Cool Fool Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Remove resources used in cheating, in short dapat walang pera ang lalake para di makapag loko. Pero if a girl dictates all spending iiwanan naman sya ng lalake. My honest opinion then is cheating cannot be avoided. Quote Link to comment
Supertottot Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 (edited) My husband is a cheater... He always go and f#&k some filthy prostitutes or in Spa..... He even defend himself, it's normal for a guy to try those act and it's only for fun and tempted to try lang daw! Pucha! Hindi ko ma-gets! .... I learned that once a cheater, he will always be a cheater. I gave a Second chances, worth giving, even a 3rd, but never fourth and so on.... But still im stuck on this marriage, because i want to protect my daughter and she doesn't want to have a broken family like her classmates daw:(Im now starting to love myself and keep my decency, I won't live in a miserable marriage. I deserve to be happy. And it is also not a recourse to cheat back. I won't stooped down to their level. He's not worth the love, time and effort. Very difficult to hold on to a family with a cheater... Hope our daughter won't experience this kind of pain.Any suggestions on how to deal with this kind of husband? Hhhaayytzzz... Edited October 20, 2015 by Supertottot Quote Link to comment
Cool Fool Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 My husband is a cheater... He always go and f#&k some filthy prostitutes or in Spa..... He even defend himself, it's normal for a guy to try those act and it's only for fun and tempted to try lang daw! Pucha! Hindi ko ma-gets! ....I learned that once a cheater, he will always be a cheater. I gave a Second chances, worth giving, even a 3rd, but never fourth and so on.... But still im stuck on this marriage, because i want to protect my daughter and she doesn't want to have a broken family like her classmates daw:(Im now starting to love myself and keep my decency, I won't live in a miserable marriage. I deserve to be happy. And it is also not a recourse to cheat back. I won't stooped down to their level. He's not worth the love, time and effort.Very difficult to hold on to a family with a cheater... Hope our daughter won't experience this kind of pain.Any suggestions on how to deal with this kind of husband? Hhhaayytzzz... I am truly sorry for what you are going through. I don't think you can change your husband, as only he can decide to change himself. What you have control however, is your own happiness and the love that you have for your daughter. I wish you the best of luck in dealing with your trouble. Quote Link to comment
p0p0ng Posted October 21, 2015 Share Posted October 21, 2015 Find out why he is cheating. If you know the cause it would be easier to deal with it. You'll know if it can still be fixed or wala na talagang pagasa. Kung wala ng pagasa, the next question is, is it still worth it? If yes, compromise, if not better to part ways. Quote Link to comment
Cap™ Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Well its a matter of perspective, cheaters can change. pag my nangyari na sa buhay nya na karma I'd agree with both. Minsan the worst brings you to reflect and make you change for the better. Quote Link to comment
HappyEnding69 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 pag naputol si manoy. Quote Link to comment
Supertottot Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 Cheater na, lier pa and porn addict din.... Hopeless... What a life, very misserable marriage and don't know how to deal with this.Wala naman divorce dito at mahirap din makipaghiwalay kung nakataya ang happiness ng anak. Iba pa din for them ang may buong family. They wont change hanggang nasasayahan sila sa ginagawa nila.... Karma karma lang yan, im really hoping na wag ako madamay sa karma nya if in case na magkaSTD or HIV sya.... Well anyway, im leaving on a sexless marriage na din, enjoy nya ang mga paid girls...Talo ang maganda at matinong asawa ng malandin at magaling na babae. Cant really believe he's like the others, kala ko matino nakuha ko... Wala din.... Hhhaayyyyzzzz buhay.... Inhale exhale, bigat sa dibdib Quote Link to comment
lepetitmortman Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 Cheater na, lier pa and porn addict din.... Hopeless... What a life, very misserable marriage and don't know how to deal with this.Wala naman divorce dito at mahirap din makipaghiwalay kung nakataya ang happiness ng anak. Iba pa din for them ang may buong family.They wont change hanggang nasasayahan sila sa ginagawa nila.... Karma karma lang yan, im really hoping na wag ako madamay sa karma nya if in case na magkaSTD or HIV sya.... Well anyway, im leaving on a sexless marriage na din, enjoy nya ang mga paid girls...Talo ang maganda at matinong asawa ng malandin at magaling na babae. Cant really believe he's like the others, kala ko matino nakuha ko... Wala din.... Hhhaayyyyzzzz buhay.... Inhale exhale, bigat sa dibdib focus on your child. tapos huwag mo na sya sitahin sa mga lakad nya. kumbaga... hayaan mong magparaya. enjoy your time with friends.... it works for every one naman. find a hobby, get into a sport, set a life goal. there are more things to life than a defective husband. magpaganda ka lalo... there is no better revenge than to look good and him noticing. Quote Link to comment
