KlaudiaKoronel

Yes many times. But I will share this one experience because ito yung parang TOTGA ko. I met this guy let's call him "Frank", very nice, very calm, very understanding, he loved me. But that time, I was madly in love with my bf "West". West broke my heart so many times, and during those times, Frank always do something to make me feel better, like sending me food at my home, sending sweet messages. Until West and I broke up, but I'm not sure if I'm ready to be in a relationship again. Frank continuously asking me this "Will you be my girlfriend?" over and over. I never gave him clear answer. Sabi ko pa one time, "masyado ka kasi gentleman, medyo naboboring ako sayo." Yeah how insensitive of me. Frank and I had our first sex and it was really good. Daks siya, clean walang amoy and it was really satisfying. I was thinking of telling him that day "let's start over". But I didn't cause I had a feeling that something will happen. I was right, he told me that he wanted to fix his marriage. And that we will never see each other again. I told him that it was the best decision he made. I saw him crying while saying goodbye. I didn't show him I cried, but I cried so hard I want to shout so loud. Until this day, ang dami kong regrets bakit di ko nakita si Frank nung may chance pa sana maging kami instead of West. But, what happened happened. So, siya yung TOTGA ko. Yun lang. 🤭

Neither love nor sex, understanding each other's situation I think is the most important ingredient in a relationship. Understanding then respect. Respect then love. Love then great sex.