bleuxrose Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 staying away? mahirap. but i guess, the real best way is to cut the communication with him... Quote Link to comment
mwah Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 staying away? mahirap. but i guess, the real best way is to cut the communication with him... I have to agree with this. Cut the thread that binds you. Close the door gently and never take a peek until you're ready. Quote Link to comment
Aquaenigma Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 ignore..don't communicatebe sensitive to your conscience there be a lot of times that temptation lures you to commit sinbut once you thought of the possible consequences..specially the bads ones of karma going back at you..one way of another..you'll have second thoughts and doubts in doing the deedyou'' feel a little ashamed of yourselfits just mind over matterand a lot of self controlcould be real hard, sad and lonely processsbut in the end, you know its worth itcoz nothing beats a having peace of mind and good sense of self-worth(for me if you value yourself, you wont settle to be just an option..you wont give other people reasons to mock or ruined you) Quote Link to comment
Mobius Stripper Posted November 12, 2007 Share Posted November 12, 2007 (edited) Play it again, Billy ... In every heart there is a room A sanctuary safe and strong To heal the wounds from lovers past Until a new one comes along I spoke to you in cautious tones You answered me with no pretense And still I feel I said too much My silence is my self defense And every time I've held a rose It seems I only felt the thorns And so it goes, and so it goes And so will you soon I suppose But if my silence made you leave Then that would be my worst mistake So I will share this room with you And you can have this heart to break And this is why my eyes are closed It's just as well for all I've seen And so it goes, and so it goes And you're the only one who knows So I would choose to be with you That's if the choice were mine to make But you can make decisions too And you can have this heart to break And so it goes, and so it goes And you're the only one who knows. Edited November 12, 2007 by Mobius Stripper Quote Link to comment
yellowmoon Posted November 12, 2007 Share Posted November 12, 2007 hmmm.. honestly... at first i dont! -- i wanted to wallow on that sad experience until i get to the point where there is nothing i wanted more... but to hate him.After which, i cut off all the communications. Quote Link to comment
Sexy Elecktra Posted November 12, 2007 Share Posted November 12, 2007 same here!!!! Quote Link to comment
alteclansing Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Of course cutting all communications is key. Talking to the one that hurt you the most is like rubbing salt on an already open wound. Sabi nila you love a person not because they are perfect, its their imperfections that endear them to you. In my case pag hiwalay na I focus so much to the point of exaggerating yung imperfections nya until I finally convince myself na I deserve better. Dont mistake this for bad mouthing the person to others ha, that would only make you look bitter. It is better to keep this to yourself parang its a way to psyche yourself out of it. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH You remind yourself of the vow you made...you apologize for all the mistakes you've commited.you set your other woman free...you go back to the family man you are supposed to be...and you make sure you never again forget the vow you made. Quote Link to comment
lotus08 Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 You remind yourself of the vow you made...you apologize for all the mistakes you've commited.you set your other woman free...you go back to the family man you are supposed to be...and you make sure you never again forget the vow you made. yes i will...........whaa.aaa.. ang sakit... Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 yes i will...........whaa.aaa.. ang sakit... very good... you know ,no pain can ever amount to the pain of remorse..remorse for not doing what we know is right...it haunts you.and we don't want that, do we? good luck :flowers: Quote Link to comment
Megan Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Hmmm.if you ask me?I think it's depend with the situations.I'm going to leave him alone and go to another places like USA without giving any contact or address.SO that I can move on with what I felt from him & forget the past.I know this is hard but If you think "this is the right way"then why not? Quote Link to comment
Tank Girl Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 just ignore calls and text messages..im not used to being clinged on too much ,that's why i dont like commitments. Quote Link to comment
DonImus Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 I agree there really is no other way but to cut all communications. Harder if you share friends. No matter how cruel it may seem being totally out of reach is the best way to make a clean break. We tried to be friends but we keep falling back into the same routine! It f#&king made it worse for the both of us in the end!!! Quote Link to comment
dixiechiq Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 I smoked and pissed it all away.I even had 8 tequilla bottles down to piss it off and 20 packs of smokes in 2 days.After that, i was so tired, i couldn't even think about the next shot / stick. and i couldn't even think about him. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 8 tequilla bottles? are you sure...?are you talking about the miniature bottles? Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Just let go and move on and never look back Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Just let go and move on and never look back you know you can't just do that...except ofcourse if you're an iceman...howell... Quote Link to comment
SinisterPurpose Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Why would you stay away???? if you love them so much???? "Oxymoronish"!!!! I don't get it??? "Much" is a weighty word in my book. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 8 tequilla bottles? are you sure...?are you talking about the miniature bottles? di kaya cirrhotic na liver nya? you know you can't just do that...except ofcourse if you're an iceman...howell... huh? i think one can....it's just in the rate at which it is done...and will be done....where we can differ. It's all in the state of mind. Much like any goal, it's just a matter of psyching up your brain to do so. Quote Link to comment
Tank Boy Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 it is a hard thing to do especially when you're deeply in love. there were times that for unknown reasons, im totally ignored so it would just strike me and ask what's going on.... and then will have this idea of why not just stay away from her for a little while, give her some space.... but it is easier said than done kasi hindi rin kaya tiisin na hindi kausapin.... Quote Link to comment
Sexy Elecktra Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 have a aconviction of letting him go.. its hard but its the ryt thing 2 do.. Quote Link to comment
vianne Posted November 14, 2007 Share Posted November 14, 2007 uhmm... I'll start with changing my phone number, that way I won't be tempted to text him Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted November 14, 2007 Share Posted November 14, 2007 hehe...ako i simply erase the number.... Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 14, 2007 Share Posted November 14, 2007 hehe...ako i simply erase the number.... uh huh yeah and if you really don't care...to care...kahit di mo erase number! que se joda! Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted November 14, 2007 Share Posted November 14, 2007 you know you can't just do that...except ofcourse if you're an iceman...howell... If you have the will power and discipline, sure you can... Quote Link to comment
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