jelly bean Posted September 8, 2015 Share Posted September 8, 2015 My friend once told me "it's not cheating if you're paying for it" this is my Taiwanese friend. Do you guys agree that if you pay for it and have no emotional attachment that it's cheating? Of course if you get caught by your gf/wife then it's cheating in her eyes. Cheating is cheating right? But cheating and you actually love that other person is the worst kind.Yes. That's the WORST kind Quote Link to comment
r35gtr Posted September 11, 2015 Share Posted September 11, 2015 How can a cheater, stop cheating? I know a lot have done it. But I think a lot more are having a hard time doing it. The question refers to how to stop cheating before things seriously get out of hand. How can you dismiss the thought of a kiss, a smooch, a conversation with a potential lead.Sa experience ko, I stopped cheating ng nahuli ako. then naglayas misis ko. Dun lang ako tumino . Dun mo ma fefeel na sorry pag bitbit na niya ang anak mo. pero pag di ka nahuhuli masaya naman diba Quote Link to comment
dex0225 Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 Leave. Malaki na trust issues. Mahirap ibaik ang tiwalang nasira. Di ka na maniniwala sa mga sinasabi niya. Quote Link to comment
GetTestedPH Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 no, they cant Quote Link to comment
Love YUI Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 edi mag-cheat ka din! :D maglokohan kayo! :D djke lang! normal nalang yata ngayon yan ..pero isang pagkakamali na kahit gusto mong iwasan mahirap gawin lalo na pag-na fall ka na Quote Link to comment
Love YUI Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 edi mag-cheat ka din! :D maglokohan kayo! :D djke lang! normal nalang yata ngayon yan ..pero isang pagkakamali na kahit gusto mong iwasan mahirap gawin lalo na pag-na fall ka na Quote Link to comment
Sabsab Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 Cheater is always be a cheater! Hahaa Quote Link to comment
NightWriter Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 I don't know kasi pag sanay ka na sa attention ng iba, di ka na magbabago. I talked to a friend and i told him that di na ako magiging loyal sa isang tao kahit di halata sa akin yun. 2 kaibigan ko na dati kong mga boyfriend na may mga kinakasama na ngayon - nagkikita pa rin kami. Wala kaming pinagkaiba sa iba. Walang tama o mali kung naayon sa yo at sa yong happiness. One life - Live it. Quote Link to comment
Berdeng_Anino Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Um... case to case basis siguro to... some people actually tumino naman... some just learned to hide it better... Quote Link to comment
john5791 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Pg wala ng pera.. Quote Link to comment
Rhonda Tate Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 A cheater will always be a cheater. Quote Link to comment
global4 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Do not allow him to cheat Quote Link to comment
unknown23 Posted October 4, 2015 Share Posted October 4, 2015 There's no other way for them to stop... I do agree that once a cheater, will always be a cheater. Yung mga nahuli na nga, umuulit pa. What more yung hindi pa nahuhuli? Quote Link to comment
cytus Posted October 5, 2015 Share Posted October 5, 2015 You can't stop somebody from cheating sing biologically its ingrained into our brains to have sex with multiple partners to ensure propagation of our lineage. Psychologically, its also like an addiction, sex is a fix and you can't ease yourself without it. The only way i see that a person stops cheating is if he finds a good enough reason to stop (true love? Rekindled passion with wife/gf? Andropause?) Quote Link to comment
sensible33 Posted October 5, 2015 Share Posted October 5, 2015 they wont. period. Quote Link to comment
AsherForrester Posted October 6, 2015 Share Posted October 6, 2015 Well its a matter of prospective, cheaters can change. Quote Link to comment
ladyboy Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 pag my nangyari na sa buhay nya na karma Quote Link to comment
Gringo* Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 BULAGIN MO... eyes is the most sinner senses we have.. we always dream of what we see.. Quote Link to comment
Yapple69 Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Cheater will always be a cheater! Hanggat merong PC, mobile any electronic devices asahan mo hindi magbabago ang isang cheater! Quote Link to comment
Cool Fool Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Remove resources used in cheating, in short dapat walang pera ang lalake para di makapag loko. Pero if a girl dictates all spending iiwanan naman sya ng lalake. My honest opinion then is cheating cannot be avoided. Quote Link to comment
Supertottot Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 (edited) My husband is a cheater... He always go and f#&k some filthy prostitutes or in Spa..... He even defend himself, it's normal for a guy to try those act and it's only for fun and tempted to try lang daw! Pucha! Hindi ko ma-gets! .... I learned that once a cheater, he will always be a cheater. I gave a Second chances, worth giving, even a 3rd, but never fourth and so on.... But still im stuck on this marriage, because i want to protect my daughter and she doesn't want to have a broken family like her classmates daw:(Im now starting to love myself and keep my decency, I won't live in a miserable marriage. I deserve to be happy. And it is also not a recourse to cheat back. I won't stooped down to their level. He's not worth the love, time and effort. Very difficult to hold on to a family with a cheater... Hope our daughter won't experience this kind of pain.Any suggestions on how to deal with this kind of husband? Hhhaayytzzz... Edited October 20, 2015 by Supertottot Quote Link to comment
Cool Fool Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 My husband is a cheater... He always go and f#&k some filthy prostitutes or in Spa..... He even defend himself, it's normal for a guy to try those act and it's only for fun and tempted to try lang daw! Pucha! Hindi ko ma-gets! ....I learned that once a cheater, he will always be a cheater. I gave a Second chances, worth giving, even a 3rd, but never fourth and so on.... But still im stuck on this marriage, because i want to protect my daughter and she doesn't want to have a broken family like her classmates daw:(Im now starting to love myself and keep my decency, I won't live in a miserable marriage. I deserve to be happy. And it is also not a recourse to cheat back. I won't stooped down to their level. He's not worth the love, time and effort.Very difficult to hold on to a family with a cheater... Hope our daughter won't experience this kind of pain.Any suggestions on how to deal with this kind of husband? Hhhaayytzzz... I am truly sorry for what you are going through. I don't think you can change your husband, as only he can decide to change himself. What you have control however, is your own happiness and the love that you have for your daughter. I wish you the best of luck in dealing with your trouble. Quote Link to comment
p0p0ng Posted October 21, 2015 Share Posted October 21, 2015 Find out why he is cheating. If you know the cause it would be easier to deal with it. You'll know if it can still be fixed or wala na talagang pagasa. Kung wala ng pagasa, the next question is, is it still worth it? If yes, compromise, if not better to part ways. Quote Link to comment
Cap™ Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Well its a matter of perspective, cheaters can change. pag my nangyari na sa buhay nya na karma I'd agree with both. Minsan the worst brings you to reflect and make you change for the better. Quote Link to comment
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