Always Follow Your Heart ( Daw. )

[Sitti of TVS]

what's the point of staying if you are no longer happy..?

[ChinitoSan]

what's the point of staying if you are no longer happy..?

 

True. Years is just a number. Hindi naman contest ng patagalan ang relasyon. Mas maganda kung pareho kayo masaya.

[Dingdong2000]

Happiness is often subjective. Sometimes, it is caused by expectations that are unmet, and relationships ultimately go sour and foul up as a result. Minsan, yung isang bagay o Tao na nagpapahirap sa atin ay daan tungo sa kabanalan o kaya ay adya para sa ibang bagay o paraan na Ang tutunguhan ay di pa malinaw sa ngayon.

 

For one to say "follow your heart" is easy, pero exercise thought and caution lagi. Ang ulo o utak natin ay natural na nasa ibabaw ng ating puso.

 

Kasama ng pagmamahal ang pang-unawa, pagpapatawad at makailang ulit na sumubok pa muli hanggang di na kaya talaga.

 

Point of view ko Lang po, batay sa pait na naranas ko din sa aking relasyon.

[Kingkongphils]

There is no right or wrong answer, the only important thing is when you pick you should have no regrets. There really is no heart and mind, its just you weighing things.lets say sa industry nyo, you have this client na masugid na manliligaw, at may utility man ka sa spa mo na masugid dn naanliligaw, both are equally gwapo. So which would you choose. You can either be happy trying to forget who you are or pretending but mas maganda buhay mo financially or you can be yourself pro hindi ganun ka okey buhay mo financially. Life is always like that, you cant have everything. But look at this though, hindi lahat ng may pera at happy family, in the same way na hindi lahat ng mahirap ay miserable ang buhay. I my opinion un lang naman ang laban ng utak at puso. I mean if you mean choosing between a pangit na hindi babaero over a gwapo na babaero e ano utak at puso dun, kasi pag yamaman c pangit e who is to stop him na mambabae at c pogi kpg tumaba mapanot e wala ng chicks yan. Kunh hindi financial pinag uusapan natin dito e easy lang ang decisison dyn go with what makes you happy.

[toruk makto]

what about if you are in a maybe 5-7 years relationship, then lets just say your 'love' just fades away.. you met someone new, she/he makes you so happy.. what will you do..? will you end your 5-7 years relationship just to be happy with your 'new found' happiness, sayangin yung 5-7 years.. 'follow your heart' . or you're gonna follow what you think is right.. tama nga ba na icontinue yung 5-7 years for the sake of security, dahil dun mas 'sure' ka, mas 'safe' ka, even if you are not happy na.. kahit may emptiness na... is it right to stay in a relationship if may nagpapasaya na sayong iba..?

 

what is right and what is wrong..?

 

i think, it's better to end the 5-7 relationship kasi parang selfishness naman na if hindi ko na pala mahal yung tao, what if dumating yung taong magmamahal sa kanya tapos nandun ako eh di ko naman na sia mahal diba..? bat ko ikukulong yung tao sa illusion that i still love him if in reality i dont na..? masasaktan ko sia, oo. pero bat mas patatagalin ko pa diba..? hmmmmmmmmmmm....

 

a good example would be me. ive been married even before most of you were born so i know what im talking about. i stayed until my youngest turned 18. now looking back, we should have separated earlier so both of us would have a good chance to try again with another partner. alas time as past us by......

[Sitti of TVS]

and why do some people hold back, i mean may mga tao they love someone pero they choose not to show it... they just try to suppress it... why are they doing it..?

[glut_func]

^dahil mahirap mag assume and they can't afford to get hurt again.

 

More often than not, LOVE is a bullet to the brain.

Edited April 8, 2016 by glut_func

[MrChase]

and why do some people hold back, i mean may mga tao they love someone pero they choose not to show it... they just try to suppress it... why are they doing it..?

 

Well, sometimes you can call it the ego, or you can call it naninigurado. For some, you wouldn't really want to show your hand until you're pretty sure you've got the winning one, right?

[masterlou]

and why do some people hold back, i mean may mga tao they love someone pero they choose not to show it... they just try to suppress it... why are they doing it..?

For me people hold back they true feelings coz they think, if they will show the real feelings it will cause problem like bka lumayo yung taong minamahal nya pag nalaman na ganun ang na feel nya...

[The Heat]

Imho, importante ang love. But it will never be enough!

[Simikiel]

Always follow your heart if you want to be truly happy; but it doesn't mean that you have to follow it blindly. You must take into consideration the circumstances surrounding your relationship, and then even if there are some complications, you must ask yourself if you can live with those complications and be happy. If you can be happy even with the unfortunate things that comes from having a relationship with a certain someone, then go for it.

[Duel of Fate]

Follow your heart... but always remember to love urself din. Para if u need to protect urself from any pain, then sundin mo ang puso mo na mahal mo rin sarili mo.

[Schindler]

and why do some people hold back, i mean may mga tao they love someone pero they choose not to show it... they just try to suppress it... why are they doing it..?

 

 

perhaps.. its better to hold back dahil magiging super gulo kapag pinakita nila ang feelings nila..

 

 

to prevent world war 3 na rin? hehe

[JoshuaJacob]

Always follow your heart AFTER doing repeated Rationale Thinking.

[p-colossus]

I am a believer of this. When I follow my heart, I become truly, genuinely happy. Though there are some things that I keep in mind before pursuing what it is that my heart wants.

 

Years ago, I made the mistake of following my heart at the expense of hurting other people. And to this day, it still gives me some guilt. I chose to be selfish instead of thinking of those who loved and cared for me. Those are moments I can never get back.

 

I did learn though. I learned to follow my heart, but I make sure there are no casualties. I make sure that I fight for what I want and for what I believe is right, but at the same time I learned to not inflict wounds that are unwarranted. So far it has worked well for me and for those around me.