Why Sex Work Is Integral To Society

[Blueberry23]

Monogamy, blue pill Filipino style goes like this:

 

Husband is expected to be monogamous.

But monogamy is monotony.

So some Filipino husbands are guilt free when in the yearning for some different pussies, they patronize sex workers, with a proper capped budget, he is happy, wife is happy. Monogamy is achieved.

But that's still cheating. A full monogamous relationship means you stick with one partner to the end.

[popmachine]

 

I understand the feeling of wanting to escape pain, suffering, and responsibility even if it's just for an hour or two.

 

I also believe it's more progressive to allow people to conduct sex work in a lawful, respectable, and socially acceptable manner.

 

Sex work is difficult work. The argument that people selling their bodies is moot, as everyone who exchanges labor for money (and that is literally every human being) is doing the same thing.

 

Yes. And the nature of the profession is a very very constructive one actually. Worker gets her much needed finances and maybe sometimes pleasure too. And client gets his release and gets to help someone in need as well. As long as the workers are not coerced / kidnapped and forced to do it and as long as they are not minors then it should be fine. Also helps that if it is legalized, the state would be able to impose sanitary and health requirements that would not just prevent disease but set higher standards actually.

[babymaker]

But that's still cheating. A full monogamous relationship means you stick with one partner to the end.

 

Are you a teenager to be so naive that "full monogamy" really exists?

 

Genetic statistics show the global population as the result of 1 man impregnating 5 women... "full monogamy" is an idealistic fantasy brought about by some religions... reality is a totally different matter.

[Kritpa]

Redpill Bomb:

 

It is vital.

 

For the very reason of our reptilian brains.

 

Ego, id, superego. All that s@%t. Tama si freud. Everything is sexual. Everything is alo political, Thomas Mann. Then sexual=political.

 

Although it is immaterial kung anong side itatake mo sa issue na ito kasi ang tao ay tao lang. kung gusto gawin, gagawin.

Kung pinilit ang sarili, masisiraan ng bait. Masiraan ng bait= less alaga sa trabaho at pmilya, magsisimula ng gulo sa buhay, magiging pabaya etc.

 

Ang lalaki di dinesign ng mundo para maging monogamous. Kung relihyoso ka, then maniniwala ka sa kabaliktaran nito.

Ang babae rin di dinesign na maging monogamous. Hypergamous sila. Mahirap intindihin pero meron talagang naniniwala na monogamous dapat ang lahat ng magasawa kunyari. Gusto ko rin sana mangyari yun, buong-puso kong gusto yun.

 

SUBALIT

 

HINDI GANYAN ANG MUNDO EH.

 

Okay lang kung may negative view ang tao sa sexwork. Ang di nila nakikita ay ito ang paraan pano maregulate ang inner animal ng mga tao. Lalaki man o babae. Women like sex too. Dont forget. Never forget. And like men, gagawa sila ng paraan to get it. Kahit na kasal kayo. Loyalty only exists between men (in my convinced opinion).

 

Pansinin mo rin kung kumausap ka ng mga theras. Bakit nilang ayaw lisanin ang trabahong yan kung sa tingin nila immoral yan?

 

It is not irresponsible to want sex. Its human, kahit saan man yung source of the sex. Kahit na anong rationalization gusto mo gawin sa sarili mo. Kusang katawan mo na ang magpapahiwatig na gusto nito ng laman. Uuwi ka sa bahay para tumikim ng putahe, pero magsasawa ka rin kung adobo ulam mo araw araw.

 

What is responsible is that you protect your health, finances, and sanity. Mas lalo na kung may pamilya ka. Kayo na bahala doon.

[big_sean]

Redpill Bomb:

 

It is vital.

 

For the very reason of our reptilian brains.

 

Ego, id, superego. All that s@%t. Tama si freud. Everything is sexual. Everything is alo political, Thomas Mann. Then sexual=political.

 

Although it is immaterial kung anong side itatake mo sa issue na ito kasi ang tao ay tao lang. kung gusto gawin, gagawin.

Kung pinilit ang sarili, masisiraan ng bait. Masiraan ng bait= less alaga sa trabaho at pmilya, magsisimula ng gulo sa buhay, magiging pabaya etc.

 

Ang lalaki di dinesign ng mundo para maging monogamous. Kung relihyoso ka, then maniniwala ka sa kabaliktaran nito.

Ang babae rin di dinesign na maging monogamous. Hypergamous sila. Mahirap intindihin pero meron talagang naniniwala na monogamous dapat ang lahat ng magasawa kunyari. Gusto ko rin sana mangyari yun, buong-puso kong gusto yun.

 

SUBALIT

 

HINDI GANYAN ANG MUNDO EH.

 

Okay lang kung may negative view ang tao sa sexwork. Ang di nila nakikita ay ito ang paraan pano maregulate ang inner animal ng mga tao. Lalaki man o babae. Women like sex too. Dont forget. Never forget. And like men, gagawa sila ng paraan to get it. Kahit na kasal kayo. Loyalty only exists between men (in my convinced opinion).

 

Pansinin mo rin kung kumausap ka ng mga theras. Bakit nilang ayaw lisanin ang trabahong yan kung sa tingin nila immoral yan?

 

It is not irresponsible to want sex. Its human, kahit saan man yung source of the sex. Kahit na anong rationalization gusto mo gawin sa sarili mo. Kusang katawan mo na ang magpapahiwatig na gusto nito ng laman. Uuwi ka sa bahay para tumikim ng putahe, pero magsasawa ka rin kung adobo ulam mo araw araw.

 

What is responsible is that you protect your health, finances, and sanity. Mas lalo na kung may pamilya ka. Kayo na bahala doon.

