Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[r91]

Nakaka miss yung Midas nuon.. Mavic and Marigold💙  asan na kaya sila?

[Midlurker2005]

On 6/20/2023 at 11:54 AM, Diamond of Touch said:

Very well said🖤

Totoo nman Malaking hamon sa Isang therapist or sa kahit na sinong nagtatrabaho sa flesh industry Ang umalis sa gantong kalakaran 

Goal na lang talaga is makaipon pag aralan Ang mga bagay bagay sa hirap Ng buhay ngayon kahit di mo linya pag aralan mo na Kung may pera na ipon mag negosyo kung gusto mag aral mag aral,utak na lang talaga gagamitin mo. 

But kung may pag ka happy go lucky ka gastos dito gastos doon at iisipin mo na kikitain mo din namin ito kinabukasan jusko manlumo ka.. 

Sa panahon ngayon kasi to be honest prangka na kung prangka kung di utak gagamitin mo at nandto ka sa gantong industriya talo ka.  

Pero syempree kanya kanyang dahilan pa din nman sa likod Ng mga kwento na kung bakit nanatili pa din/bumalik o umalis  sa gantong industriya ,kanya kanyang kwento na maiintindihan na lang Ng kung sino kung sila Yung nasa sitwasyon.

Wag ganun. . Na well said mo ako.  Baka magka crush ako sayo niyan. Mag PM na ba ako?  
 

@darwin2k4 The mother. 

Edited June 25, 2023 by Midlurker2005

[jsgan]

Silent reader here…

It’s really hard after falling for a thera. Especially if you know she had been in the industry for quite some time.

I want help her and take her out. Despite that I want to help her & her family if a person doesn’t want to be save you can’t help it. Or probably marami na nangako na GM sakanya and d naman tinupad?

Met this Thera last year May 2022. For some reason we did not communicate until November / December of 2022. Then hiatus again until May 2023. (Anniversary lang)?

I personally offered to help her needs w/o anything in return I mean nandun na yung S** but other than that wala coz I also have a family. And I also came from nothing. Somebody just helped me out to have a better life and would like to also extend and do it for her. Tinamaan ata ako… Sometime you meet people at the wrong time. 

Who am I to judge if I fell for her? Ako nga notorious na babaero or Thera Hunter. Pero I feel bad that I had found out she has a boyfriend and yet sinabe nya sakin wala. I think time to let go of this craziness… unfair din sa bf nya… atleast there was a time in my life na nagbakasakali na makatulong. Siguro will retire on doing this nadin despite am still young. Haaay, will meet her one of these days to say my final goodbye. 😢 (she doesn’t know yet ai found out that she has a bf).

Glad I have my resources, also thanks to my thera friends who gave me their names for me to have checked. Dami kasi poser/dummy accounts nowadays.

 

Yours Truly,

James in the Industry J* in Reality 😂

[Midlurker2005]

9 hours ago, jsgan said:

Silent reader here…

It’s really hard after falling for a thera. Especially if you know she had been in the industry for quite some time.

I want help her and take her out. Despite that I want to help her & her family if a person doesn’t want to be save you can’t help it. Or probably marami na nangako na GM sakanya and d naman tinupad?

Met this Thera last year May 2022. For some reason we did not communicate until November / December of 2022. Then hiatus again until May 2023. (Anniversary lang)?

I personally offered to help her needs w/o anything in return I mean nandun na yung S** but other than that wala coz I also have a family. And I also came from nothing. Somebody just helped me out to have a better life and would like to also extend and do it for her. Tinamaan ata ako… Sometime you meet people at the wrong time. 

Who am I to judge if I fell for her? Ako nga notorious na babaero or Thera Hunter. Pero I feel bad that I had found out she has a boyfriend and yet sinabe nya sakin wala. I think time to let go of this craziness… unfair din sa bf nya… atleast there was a time in my life na nagbakasakali na makatulong. Siguro will retire on doing this nadin despite am still young. Haaay, will meet her one of these days to say my final goodbye. 😢 (she doesn’t know yet ai found out that she has a bf).

Glad I have my resources, also thanks to my thera friends who gave me their names for me to have checked. Dami kasi poser/dummy accounts nowadays.

 

Yours Truly,

James in the Industry J* in Reality 😂

Saklap.

Nangyari na rin sa akin ito. Ang masakit pa nun, alam ng bf na may “ako” at alam na pera-pera lang talaga.