Supertottot Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 focus on your child. tapos huwag mo na sya sitahin sa mga lakad nya. kumbaga... hayaan mong magparaya. enjoy your time with friends.... it works for every one naman. find a hobby, get into a sport, set a life goal. there are more things to life than a defective husband. magpaganda ka lalo... there is no better revenge than to look good and him noticing. Thanks sa advice yup! Thats what im doing now, nakakaloka ang parang spy tapos wala din naman ako magawa, iiyak at masasaktan lang ako lagi...Kaya better take care of myself nalang, Mukha na nga kaming mag-ama pag may nakakakita samin, anak namin nalang ang focus ko. Hayaan ko nalang sya sirain nya buhay nya. When time come at talagang mahuli ko uli in actual, magaling na kasi magtago eh... Pero once nalang, mahuli ko lang uli at may evidence uli ako... No more chance... Mahirap lang kasi dahil most relative, idol ang family namin, we are a perfect inspiration ng lahat, hindi nila alam na devil pala husband ko its just, kinakaya ko kasi ang lahat at tinatago ang problem.... Happy couple lagi outside, pero inside, we are totally broke and im really not happy, my daughter keeps me holding nalang. Quote Link to comment
pinoyarcher Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 MY wife is a cheater since 2012. with the same guy.May pictures na rin akong nakita na sila. Nag ala spy din ako wala ring nangyari. Maaga akng tumanda dahil sakanya now im 35 and shes 33, hay may uban na ang buhok ko. sa work na lang ako nagpakabusy.Wala akong bisyo ni alak at sigarilyo,Maybe im not that attractive sa mata niya.But bumabawi naman ako sa iba.Nakakaparanoid twing aalis siya. Di mo namn mapigilan kase makikipagbunuan makaalis lang. In the end pag naitulak mo konti ,ikaw pa ang masama. Marami syang nakikita kesyo, di daw ako marunong maglaba etc. Shes a plain house wife and nirerespect ko nmn na napapagod siya. Pero ako dinMahirap ang work ko. Im a teacher kc.Sometimes ang hirap magpretend na masaya. Minsan i wish I could f#&k someone and scream like hell.JUst to make it even. naiiwan ang 2 batang anak nmin habang siya ay nasa lalaki. It always happen on weekends.I want to throw him out of mylife but ayokong maguilty na ako ang nagtulak dito.Isa pa I need her to look for our kids specially kung me pasok. How i wish i never meet her. Life is more fruitful and enjoyable sana kng di sya ang pinili ko.I want to cheat but i dont have the money and im not that good looking person to have a good catch. Quote Link to comment
Supertottot Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 I am truly sorry for what you are going through. I don't think you can change your husband, as only he can decide to change himself. What you have control however, is your own happiness and the love that you have for your daughter. I wish you the best of luck in dealing with your trouble. Thanks for the wish, really need the best of luck and a strong heart to deal with this trials.... Leaving with a cheater is very difficult and painful. Sa tamang panahon lang yan... I just keep my gratitude highter that expectations Quote Link to comment
dj_coffeecoke Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 Main reason why people cheat is because they are not satisfied with you. Since a person is never really satisfied, cheating will always be there. Everybody cheats, cheated, and will cheat at some point. Its just a matter of frequency, gravity, and getting caught. Some people cheat once a week and some once their whole life. Even if you don't do the act of sex, the moment you entertain an affection from someone else, you already cheated. Some people get caught, some people don't. Quote Link to comment
Hari ng Spakol Posted November 10, 2015 Share Posted November 10, 2015 if they already dead 1 Quote Link to comment
Cool Fool Posted November 10, 2015 Share Posted November 10, 2015 (edited) Almost everyone will cheat if the prize or timing is right, it might be emotional or sexual infidelity, maybe both. Such is the nature of man. Edited November 10, 2015 by Cool Fool Quote Link to comment
paopao1459 Posted November 10, 2015 Share Posted November 10, 2015 Once a cheater always a cheater #hugot Quote Link to comment
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