 

Well put together... and spoken from deep experience.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Mayor Joy seems to be intent on making QC less joyful :-) Closures and raids incoming

[Blueberry23]

Are you a teenager to be so naive that "full monogamy" really exists?

 

Genetic statistics show the global population as the result of 1 man impregnating 5 women... "full monogamy" is an idealistic fantasy brought about by some religions... reality is a totally different matter.

Maybe I should've elaborated more on my original reply...

 

I'm not a teenager. And I'm a polyamorous person so you and I probably have very different views on what can be called as cheating on your partner.

 

I'm not a saint. I've cheated on a recent ex twice by not telling her that I'm getting a psp/walker for a breath of fresh air. But since I value my honesty, I did eventually confess up and the following times after I properly told her that I'm going to have sex with a different girl.

 

See, my view of cheating on a partner can also go to as simple having sex behind their backs. Why? Because they don't have knowledge or consent of what you're about to do.

 

Anyways, I'm going kinda to off topic on this but if you want to talk more about it I wouldn't mind exchanging some PMs about it.

 

 

On an on topic note, it's not just that we men need this boost from sex workers, it's also part that a bulk of these girls working in spas, MPs or as PSPs turn to sex work as a faster way to get cash either because they don't want to regular jobs or they don't have skills/can't find jobs that need their simple skills. Sex work gives them a risky but fast way of earning money (tho there are also a lot of PSPs who struggle because they don't have a constant stream of clients).

[chessboxin]

Ang masasabi ko talaga, for us it's a band aid remedy. Think of painkillers or anti histamines. It will help you get through some terrible nights but it doesn't solve any of the underlying issues. If you're lonely or you are having problems sa work or sa personal life, take small steps in resolving them pa rin. I think I was depressed for more or less 5 years and if only I could meet all the people who helped me during those 5 years right now, I'd gladly give them a small token as an appreciation, lalo na yung mga hindi mabilang sakin dati kasi I didnt have much back then.

 

Parang yung Inception na movie yan, you always have to remember that it's not real and it's just a dream. At some point, sure yan your vision will be blurred and you'll wonder if you're genuinely friends. Tapos you'll fall in love and keep on coming back at the expense of your family, finance, time and health. It's the best way to put it, a dream. At any time, you have in your company a girl of your dreams who you dont even have to court, be rejected or have problems with. It's as if you can do no wrong.

 

At any time when you feel you're crossing the line, always remind yourself, okay you have already given her 20k in tips and you feel like you're friends. Pag nangalinagan ka one day ng 2k, will she even lend you 2k? I can tell you straight up that most wont. If ever friends kayo, usually secondary lang ang friendship, client ka pa rin first and foremost.

[Hellmarch]

Fck all those k*ll joy who plan to shut down spa's instead of focusing on other issues of the government . Or atleast providing a better paying job than close out spas fck them all

 

Better get the number of your theras and work your way into helping them some theras I know are leaving the industry and just settling on being PSP or what not

 

Darn all those who want to k*ll sex work they won't be able to help the theras anyway

[Kritpa]

The government doesnt care about its people. Simple as that. Unfortunate as it is, at least may diskarte mga taumbayan. Im sure we can all appreciate that. Kung umasa ka sa solusyon ng gobyerno, umaasa ka sa wala.

[DRose312]

Sex is integral to society period! It’s a biological imperative which will be sought out with or without establishments to cater to this need for men and women. But like everything in a capitalist society it has been monetized, commercialized, and marketed. No need to over think sex. People want it and seek it out. And don’t get it twisted, we “pay” for sex in some way, shape or form. I just find it more efficient and convenient to pay for it up front without games. My time is more valuable than what I spend on a professional. Go ahead and romance a girl to bed her if that’s what you want to do but remember time is money. Although sex is not purely transactional depending on the context, pay to play is a convenient way to fulfill one’s carnal desires. Love is a wholly different animal, a much more expensive beast to feed. The urge to f#&k has been there since time immemorial. The only thing that morphs his how that need is satisfied.

[neville]

I see the mostly male POV about paying for sex or the need for side dishes.

 

I sometimes wonder if it's okay if the womenfolk do it (pay for sex), or if the male half of a relationship will look the other way if the woman spends money for sex. The reasons she will use will be similar to what the men tapped. I say so because plenty of women choose to look the other way even if they know that their spouses have side dishes.

 

Most of the establishments cater to men. There are a few that cater to women.

 

What's your take on the gender flipside, gentlemen?

Edited October 28, 2019 by neville

[Guest Al_Panchito]

I see the mostly male POV about paying for sex or the need for side dishes.

 

I sometimes wonder if it's okay if the womenfolk do it (pay for sex), or if the male half of a relationship will look the other way if the woman spends money for sex. The reasons she will use will be similar to what the men tapped. I say so because plenty of women choose to look the other way even if they know that their spouses have side dishes.

 

Most of the establishments cater to men. There are a few that cater to women.

 

What's your take on the gender flipside, gentlemen?

actually, yung mga nagccater for women, mostly cater for gays

 

so not a chance, manghahawa lang ng hiv yung mga male thera na kumakantot ng pwet ng mga bakla

[neville]

actually, yung mga nagccater for women, mostly cater for gays

 

so not a chance, manghahawa lang ng hiv yung mga male thera na kumakantot ng pwet ng mga bakla

 

Pero prone to STD and HIV rin ang female sex workers given the multiple partners.

 

Ano Ang pinagkaiba nila maliban sa gender? Confirmed mo ba na ang spakol for women ay may gay patrons?

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Practice safe sex; and use science:

 

https://www.avert.org/hiv-transmission-prevention/prep

 

Sex work is integral insofar as the biological imperative pushes men to have needs beyond what monogamy can provide. still that is not to say they such is for everyone