Walang paghuhusga pero bawat GM, lalo na pag regular, may relasyon si thera. Hindi mo masusukat kung gaano ka lalim yung relasyon na yun pero dun lang sa maliit na mundo na yun. Tinatago ni Thera yan siyempre kasi may pakinabang yun at para sa kanila, tinuturing nilang kaibigan kuno (friends with benefits). Hindi nila ibibigay ang detalye ng mga relasyon na yang sabaysabay. Syempre, discretion ang puhunan para tuloy tuloy ang biyaya. Lahat ng beteranong GM dito, alam lahat yan. Tayong mga GM, may mga relasyon sa thera(s) na tayo lang ang may alam. Pero baliw ka kung isipin mong ikaw lang. (Side story: isang eskandalo ang nangyari sa Kemosabe dati kasi may thera dun dati na ang mojo ay makipagrelasyon sa guest na kunwari sila lang ang nakakaalam. Yun pala marami sila. Kaya lampas milyon yung nakuha ni thera sa loob mg anim na buwan. Nakapagpatayo ng bahay eh Hahaha wala na yung thera)

Mautak din naman ang mga thera. Nakaka tanggap sila ng kung anu-anu sa mga GM, mula sa pagkain (kung bago pa), gadgets (cellphone, TV, etc)  hanggang sa pang kabuhayan showcase (kung mayamang matandang, madaling mamatay). Eto pa: alam ng mga kapwa thera nila yan kasi sila mismo me sharing ng impormasyon kung sino ang galante o sino ang buraot. 

Inpayrness, alam din naman ng matandang GM yun. May kakilala ako na thera na binahay lang ng matandang GM dahil byudo na siya at gusto niya lang ng may katabi siya sa gabi. Wala ng pakinabang si junjun kasi almost 80 na. Kung ikaw si thera, payag na. Tatabi ka lang naman sa gabi. Yung pangangalilangan mo naman, mabibigay niya at pwede mo pa rin ituloy ang ibang aktibidades mo para sa extra kita at kaligayahan mo. 

Kaya, at walang panghuhusga, yan ang relayidad ng mga relasyon na ganito.

Meron din na thera na siya mismo, ayaw niya na rin ng seryosong relasyon (pero akting pa rin kasi sayang ang kita) na may economic status ng isang GM kasi nga habang tumatagal sila sa industriya na ito, lumilit din ang espasyo na walang nakakakilala sa kanila. Para sa kanila, yung pwede na lang na pwedeng i-seryoso eh yung mga lalaking ni minsan ay walang kapasidad na maging gm at parokyano ng spa para hindi alam ng lalaki ang nakaraang mundo ng thera at walang pwedeng pagkakataon na malaman. O, hindi na lang sila aasa na magkaroon esposo. 
 

Kaya, happy happy na lang. Wag ng seryoso. Ganun din yung pakinabang. Wala pang komplikasyon. 

[courtesanhunter]

On 6/26/2023 at 3:00 AM, jsgan said:

Who am I to judge if I fell for her? Ako nga notorious na babaero or Thera Hunter. Pero I feel bad that I had found out she has a boyfriend and yet sinabe nya sakin wala. I think time to let go of this craziness… unfair din sa bf nya… atleast there was a time in my life na nagbakasakali na makatulong. Siguro will retire on doing this nadin despite am still young. Haaay, will meet her one of these days to say my final goodbye. 😢 (she doesn’t know yet ai found out that she has a bf).

Glad I have my resources, also thanks to my thera friends who gave me their names for me to have checked. Dami kasi poser/dummy accounts nowadays.

 

Yours Truly,

James in the Industry J* in Reality 😂

in many cases hindi talaga sinasabi ng mga service provider ang tungkol sa totoong relationship status nila. lalo na yung more professional ones. parte na din kasi yun ng marketing strategy nila para mas maging desirable sila para sa client.

 

23 hours ago, Midlurker2005 said:

Saklap.

Nangyari na rin sa akin ito. Ang masakit pa nun, alam ng bf na may “ako” at alam na pera-pera lang talaga.

nakarelate ako sir. alam nung boyfriend na nauutangan ako nung babae ng pera. kaya ultimo pinsan tuloy nung boyfriend nagawang makabayad ng upa sa bahay dahil sa pera ko. nadali ako sa actingan.

[Champuy]

if you are really into this kind of girls there will always be theras that you fall for and always try helping them financially the best you can especially when you start feeling the closeness they are always there when they need something from you even if you know that all they want is your money. 

[Champuy]

of course you cant help all of them. you just help those that your closest to and feel great when you are with her 

[lank]

On 6/22/2023 at 11:24 AM, Iceman7 said:

I agree I picked up a SM sales lady and of course I just wanted sex and she couldn’t provide the PSE. Not only that she would text me everyday and wanted me to meet her family and meet mine so when I broke it off she ended up crying. 
 

