Exit Lines

[cho_clitz888]

i really dont like you, im so sorry!

i dont feel anything when im with you anymore.

[cho_clitz888]

there are just some things that should NOT be given out nicely!

there are some girls who simply just cant get it! Im a girl, but I dont feel any pity at all to the other girl when my guy broke up with her. Well, maybe im just furious with her. I just want my guy to tell her what he really felt about her, even if that means... breaking her heart in a very painful way he can ever think of! ive had been harrassed by her then... she did an emotional blackmail to him then... that made him choose her over me.. even though the guy two tymed us, I realized now as to WHY he did it... Gosh! she is one LUNATIC GIRL! and i wont even care if ill be the one to tell that HE DOESNT LOVE HER, VAMOOSE! GET OUT OF HIS LIFE FOREVER, GET LOST! at her face!

[strong_cock]

I discussed the proper ways to prepare your partner for the disappointment of an eventual breakup. This is probably the easiest part of the whole breakup process. The most difficult part is when it's time to actually deliver the message in the clearest possible way, and without sending mixed messages. The objective is to deliver the message so that you get it across while minimizing the pain, without backtracking. The following is an example of what not to say. The message here is unclear, and the dumpee is still not sure about where the relationship stands.

- "There's something on my mind that I've been wanting to say to you for a while. I still care for you a lot, in fact I love you very much, but not in the same way."

 

- "What are you saying?"

 

- "I'm not sure, but I think that we're having problems, and maybe we should take some time off. You see, I'm not sure how I feel, but maybe we shouldn't see each other any more."

 

- (She starts to cry) "What do you mean? I love you so much."

 

- "No, no, don't cry, ahh, it's not what I meant. Please don't cry, it's just some time off. Maybe we can get back together in a couple of months. I was only kidding, I wanted to see if you really cared for me."

 

kidding, I wanted to see if you really cared for me."

 

PREPARE THE SPEECH

 

It is crucially important to have the dumping speech prepared for many reasons. The most important reason is that you don't want to have to repeat yourself. It's hard enough the first time; you don't need to say it a second time. You cannot beat around the bush while you improvise what you should say. Once you've started the dumping speech, you have to finish it. Otherwise, you'll only be torturing her.

 

The perfect speech comes from much preparation and practice. Before you even open your mouth, you should know exactly what you are going to say, how you will say it, and why you're saying it. The following questions and guidelines should help you prepare for your big dumping speech.

 

ASK YOURSELF

 

Ask yourself the following questions, and pick the answer that best corresponds with how you feel. Put all the statements together, and you'll have the perfect speech.

 

1. NAME OF THE PERSON YOU ARE BREAKING UP WITH

 

2. HOW YOU THINK SHE WOULD FEEL ABOUT THE WHOLE BREAK UP?

 

 

I know this is hard for you.

 

I know this is terrible for you.

 

I know you won't take this well.

 

I really wanted to be with you forever.

 

I like you very much.

 

3. DESCRIPTION OF THE RELATIONSHIP

 

 

Our relationship is not working out.

 

Our relationship is on the rocks.

 

I am not happy in the relationship.

 

I feel like I need more space to myself.

 

The relationship is not what I hoped for.

 

Every time I see you, I get an uncontrollable rash.

 

4. WHERE DO YOU STAND?

 

 

I can't go on like this.

 

I cannot continue living this lie.

 

I can't continue with our relationship.

 

We can't be together anymore.

 

5. HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER?

 

 

I think you are a wonderful person.

 

You are a wonderful lover.

 

You are a wonderful human being.

 

You are a joy to be around.

 

You are a kind person.

 

6. WHAT YOU THINK SHE DESERVES INSTEAD OF YOURSELF?

 

 

You don't deserve a jerk like me.

 

You really deserve a better person than me.

 

You should be with a person that doesn't take you for granted.

 

You should not be with an ungrateful person such as myself.

 

7. HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN FEELING THIS WAY?

 

 

For a long time now.

 

For a few months now.

 

For a few weeks now.

 

As long as I can remember.

 

Only recently.

 

8. WHY DID YOU NOT BREAK UP EARLIER?

 

 

I thought we would be able to work things out.

 

I wanted to wait to see if things worked out.

 

I thought things would work out.

 

I thought things would get better.

 

I wanted to wait to see where things would go.

 

I thought that with time, things would get better.

 

9. YOUR FEELINGS OF REGRET?

 

 

I am such a jerk for doing this.

 

I am so sorry if you feel I betrayed you.

 

I am sorry that I hurt you like this.

 

10. WHAT SHE DESERVES?

 

 

You deserve to find someone else.

 

You deserve better than this.

 

You should meet new people.

 

You deserve a new boyfriend.

 

You deserve someone who will treat you better.

 

11. WHAT ARE YOUR FEELINGS TOWARDS YOURSELF?

 

 

I blame myself for this mess.

 

I never wanted to hurt you.

 

I'll never forgive myself for this.

 

I hate myself for doing this to you.

