How can a cheater stop cheating

[Piaggio]

Maybe by getting busy doing other things that take one's mind off it.

[ronin_hentai]

In my humble opinion, you can't "make" a cheater stop. A cheater will stop cheating once he/she finally decides by him/herself to stop cheating. Much like quitting cigarettes or any other vice. A person will only stop if they make a conscious decision that they'll stop. No amount of cajoling, reward/punishment systems, or graded withdrawal will make someone abandon their indulgence unless there is a conscious decision from that person to stop indulging. Ganun din sa cheaters tingin ko.

[ronin_hentai]

 

....For clarity's sake, can we clarify kung ano definition ng cheating?

 

Siguro sir, pointless napo to split hairs at least for the purposes of this particular discussion. Whether we admit to it or not, cheating yan lahat. I agree, maaring may certain differences in degrees pero bottomline cheat pa rin yan lahat.

Edited May 1, 2016 by ronin_hentai

[p-colossus]

For me, any sexual or intimate encounter that can betray your partner's trust in you is cheating. Hell, even watching porn in some cases have been considered as cheating if it damages your partner's self-esteem and morale.

 

The thing is you made yourself exclusive to somebody when you decided go steady. That means you should be intimate only to your partner, as she is with you. Then you decide to do something with somebody else, an act which you should only be doing exclusively to the one you promised yourself to. It is betrayal, no matter what degree.

 

The damage it can do is vast. If you were keen on trying other intimate things with others then maybe exclusivity isn't for you. Have an open relationship, get consent from your partner to try things with other people or include your partner in these endeavors.

[jelly bean]

Agree with this. Until he gets tired of cheating, or probably until he catches a disease.

For clarity's sake, can we clarify kung ano definition ng cheating? Is that having an affair with someone who knows your true identity? Or having discreet encounters sa mga spas, mpas, one night stands wherein the man just wants to get his fix?

I think having an affair is a different level since you are already investing some of your emotions, as opposed to ESpas, mpas, ONStands wherein it's purely sexual. Cheating yan pareho pero magkaiba lang ng degree

Ikaw Na rin sumagot sa question mo... Cheating Yan pereho. Crystal clear.

[jelly bean]

For me, any sexual or intimate encounter that can betray your partner's trust in you is cheating. Hell, even watching porn in some cases have been considered as cheating if it damages your partner's self-esteem and morale.

The thing is you made yourself exclusive to somebody when you decided go steady. That means you should be intimate only to your partner, as she is with you. Then you decide to do something with somebody else, an act which you should only be doing exclusively to the one you promised yourself to. It is betrayal, no matter what degree.

The damage it can do is vast. If you were keen on trying other intimate things with others then maybe exclusivity isn't for you. Have an open relationship, get consent from your partner to try things with other people or include your partner in these endeavors.

Tama! Sa mind ng cheaters may degree degree pa Siguro silang nalalaman. But when you hurt those you love, walang degree dun... Hurt is hurt, pain is pain and the damage is always beyond your expectation or imagination... Edited May 1, 2016 by Coffeeholic

[JoshuaJacob]

Have a cheater take a dose of his own medicine. This would really irate this person.

[camus]

You cannot make anyone do anything if they do not want to do it. Cheater must want to stop on his/her own. But even before that, he/she must believe it's wrong. If he/she doesn't believe it's wrong to cheat, then there is no reason to stop.

[mang_kadyot]

Pag nahanap nya na ung 1 true love

[unknown23]

Stop? I don't think so. A cheater will always be a cheater, sabi nga nila.

[bakedzitiguy]

probably no. lalo na if he can get away with it

[joseph69er]

Never

[Raizenne]

The question is "how". The best way is for the cheater him/herself first decide it's over.

 

However, when the cheater don't have the capacity to do so. It will eventually stop.

Edited June 17, 2016 by Raizenne

[jorlang23]

Cctv

[Ninongboogie]

There's a saying Na

Cheater is always a cheater

You know guys only your self can answer the question. At ikaw Lang din makapag papa tunay Na Ang cheater pwedeng mag bago

😂😂😂😂😂

There's a saying Na

Cheater is always a cheater

You know guys only your self can answer the question. At ikaw Lang din makapag papa tunay Na Ang cheater pwedeng mag bago

😂😂😂😂😂

[cheateddaddy]

agree to all posts. wala na tayo magagawa. TIWALA system na lang. or get the hell out of that relationship kung paranoid ka talaga. its not like a pebble in your shoes na pwede mo tanggalin pag irate ka na.

[Shad0w]

You'll only be cheating when you are currently in a relationship.

 

So technically, a cheater will stop cheating when s/he is not in a relationship anymore.

[ghost_in_you]

If he or she dies...lols

Then the cheating would stop

[jacktorjak]

No one can stop a Cheater but only of himself/herself.

[Gwen Morales]

A cheater will stop if he lose all his/her resources to cheat

 

 

eg.

 

money

physical looks

 

 

 

Or if there is Divine Intervention. Miracle kumbaga.

[Miranda👑]

Cheater is always a cheater.

[Ms.Charm]

Focus on ME

[Jules Morden Tallano]

Give him/her a dose of their own medicine.

[anghel13]

THEY DONT

[sisid118]

cheaters cheat for a reason.....find out why they cheat and the cheating will stop