Ryla of Daje

aww... I also rarely get gifts kaya I treasure them a lot. but hey, take care of yourself too ha? you can’t pour from an empty cup. you deserve good things too..

guy, do you think I deserve a new phone for myself this August for my birthday? as someone who’s super tipid, I’m so hesitant... you won't believe it but my phone is sooo old. It’s still working though, and it’s still good as new because I take care of my things. but lately I’ve been thinking of getting myself a gift for my birthday. but since I’m so matipid, I’m still having second thoughts. crazy right? I’m so fast to give help or gifts to other people, but for myself I barely buy anything unless I really, really need it. one thing I’m really proud of about myself is that I’ve improved this time, especially when it comes to handling money. so can you guys help me decide? do I deserve it or should I just not buy it muna? LOL

aww, my favorite food is pasta. pasta and steak is the best combination hay. I’m craving it right now. 😑

hi, Cainta Rizal lang

those who love to meddle in other people’s lives. they hear or see something, and they judge right away like their own lives are perfect. also, I don’t like the idea that just because someone is older, they automatically deserve respect. I believe I’ll only respect a person if they know how to respect me too.

cry.....

haha bump these days, just meeting kind people is enough to make my day.

“crazy!“

why choose when we can have both?

well, I’m not sure if it’s related to the thread, but my first big savings — I used it to build a house for myself. my dream house. at least out of everything that happened to me when I entered the industry and when I disappeared, there was one good thing that came from my savings. other than that, I’ve just been unlucky... so I came back to the industry to save up again.

I want to learn how to not trust people easily. I also want to learn how to stop giving so much to people who don’t appreciate it. and I want to learn how to not be soft-hearted sometimes. ???😮‍💨

aww.. 🥹

I’m a giver... A GIFT GIVER OR ANYTHING RELATED TO GIVING SOMETHING TO A PERSON WHO’S CLOSE TO ME. but as a giver person, I don’t expect anything back from what I gave to people. but when someone remembers me? damn, my soft-hearted heart can’t take it. I really cry. because I rarely receive gifts, I’m usually the one buying the things I want but more often I save money for myself because I want to save up and accomplish my plans. so when I receive a gift from other people, I appreciate it so much. every time I’m remembered, I’m happy. ❤️‍🩹

hay I finally found a thread like this here but yeah, I dreamed about Jungkook last night. damn, in my dream he kept asking questions about my personal life. he was apparently very comfortable and approachable with me. we were supposedly backstage before their concert started. sounds crazy but I didn’t want to wake up, I wish it was all real. lol sorry for posting this, I’m really a big fan of them. P.S. Jungkook is not my bias but I’m really attracted to him. LOL

I prefer this over anything that would make my life dramatic. LOL

some guys hurt women physically because they want power/control, learned violence at home, or don’t know how to handle anger — but none of those reasons make it okay. It’s always a choice, and it’s never the woman’s fault. If you’re in this kind of situation, it’s better to leave early. call someone who can help you. report him, have him jailed. you don’t deserve that kind of treatment. no woman in this world deserves to be treated like that.

If your relationship has more plot twists than a teleserye, it’s not romance. It’s a full-time job with no pay. LOL

love yourself first because the world will try to make you forget your worth. because drama will come and go, but you’ll be with yourself for the rest of your life. so make it a home you’re proud to live in.

what if I disappeared suddenly, would anyone look for me or remember me? just curious.

none of the above. I don’t want to be anything with either of them. I just want my life to be chill. I don’t want any drama because my life is already dramatic enough. LOL

uy, I remember that!! with Lindsay, right? I was still really new in the industry back then. hay, it's been a while. bigla ko tuloy namiss kasama si Lindsay dito sa industry.. btw, I appreciate the positive words.

It’s been a while since I posted on this thread, but yeah, lately I’ve been so grateful and happy for the close clients I have here, even the ones I’ve just met. I really appreciate their kindness.. despite the hate comments I read about me, I’m still happy that I’ve met and keep meeting more good clients.. I’m always grateful to them. yes, you can’t avoid having some clients who aren’t okay, scammers, kupal, or whatever, but that’s part of the job I got into. all I need to do is be more careful next time.. I just pray for them. I know I only have a few months left in the industry (hopefully it pushes through this time, with no going back to this job), so I’m not stressing myself out or letting myself get affected by things as much anymore. It is what it is. If you don’t like me, then don’t. there are still more people who like me and come back for my service. (oh well, I didn’t become one of the top therapists for nothing.. kidding!) people think they can ruin me or drag me down by spreading hate about me, but I just get more clients. and I’m happy... to those who are helping me save up faster and get out of the industry... to all the good clients, I know God will bless you even more because you treat therapists like me well. you guys know how to just be good to us... thank you to the clients here who are kind and come back to book me. and something I’m proud of, there are more of them now who are kind and appreciate a therapist like me.. you guys know who you are... and that’s what makes me smile now, and every time I’m on duty at the spa.... 🥹❤️‍🩹

when someone who is close to me judges me for working here without knowing my real story... it’s easy to judge, because you’re not in the situation I’m going through or in my position. If I had a choice, I’d choose not to work here.

who made this thread? bruh, given what’s going on in the world today, it’s fine to have only a few kids or just one, as long as you can support and raise them properly. these days, there are people with so many kids, but they’re on the streets, not going to school, getting into trouble, already have vices at a young age... bruh, I’d rather not have kids than be unstable and unable to give them a good life. that mindset is crazy lol I mean, you can have as many as you want, but make sure you can raise them right and properly, that you won’t neglect them..

love can wait, but the chances you get in life to make things right and secure your future only come around once. we’re aging without a future, so you need to prioritize what’s actually good for you.