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let's not judge a lady by her profession. she may have reasons for being in such a predicament. i have lady escorts here at mtc... but i treat them as friends, i was never a client. you might be surprised to know the underlying reasons why they're are doing it. no offense, but i do believe they're much better persons than most of you.  ;) they are people too, much like you and me... capable of having true feelings and have the right to express them freely as you. what right do you have to judge them?

 

nice reply from The General. Fair response. Society might dictate not to respect and take MPAs seriously as a partner.... but we should always be reminded that MPAs are also human. They need to be respected, cared for and loved as any other person. dito sa mga ganitong topic lumalabas ang pagka-double standard ang mga tao. They deserve to be taken seriously as ordinary girls. they may be in a job which society is not amenable to but we should try to find out what causes them to do it. and still give the love and respect due them. I am sure given the opportunity, they will not be in that kind of business.

 

reality....may struggle to love and accept them for the person loving them. on the other hand, if MPAs would want to be loved and taken seriously later on...kailangan when the right person comes...they'll decide somehow to leave the business and start anew. :)

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nice insight heavygatin

 

thanks po.

 

anyway, most MPA's have boyfriends who don't know their line of work...usually from the same social status who think their girls work at some office in Cubao or Makati or something...

 

well..if that is the way to do it para they can be loved and respected why not...but they should find the opportunity to tell the guy and be true later on..kasi diba sabi nga..walang apoy na di umuusok...so..malalaman pa din later on..bottomline..honesty.

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  • 2 weeks later...
With all due respect, I do not totally agree with this. What if the MPA is the bread winner and has a family to feed and the guy does not have the financial means to support the "extended" family? I would think the "couple" would agree on a compromise.  :rolleyes:

Good discussion. MPAs as what Daredevil23 has said are breadwinners and providers not only for themselves but to their families as well. Let us try to understand that they are PEOPLE too, working hard to uplift their lives and their family as well.

 

I am not a regular of these MPs, but I could just imagine and feel what these MPAs are experiencing at any given night. Many would say that it is all for the money, I agree, but to a certain point, let all of us chauvinists ponder that their earnings are for their's and their families subsistence, very noble and humane but yet misunderstood, misjuded and prejudiced. Mahirap ang ginagawa nila at any given night, having to have ..x with their guest or customer.

 

Please let us RESPECT ans UNDERSTAND them (MPAs) more for what they were forced to do because of the circumstances. They are just like us... PEOPLE working hard for a living, for the good of our families.

 

SMB.

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If i was filthy rich I'll "take- home" or "garahe" my fave MP, for thesake of helping her needs and for eclusivity, if I really like her. But to love her would totally be out of the question, magkakaroon din ng problems in the long run, like compatability, magkaiba kayo ng wavelength, no offense meant but that is the reality. Its a quite complicated because we will never really understand the nature of their work that they do. And that is very hard to accept.

 

But I am not speaking in general, I am speaking on my own experience, there maybe guys out there who can do the unthinkable. I salute you, whoever you are...

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Visit this link (You love her but does she love you?) for more discussions on this topic.

 

Some hard questions to answer:

 

- Can you accept the fact that she will be going to bed with another man? Unless you plan to support her financially, then she will have to continue in that profession. If you will plan to support her financially, then be prepared that her problems will become your problems. There has to be a reason why she chose that profession, and it is probably because she has a sick family member, a child to support, severe debt, or even all of the above.

 

- How will you explain this to your family and your friends?

 

- When asked on how you met, what will you say?

 

- If you take her to gatherings, office parties, school reunions, barkada nights, how will you react if someone recognizes her?

 

- Or worse, how will you react if a total stranger does recognize her?

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Visit this link (You love her but does she love you?) for more discussions on this topic.

 

Some hard questions to answer:

 

- Can you accept the fact that she will be going to bed with another man? Unless you plan to support her financially, then she will have to continue in that profession.  If you will plan to support her financially, then be prepared that her problems will become your problems.  There has to be a reason why she chose that profession, and it is probably because she has a sick family member, a child to support, severe debt, or even all of the above.

 

- How will you explain this to your family and your friends?

 

- When asked on how you met, what will you say?

 

- If you take her to gatherings, office parties, school reunions, barkada nights, how will you react if someone recognizes her?

 

- Or worse, how will you react if a total stranger does recognize her?

or even worse, what if your father/brother recognizes her? :cry:

 

or even more, what if your houseboy/driver recognizes her? :blink:

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Dito sa mundo lahat possible. It can happen to you and me pag talagang meant. But the hard part is DURING kayo na kasi ang daming pressure ang matatanggap mo from different sources. Family mo especially, but if youre the independent type na mabubuhay kahit kayo lang, it may work. But most of the time, as I see it, they just end up as mistresses. Pero Ive heard na meron ding sineswerte. So good luck na lang sa inyo... Hope youll make it through.

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