Falling For A Client - The Other Side Of The Coin.

[pissdrunx]

It's absolutely fine as theras have feelings too.

[Kissmequick008]

It's absolutely fine as theras have feelings too.

Haha what?? We are also human and have feelings too! 😱

[Seta Sinestro]

Ladies, pano kung yung gm di mo type pero nakikita mong may interest talaga sayo? Tipong kinokontak ka nya every now and then, non-work related, parang getting to know u better, pero wala d mo type

 

Would u keep the contact just for company, maybe some freebies, or go cold para di na sya umasa?

[MidKnight Train]

i spoke to one of the theras before from a nice spa and told me that its true that she fell in love with a client, this guy was getting his services for more than a year and that the es wasn't even more than what was expected, hj / bj only. ATW is not part of the deal and never did the guy went on asking her for it. It was around their 2nd year that she went on making her move to test the guy but upon doing it with him, i mean sort of teasing him, he kissed her and asked her to stop. Afterwards he went on paying her. The guy still went on seeing her though at one point he was so drunk and finally it happened. But the guy was kind of not into having an affair with a thera, just wants her when she sees her. it wasn't long before the thera went on getting in touch with him. She was really into him and always do it with him. he was the only guy that she do that kind of es. in the end, she realized that it was all work and who would've believed that a client could really fall for her.

[Seta Sinestro]

How can a gm fall to a thera that you pay for her services? Even how beautiful the thera is, i lost my interest to her especially if she charges so much lol

"How" may not be the most relevant question sir, but perhaps "why". Because, as we can see, it does happen, but the reasons are not as clear as the usual ones in everyday lives.

 

Most gm's come thinking it's all a pleasure game until the money starts losing value in the shadow of her smile. Or the breath of her voice. And it happens to them thera's too.

 

And again we wonder... Why?

[WarmachineX]

"How" may not be the most relevant question sir, but perhaps "why". Because, as we can see, it does happen, but the reasons are not as clear as the usual ones in everyday lives.

 

Most gm's come thinking it's all a pleasure game until the money starts losing value in the shadow of her smile. Or the breath of her voice. And it happens to them thera's too.

 

And again we wonder... Why?

I guess it all shows that thera's

[WarmachineX]

"How" may not be the most relevant question sir, but perhaps "why". Because, as we can see, it does happen, but the reasons are not as clear as the usual ones in everyday lives.

 

Most gm's come thinking it's all a pleasure game until the money starts losing value in the shadow of her smile. Or the breath of her voice. And it happens to them thera's too.

 

And again we wonder... Why?

I guess it all shows that theras and GMs though working on the same sexual interest are vulnerable to falling in love. Hirap lang kase malaman kung sino na yung in love at sino ang trabaho lang. Talo lagi dun syempre yung nainlove whether GM pa yan o thera.

[Kissmequick008]

Ladies, pano kung yung gm di mo type pero nakikita mong may interest talaga sayo? Tipong kinokontak ka nya every now and then, non-work related, parang getting to know u better, pero wala d mo type

 

Would u keep the contact just for company, maybe some freebies, or go cold para di na sya umasa?

 

Go cold.😁

[❤️Bb.A]

Interesting read as this is the first time I've ventured into this topic. As a matter of perspective, and I believe this is true for a majority of the time, the job does not define the person/thera. Most are honest to goodness persons who deserve to be treated like you would treat any other lady. They are persons you can laugh, cry with, and in some cases even go home to and share your life. They deserve to love and be loved without pre conceived generalizations and stereotypes. At our core, we should aim to be good persons and see the best in everyone. Not everyone will get good experiences with everyone but a little respect and good will goes a long way into developing relationships be it the casual ones or if you venture into the more serious ones. This seems to get lost on some since may expectations and generalizations agad.

[❤️Bb.A]

Since the expectation for this room is more from the ladies' standpoint, might as well ask it here.

 

How do you differentiate someone who's just a genuinely nice, and perhaps thoughtful person, to someone who might have a legit interest in a GM? Is there a surefire sign that someone is really going out of their way to let the GM know? Minsan it's a fine line and although I've gone through some of this with regular ladies (sorry lack of a better term and not saying that Im God's gift to the world) but Im just curious on how this goes given the circumstances with theras. Ano ang expectations nyo and consequences in case the GM does not conform to your expecations?

 

Thanks and more power to you ladies. Especially to those who have bared their stories here and given their insight.

[whitemamba]

interesting and very helpful post thanks guys

[SKY0920]

Much related .I'm older sa client ko,he gets my number so we text everyday .getting to know level na .ramdam ko na I fall na talaga sa kanya ..pinaparamdam di nya na I'm special to him kaso I'm thinking na ihinto na I feel I don't deserve his love for me even thou he know who I am .

[Gwen Morales]

These trade require the girls to be "EXTRA" sweet, caring and oh... yeah, say it - loving.... to every client.

 

This is how 'her business' will live longer, thus earn more.

 

So for the question how would you know if the girl is really interested in you or just after the "business"?

 

Eh di ligawan ninyo. If she's not fine with it, use ur hunting skill. Us, even in this business ( and sharing bed nightly, with a special "dinner") still need to be wooed.

 

And after the normal ligaw, FOR YOU TO KNOW IF THE GIRL NOW FINALLY LOVE YOU, Syempre, ASK!

 

We are still human! Babae pa rin kami. It doesnt differ us from your girlfriends/wives!

 

Even we're on this business, we change hats rin, you know!

 

 

IN EVERY THING, EVEN ON A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP/COURTSHIP : Do not assume.

[Gwen Morales]

Much related .I'm older sa client ko,he gets my number so we text everyday .getting to know level na .ramdam ko na I fall na talaga sa kanya ..pinaparamdam di nya na I'm special to him kaso I'm thinking na ihinto na I feel I don't deserve his love for me even thou he know who I am .

 

 

Do not ever feel low about yourself.

 

You deserve anyone, as much these guys deserve you.

 

 

This maybe the job that you choose, but this doesnt make you lesser of a woman! You deserve to be happy and fall in love.

 

Just be wise, and understand if his intentions are clear or just rooting for LK. (You know what I mean, girl)...

 

However if you are fine with LK with him, anyways - you like him too, then go! we all deserve to enjoy and have fun. At least you know and you can get what you want --- JUST guard your heart.

[Gwen Morales]

Ladies, pano kung yung gm di mo type pero nakikita mong may interest talaga sayo? Tipong kinokontak ka nya every now and then, non-work related, parang getting to know u better, pero wala d mo type

 

Would u keep the contact just for company, maybe some freebies, or go cold para di na sya umasa?

 

 

 

I dont go cold agad.

 

Bad for business yan!

 

You just have to lay on your cards, and make the client understand that you are just up for business, nothing else.

 

If he offers friendship, ok lang -- good nga yun. But make him understand that every date (that he would be taking your effort and time) will cost him. Kung ok lang sa kanya yun ... eh di good. With that, it will be clear to him na, you are just up for business, nothing else.

 

 

Communication is the key