Falling For A Client - The Other Side Of The Coin.

[Asahina aya]

 Not again, we can be friends tho

[Anonymous]

sa mga thera naman, wag kayu ma in-love sa guest na May asawa, think of that man's wife and kids na May potential mong sirain..sa binata kung gusto niyo isa't isa much better 

karma is a bitch 

[courtesanhunter]

not my story. pero may kakilala akong service provider. nahulog siya para doon sa client niya kasi akala niya seryoso sa kanya yung lalaki. from business deals hanggang sa nakukuha na siya ng libre at raw nung lalaki. dahil sa sobrang pagtitiwala nung babae umabot sa punto na ipinakilala pa niya yung guy sa pamilya niya. eventually nilayuan siya nung lalaki na naging active na ulit bilang client. i assume na estilo lang minsan ng lalaki ang pagseseryoso kunwari para lang makuha niya yung kailangan niya mula doon sa babae.

[Asahina aya]

2 hours ago, courtesanhunter said:

not my story. pero may kakilala akong service provider. nahulog siya para doon sa client niya kasi akala niya seryoso sa kanya yung lalaki. from business deals hanggang sa nakukuha na siya ng libre at raw nung lalaki. dahil sa sobrang pagtitiwala nung babae umabot sa punto na ipinakilala pa niya yung guy sa pamilya niya. eventually nilayuan siya nung lalaki na naging active na ulit bilang client. i assume na estilo lang minsan ng lalaki ang pagseseryoso kunwari para lang makuha niya yung kailangan niya mula doon sa babae.

i agreeeeeeeeee 

100000000000000%

[KlaudiaKoronel]

(.....almost)

A client got a psp. He liked her daw, what is the possible thing to do daw to make the girl stop? So he promised the girl financial help, on a condition that she will never go out with other men.

Greetings every morning, goodnight before they sleep, always asked the girl how was her day. So many I love you, I miss you, wish you were here with me now, etc. The girl almost fell for that client.

Days, turned into weeks, into months. Walang help na nangyari. The guy said "things didn't go as I planned, sorry."

So the girl is now back where she came from. With more debt, with more hate.

[1up]

On 10/18/2015 at 3:29 PM, Mistress Mia said:

People are often times angry of girls looking for financers or sponsors. They said, they are gold digging bitches. Well, for me nowadays, I don't see anything bad about the logic. Before, I used to disagree with this thought. I was too naive that there are loyal and faithful men. That love conquers all. But I was wrong. I was wronged many many times.

 

Now, it seems like I can even be proud and secured to have one. Why? It's because love nowadays are merely fantasy. We women are so vulnerable about men's false promises and we ended up expecting for the false hopes. Men use women for their pleasure and satisfaction and women let men use them for free. By expecting of the chances that "Baka mabago ko siya". We often times mistaken love for the need of companionship. Well, that's a win lose situation

 

I have seen the world much farther than the rest. More than cheating women, I have personally seen hundred and probably thousands of cheating men.

 

So as for me, men that finance women are generous and worth it. You may call me a bitch but I am jelous and proud of women that does the kink. I must commend their tactics for they have been using themselves to take care of themselves and do offer their service in exchange for the gratitude. They are practical and I must say good.

 

How do they do it? I don't know but from my point of view, with the generation we have, I cannot judge them anymore.

 

 

 

Although I don't generalize all men and women, therapists are human too. They feel the power of connection. They ofcourse experience jealousy. They feel the uttermost ego destroying thought of "I have given my best but why is he still looking for someone else?" especially if there was the spark between the two of them.

 

As for me, if you are really so into her, you will save her from the life and dignity destroying job. But if you are not doing anything to uplift her, then blaming her for providing a service is not for you.

 

You met her in that way, you know what she's doing, making her stop without you giving her security is like taking her capability of living and earning especially if she has no choice but to end up in that position.

