1st_ichiban Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 IMHO,these ladies still need to be given a chance... maybe some of them fall prey to becoming "darth vaders" as a result of their experience to making a quick buck...but maybe, just maybe some are honestly looking for a way out of the predicament that they are in...while some of us may have had not so good experiences, that is the risk one takes when one falls in love. although i do not recommend falling in love with them... falling in love is human. if it happens it happens. if you think its not for you, better get out. but if you feel that you have no purpose in life without her and willing to take the risk associated with falling in love with this person => suggest you go for it. in the end, its up to you and how much you know about yourself and the other person. just my two cents Quote Link to comment
TheDRAGON Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 falling in love is normal, i guess. MPAs, PSPs, and GROs are human, too. You juast have to be ready for the repurcussions and consequences of such events. Quote Link to comment
noypi^ Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 back in my college days, i fell in love with a girl. she was a GRO in lexus (sarado na ito db?). we were together for more than 2 years. i wouldn't forget her funny thing was, i never get the chance to go inside this club not until i graduated which was her graduation "gift" to me. they are also like us who have a heart waiting to be love Quote Link to comment
chad8693 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 quick update mga bro...we got back together when i got back from abroad last week..kaya lang things got worse..everytime her phone rings or gets a text message..she desperately tries to hide it from me and even erases the messages..i heard that there are a lot of guys chasing her...and it hurts me so much..i am doing so many things to keep this relationship alive...and it seems that she does not appreciate what i am doing for us!!!...everynight shes always out..does not tell me where she goes!!!..does not answer the phone and even at times sends me a text message intended for another guy!!!...hay naku bro..i dont know what to do na!!!!...my head is swelling my blood is boiling ..trying to hang in there ... almost about to give up..but i love her so much...............i feel that i am the only one trying making it work in this realtionship........ Quote Link to comment
chad8693 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 she got home 3 am this morning ...no explanations!!!.....she left 7 pm the night before wearing a very sexy outfit..i dont know what the hell shes doing to me???...i dont know if this is her way of saying i dont like u anymore!!!!..is so frustrating..its so disapointing ..more than anything..it hurts so much..u dont know what the hell is going on!!!! Quote Link to comment
chad8693 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 what do u think mga bro??....what should i do this time????tigas tlaga ang ulo ko e..hay naku ang pagibig talaga!!!! Quote Link to comment
tabouki Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 what do u think mga bro??....what should i do this time????tigas tlaga ang ulo ko e..hay naku ang pagibig talaga!!!! bro. sensia sa dating pero here it is - LET GO, bitawan mo na, huwag ka magpa-gago /magpaka-gago, MOVE ON. Quote Link to comment
manyaque Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 @chad, she's playing around whether you're there or not. Furthermore, since she isn't quitting what she's doing, it's more important to her than you are to her. Think about it, are you really in love or is this an extreme form of infatuation? She's evidently not a damsel-in-distress, so quit your knight-in-shining-armor thoughts. Move on, cuz she's not. Peace! Quote Link to comment
boratsagdiyev Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 what do u think mga bro??....what should i do this time????tigas tlaga ang ulo ko e..hay naku ang pagibig talaga!!!! Dude: I normally encourage (in fact to the point of being "consintidor") my friends to seek their happiness in life. We all have one life to live, I don't believe we should ever hold back on anything. In the end I don't want anybody regretting that they failed to do something. I read an article in this weeks Inquirer Magazine on Ad-man David Gurerrero relating stories about his father, the great historian Leon Maria Guerrero, teaching him that in life one should never apologize. Not that it is an unchristian thing to do, but in everything that you do you must think hard before leaping. If it fails, then one knows it was thought over and done. No regrets thereafter. All happiness in this world has a price, don't think rich people and seemingly happy people are having it easy. Ducks look serene on the water, but if you saw their feet underwater you would be surprised how hard they work. In your case, you already took the leap. You tried your best to make it work. If it is destroying you, let go. No apologies no regrets, at least you had puntang! Quote Link to comment
