Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[handsomebob]

3 hours ago, babygurlmooo said:

I would have talked to her if she was alone. I don't want her to be overwhelmed. Thinking about it now, sana nga kinausap ko na. Who knows when I will get to see her again. 

YOU HAVE TO TAKE THAT CHANCE bro, the worse that could happen is ignore ka niya but if pinakitaan mo naman siya ng maayus, i think she would at least be civil and ask na wag mo na siya guluhin / istorbohin but maybe that is for the better kaya mo siguro di siya na approach!

[cutiechavez]

On 10/2/2022 at 9:53 AM, Guest Anonymous said:

Goodluck finding a thera/GRO who is actually and legitimately single to begin with. Many will say they're single but actually have waste-of-life boyfriends who are screwing them for free unlike you. Tapos may consent pa nila yung pangbudol. Ikaw naman side-sponsor na panay buhos ng pera sa babae, ang nang yayari yung pera mo ginagamit ng thera/GRO pang buhay sa parents/siblings nya, tapos yung legit income nya yung pang gastos nila ng jowa nila.

Kung 100% verified mo na single yung thera/GRO, hindi tayo judgmental dito at understanding tayo, go ahead ligawan mo. Kung maging kayo, spoil her, it's okay. Kahit manligaw ka ng professional na babae ganyan din naman may gastusin.

Basta legit 100% single ah, hindi yung may secret kababatang jowa na "ex" daw kuno na binubuhay pa rin nya.

agree, wag papauto

[Simpler]

21 hours ago, babygurlmooo said:

I finally saw the thera that I was looking for more than a year. 

I fell in love with this thera kasi parang naligaw lang siya in the industry. 2 months lang ata. We lost touch after she didn't report sa GL. Naaalala ko halos araw araw ako tumatawag para magtanong kung pumasok ba siya. For more than a year halos every weekend ako umiikot sa MPs hoping to see her. Yesterday, I saw her at a mall in Makati. I saw her sliding down a giant inflatable. I couldn't believe what I was seeing para bang nag slowmo as she was sliding. Bumilis pagtibok ng dibdib ko. I quickly glanced sa mga kasama niya. She was with her son, and 2 yayas (ata) pero walang asawa. 10 minutes siguro ako watching from a distance. Ni hindi ko alam kung lalapit ba ako para kausapin siya pero parang stuck in the moment ako. Naunahan ako nang takot na baka hindi niya ako pansinin. It looks like maayos naman buhay niya. Masaya. Ok na siguro ako makita siya na nagtatagumpay sa buhay.

To Celina, 

Malamang wala lang ako sa iyo pero sobrang laki ng impact mo sakin. Araw araw kita naiisip. Masaya ako nasilayan ko muli ang mga ngiti mo. Wala akong ibang hangad kundi ang kasiyahan mo. Sana makita at makausap kita muli. Sana makarating sayo ito. Kung sakali magbago ang isip mo, pwede mo pa rin i-take ang offer ko. 

 

Ako din na inlove ako sa thera taga GL din halos everyday Ko pinupuntahan Pero masyado ng mailap at Hindi Ko matyempuhan   Pero kahit 2x lang kami nagkita nakuha nya agad atensyon ko lagi Ko sya message dati Pero mukhang iniiwasan ako,until now hinanahanap ko pa rin sya,kaya pag nakita ko sya d Ko na palalagpasin and pagkakataon kahit marinig Ko lang boses nya at mahawakan ang kamay masaya na ako.

[babygurlmooo]

On 10/26/2022 at 7:14 PM, handsomebob said:

YOU HAVE TO TAKE THAT CHANCE bro, the worse that could happen is ignore ka niya but if pinakitaan mo naman siya ng maayus, i think she would at least be civil and ask na wag mo na siya guluhin / istorbohin but maybe that is for the better kaya mo siguro di siya na approach!

Ang iniisip ko kasi na scenario sir sa MP kami magkikita ulit kaya siguro nanigas ako. I'm still hoping na makita siya ulit, talagang hindi ko na papalagpasin. 

[babygurlmooo]

On 10/26/2022 at 8:02 PM, Simpler said:

Ako din na inlove ako sa thera taga GL din halos everyday Ko pinupuntahan Pero masyado ng mailap at Hindi Ko matyempuhan   Pero kahit 2x lang kami nagkita nakuha nya agad atensyon ko lagi Ko sya message dati Pero mukhang iniiwasan ako,until now hinanahanap ko pa rin sya,kaya pag nakita ko sya d Ko na palalagpasin and pagkakataon kahit marinig Ko lang boses nya at mahawakan ang kamay masaya na ako.

Ganyan na ganyan pakiramdam ko sir. Araw araw ko siya naiisip. Kung ppwede lang bumalik sa panahon sana mas ginalingan ko pa ang pag ligaw sakanya.

[handsomebob]

1 hour ago, babygurlmooo said:

Ang iniisip ko kasi na scenario sir sa MP kami magkikita ulit kaya siguro nanigas ako. I'm still hoping na makita siya ulit, talagang hindi ko na papalagpasin. 

yeah you should but still maybe you did not approach her as you are respecting her space / privacy din which I understand.

siguro bro wag mo isipin siya masyado and kuha ka ng iba....

