bettinasophia Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 Good riddance????? :upside: hehe oo nga... thats a great idea! kaya lang, when you're in that situation, mahirap to say it and actually mean it. Quote Link to comment
wildasschic Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 "go to hell." Quote Link to comment
wildasschic Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 ure not my loss.. i guess.. ang sarap sabihin kaya lang... after non, iiyak siguro ako.. Quote Link to comment
jawwell Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 My reaction depends on the length of the relationship. If a woman who I've been dating for a year or more said that to me, I'd try to find out the reason for "falling out of love". But if the relationship has existed for less than a year, I'd wish her a good life and thank her for being straighforward. BTW, I'm curious to know what makes some of you fall out of love. Is it the idea of a better bf/gf? Is it lack of attention from bf/gf? Is it unfullfilled intimacy? Please share specifics. Quote Link to comment
Adam_H Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 ok it seems that this is only for women...... but if it we turn things around...i'd say to her..... "OK. You are not a good f**k anyway. Get lost bitch!" Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 Depends.. if I still love him, I might cry but I wont say anything then just leave. But if he has given me so much hurt already before he call it quits... I'd say... "thank you and you spared me from the hassle of breaking up with you." I'm curious to know what makes some of you fall out of love. Is it the idea of a better bf/gf? Is it lack of attention from bf/gf? Is it unfullfilled intimacy? Please share specifics. I usually fall out of love whenever the guy is so insensitive and causes me so much pain instead of happiness (lack of time, womanizing, etc). I would usually feel numb first till I'd feel I don't love him anymore. Quote Link to comment
freakish Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 hehe oo nga... thats a great idea! kaya lang, when you're in that situation, mahirap to say it and actually mean it. You are right...it will just be a defense mechanism on my part if i will say that. Before anything else, I'll ask the "Is-there-someone-else" question. I will not accept a no-explanation break-up because there is always a reason for a break-up. If there is a third party, then it's best to part ways. I will not be on his way to pursue his happiness (gwabeh, familiar to ah <_< ). Quote Link to comment
muffdiver Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 "i know this will hurt you but im really sorry.. ive fallen out of love with you"... no further explanation. period. Same thing happened to me... the hardest part is the "WHY" yet the girl can't explain. "Fallen out of love with you" usually means there was a third party involved. I used the word "usually" here. In my case, it took me several months to find out that i was right, may third party nga. Oh yeah, sa case mo, you can find solace by considering that ITS DEFINITELY HIS LOSS not yours. Quote Link to comment
Guest FL Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 Let's just be friends Quote Link to comment
bettinasophia Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 ok it seems that this is only for women...... but if it we turn things around...i'd say to her..... "OK. You are not a good f**k anyway. Get lost bitch!" hahaha! i shouldve said that same thing :boo: Quote Link to comment
bettinasophia Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 Same thing happened to me... the hardest part is the "WHY" yet the girl can't explain. "Fallen out of love with you" usually means there was a third party involved. I used the word "usually" here. In my case, it took me several months to find out that i was right, may third party nga. Oh yeah, sa case mo, you can find solace by considering that ITS DEFINITELY HIS LOSS not yours. I asked din for an explanation, and he couldnt explain it. He knows why, im sure, pero he's just afraid to drop me the bomb. And yes, there is and was and will always be a third party. He has a wife pala that i didnt know about. Quote Link to comment
muffdiver Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 I asked din for an explanation, and he couldnt explain it. He knows why, im sure, pero he's just afraid to drop me the bomb. And yes, there is and was and will always be a third party. He has a wife pala that i didnt know about. Ouch! Sorry... Im sure the word "unfair" keeps on popping in your head. In my case naman, it took her 7 months to admit na may 3rd party nga, and they went steady last year pa pala. And 2 months ago, umuwi ako ng Pinas for my twice-yearly vacation and she kept on texting me. Her latest text was just last night. Point is, its easy for them to say "im falling out of love, thats it, bye-bye" pero mahirap pangatawanan. Sila ang mas masasaktan. Believe me, in the end, mas nagiging masaya at maligaya pa ang iniiwanan. bettinasophia, he aint worth your tears. Darating din si Mr. Right... Quote Link to comment
munchkins and donuts Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 ^^they always say that for consolation...... Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 ayoko na sa yo.. hindi ka naman pala masarap. seriously though, i usually say "let's give each other some space muna.. let us both think what we really want." kung courting stage pa lang.. hindi ako nambabasted eh.. if he's not my type, I won't even give him a chance to court me to spare me from the hassle of telling him that I don't like him (para hindi na umasa di ba). Quote Link to comment
bettinasophia Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 Ouch! Sorry... Im sure the word "unfair" keeps on popping in your head. In my case naman, it took her 7 months to admit na may 3rd party nga, and they went steady last year pa pala. And 2 months ago, umuwi ako ng Pinas for my twice-yearly vacation and she kept on texting me. Her latest text was just last night. Point is, its easy for them to say "im falling out of love, thats it, bye-bye" pero mahirap pangatawanan. Sila ang mas masasaktan. Believe me, in the end, mas nagiging masaya at maligaya pa ang iniiwanan. bettinasophia, he aint worth your tears. Darating din si Mr. Right... actually, im not crying anymore. im much happier now. just that there are times when you cant help but wonder... Quote Link to comment
freakish Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 actually, im not crying anymore. im much happier now. just that there are times when you cant help but wonder... wondering will always be there...you might even play the "what-if" game. Eventually you'll think about it less and you can just learn from it. Quote Link to comment
itikbitik Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 girl: and you will forget me right? man: yeah, everyday . . . everyday Quote Link to comment
HanSolo Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 I asked din for an explanation, and he couldnt explain it. He knows why, im sure, pero he's just afraid to drop me the bomb. And yes, there is and was and will always be a third party. He has a wife pala that i didnt know about. bettinasophia, you wonder about? Quote Link to comment
malisyus_mischief Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 hindi lang sya ang lalaki dito sa mundo. Maybe we were not really meant to be for each other... TO HELL WITH THAT KIND OF GUY! Quote Link to comment
malisyus_mischief Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Hmmm... i would just say na "ayaw ko na sayo" that what i am really feeling isn't really love. That i need time and space to think things over... that (1) when i'm still studying... i need to concentrate on my studies... (2) when i graduated... that career is my priority.... Quote Link to comment
wildasschic Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 "It`s not you, it`s me.." [haha.. famous line ko, I think I`ve used that to 4guys.. ] effective naman Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Straight to the point. "I can't be with you anymore." Quote Link to comment
bettinasophia Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 wondering will always be there...you might even play the "what-if" game. Eventually you'll think about it less and you can just learn from it. very well said. Quote Link to comment
bettinasophia Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 bettinasophia, you wonder about? a lot of things, actually.. how he is doing, if he's thinking about me, if he misses me.. stuff like that na you really have to get off your mind. cant help but wonder why things have to be such, why you're left behind, what went wrong, what you said or did or didnt say or didnt do that made him lose his feelings... even yung silly things like "is it my thighs or my ass or smile that he didnt like?" its hard to understand things that do not have an explanation.. makes you wonder, creates some sort of a need to know the reason. Quote Link to comment
munchkins and donuts Posted September 11, 2004 Share Posted September 11, 2004 "It`s not you, it`s me.." [haha.. famous line ko, I think I`ve used that to 4guys.. ] effective naman guys use this more often... Quote Link to comment
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