ko pero kung hindi na ok lang dahil love ko naman siya at love niya ko.

[hotr0d]

irepairable.... can't do anything about it..... but to accept.... although i still prefer virgins.. pero kung di na........ it's OK..

[stormloader]

all things being equal it's not hard to imagine that most (if not all) guys would not go for 'damaged goods.' but real love creates room for compromise and acceptance

[DJ_`yAn]

No. Loving her also means accepting her

[jojo]

Nope...i doesn't matter..kahit may anak na sya, ok lang...

[Manticore]

Before I had my first relationship, I used to think it was important. Nowadays, I value honesty and fidelity more.

[Shy Guy]

I think this topic is so old that it's quite tiring to talk about it already. Virginity is not an issue anymore unless you're some kind of sexist who thinks that women dont have the same rights as men do..

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I don't believe we had that right

Sex strenghtens relationships in marriage.

 

As for the virginity of my girlfriend (if I ever had one), it will not be important.

People make mistakes, but they should not be judged by it. What's past is past.

[chantall]

Turn it around... Does SHE care if YOU'RE not a virgin? 

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good point!!!

[mick8]

it doesn't matter if she's not a virgin anymore. so what kung malaman ko na hindi na siya virgin, wala naman na akong magagawa and besides the past should not hinder the present, instead learn from it. what's imp. is that she's honest & loyal to me and alam ko na mahal niya ako.

[Lord Ire]

Its just tissue, so don't worry about it.

[silentkilla]

Virginity is no longer an issue to me. The imporrtant thing is that she is with me now and I make sure that she feels good all the time. I will nurture our feelings for each other so that it will last. Virginity is never a factor in a relationship anyway...

[loner]

guys, your views on this: bakit kailangan natin maka-score pag alam natin na hindi na virgin ang gf natin?

 

it's a theory of a lady friend of mine...

 

ladies, if you're in this thread, do you believe this theory? any experiences you wanna share?

 

enlighten me.

 

--- my thoughts on this: its because of our ego. ayaw natin pahuli sa mga naging experiences nila. and we're thinking that it's ok with her since she did it before and she might be missing it. well, initially, ganun inisip ko dati. but then i realized that i would rather make love to my girl than just have sex (for me magkaiba ung dalawa)... and it's worth the wait....

[hsmeilop]

if my "GF"is no longer a virgin, then that's good. Dont have to teach her anymore.

 

But seriously... I dont think I need to score with her if she's not ready yet.

[yuulimoe]

hmm..if she's not a virgin..first thing that comes to my mind is... It's sure I'll get some! :boo: well, first...how would you know kung virgin pa siya? given na hindi pa kayo nagpopopoy...syempre pag 2 lang kayo..mapupunta na sa ganung usapan..tapos magiging action na! automatic! oh yes! :boo:

 

nagkagirlfriend na rin ako ng virgin..badtrip nga eh...nung alone na kami...sinabi niya agad na para tumagal kami, wag ko daw siyang pilitin ng ayaw niya..un nga, ayaw pa nya ng popoy.. :cry: tapos after 2 days, pinuntahan niya ko sa boarding house, tapos malungkot daw cya...umiiyak..at kami'y naghalikan...hanggang kuskusan lang..walang popoy..ayun..di rin kami nagtagal..walang popoy eh! :boo:

[missmanners]

when a girl is still a virgin, it's either by choice or she's too naive to want otherwise. guys who will take advantage of her just to pop her cherry are crude and primitive.

 

so are guys who think they'll score just because a girl is no longer a virgin. so what if she slept with more people than you?! does that make you less of a man?

 

should it matter whether she is a virgin or not? if you really like a girl, shouldn't you respect her and her wishes? and what should the number of sexual partners equate to really?

 

siiigh. it makes me angry to think that there are men out there that let their other head do the talking. there's a reason why your brain is above your shoulders and not your dick.