 

[menyeks]

Pera pera lang yan kung kelan ka walang wala 

Iiwan kana na din nyan at maghahanap ng bago syempre yung mas mapera kaya ingat ingat lang madamk dyan magaling 

[menyeks2]

Move on move on na din di na nga pinapansin papansin pa 

Gagawa pa talaga ng ibang eksena para mapansin 

Salamat at may ibang nauto at naka move on na din 

Kung saan may madudukot doon kakapit 

[hyatt122002]

Not necessarily falling for one but having developed an certain attachment that you just feel comfortable and safe with the thera. 

[Simpler]

1 hour ago, menyeks2 said:

Move on move on na din di na nga pinapansin papansin pa 

Gagawa pa talaga ng ibang eksena para mapansin 

Salamat at may ibang nauto at naka move on na din 

Kung saan may madudukot doon kakapit 

May hugot ka Sir 

[Ice Lover]

2 hours ago, hyatt122002 said:

Not necessarily falling for one but having developed an certain attachment that you just feel comfortable and safe with the thera. 

mas ok yung ganyan kaso pag biglang nawala si thera (retirement, etc.) para din nakipagbreak yung feeling

[tikholing16]

On 10/28/2022 at 2:16 PM, hyatt122002 said:

Not necessarily falling for one but having developed an certain attachment that you just feel comfortable and safe with the thera. 

So true

[JohnLee000]

Wag nyo maliitin ang thera.

 

Ako si JOHN LEE at meron ako jowa na thera sa Classique. Naka 2 months na kami. Ok lang sakin kahit meron kumakantot sa kanya. Basta bawal kiss sa iba.

[marauderviking]

that's an interesting story to write about

[ZaalbartErol]

Unless mutual ang feelings/reciprocated... walang tutunguhan na seryoso.

[Christian.Grey]

On 10/3/2022 at 3:40 PM, Chiananicole said:

Maraming therapist na kinakalawang nalang sa pagiging therapist walang pundar at ipun dahil sa Hindi marunong humawak ng pera. Para sa mga therapist mag-ipun kayo para sa ikakabuti ng kinabukasan nyo, HinDi HABANG buhay therapist trabaho nyo. 

Tama 

[Emigen]

The reason you feel like you fall in love with theras
- is most likely because you feel you are accepted and cared for without judgement and without any effort on your side. Theras secretly want to find that person who accepts them without question.

But, that is the service you are paying for. It is what every man pays for.

The nurturer or carer is a powerful and important role women have.
- Theras all have times of feeling alone, cut off, unsure with no support. A lot of them will choose a woman first to share. It is therapeutic. But in a sex work booking, people commonly ignore the therapeutic process that can happen.

Women already get the interaction and attention for free.
- They meet their girlfriends, who create a similar space ,as they create for their clients, so they can talk it out.

Men have a different code and version, but it’s different not as open.
- They can’t really let themselves go with their friends or others. You can see the difference watching guys interact and girls interact. So what women gets for free, a man has to pay for the same thing unless he has a partner who will listen. But the payment keeps it confined to the time that’s needed, like a therapist.

When you book a thera, the money exchange is not just about the physical.
- It quickly creates a bubble around them. When you respectfully step into that room, you are also stepping into a space made up of:

• No judgements, no one to impress, no expectations of labels put on you
• Acceptance of who you are, not what you look like or your financial worth
• A persons undivided attention given without having to earn it or prove yourself
• Someone who will listen when you speak
• Aim to ensure you are happy
• It is a safe space where you can be or explore the ‘real you’.

The fallacy lays with the idea that booking is just about a physical need.
- A psychologist may be a specialist carer for your mind. A thera is more broad in her services using different methods working also with the natural symbiotic need of connection between men and women.

Even outside of work, you see the difference it makes to a guy to hang out with a girl.

Although you may feel other girls are boring and repressed. It’s not true. Outside work hours, you would think the same of them. They may care about you in a professional manner but that is their job. At home, theras are part of all those other girls. You have to put effort in to have the same result.

- Talya De Fay

[Howdy Doody]

8 hours ago, Emigen said:

The reason you feel like you fall in love with theras
- is most likely because you feel you are accepted and cared for without judgement and without any effort on your side. Theras secretly want to find that person who accepts them without question.

But, that is the service you are paying for. It is what every man pays for.

The nurturer or carer is a powerful and important role women have.
- Theras all have times of feeling alone, cut off, unsure with no support. A lot of them will choose a woman first to share. It is therapeutic. But in a sex work booking, people commonly ignore the therapeutic process that can happen.

Women already get the interaction and attention for free.
- They meet their girlfriends, who create a similar space ,as they create for their clients, so they can talk it out.

Men have a different code and version, but it’s different not as open.
- They can’t really let themselves go with their friends or others. You can see the difference watching guys interact and girls interact. So what women gets for free, a man has to pay for the same thing unless he has a partner who will listen. But the payment keeps it confined to the time that’s needed, like a therapist.

