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Apir! Gut feels never goes wrong.

Its the conversation. The conversation leading up to the first date, which leads to kissing..and then you know na what's next 😁 Its the first few lines/phrases/answers that the two of you exchange on whether tatagal or mapupunta to 2nd base ang inyong usapan. I find it quite attractive for a woman who can hold her own in a conversation. 🥰

Ayaaaaannn Got this one from a dear departed friend: "F*ck and then Leave" 😁

Quite an analogy. So let's put that in perspective with three relationships that I had: #1 | My first GF; who laughed at the idea of us being married & told that I wasn't capable #2 | My 2nd GF; we were together for 9-years (8years or so of being GF/BF and 1-year almost of being married); it ended when she cheated on me. #3 : I met this girl online (thru WeChat); younger than me... we lasted for about 1-year; it ended when she decided to go with another guy.. our relationship was more of the "Friends with Benefits" type. #4 : This one, well, this was where I was abused... physically, emotionally, financially... I was glad it had ended; else, I may not be here at all. Which among the three would you think I had no ill feelings? My answer: its number three. Why? Because even though it was the "Friends with Benefits" type of relationship... It was where I grew the most. The first, second, and mostly the fourth.. It felt like there was no growth, felt like you were chained... I tried hard to keep the ember of love burning on those.. but I was the one who got burned in the end. I will not have those other three come back at all (#1, #2, and #4)... I will not wish them to burn in hell though.. except for number four I guess. Its number three that I still think about the most.. well, at least there's a thought that crosses my mind here & there.

Opo.. Pwede naman.. If the vibe is really that good & we jive together, bakit naman tatanggi ? 😄

Online.. nung nagsisimula pa lang ang FB back then; after about 9-years.. she cheated on me. 😒

Dreamt of making out & doing the deed with this hot thera

This... And this.. And the third one... "Pinoy time" (always late) Among the three; Mediocrity can be corrected.. basta maayos ang upbringing at ang training during early childhood. The second one, its really based on the fact that most Filipino families aren't born with a "silver spoon" or with the capability to put themselves thru college/university to earn a degree & make a decent living. Most, if not all Filipinos, are still on the threshold of poverty. The third one; is really something that should be taught during early childhood & the growing up years.

This .. and then went to a spa in QC.

Indeed. Even our non-human sentient counterparts do it. The apes, the carnivores... Basta ang hormones na ang nagsalita at nagpagalaw, alaws..itigil na ang laban at rakrakan na 😁

Awwww. Exactamento. The right kind of Love 🥰

Indeed. Peace of mind; a $hit load of orgasms 😁

If this had happened back in my HighSchool/Freshman college days with an older woman falling for me; why not? If I were to be the one falling for a younger lady, again... why not?

That going to take a lot out of a person though... An LDR still isn't a good thing.. unless you have a jet or a transport portal that can easily get you from point A to B 😁 On a serious note; I was on an LDR back then; did not work out even though I had those mentioned above (effort/patience/etc.). The girl had a lot of demands & did not respect what I was doing.

Sabi nga ni Frank (Sinatra): "Someone to watch over me" Guarrrddd!!! 😁

Wala naman naging karelasyon nung HighSchool pa ako ay... I am a late bloomer; kaya can't relate Anyhoo; if the feeling is still mutual and walang sakitan na naganap.. bakit hindi ? Another chance/shot wouldn't hurt. Pero, hwag ka.. if abusive much na ang peg ng ka-relasyon.. aba eh mag-isip isip na ha. Gamitin ang coconut.

This... And this... The first one: It's difficult to admit & seek out help when you want it the most. The second one: It's also difficult to accept that you are hurting/grieving over the loss.

Apir!

Yes. To be honest. She was the physically abusing me; always hitting & hurting me.. to the point that I always have bruises & have scratches on my neck too. One day; I couldn't take no more.. so I hit back, out of self defense... Else, she might hit me where there would be irreparable damage (neck/jugular area).

True. Its immensely taxing that it would leave no breathing for both parties. One or the other ang talunan; that's for sure. I think its called "Situationship" nowadays.

On a serious note.. - A hug and then a kiss on the forehead - And to always tell her that I Love her 🥰

Kiss...sabay Hug (sabihin ng mabilis 😄)

This is true... up to now. Physical features are but secondary or a complement na lang nowadays. I personally; would be attracted to a brainy one na malakas ang appeal.

This! Right on the money, Sir. Ikanga; who takes care of us if we feel broken? abused? Who would help heal our wounds? Walang iba kundi ang sarili natin. I've been cheated, not just once.. Been also in an abusive relationship where I've been physically, mentally, emotionally & financially abused. And yet here I am; still standing.. still breathing. All because I've vowed to myself to love me more than anything in this world.. And I won't let anyone take that away from me. To quote Lucille Ball: “I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line.”

Indeed... One of the "oldest professions" known to humankind. Here's an article about it: https://academic.oup.com/book/1492/chapter-abstract/140911747?redirectedFrom=fulltext To quote