Falling For A Client - The Other Side Of The Coin.

[Lee Cooper]

8 hours ago, Guest Anonymous said:

Bro, I’ve been exactly where you are not once but twice. And I’m telling you now, that’s not love, that’s a paid illusion. I thought I was special too, hanggang marealize ko na lahat ng “connection” na yun, binayaran ko lang.

You’re not building a relationship, you’re funding a fantasy. Habang ikaw nahuhulog, siya kumikita. The more you stay, the more you lose; pera, respeto sa sarili, at control.

I learned that the hard way. If I were you, I’d cut it off now. Kasi walang happy ending dyan ikaw lang ang mauubos.

I agree with you boss. 100 percent.  Same here, i learned it the hard way din.  Pag emotion ang pinairal mo, talagang talo ka. 

[dragon1231]

It is hard to figure them out since a thera will lie and manipulate you as their goal is to get repeat and regular clientele.  Unless you can verify all of the facts about her family situation, jowa situation, and kid circumstances, it is likely you are playing a losing game.

[Anonymous]

6 hours ago, Lee Cooper said:

Never underestimate her, she really knows how to please her man. Im not patronizing her that much pero nung nabasa ko yung mga fr nya, woooowwww..... ang dami talaga.... 12 years sa industry.... isang dekada mahigit na

lol after all that, you're still putting her on the pedestal.

[Thierry]

23 hours ago, Guest Anonymous said:

Bro, I’ve been exactly where you are not once but twice. And I’m telling you now, that’s not love, that’s a paid illusion. I thought I was special too, hanggang marealize ko na lahat ng “connection” na yun, binayaran ko lang.

You’re not building a relationship, you’re funding a fantasy. Habang ikaw nahuhulog, siya kumikita. The more you stay, the more you lose; pera, respeto sa sarili, at control.

I learned that the hard way. If I were you, I’d cut it off now. Kasi walang happy ending dyan ikaw lang ang mauubos.

😔

[rhfmendoza]

On 4/3/2026 at 4:06 AM, Guest Anonymous said:

Bro, I’ve been exactly where you are not once but twice. And I’m telling you now, that’s not love, that’s a paid illusion. I thought I was special too, hanggang marealize ko na lahat ng “connection” na yun, binayaran ko lang.

You’re not building a relationship, you’re funding a fantasy. Habang ikaw nahuhulog, siya kumikita. The more you stay, the more you lose; pera, respeto sa sarili, at control.

I learned that the hard way. If I were you, I’d cut it off now. Kasi walang happy ending dyan ikaw lang ang mauubos.

I fell for a thera a looooong time ago that’s why I retired. Lurking lng now. 
 

Fortunately … hindi ako nabudol to spend my “necessity” money on her … and I am still financially able.

But I did not regret those days. It was a phase I went thru and ended before it consumes me totally.

Have a solemn lenten guys

 

[lee sawyer]

I am a graduate of this vice and I regret wasting too much money on this. When I reserve someone, that therapist has to be excellent in massage and passable extra service based on reviews. For me, extra service is just extra service. I go to a spa to get my body aches removed. Also, for me, the therapist doesn't have to be heartbreakingly gorgeous as long as she's not ugly and has big bumpers. Among all the therapists I got, I had around 3-4 regulars where my mileage was pretty high and they were the ones I got again and again and again. The massage rating of these 3-4 therapists was always a perfect 10 while their face values varied from 7-9 but all of them had big bumpers. Of course, you get attracted but at the end of the day, there is always a realization that outside the spa, you could never be with any of them for obvious reasons. Bottomline, I go to a spa to get pampered, not to fall in love and it never occurred to me to support the therapists I got. Besides, I don't go to spas to look for love unless you're a loser. 

Edited April 4 by lee sawyer

[MR10]

If I may comment, tao tayo, may naiisip, may nararamdaman. Naghahangad na magmahal at mahalin din. All the best sa endeavor na ito. 

[Lee Cooper]

May iba kasi sinasabi, dapat iba iba ang kinukuha mo para di ka maattach. Pero pag sobrang satisfied ka sa isa, at di mo nakuha yung satisfaction sa iba, babalik at babalik ka dun sa una. Dun na magsisimula yung attachment mo sa kanya, until na akala mo na may mararating kayo. Pag umiwas ka na then Sepanx naman ang kakaharapin mo.  Dapat you check your emotion once in a while. i-balance lang. 😊😊😊

[Lee Cooper]

20 hours ago, Guest Anonymous said:

lol after all that, you're still putting her on the pedestal.

Hahaha... may point ka bossing. Pero kahit ganun ang nangyari i still respect her as a person.  Ika nga, fool me once shame on you... fool me twice shame on me.... Let bygones be bygones na lang 😊😊😊

[Anonymous]

On 4/4/2026 at 2:30 PM, Lee Cooper said:

Hahaha... may point ka bossing. Pero kahit ganun ang nangyari i still respect her as a person.  Ika nga, fool me once shame on you... fool me twice shame on me.... Let bygones be bygones na lang 😊😊😊

you can respect someone without putting them on a pedestal or making a shrine about them in your mind that you go to and reminisce. Good luck. 

