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It's the smile.

A sweet and genuine smile makes a girl prettier. On the other hand, a girl who does not know how to smile loses beauty points, no matter how pretty she may be.

Cougars are on the hunt!

 

 

a piece of meat that cant make it as a human being..? ' im a therapist and i dont remember being screwed by a client six ways from sunday, i dont remember licking someone's ass, and taking cum in my mouth, and i also dont remember kissing someone's toes. and I dont have to make it as a human being.. because like what the gentleman above said, im already a human being...... hmmmm are you..?

 

 

In the earlier days of the spa industry there was this guy who took pride in how he gave his tip. He insisted on putting it between the girl's breasts, knowing that folded money in the cleavage area could result in paper cuts. Few theras were active at MTC then so hardly any complaints were posted. Some guys called him out, but he was unrepentant. In at least one post he was proud when "napa-aray" iyong girl.

It was a fetish for him. It was also gave him a false sense of power.

Same with guys who insist on putting his tip on the floor, demanding that the girl kiss his toes for additional money. It's the power trip he can only dream about outside the cubicle. Pathetic.

Leo won for the Revenant! And so did Mark Rylance for Bridge of Spies.

iyong mahilig manlait para lang matakpan ang insecurity nila.

No.

At the start a guy may have that illusion, but once he hangs out long enough at MTC he'll realize it's not. From SEB offers to professionals to lonely grannies who are at the 50-year old age range--women seek sex and definitely not because they're in love.

Even outside of MTC, some women use sex as a leverage, a carrot to impose her will on her man.

kasi kaming mga di gwapo, walang choice kundi maging hokage.

Sex and time.

Time. Give him time to be with his friends. Give him "alone" time. Most guys want to spend some time just doing nothing. Pagbigyan mo na.

kasi dehado iyong mga tulad naming di gwapo. kaya marunong kami magpahalaga. kaya mas may effort kami.

Maybe it reminds you that people are meant to be with someone--and yet you're all alone.

Maybe, If it's a big org with more than a thousand employees and geographically diverse offices. You have enough space.

Never if it's a company less than 50 employees. The chismis and the fallout from a breakup are not worth it.

In one instance, I just ate a platter of spaghetti. To this day I still wonder why it had to be a lot of spaghetti.

That love is not a constant gush of joy or pain.

That there are valleys and there are peaks.

That it's up to you to decide if the valleys are low enough to give up. Or that the peaks are high enough that it's all worth it.

It is worth remembering that no guy goes to a spa or ktv to find true love. He doesn't go to these places and say--hey I want my family and friends to meet a girl and I'll look for her in the industry.

But some guys who go to these places do fall in love. It is said that the stomach is the quickest way to a man's heart. I disagree. A caress of the penis is a caress of the heart. And if it's touched gently, lovingly, and often enough, a guy begins to entertain the idea of love.

I've said this in some posts before: Never go to a spa if you're lonely. Go if you're horny or bored, or want to relax or just want to goof off with friends. But never when you're lonely. Loneliness makes you vulnerable.

A guy (or a girl) has to have just three things for this to happen: opportunity, capacity, and willingness.

He has to have the opportunity. This may come from work, or social places, or even an online forum.

He has to have the capacity, physically, emotionally and financially to consummate an affair.

Finally, even if all the women in the world throw themselves at his feet, and even if he has enough money to support this lifestyle he has to be willing to do this. There are a lot of reasons to be unfaithful and there are a lot reasons to keep the faith. In the end, the guy has to make the decision.

Some guys have been hurt and in order to cope chose to have an affair. Some are just lonely and vulnerable. But some are just plain gigolos who actively hunt when they have already committed to someone.

Complicated, this unfaithfulness thing is.

One month without sex is like one month without sunshine. Mahirap pero kakayanin.

Love first then sex all the way.

I think most girls would rather have sex with guys they love. Or if not, someone they have the possibility of loving eventually.

But then of course there are girls who'll have sex because they're in heat.

Since, it's Valentine's Day today, I'll choose love over sex. Iyong sex mamaya na.

Almost all of them are in serious relationships na.

Do the exes still affect me? Sometimes yes. But sometimes you look at them, smile, and wonder what it is that you saw in them.

It reminds you that you're miserable alone--when you can be miserable with someone else.

Every now and then--a little lovin', a little kissin', a little cuddlin'...and long periods of quiet time.

Will you just sit there idly while a girl you know is begging for rescue from an unhappy, miserable relationship?

Or

Will you move in and bring the girl to what may be another unhappy, miserable relationship?

We always think we can do better, and can make her happier, but it's usually best to let things be and let her sort and fix her problems before we move in. But there are exceptions.

Some guys make sweeping generalizations that all girls in the industry are hustlers. I disagree, as I've met decent girls in the industry and some of whom have remained my friends.

On the other hand, I've also met or known of some pathological liars--girls who we thought only exist in the telenovelas. They always have their scripted sob stories designed to melt your heart. Some are shameless gold diggers. These are girls who will look you in the eye and lie. They have no qualms about having several boyfriends at the same time. In some cases the boyfriends, unaware the other guys exist, all give them a monthly subsidy.

Unfortunately, I've also had friends or known of people who fell for these girls. Even when presented with overwhelming evidence about the deceit, these girls can still convince the GMs to believe them. A tear or two always helps, but I realized there's a pattern. When a GM confronts the girl about a damning evidence, she would always reply "paninira lang iyan. naiinggit kasi sa akin." She will not explain. She will not refute the evidence. She will not even give an excuse. Like most politicians who'll always reply with "kalaban lang iyan sa politika kaya naninira," she would say the "detractors" are driven by envy.

So GMs when you ask your girl about issues and she always just says "paninira at inggit lang iyan," take that as a warning.

There is no wrong or right answer to this question.

I think we all agree that sexual history of your partner is important, but the difference is the level of importance that we place on it and whether it’s based on empirical data or mere speculation.

Some guys would say it’s not important as long as evidence has precluded STDs. Others may even say STDs are ok as long as they belong to the past, and won’t reappear in the present.

Still, and I strongly agree with this point raised by some GMs here--that sexual history gives us a clue on what type of person our partner is.

There is also a question of when sexual history becomes relevant. In my case, it only becomes relevant after the first or maybe second time. These initial sessions will always be treated with caution, with CDs and all that, short of boiling each other to ensure cleanliness. Beyond that, and assuming you want more than the casual sex, that is when you start to want to know the other person better. Then you might ask. But then again, maybe not. It really depends on you.

The only things I really want to know about her sexual past are: if she has ever gotten STD and if she's given birth or has had an abortion. Of course, if she's a regular partner you'd also want to know how exclusive you are to each other.

Because most "ugly" men are aware that they are at a disadvantage. Thus they try harder.