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why would you stay away from your love one? labo...

but if for some reason kelangan tlga... pakamatay ka... hehe

i mean... for me ha... i know mababaw na idea but

it is better to die than stay away from the one you love  :boo:  :evil:

 

Pakamatay? That's creative. remember the saying girl "Death might be peaceful, but dying is sure a bitch." We'll if you really love somebody but have to stay away for a reason, then I'm sure whatever the reason is it has to be a damn good one. That's why when I do fall in love I don't give 100% of my heart. I always leave a couple of % for myself. Imagine my case,

 

I see her and talk to her 5 days a week. She know my interest in her and she doesn't stop me. Problem is she's getting married n.

 

After a couple of months I realized that its not that I have to stay away from her, rather be with her for the remaining time b4 getting married and try to give her the best time of her life. Now that's true love. Unconditional. ciao

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Same case with Lian.

 

It is very difficult to leave someone who turns to be more valuable than the one you currently have. And the hardest part is choosing what’s best for her even if it means causing your own sorrow.

 

I love her so much that even if haven’t seen her for a long time, I still think of her and wishing that I could bring back the time where I should have stayed with her. I missed her so much. :(

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Lie to yourself, tell yourself that it's his/her loss kahit na ikaw yung lugi. :lol: Yun na lang ginagawa ko ngayon, I tell myself I'll eventually find someone better or better suited for me. Problema lang the grass is always greener on the other side, kahit sino makasama mo meron things na maaalala mo na mas gusto mong ginagawa nung isa. <_< Just my 2 cents.

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This happened to me with the last girl I dated before I met my wife. Religion was the issue. To begin with, we already had different faiths when we met; she was Protestant while I was (still am) a Catholic. Pero ok lang iyon. Things were fine for a couple of years. Needless to say, we had a lot of fun.

 

Then came a day when one of her friends took her to a bible institute. The group was what we would call fundamentalist Christians. From then on, things changed slowly but surely. When before, religion wasn't an issue. Now it was. Big time. She started rejecting the tenets of my faith and it became a frequent topic and source of argument whenever we were together.

 

In short, I reached a point na even though I loved her and would have loved to marry her, I decided to just disappear from her life. It was very difficult and I was depressed and couldn't sleep for months pero I simply had to do it. I still feel a tinge of sadness whenever I remember the relationship because of the way it had to end. :cry: (Mayroon bang may Kleenex diyan?)

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^^ awwww....

 

I took mine to the extreme to forget my ex-fiancee since moving to 3 different states still didn't work...I got married to somebody else I only knew for less than a month hoping to forget him. Extreme Rebound relationship! Even after having 2 kids and 5 years of marriage, my ex-fiancee was still in my heart. Didn't help that I was married to an a$$hole.

 

When my ex-fiancee found out that I was legally separated and waiting for my divorce, he called me up and wanted to start off where we left off. He flew to Hawaii from Cali to meet but on the last minute, I realized that it's not going to work out....too many things have changed and happened and I worked so hard to forget him...I just didn't want to be in that circle anymore. And I started realizing that it's better na hindi na lang ibalik ang nakaraan. So I called him up, explained my feelings, and cancelled. With all the things that's happened in our respective lives, I don't think we can ever overlook them and just start where we left off.

 

I must have intimacy and commitment issue kasi with my hubby now, I cancelled our wedding the night before. I saw our marriage as something that might ruin his life because of our age difference.

I figured I'll be the better person and let him go inspite of our love kasi mas nakakatanda ako. Ako na lang ang lalayo para hindi masira ang buhay niya dahil nga package deal na ako with 2 toddlers in tow. So what was supposed to be our happiest day, I broke up with him instead. But after a couple of days, he managed to kidnapped me and marry me at the nearest courthouse. He is the only one that's ever worked so relentlessly to break down the wall I've built around my heart. So in the end, I couldn't stay away from him.

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