[Anonymous]

On 4/4/2026 at 2:27 PM, Lee Cooper said:

May iba kasi sinasabi, dapat iba iba ang kinukuha mo para di ka maattach. Pero pag sobrang satisfied ka sa isa, at di mo nakuha yung satisfaction sa iba, babalik at babalik ka dun sa una. Dun na magsisimula yung attachment mo sa kanya, until na akala mo na may mararating kayo. Pag umiwas ka na then Sepanx naman ang kakaharapin mo.  Dapat you check your emotion once in a while. i-balance lang. 😊😊😊

Walang lunas yan sir. Kapag tanga tanga talaga. Jinujustify mo pa din eh. 

[plug]

Although this thread is falling for a client, most posts and comments are discouraging clients to fall or to love theras. Hindi karamihan ang therang nagpopost dahil maaaring hindi totoong nagmamahal si thera kay client.

Even those who say hindi nagpapabayad si thera as maybe proof na mahal siya ni thera ay hindi rin tutoo. Kaya hindi nagpapabayad kasi sa iyo niya gustong makaraos at kaya naman niyang singilin minsan mas malaki pa sa client na may gusto sa kanya.

Before pandemic nagandahan ako kay mgt at siyempre may gusto akong magawa sa kanya. I was able to do it live on our second meeting without negotiation or prior arrangement. Nasabihan naman ako ng isang mtc member na may partner si thera na call boy at may isang anak. Parang kinabahan ako at baka may nakuha akong sakit. So, hindi ko na inulitan.

Nang nagsubside ang pandemic this thera appeared in a nuru spa. Dahil attracted pa rin ako sa kanya kaya nag meet kami. Accordingly, being a graduate naghahanap siya ng legal na trabaho kaya pansamantala munang bumalik ng spa. Nasabi rin niya na nanganak pa siya with her second child during pandemic. Tutoong may partner nga siya.

Isa pang nabanggit niya that she was told by the manager ng spa na ako raw ay nangungursunada ng ma lalive. Kaya napaisip siya pero pinagbigyan din niya si manager kaya nangyari yung aming nakaraan. I was thinking then na gusto rin niya o gusto niya ako dahil pumayag sa katulad ko. During our meeting nagkwentuhan na lang kami at walang nangyaring massage or es. Marahil gusto ko lang siyang makita at kasama na rin medyo napahiya pa ako. 

In our very first meeting nasabi niya na minsan in a month kumita daw siya ng 500000 pesos dahil ang mga clients basta nagaabot ng tip na malaking halaga. That was before pandemic at marahil ganoon siya ka attractive. 

[fated]

Falling for a GRO anyone?

[sugarfreeze01]

I used to think money solved everything.
Every other Friday night, I’d walk into that dimly lit spa—not really for the massage, if I’m being honest. It was routine at first. A way to unwind. A place where everything felt controlled, predictable… transactional.
Then I met her.
She wasn’t the most striking in the room, not the loudest, not the one who tried the hardest to get attention. But she had this quiet way about her—soft voice, steady hands, eyes that looked like they were always somewhere else. The first time we talked, it wasn’t about services or tips. It was about her hometown, her younger siblings, how she missed simple things like eating dinner with her family.
That’s how it started.
Week after week, I kept coming back. Not because I needed what the place offered—but because I wanted to see her. I started staying longer, talking more. I told myself I understood her situation. Told myself I could help.
Eventually, I made an offer. Not the kind you’d expect in that place—I told her I’d help her get out. Find a job. Start over. I’d support her while she figured things out. I thought it was noble. Maybe even heroic.
She smiled… but it wasn’t the kind of smile I hoped for.
She didn’t say yes. She didn’t say no either. She just said, “Hindi ganun kadali.”
And I didn’t listen.
I kept pushing. Kept insisting. I thought persistence meant sincerity. I thought my intentions were enough to change her reality.
But one night, she stopped me.
She said, “You only see the part of me you want to save. Hindi mo nakikita lahat.”
That hit harder than I expected.
Turns out, her life wasn’t a simple problem waiting for a solution. There were debts, responsibilities, choices I didn’t understand, and a world I had no place in. And maybe… she didn’t want to be “saved” the way I imagined.
After that, things changed. Conversations became shorter. The distance grew. Until one day, she was just… gone.
No goodbye. No closure.
I stopped going to that place.
Looking back, I realize something uncomfortable: I wasn’t in love with her—I was in love with the idea of being the one who could save her.
And that’s a dangerous kind of love.
Because sometimes, people don’t need saving.
And sometimes, you’re not the hero in their story—you’re just a passing chapter.

[Anonymous]

On 4/6/2026 at 12:19 AM, Guest Anonymous said:

Walang lunas yan sir. Kapag tanga tanga talaga. Jinujustify mo pa din eh. 

pinagdadaanan yan. kapag mature ka na tapos pumasok ka dito sa bisyo malamang hindi ka ma-ffat pero kung kulang ka sa realizations about relationships baka talaga mangyari kahit kanino ito.