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If you had done it with someone with unprotected sex and you might have an STD, see your doctor. Your doctor can give you meds for it, usually it's an injection. Usually in this cases you could have(most probably though) have given it to your wife too. I don't know if it's ethical or even possible that she gets the treatment without the doctor telling her what it is for. But it is worse if she doesn't get treatment. STD in a woman can cause sterilization, cancer, systemic illness, various other complications and even death. AIDS can't be cured. So in no case are you not supposed to tell her.

 

Teka aren't this enough to just make you not want to be a cheater. The girl/boy fb/one night stand/psp is likely having other partners who are also having other partners who are also having other partners. You aren't only sleeping with that girl/boy but all those they have slept with(and those that their partners had slept with).

 

Knowledge isn't enough thought to change ones behaviour. A change of attitude is one of them. There are other factors as well. Try to change the friends you hang with, from those that frequent bars to those that have other safer hobbies. Do something that you and your wife both enjoy, rekindle the old flame.

 

 

For those who are sincere in wanting to stop being a cheater: (if not, don't bother reading on)

If you are lucky enough not to have an infection and the doctor says that there's no need to tell the wife. And you are willing not to be a cheater anymore. Then don't tell the wife. Telling her will just hurt her. You already did the deed. Mlive with the conscience and don't break the fantasy she has of having a faithful husband. You at least owe her that little happiness. But of course you have to not cheat anymore. Easier said than done though. But nothing is too hard for the love of one's family especially the children. Good luck and God bless.

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