lecher4u Posted March 18, 2006 Share Posted March 18, 2006 make sure lang na on your suicide note na clear ang name ko before doing it. hehehe Quote Link to comment
jodi sta.ana Posted March 20, 2006 Author Share Posted March 20, 2006 losing someone that means so much to you is more like dying, in some cases even worse... pero i read from a psychology book that a person moves on after 6 months to a year. pag lumampas non magpatingin ka na.... i've experienced losing someone i used to love, sobrang sakit. but i never thought of killing myself, siguro kasi deep inside umaasa kong balikan nya ko... but it never did happen. later on i thought to myself that i would be much better off without that stupid idiot.... now i found my so, and i am more than complete. but still the thought of losing my present love will not push me to k*ll myself. i know he would hate me for that. saka sabi nga e, kaya kinukuha sa iyo ang isang bagay e para mabigyan ka ng mas maganda diba? Quote Link to comment
_Steroid_ Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 psychologically speaking, ang taong may totoong suicidal tendencies ay hindi na nagmamakaawa, nambablack mail o nagbabanta. this attempts are usually practiced by those you expect the least.. para naman sa mga nagbabanta, i guess they better have to look deep into themselves na pkkisamahan lang sila dahil sa takot at awa ng partner nila hindi dahil sa gusto pa talaga sila makasama.. there'll always be someone out there who's worthy of everything... just sit and wait... Quote Link to comment
enticed Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 Dealing with emotional blackmail can be particularly distressing for someone who is very sympathetic to others. It pits you against your own conscience, because you are held responsible for someone else's feelings. The only apparent solution is to comply with the other person's wishes, although you become a victim of manipulation as a result. A person who employs such a tactic does so out of desperation (or convenience, because it is surprisingly effective on most people.) Guilt is a powerful form of persuasion. If you wish to avoid becoming a victim of such a tactic, try to put things in their proper perspective. Remember, we all make our own choices---even how we deal with unfavorable outcomes, such as a breakup. If a person chooses to take their own life, it was their choice---not yours. In all likelihood, most people who make such a threat never carry out their plan (unless they are susceptible to some form of mental or emotional disturbance.) It's a cry for help, and what they really need is someone who can make them get back on their feet. A support group, mainly family and friends, can do that for them. By involving yourself, more often than not, you create a form of dependence, and they may never recover from it. Allow them to move on with their life by making a clean break.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> my bf just did that a few days ago...i'm the type who is very sympathetic to the point i empatize...its not only distressing... he sucked out the life of me... its me who died not him. i'm still recovering, he doesn't know i felt this way and i can't get out... Quote Link to comment
averno Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 my bf just did that a few days ago...i'm the type who is very sympathetic to the point i empatize...its not only distressing... he sucked out the life of me... its me who died not him. i'm still recovering, he doesn't know i felt this way and i can't get out...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> it'll just take some time to get used too, but i know the feeling. Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 As far as I know, sanity dictates hanging on to life. So if somebody wants to commit suicide, that's pretty much insanity. If I don't know the person, normally, I'd say ... one less nitwit in the world. However, if its someone that I love, albeit I cannot stand that person anymore, I would feel bad, but not bad enough to stick it out with a nutcase. Quote Link to comment
doha_babe Posted March 27, 2006 Share Posted March 27, 2006 tinakot ka lang non. u know naman siguro ang capability ng partner mo, kung kaya ba nyang magpakamatay. kasi mostly mga may mental disturabance lang ang mag-isip ng ganon. Quote Link to comment
Boobie Monster Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 buy 2 gifts... 1 bottle of rexona... so she'l know... when she starts going loko... give her a bottle of baygon. Quote Link to comment
Direct Hit Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Don't get me wrong ha. Karamihan sa ganito mga lesbians Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Eh di magpakamatay sha. If i stayed with someone who uses emotional blackmail on me, para na rin akong nagpakamatay nun. Better him than me. I totally agree! Quote Link to comment
FastAndTheCurious Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 hmmm... nakakaburat nga ang mga ganon magpapakamatay. It happened to me once, sabi nya magpapakamatay na daw siya dahil nakikipagbreak na ako. So ako medyo guilt feeling pero, sabi ko olats ka talaga, cge nga magpakamatay ka nga. Nagalit sa akin, ayun break na kami. AHAHAHHA Quote Link to comment
goddessofperpetualdeliciousness Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 that person is just giving you a good reason to end the relationship. think of being imprisoned to emotional blackmail all your life. worse, you might end up killing yourself to get away later. :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
Guest ^arianne^ Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 A person who would have that frame of mind is insaneI can't be responsible for someone else's life the same way, he is not accountable in my quest for happiness. Ang hirap ng emotional blackmail. Pero pag ginawa niya iyon, dadalawin ko na lang siya in case Quote Link to comment
ysabelleflores Posted April 4, 2006 Share Posted April 4, 2006 sabi nung girl magpapakamatay daw sya eh.....kaya ayun binigay ko na lang bf ko........kaso hindi rin sya naging masaya hahahaaaha..... Quote Link to comment
babymaker Posted April 4, 2006 Share Posted April 4, 2006 http://www.prolife.org.ph/images/images/afraid.gif Quote Link to comment
Sin™ Posted April 9, 2006 Share Posted April 9, 2006 payong kaibigan lang from someone that's been there too... I've learned not to depend on someone for my happiness... look for happiness within yourself and have your own identity so when that person you love leaves you or the relationship ends you are not lost without them.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> ..mark of an enlightened soul. Takes time to get to this stage.i take it you've been though a lot? -Sin™ Quote Link to comment
tsunade Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 when you're young, you do stupid things ... like take your life when your lover leaves... so when I look at the scars on my wrist it reminds me everyday that there must be a reason why I made it. I continue to make mistakes until now... but then I am still alive... Quote Link to comment
transcience Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 i don't know if there is a thread like this already... i was just wondering... what would you do if the relationship is really not working out for you, and your SO freaks out when you tell him/her and tells you that he/she will take his life? sa awa naman ng Diyos e di pa nangyayari saken to, pero what if diba? kayo? nu gagawin nyo? tpos bigla kang mumultuhin no? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> one should've read the signs early on. don't mess with people with low self-esteem/immature because if you're caught up in one, that person will make your life a living hell. Quote Link to comment
willow_boy Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 It is never worth it to lose one's life just because of a love that one had lost. Even if the person is supposedly the best for you or is a so-called "soul mate". The only advice I have to people is to never let yourselves be so caught up in the moment of extreme depression over the loss of a loved one na you will decide to end your life. I can guarantee you that once you've dealt with your depression, sadness, and broken heart, that with time, this feeling will come to pass. Pag-lipas ng panahon, this suicidal feeling will be supplanted by other events in your life that will be of such joy to you. When that happens, you will look back at this particular time in your life when you felt that all was lost and meaningless. I assure you na magugulat ka sa magiging reaction mo and feeling mo towards yourself. Quote Link to comment
Inday Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Ang dami-daming ganyan, hindi naman tinutuloy. Nagpapapansin lang talaga. Quote Link to comment
yobag Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 if you are down, at the lowest point of your life, the only way to go is up. there is no reason to go six feet under the ground.... Quote Link to comment
blitzz127 Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 ung iba nga puro salita lng pero meron din naman n may suicidal tendency Quote Link to comment
nathalia Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 is the person worth dying for? kahunghangan yan move on Quote Link to comment
khulet Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 (edited) Its not worth it to commit suicide just because someone left you, I know, it really hurt…but then its not the end of the world, you still have to live your life… :hypocritesmiley: Edited May 5, 2006 by khulet Quote Link to comment
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