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hmmmm if i have feelings for a client.... il do it for free..

 

if a thera can easily give an atw... there's a possibilty that she can/will do it kahit kaninong client with no emotions involve..

 

just my 2 cents.. have a great day..

When a therapist provides a service for free, you've reached a milestone in your "relationship." You can decide whether to take it to the next level or move on.

Some years back, I met two girls I met who refused the tip. One wanted to be loved, not just be desired or lusted after. Another girl turned out to be hunting for a financial backer. I continue to be friends with the first girl, and she has been retired for a couple of years. She's also a reason why I've kept my faith in the goodness of some girls in the industry. In the latter case, it was easy to move on. Once in a while, I'd still hear stories of how she still tries to snare a ticket out of the industry.

Met a friend from the spa industry. Great to know that she has left the industry, moved on to a different and a more peaceful phase of her life.

somewhere i have never travelled, gladly beyond by e.e. cummings.

extended writer's block. haaay.

Once a guy gets into a relationship with a therapist, he should never ever bring up her work during arguments.

I know a girl who was in the same situation as Sitti's. Her bf would get other theras just to spite her and make her jealous. Later the guy accused her of deliberately getting pregnant just to force them to settle down. They then lived together, but as far as I can remember, the guy went on his spa-going ways.

Another thera shared also her story. She and her husband were doing it, but since she was tired, it was not 100% effort. The guy told her " kailangan ko ba mag-tip para mas ganahan ka?" It was that brutal. I also know the guy would hit her using her work as an excuse.

So unless a guy is capable of being quiet in word and in deed about the lady's work, he shouldn't pursue a therapist. Sumbat is never an option.

Merged na ba dito falling for a PSP?

Yes, it's been merged.

Sa mga na inlove dito ano ang nauna ATW or LOVE?

In my case, yes, love came first. At least in one of them.

I get what you may mean, though. Many years ago, when the industry was still conservative a girl suddenly rode my thingy. Afterwards, I asked her why and she said she was in heat (which I believed), and that she loved me (which made me laugh as we've met just twice).

She also very quickly lost interest. I just I told her that she should stay away from me as I'd likely end up just borrowing money from her.

The Boston Red Sox!

Debugging cryptic errors. Sakit sa bangs.

spam saka palm corned beef.

pag available corona or stella artois. pag hindi, sanmig light.

Sad and angry.

A presidential candidate's reaction to news of a gang-rape? Dapat daw siya ang nauna.

The Boston Red Sox!

Depends on the girl.

With some I remember the highs. With some I remember the lows. With a few I only remember the sex.

The Boston Red Sox!

I think most girls will will follow their heart when young, with the head taking over as she matures.

Most guys will follow their small head when they're younger...and many will do so for the rest of their lives.

Can you, really? *rolleyes* *b#tchmode*

Actually Jessie, you can. The question is: will you be happy doing that?

Im so damn good. And im very sure of that. But still........ Hmmm

As the great philosopher Sylvester Stallone said in the Expendables--"you have 24 hours in a day. you can spend 2 or 4 hours having sex. what will you do the rest of the day? what will you do the rest of the week?"

Sex will make a man come over. But something else will make him stay. And that something varies from man to man. Sex is universal though.

Tragic

It is. He discussed it in the context of soulmates, reincarnation, and karma. One of his explanation for this twist of fate is that the other party is still paying for past sins, while the other has a cleaner karmic slate. It's sad, even cruel, when the fates will always tease you with what could've been, what should've been, and what would've been.

“According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves.”

-plato 'the symposium''

if this is true, panu kung yung other half is nasa piling na ng iba..? committed na sa iba.. or vice versa what if you meet your ' other half ' eh committed ka na..? will this means you both are doomed..? and panu kaya malalaman if he/she is ' your other half ' na... ?

( sorry if for some this might sound non sense haha )

 

I once attended a talk on soulmates. It's been many years, but I still remember something the speaker said--"that you will definitely meet your soulmate in this lifetime, but that doesn't mean you'll be together."

 

 

i just wonder how can we convince someone that he is missing something..? how can we make somneone step out of his walls?

Socrates was wise when he said: "Sometimes you put up walls not to keep people out, but see who cares enough to break them down."

To break them down you will need two things of near-unlimited quantity--love and patience. You will also have to continuously ask yourself if he's still worth it. As long as your answer is a resounding yes, keep on and keep the faith.

yung iba naman choose to pretend that they dont have one, naisip ko yung mga taong sobrang hirap mahalin, baka they need it most. pero panu if kakaisip ko and kakabigay ko naman, trying to break yung walls nia, maging tulad nia ko..? hays hirap . what if i need to break myself para mabuo sia..? well, im very much willing to.. pero panu if ayaw naman pala nia..? then that leave us both broken dba..?

That's the consequence of surrounding yourself with walls.

The thing with walls is that you can successfully keep others out but at the cost of being trapped. Yes, you spare yourself the pain, but you give up the chance for happiness.

In the end, one party is frustrated. And the other doesn't know what he's missing.

Back to back homers by Big Papi and Hanley!

Personally di ako selos as I try to give the girl as much space as I can.

But I don't mind if the girl is selosa, wag lang nagger at pathologically suspicious.

My type of guy,

 

1. Looks, hmmm nah, di ako tumitingin sa looks eh. kahit ano pa itsura nya, kahit mukha syang gusgusin ok lang. as long as meron sya mga qualities na gusto ko.

 

2. Smart, Brainy... mataas ang sense of humor. pero hindi mayabang. kahit alam nya na matalino sya, di nya pinagamalaki.

 

3. Gentle, gentleman, tipong pinagbubukas ako ng pinto ng sasakyan at kinukuha mga gamit ko pag madami ako dala..

 

4. Mahinahon magsalita

 

5. Masaya kasama. hindi boring.

 

6. Im not that geek pero mejo mga 60% meron, kaya gusto ko mejo geek din..

 

7. mahilig sa anime, sa movie, sa series..

 

8. madaldal na may sense. (madali ako maatract pag may sense kausap)

 

9. Malawak magisip.

 

10. Sinasabi ang nasa isip pero hindi pala tanong na paulit ulit.

 

11. Matured

 

12. LAST. Not 100% focus sakin.

 

 

Not 100% focussed sakin.. i dont care about the looks as long as he's smart, he's gentle. sorry gentleman pala.. down to earth, and mahilig makipagkwentuhan.. tipong we can discuss everything under the sun.. tipong sobrang malawak magisip.. madami alam..

long checklist ah.