When you book a thera, the money exchange is not just about the physical.
- It quickly creates a bubble around them. When you respectfully step into that room, you are also stepping into a space made up of:

• No judgements, no one to impress, no expectations of labels put on you
• Acceptance of who you are, not what you look like or your financial worth
• A persons undivided attention given without having to earn it or prove yourself
• Someone who will listen when you speak
• Aim to ensure you are happy
• It is a safe space where you can be or explore the ‘real you’.

The fallacy lays with the idea that booking is just about a physical need.
- A psychologist may be a specialist carer for your mind. A thera is more broad in her services using different methods working also with the natural symbiotic need of connection between men and women.

Even outside of work, you see the difference it makes to a guy to hang out with a girl.

Although you may feel other girls are boring and repressed. It’s not true. Outside work hours, you would think the same of them. They may care about you in a professional manner but that is their job. At home, theras are part of all those other girls. You have to put effort in to have the same result.

- Talya De Fay

Bro, you certainly gave some serious thoughts on this subject. Very good insight about relationships going beyond the physicality which opens new perspectives.

[dominickcruise]

I think I am falling for a spa therapist, she really is sweet and i know this is a client - therapist relationship but i cannot help it she is too sweet and hindi mukhang pera (as she has a business while doing the spa thing on the side -- pambayad bills as what she says plus support sa kapatid niyang nag aaral) et us see how this goes, I hope to meet her again this week then we will have coffee really soon

 

[Ernest Ty]

3 hours ago, dominickcruise said:

I think I am falling for a spa therapist, she really is sweet and i know this is a client - therapist relationship but i cannot help it she is too sweet and hindi mukhang pera (as she has a business while doing the spa thing on the side -- pambayad bills as what she says plus support sa kapatid niyang nag aaral) et us see how this goes, I hope to meet her again this week then we will have coffee really soon

 

pare, take it from someone na nagsayang ng 7 years sa ganun. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS FOOL YOU. PLEASE. ESPECIALLY KUNG MAY FAMILY KA.  wag mo akong gayahin. its not fun spending money on them. not even worth it. sa totoo lang. all for what? wala nga peace of mind eh. 

[Ernest Ty]

Just now, Ernest Ty said:

pare, take it from someone na nagsayang ng 7 years sa ganun. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS FOOL YOU. PLEASE. ESPECIALLY KUNG MAY FAMILY KA.  wag mo akong gayahin. its not fun spending money on them. not even worth it. sa totoo lang. all for what? wala nga peace of mind eh. 

kala ko dati ok lang kasi fullfilled, pero d pala, full of heart ache at sleepless nights (hindi dahil sa sex ha) dahil sa selos at sama ng loob. hindi ko naman masabing pangit ako sa edad ko🤔🤣😂 unsolicited advice ika nga. never ever fall for those you met sa ganun. with exceptions. pero mas malamang manalo ka sa lotto kaysa makatagpo mo yung exception na yun.

[dominickcruise]

On 11/2/2022 at 12:15 AM, Ernest Ty said:

pare, take it from someone na nagsayang ng 7 years sa ganun. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS FOOL YOU. PLEASE. ESPECIALLY KUNG MAY FAMILY KA.  wag mo akong gayahin. its not fun spending money on them. not even worth it. sa totoo lang. all for what? wala nga peace of mind eh. 

salamat sa payo po sir, 28 years old pa lang po ako pero nagka gf ako pero hindi naman siya super serious before

[Ernest Ty]

13 minutes ago, Billy Hope smallest penis said:

Nagpaloko ka pala sa thera brad. Salamat sa pag share.

Bata lang ako 21 years old. Maaga active sa spa. Muntik din ako diyan. Buti meron ako maganda gf. Bawas sa attraction.

Basta isipin natin di seryoso ang sa thera. Panandalian lang. Kasi sila din mismo di naman nagpakantot yan para magka jowa. Kadalasan sa kanila meron din jowa. Ewan ko kung meron tatagal. Baka after 1 or 2 months wala na rin sila jowa dahil sa selosan.

 

alaga ko sya d pa nag thera

[menyeks2]

Big NO

[plug]

On 11/1/2022 at 9:05 PM, dominickcruise said:

I think I am falling for a spa therapist, she really is sweet and i know this is a client - therapist relationship but i cannot help it she is too sweet and hindi mukhang pera (as she has a business while doing the spa thing on the side -- pambayad bills as what she says plus support sa kapatid niyang nag aaral) et us see how this goes, I hope to meet her again this week then we will have coffee really soon

 

Marahil kailangan mong ma evaluate si thera ng husto kung pwede siya sa magiging papel niya sa iyo. Gawin mong jowa, kabit, alaga o parausan pati na kung serious relation better pa rin na ilabas mo siya sa spa. Maiiwasan mong magselos o mag isip ng mga pwedeng mangyari at totoong nangyayari sa loob ng spa kahit na sabihin niyang di niya ginagawa. 

Kung determined kang fit siya sa gusto mo then nasa pagdadala mo na yan para maging faithful siya sa iyo.

Pero dapat determined ka rin na bitawan siya once di mo nagustuhan ang nangyayari. Dagdag pahirap manghinayang sa oras at pera na nawala unless may pera kang patapon.