 

There's a lot of good people out there. A lot of good men making a decent living that will do anything to provide for their family that many women choose not give their time of day to instead go for the instant gratification. It's kinda like eating cake every day expecting not to get fat in a few years. 

[citibank]

12 hours ago, 1up said:

On 10/18/2015 at 3:29 PM, Mistress Mia said:

People are often times angry of girls looking for financers or sponsors. They said, they are gold digging bitches. Well, for me nowadays, I don't see anything bad about the logic. Before, I used to disagree with this thought. I was too naive that there are loyal and faithful men. That love conquers all. But I was wrong. I was wronged many many times.

 

Now, it seems like I can even be proud and secured to have one. Why? It's because love nowadays are merely fantasy. We women are so vulnerable about men's false promises and we ended up expecting for the false hopes. Men use women for their pleasure and satisfaction and women let men use them for free. By expecting of the chances that "Baka mabago ko siya". We often times mistaken love for the need of companionship. Well, that's a win lose situation

 

I have seen the world much farther than the rest. More than cheating women, I have personally seen hundred and probably thousands of cheating men.

 

So as for me, men that finance women are generous and worth it. You may call me a bitch but I am jelous and proud of women that does the kink. I must commend their tactics for they have been using themselves to take care of themselves and do offer their service in exchange for the gratitude. They are practical and I must say good.

 

How do they do it? I don't know but from my point of view, with the generation we have, I cannot judge them anymore.

 

 

 

Although I don't generalize all men and women, therapists are human too. They feel the power of connection. They ofcourse experience jealousy. They feel the uttermost ego destroying thought of "I have given my best but why is he still looking for someone else?" especially if there was the spark between the two of them.

 

As for me, if you are really so into her, you will save her from the life and dignity destroying job. But if you are not doing anything to uplift her, then blaming her for providing a service is not for you.

 

You met her in that way, you know what she's doing, making her stop without you giving her security is like taking her capability of living and earning especially if she has no choice but to end up in that position.

 

There's a lot of good people out there. A lot of good men making a decent living that will do anything to provide for their family that many women choose not give their time of day to instead go for the instant gratification. It's kinda like eating cake every day expecting not to get fat in a few years. 

How they did it? Hehehe they are true to themselves, honest and good people. Sumugal sila and nag ok naman..ganun naman talaga ang buhay..pero kung natural ka na buraot at magaspang, lalabas at lalabas yun sa relationship and masasaktan lang kau in the future. Ayusin nyo muna sarili nyo and then sumugal ka..pag dpa din nag work, at least you tried. Na enjoy mu magmahal at minahal kesa naman bored ka buong buhay mu sa pagbibigay aliw..the. All of a sudden, matanda ka na😊

[Voltes 6]

3 part series pala to parang pelikula pero i like this topic.

[fibpremo]

Interesting read from the pov of the other side

[BlackDiamond]

When life's situations force you to take on a less than ideal means to earn a living, at times you need to find a way to make sense of things. 

Not everyone can compartmentalize feelings; and when the service you provide is attached to a strong emotion (may it be strong feelings of lust or love)..

It takes a tremendous amount of effort to not be emotionally invested or at least affected.

The service requires some level of genuine-ness to be effective.

So just like any client may "fall" for a thera, it's the same as a thera falling for a client.. in spite of how much each try to rationalize that it's purely physical, 

It is still an interaction between 2 human beings. 

At the end of the day, respect always goes a long way. 

 

Edited November 4, 2023 by BlackDiamond

[Sigurd]

Hm. 

Anu kaya yung sign na nahuhulog na (or tuluyan nang nahulog) si girl?

Forgive me for necroposting (and for doing so from a dummy account), but I thought I'd ask on behalf of a friend na naguguluhan ngayon sa mga pahiwatig na natatanggap niya 😰

 

Edited June 4 by Sigurd

[handsomebob]

1 hour ago, Sigurd said:

Hm. 

Anu kaya yung sign na nahuhulog na (or tuluyan nang nahulog) si girl?