It was my fault I should have told her from the beginning that was all I was looking for and no more.

not sure if anyone here has tried making a sales lady a FUBU and no more then that

Recently saw a very attractive saleslady sa SM. Kaya ko naman i pull off but this is like scamming kung FUBU lang hanap ko. I’m sure kahit alam nila pinasok nila if ever i GF ko s’ya, a struggle will happen when things breaks up. Kaya I always make sure na pag Hindi Pasok sa standards I will never lure a girl para dun lang. saka ganun din, gagastos karin sa dates… mag spa nalng ako diba.

[lank]

On 6/20/2023 at 11:54 AM, Diamond of Touch said:

Very well said🖤

Totoo nman Malaking hamon sa Isang therapist or sa kahit na sinong nagtatrabaho sa flesh industry Ang umalis sa gantong kalakaran 

Goal na lang talaga is makaipon pag aralan Ang mga bagay bagay sa hirap Ng buhay ngayon kahit di mo linya pag aralan mo na Kung may pera na ipon mag negosyo kung gusto mag aral mag aral,utak na lang talaga gagamitin mo. 

But kung may pag ka happy go lucky ka gastos dito gastos doon at iisipin mo na kikitain mo din namin ito kinabukasan jusko manlumo ka.. 

Sa panahon ngayon kasi to be honest prangka na kung prangka kung di utak gagamitin mo at nandto ka sa gantong industriya talo ka.  

Pero syempree kanya kanyang dahilan pa din nman sa likod Ng mga kwento na kung bakit nanatili pa din/bumalik o umalis  sa gantong industriya ,kanya kanyang kwento na maiintindihan na lang Ng kung sino kung sila Yung nasa sitwasyon.

Diamond maraming mayayaman at high profile na gentlemanyaks dito. Basta gawin mo lang yung task mo as thera pwede ka nilang gawing mistess provided na alam mo yung role ng isang mistress. Goodluck

[ShaiderRukawa]

On 6/22/2023 at 5:33 PM, ferdinandmagellan said:

Take her declarations with a grain of salt.  

Think clearly.

Don't decide if you are emotionally compromised.

Relax.  Give it time first.

Your initial thought/decision could be totally reversed after sometime.

+1. Msg delivered clearly.

[AngGwapo]

5 hours ago, lank said:

Recently saw a very attractive saleslady sa SM. Kaya ko naman i pull off but this is like scamming kung FUBU lang hanap ko. I’m sure kahit alam nila pinasok nila if ever i GF ko s’ya, a struggle will happen when things breaks up. Kaya I always make sure na pag Hindi Pasok sa standards I will never lure a girl para dun lang. saka ganun din, gagastos karin sa dates… mag spa nalng ako diba.

But you can still meet someone you will hit off with sa Spa, MP, or freelancers.

 

[lank]

42 minutes ago, AngGwapo said:

But you can still meet someone you will hit off with sa Spa, MP, or freelancers.

 

Yes especially those who are into drugs and therapist who are actually lesbians. These types are likely linked to a badtrip experience. But the good thing about it is you can instantly sever the session. But these are just isolated cases. 90% will still provide satisf*ckT*on lol! Cheers!  

Edited June 29, 2023 by lank
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[valkyrieonly]

Salamat sa mga advice, thankfully I think cooler heads prevailed. When we talked parang nakalimutan na rin nya yung sa moving in with me na issue. I decided na I won't see her nalang for a while. She didn't like it, pero I told her na this is the best for both of us. Medyo masakit kasi nga gusto ko na rin siya, pero I don't think this will end up good sa amin dalawa. There's a part of me na still wanting to pursue her, pero palamig lang muna siguro and see what happens next.

[lank]

Therapist mo? No problem! Make her your mistress, you can have many mistress as much as you want. See, women should compliment us para mas ganahan tayo in life. Imagine, mas marami kang pera dahil ganado ka sa work mo then inspired ka at na wowork out kapa. You end up with money, health, hobbies, and mistresses. Basta wag ka lang papatol sa may sabit and more importantly be ready to click the “eject” button pag burden na si mistress like pag nag drugs, nag sugal, or kung may sabit. Yung mga luho nila ok lng yun! Basta walang drugs at sugal at mga sabit (baka may boyfriend na jologs)

[MartinAvedis3]

On 6/29/2023 at 4:51 PM, lank said:

Yes especially those who are into drugs and therapist who are actually lesbians. These types are likely linked to a badtrip experience. But the good thing about it is you can instantly sever the session. But these are just isolated cases. 90% will still provide satisf*ckT*on lol! Cheers!  