chad8693 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 bro. sensia sa dating pero here it is - LET GO, bitawan mo na, huwag ka magpa-gago /magpaka-gago, MOVE ON. ok lang bro..sometimes i need brutually frank pieces of advise!!!....thanks bro appreciate it alot!!!! Quote Link to comment
chad8693 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 @chad, she's playing around whether you're there or not. Furthermore, since she isn't quitting what she's doing, it's more important to her than you are to her. Think about it, are you really in love or is this an extreme form of infatuation? She's evidently not a damsel-in-distress, so quit your knight-in-shining-armor thoughts. Move on, cuz she's not. Peace! salamat bro sa advise..i m still trying to weigh things out...i really love this girl thats why it is not easy to let go!!!.... Quote Link to comment
chad8693 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 @chad, she's playing around whether you're there or not. Furthermore, since she isn't quitting what she's doing, it's more important to her than you are to her. Think about it, are you really in love or is this an extreme form of infatuation? She's evidently not a damsel-in-distress, so quit your knight-in-shining-armor thoughts. Move on, cuz she's not. Peace! i really luv this chick..thats why its hard to let go..i m trying to weigh things out!!!..salamat bro sa advise!!! Quote Link to comment
chad8693 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 Dude: I normally encourage (in fact to the point of being "consintidor") my friends to seek their happiness in life. We all have one life to live, I don't believe we should ever hold back on anything. In the end I don't want anybody regretting that they failed to do something. I read an article in this weeks Inquirer Magazine on Ad-man David Gurerrero relating stories about his father, the great historian Leon Maria Guerrero, teaching him that in life one should never apologize. Not that it is an unchristian thing to do, but in everything that you do you must think hard before leaping. If it fails, then one knows it was thought over and done. No regrets thereafter. All happiness in this world has a price, don't think rich people and seemingly happy people are having it easy. Ducks look serene on the water, but if you saw their feet underwater you would be surprised how hard they work. In your case, you already took the leap. You tried your best to make it work. If it is destroying you, let go. No apologies no regrets, at least you had puntang! yon nga mga kapatid..i m trying so hard to make this work..pero it seems that its all in vain..unappreciated..kulang pa daw!!!...i m really quite worried that she might be entertaining suitors na!!!..she now very secretive!!!...ITS HURTING SO MUCH!!!..I dont know why i am feeling this way???...if i wanted to..modesty aside..i could easily replace her with a whole bunch ..pero d ako ganoon mga bro!!!...thanks for the advise mga kapatid sa pananampalataya..i draw strenght from u guys!!!! Quote Link to comment
cuatro_ojos Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 yon nga mga kapatid..i m trying so hard to make this work..pero it seems that its all in vain..unappreciated..kulang pa daw!!!...i m really quite worried that she might be entertaining suitors na!!!..she now very secretive!!!...ITS HURTING SO MUCH!!!..I dont know why i am feeling this way???...if i wanted to..modesty aside..i could easily replace her with a whole bunch ..pero d ako ganoon mga bro!!!...thanks for the advise mga kapatid sa pananampalataya..i draw strenght from u guys!!!! Di ba me kasabihan na walang manloloko kung walang nagpapaloko? Get over it, bro. Ayaw na niya sa 'yo. You said you could easily replace her with a whole bunch? Then, as the Nike slogan goes, "just do it". Yeah, yeah, masakit kasi mahal mo siya, etc. etc. You still have some dignity in you, so do what is right. You'll get over it. Quote Link to comment
zeromike22 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 ei chad, get out of your present relationship... Go find a girl worthy of your love...Someone who really loves you in return..There are many fish in the sea and why settle for sardines when you can have a tuna right??? Sa tingin ko love mo lang sya dahil sa beauty niya? or the mindblowing sex? or the attention you get from being with her? ..Stop being a martyr. Think of the future pre. Is that the kind of girl you wanna end with for the rest of your life? YOu deserve better.. Do good, look good, and feel good always.. Sooner or later you will find the girl of your dreams. Goodluck Quote Link to comment
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