What R U Going To Do Kung May Nanliligaw Sa Gf Mo?

[ghetto_gospel]

well i hope di OT tong post ko. i just need some 2 cent on this.......

 

anyway, here's the thing. for the past few months since my gf strated working (first job nya), i noticed that mdyo nagbago yung ugali nya towards a lot of things. nung una di ko msydo pinansin kc inisip ko na bka nagaadjust lang sya sa work then lately napansin ko na everytime hinihiram ko cellphone nya she keeps on making excuses pra lang di ko mahiram. so i started thinking kc very unusual yun. tpos yesterday nagusap kmi coz our relationship is going haywire for the past few months and as we were trying to get everything straight, i brought up the issue about her cellphone. dun nalaman ko na there's this manager who's hitting on her and the reason why she kept on hiding her cellphone from me is bcoz ayaw nya daw ako masaktan dahil dun sa manager na ngccourt sa knya. di nmn nya dw pinapansin pro i dunno if she's telling the truth or whatever.

 

one major part of a relationship is letting your partner know what's going on about everything all the time. issues like these require more communication from each other so as to keep the peace of mind that everything will be alright and for a good sense of security as well....

 

 

so, do you guys have anything to say about this??? mdyo di ko alam kung pano ssbhn yung issue nmin kc sobrang gulo lang ng utak ko ngyn dahil sa ngyyri saming 2......sensya na pro comments and advices will be very much appreciated.

 

thanks in advance brothas.

[Victorenox]

If I can read you right, you don't trust her anymore. Delikado yan. Real or imagined, once trust is diminished, your relationship will take a turn for the worst. Solution: try to have an honest heart to heart talk regarding your relationship. Try to prevent emotions from preventing you to hear rational explanations. In the end, only the two of you can sort out whatever issues you both have. Good luck dude.

Edited February 13, 2007 by Victorenox

[ghetto_gospel]

If I can read you right, you don't trust her anymore. Delikado yan. Real or imagined, once trust is diminished, your relationship will take a turn for the worst. Solution: try to have an honest heart to heart talk regarding your relationship. Try to prevent emotions from preventing you to hear rational explanations. In the end, only the two of you can sort out whatever issues you both have. Good luck dude.

 

 

you're right bro...medyo nwla nga tiwala ko sa knya. actually yung usap nmin kahapon e sobrang informal lang kc naglalakd lang kmi palabas ng village nila. i tried talking to her already pro she keeps on saying na di pa sya ready makipagusap. i told her already that i'm willing to let her go so she can be free but she said she wants to hang on.......bkt gnon bro?? why does everything have to be like this.....

[sitilim]

never ending problem ko yan with my wife... shes good at telling them to F*ck off so I dont have a problem.

 

but if my wife tells me she cant handle the kakulitan na.. ill have no choice but to get him acquainted with Mr. Glock.

[juancarlos_enriquez]

I'm confident in my relationship with my significant other. She won't even consider any attempts to win her. In the event that she changes her mind though, then up to her, I won't stop her, hehe ok nga na libre na ko. If the guy bugs her to the point of harassment, then dapat bigyan na yung lalake, hehe

[Yama]

Keep my game tight, coz s@%t if my game aint tight, might as well f#&k up and lose my woman.

[miztiza]

you're right bro...medyo nwla nga tiwala ko sa knya. actually yung usap nmin kahapon e sobrang informal lang kc naglalakd lang kmi palabas ng village nila. i tried talking to her already pro she keeps on saying na di pa sya ready makipagusap. i told her already that i'm willing to let her go so she can be free but she said she wants to hang on.......bkt gnon bro?? why does everything have to be like this.....

 

That's tough! Unfortunately, people and feelings change. If she just started working, sounds like she's realizing that she could do better? No offense to you--just my thoughts It doesn't sound like she's even willing to work your relationship if she keeps on avoiding a conversation with you by not talking about how you feel. You are willing to let her go, but she doesn't want to let you go. That could mean that she's trying to see if this new guy will work out, and that if it doesn't then she will come running back to you. Sounds to me that she is being selfish and afraid to get hurt and be alone in the end. At this point, sounds like you are a "just in case" bf? My advice to you would be to go with your gut feeling! If it tells you that something is up that she's not being honest about, then you should follow your heart Don't be fooled

[iamtosh01]

magagalit s guy. lagi may nanliligaw sa gf ko e. pero never ako nagalit s kanya bec i trust her. same can't be said to the assh*le guys.

[CheeZeR!!!]

Bili ka ng sako tsaka dyaryo, tapos ilagay mo dun yung manliligaw ng GF mo!!! Pwede mo tapon sa Montalban pro kung nagmamadali ka lagyan mo ng bato tapos hulog mo sa manila bay... hehehehe...

[cocoy0]

may bf na ngang tao liligawan pa! di ako masisisi if magagalit ako sa lalake. daanin ko nga sa sindak. halimbawa, tapunan mo ng patay na pusa yung bakuran niya na may label ng pangalan niya. mga simpleng bagay.

[AutoPimp]

yeah this is a common thing to me.. tsk..

 

hirap no? ampf! this drives me crazy..

 

hhhhhmmm, i believe na mas mabuti go straight to tha guy, talk to him regardin' your girl, mas maganda kse kung wala nang pasikot sikot eh di ba? pag hindi nadaan sa usap, you knoe whats next..

 

:mtc:

[Eddy Syet]

If I'd get a chance to talk to the guy, I'd probably tell him to fcuk off! :evil:

 

But it's really not a big issue, UNLESS, my GF would entertain him.

 

The moment that you will have to tell another man that your GF is yours, that's the time you'd lose your grip on her in the eyes of the other man. I just let my GF tell him that. That way, it really means that she's mine. IMO

 

If she won't... then she was NEVER mine. Then it's her loss, not mine. :evil:

[Guest mrscarl_vhoglie]

usapang lalaki to. pero honestly it depends sa girl. wala kang dapat gawin.

it happened to me. tinigil din ng guy ang panliligaw coz i told him so.

 

remember this: "if she doesn't like you there's nothing you can do to make her stay.

but if she likes you and loves you so much there's nothing you can do to keep her away."

[Eddy Syet]

remember this: "if she doesn't like you there's nothing you can do to make her stay.

but if she likes you and loves you so much there's nothing you can do to keep her away."

 

How right! :thumbsupsmiley:

[xato]

well,

 

rear naked choke, ude garami, arm bar, gogoplata, triangle choke, guillotine choke, anaconda choke, sleeper hold.

 

kung buhay pa, ipa-pa gahasa ko sa mga arabong di nakakita ng babae ng sampung taon. hehe. i hate violence.