 

12. WHY ARE YOU LEAVING HER?

 

 

It just isn't working anymore.

 

It's time to move on.

 

We have to take different paths.

 

I just don't love you anymore (the toughest one to say).

 

There's someone else.

 

I just don't feel the magic anymore.

 

13. DO YOU BLAME YOURSELF?

 

 

It's not your fault.

 

It's all my fault.

 

None of this is your fault.

 

14. HER CONSOLATION.

 

 

I'll always cherish the time I spent with you.

 

I'll never forget you.

 

I am crazy for leaving you.

 

I'll forget you.

 

I'll never forget what a great person you are.

 

15. DESCRIBE THE CURRENT RELATIONSHIP

 

 

Over

 

Finished.

 

All behind us now.

 

16. STILL FRIENDS?

 

 

We can still be friends.

 

We can still see each other from time to time.

 

We will always remain friends.

 

We'll keep in touch.

 

It's best if we no longer see each other.

 

 

Now that you have more or less of an idea of what you can say, all you have to do is put the message together. Using the top line of each question, here's an example of a dumping speech.

 

"(NAME OF THE MTC MEMBER), I know this is going to be hard for you, but our relationship is not working out. I can't go on like this. I think you are a wonderful person, and you don't deserve a jerk like me. I've been feeling this way for a long time now. I did not want to tell you this earlier because I thought we would be able to work things out.

I am such a jerk for doing this to you. You deserve to find someone else. I really blame myself for all this mess, but it just isn't working anymore. It's not your fault. I'll always cherish the times we've spent together, but the relationship is over. I would still like to remain friends."

 

You see, breaking up can be a lot easier if you arrive prepared. Put your speech together, practice it, and don't back down. Good luck.

[hotchic_primrose]

this is common... it's not you..it's me... haha...

[Iya_kin]

you were right: i only used you for sex.

[Grimace]

trict parents ko...we are chinese!

[ayatolah]

OOUUCCHH! :cry: mukhang yung ibang line narinig ko nitong sept 20 ah...."dont love you anymore, nagsawa na ko" :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: tas nalaman ko me iba na pala kahit na nung kami pa :cry: :cry: :cry:

[Grimace]

mayroon ako dapat kameet sa starbucks noon....s**t nakita ko..tang'ina..ang pangeet...i ran inside the mall tapos tawag ng tawag sa cellphone ko.."ikaw ba yung nakaglasses?" sabi ko, sabi niya "oo" "ikaw ba yung nakabag" "oo ako nga" sabi niya...hayun...syet....pinaantay ko siya sa starbucks ng matagal,naawa din ako.....pinuntahan ko na lang....sabi ko di kami bagay...basta ayoko sa panget.....yuck!

[Grimace]

... for ending the relationship.

 

We've all heard the famous "It's not you, it's me." line

 

But do you know of any others? ... that either happened to you, someone you know, or you heard on the grape vine.

 

Perhaps you'd like to invent a new one? Be creative!

 

Let's hear 'em & have a good laugh ... or else get thoroughly, thoroughly outraged!

[Guest chunky]

"I need time for myself to think,"

 

"You deserve someone better," and

 

"We can still be friends," to which I replied "Maybe, someday," which concurrently became the title of the song I just finished writing.

[Pierce_A]

if you still want to be friends with your to be -ex, and not snatching out the possibility of the both of you ending up together again, this would probably be a good exit line.

 

"Don't be sad that it ended, be glad coz it happened" sabay hug, then kiss sa forehead ng girl while giving her a tight embrace.

 

most often than not, it will just result to silence, tears but you will peacefully go your seperate ways without compromising friendship and 2nd chance..

[servo101]

"Nakabuntis ako ng ibang babae eh...sorry po" - if you don't break up after this, I don't know what will, hahahaha!

[rise&shine]

di ko pa malimutan yung ex ko eh...ayaw ko namang lokohin ka lang so.....

[evil]

ayoko na kasing iprolong...

i`m not certain `bout my feelings anymore. minsan kasi i take you for granted and iniisip ko kung pano ko nagagawa yon....

kung talagang tayo... tayo ...........you don`t deserve me......please don`t insist... magulo talaga isip ko. i find it unfair for you to hope when i`m not certain of my feelings anymore....

im sorry... hurting you isn`t my intention.....don`t you think if i really love you, i wouldn`t hesitate to not let go of you....how certain are you that im the one? you`re closing your door to have someone better than i am....

 

at ang pinakamasakit sa lahat.....(drumroll!!!)

 

I don`t love you anymore

 

These are the exact lines that she told me. Biruin nyo, sa YM pa nakipagbreak...buhay nga naman...

[tamago]

not exactly a break-up line, but more of an exit line. & di sa akin to. a gf told me this when a friend of mine who was courting her said this when he visited her:

 

"excuse me, i have to go home & feed my dog."

 

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

 

natawa talaga ako when she told me this.

 

& my friend said this to her in less than a minute when he arrived at her place.