Forgive me for necroposting (and for doing so from a dummy account), but I thought I'd ask on behalf of a friend na naguguluhan ngayon sa mga pahiwatig na natatanggap niya 😰

 

when the sex is free -- this is a clear indication that this is beyond transactional or at the very least 2 pops or unli pops for the price of one...

when she is the one who always checks up on you and initiates the conversation and is always aching to see you as well kahit di mo siya kunin.

yan lang alam kong telltale signs based sa experience

[Anonymous]

On 6/4/2024 at 6:12 PM, Sigurd said:

Hm. 

Anu kaya yung sign na nahuhulog na (or tuluyan nang nahulog) si girl?

Forgive me for necroposting (and for doing so from a dummy account), but I thought I'd ask on behalf of a friend na naguguluhan ngayon sa mga pahiwatig na natatanggap niya 😰

 

 Sharing based on my personal experienced with my ex that moment na aware na ako na inlove ako with him. 

 

  I genuinely smile out of nowhere pag na-iisip ko moment or bonding namin together like kinikilig ako and there is a  excitement that I feel pag magkikita na kami na I don't usually feel before. 

 

Napapa-ngiti ako pag nag memessage sya kahit "Hi." lang naman. (Corny ko haha.) 

 

 I'm comfortable na sharing my personal life, even my real identity with him and I don't care since inlove na nga. (I don't usually do it with anyone)

 

 I go with him outside or sa public place or even sa malayong lugar ng ilang araw and not aware or wala ka na pake sa time, you don't feel inip. More on Interested ka sa mga kwento nya. And wanting more hours/days with him. (Medyo tricky to since common scenario that anyone can feel or ginagawa, especially if that person may sense kausap or masarap kausap it doesn't mean inlove ka na kaya overtime charooot haha. Also, not because you go with him/her outside meaning inlove ka na. It's really depend)

 

 Take note: Not because you feel or experience one of the I mentioned above  meaning in love ka na. You will know that you are in love to that person there is difference or there something na nagbago like how you treated him/her and not treated him/her like a guest/thera lang lagpas pa doon na you don't do to anyone. There is a feeling that you can't explain  pag kasama mo sya na you don't feel to others. 

(Sobrang tricky ng sign and di lahat ganyan experience pag inlove. This is based only on my own experienced and you are the only one can know it if you are inlove or not) 

 

I hope it helped. 🍻

[Sigurd]

Well.. 

1) Nag aya bigla ng double date kasama ng kapatid tapos jowa niya. Pati daw baby niya kasama 😅

2) Yung sa line of questioning, napatanong bigla kung nagkajowa na daw ba akong may anak. 

((Wala pa naman, pero may naligawan na ko nung college na bigla na lang pinakilala baby niya sakin nung may event kami - oks lang naman sana sakin kaso dein daw niya ako trip)) 

3) Yung mga bagay na sobrang bigat sa buhay niya, nakukwento na niya sakin 😱

..At yun lang yung mashare ko so far. 

((PS - ilang years na rin siyang retired, bigla lang kami nag catch up ulit)) 

Edited June 16 by Sigurd

[AngGwapo]

On 6/21/2022 at 8:00 AM, Guest Anonymous said:

sa mga thera naman, wag kayu ma in-love sa guest na May asawa, think of that man's wife and kids na May potential mong sirain..sa binata kung gusto niyo isa't isa much better 

karma is a bitch 

Meron bang mga ganyan here na women? I know one who fell in love with two guys (not at the same time) - both with spouses and families. The issue is - they didn't tell her they're not single until AFTER they made sure that the woman is already in love. Maybe married guys know how to make carino better - kaya nga married na sila.

I also know one who is currently in-love with a guest with family. In fact, there are many out there who fall for guys with families for whatever reason.

I think it's a beautiful thing to fall in love with someone - married or unmarried. However, both need to know the boundaries of their relationship and where it may potentially lead.

Sometimes, people do need to take the road less travelled.