How Important Is The Sexual History Of Your Partner?

[Cap™]

on the contrary though, FDL, I'd like to point out that you've mentioned two different aspects: trust and honesty.

 

If we're going to lean heavily on matters of trust between both parties, we could say that history shouldn't matter, as long as both parties have been honest with putting on full disclosure about the said matter.

[FleurDeLune]

on the contrary though, FDL, I'd like to point out that you've mentioned two different aspects: trust and honesty.

 

If we're going to lean heavily on matters of trust between both parties, we could say that history shouldn't matter, as long as both parties have been honest with putting on full disclosure about the said matter.

Like I said earlier, different strokes for different folks/ people in which conviction or belief also matters. Edited January 8, 2016 by FleurDeLune

[BennyChang]

Hindi natin masasabi ang tendency ng babae on her history. Classmate ko nun college, may pagka sex maniac kahit sino kumaladkad sumasama. Pero fast forward 7yrs after, ang tino tino pati asawa formal din. I wonder if he knows her past. Pero sabi nga lahat nagbabago. Kailangan lang mahal mo isang tao para matanggap mo.

[j]

By learning your partner's past you can then see tendencies, weaknesses and strengths that you can work on or help you decide whether to hit it or pass.

Ignoring such facts is a recipe for trouble later on. If you cannot accept your partner's past, then it would be best to let them be and not get emotionally involved.

 

The most important reason is to protect your health. Philippines is currently the country with the highest H.I.V. infection rate. Remember, people with H.I.V. don't always look sick, most don't even know they have it until several months have passed. Condoms are no guarantee that you are protected.

 

Be wise and put the ignorance on hold.

that's very pragmatic!

good yan!

[j]

Like I said earlier, different strokes for different folks/ people in which conviction or belief also matters.

 

on the contrary though, FDL, I'd like to point out that you've mentioned two different aspects: trust and honesty.

 

If we're going to lean heavily on matters of trust between both parties, we could say that history shouldn't matter, as long as both parties have been honest with putting on full disclosure about the said matter.

 

parang chicken or the egg yan?

 

do you have to show honesty to earn trust? or do you trust that the other person is honest?

[Spades]

personally I don't care for the past... the past is history... yung present at future ang madetermine kung saan tutungo yung relationship nyo... medyo malayong analogy.... si jackie chan ay isang porn star bago sumikat... ngayon dahil ba alam mo yun e nde mo na maappreciate yung later movies nya?

 

@topic... most of the post e about sa sexual intensity o dami nang partners... how about kung me scandal?

 

nung college days ko... meron sikat na scandal sa school namin.... para dun sa lalaki involve ayos dahil sumikat sya sa school at parang naging the man's man sya.... kaso dun sa girl... kinailangan syang umuwi nang provice at nag pagbago nang gupit nang buhok dahil everytime na makakita sa kanya.... yung scandal ang laging bungad

[r35gtr]

I am worried about HIV and other STD's. kaya gusto ko malaman ang problem lang is paano mo tatanungin

[bods1000]

i'm not interested to know it anymore...

Agree ako dito.

Some things are better left unsaid.

 

Would you like your partner to also know your sexual past too, as in how craven or depraved or kinky or perverse you were?

 

I thought so.

[cumlaude]

By learning your partner's past you can then see tendencies, weaknesses and strengths that you can work on or help you decide whether to hit it or pass.

Ignoring such facts is a recipe for trouble later on. If you cannot accept your partner's past, then it would be best to let them be and not get emotionally involved.

 

The most important reason is to protect your health. Philippines is currently the country with the highest H.I.V. infection rate. Remember, people with H.I.V. don't always look sick, most don't even know they have it until several months have passed. Condoms are no guarantee that you are protected.

 

Be wise and put the ignorance on hold.

 

 

that's very pragmatic!

good yan!

very well said.

 

[NightWriter]

Before when i was seeing someone seriously, I like to listen to my partner's stories about his sex encounters because i think its good material to write. I don't get jealous listening to past experiences, it does make me horny, especially i have a vibrator between my legs and rubbing my clit with it while he tells me erotic stories...

 

I usually ask this question..

 

 

" Talk Sexy to me...Tell me how big are her tits and how you got her off..." Then i just get so horny..i get wet...i always get wet just the though of it and just by my breast as i play with my nipples and the vibrator in my pussy..

Edited January 8, 2016 by nightwriter

[snakestyle0]

Personally, I wouldn't want to know. Though, I'm ok if she opens it up for a good reason.

 

My past ex's I didn't have any problems when they told me about their past partners. But it sometimes bothers me when I have a new girl who I'm falling for and expecting her to be a Virgin and end up getting kinda disappointed when I learn in bed na hindi na. Definitely, wala ako karapatan mag reklamo pero minsan nakakaselos na hindi ikaw ung na una tapos lakas tama mo na sa kanya haha.

 

Parang depende sa girl eh. Kung gano ka grabe tama mo, ata. I dunno haha. Sakit ng ulo talaga ang relasyon ahhaha

[Stephen A.]

wifey's experiences are all with me, so nothing..

 

but she's always interested with mine... i don't tell her though...masyado kasi syang selosa

[j]

Before when i was seeing someone seriously, I like to listen to my partner's stories about his sex encounters because i think its good material to write. I don't get jealous listening to past experiences, it does make me horny, especially i have a vibrator between my legs and rubbing my clit with it while he tells me erotic stories...

 

I usually ask this question..

 

 

" Talk Sexy to me...Tell me how big are her tits and how you got her off..." Then i just get so horny..i get wet...i always get wet just the though of it and just by my breast as i play with my nipples and the vibrator in my pussy..

hmmm... that's interesting idea there...

 

you ask about history to learn more about a person. you learn the bad...

 

and the good.

[j]

Why does sexual history have such a negative connotation?

[westell]

also...

 

isnt history usually used to determine patterns or tendencies?

 

 

This is a very academic response. And I agree.

 

As the great historian Marc Bloch says. "If [they] do not take care, there is danger that badly understood history could involve good history in its disrepute".

 

Succinctly, history, as it is, being the science of man and society, and the determinant of patterns--is "an endeavor toward better understanding." I am assuming that from this perspective, of how past values affect the present and, consequently, shape the future (in this case, of our current, or possibly potential mate).