That’s true, 50-70% ng Theras are lesbians or if not lesbians..open to same sex relationship, most GMs don’t know that and most theras will not open that to any GMs unless may malalin na relationship na. 😉

[plug]

5 hours ago, MartinAvedis3 said:

That’s true, 50-70% ng Theras are lesbians or if not lesbians..open to same sex relationship, most GMs don’t know that and most theras will not open that to any GMs unless may malalin na relationship na. 😉

Maraming ganyan ten years ago pa. Minsan nga ginagamit panira ng kapwa thera kesyo si thera kumakain din ng harap ng kapwa thera. Pero malamang bi kasi laking pasalamat pa after sex with a male.

Before the pandemic may natiyempuhan akong bi at ang pagkakasabi habang dumidiskarte ako "ngayon lang ako napasukan ng sa lalaki". May gf kasi siya na classmate. Presently active siya in an incall spa pero di ko pa inulitan. Naka three sessions na ako sa kanya kasi dati.

[stanleythomas]

Know your limits and this is still really more of a fantasy and treat it as such. Don't get too attached. It's best to never reveal your name or even know what her real name is. The more you know, the deeper you go. Mas maganda na may wall pa rin

Edited July 1, 2023 by stanleythomas

[lank]

7 hours ago, plug said:

Maraming ganyan ten years ago pa. Minsan nga ginagamit panira ng kapwa thera kesyo si thera kumakain din ng harap ng kapwa thera. Pero malamang bi kasi laking pasalamat pa after sex with a male.

Before the pandemic may natiyempuhan akong bi at ang pagkakasabi habang dumidiskarte ako "ngayon lang ako napasukan ng sa lalaki". May gf kasi siya na classmate. Presently active siya in an incall spa pero di ko pa inulitan. Naka three sessions na ako sa kanya kasi dati.

The problem with these lesbians is they can be brutal to you. I remember dati the thera jack my junk as if I committed an unimaginable crime to her family lol! Later on further investigation that thera was a lesbian! Lol! Kaya pala.

So the take on this is malas pag tomboy nakuha mo for sure it’s gonna be war of swords hehe. 

 

[Duel of Fate]

23 hours ago, plug said:

Maraming ganyan ten years ago pa. Minsan nga ginagamit panira ng kapwa thera kesyo si thera kumakain din ng harap ng kapwa thera. Pero malamang bi kasi laking pasalamat pa after sex with a male.

Before the pandemic may natiyempuhan akong bi at ang pagkakasabi habang dumidiskarte ako "ngayon lang ako napasukan ng sa lalaki". May gf kasi siya na classmate. Presently active siya in an incall spa pero di ko pa inulitan. Naka three sessions na ako sa kanya kasi dati.

 

16 hours ago, lank said:

The problem with these lesbians is they can be brutal to you. I remember dati the thera jack my junk as if I committed an unimaginable crime to her family lol! Later on further investigation that thera was a lesbian! Lol! Kaya pala.

So the take on this is malas pag tomboy nakuha mo for sure it’s gonna be war of swords hehe. 

 

have had some lesbian / bi / tomboys. di naman espadahan. 

first one nung hs tomboy. (ako first guy naka finger and kain ng boobs nya. sadya ko di winasak v card. a year later buntis si gaga hahaha). 

workmate. lasing. momol moments lang din. 

had a 3way bj with one BBW and one butch tomboy. they wanted to progress, ako yung umayaw badtrip yung trip nila e parang pacolboy effect ako gusto mag striptease macho dance and balak pa ata ako lagyan costume. literally told them to get out of my house. ok na yung nachups ako slight and na fngger ko ung tibs. 

sa theras, i think ive had 3 lgbt girls of course there was no way they havent had D's before. 

(sorry kung out of topic)

[lank]

On 7/2/2023 at 1:38 AM, Duel of Fate said:

 

have had some lesbian / bi / tomboys. di naman espadahan. 

first one nung hs tomboy. (ako first guy naka finger and kain ng boobs nya. sadya ko di winasak v card. a year later buntis si gaga hahaha). 

workmate. lasing. momol moments lang din. 

had a 3way bj with one BBW and one butch tomboy. they wanted to progress, ako yung umayaw badtrip yung trip nila e parang pacolboy effect ako gusto mag striptease macho dance and balak pa ata ako lagyan costume. literally told them to get out of my house. ok na yung nachups ako slight and na fngger ko ung tibs. 

sa theras, i think ive had 3 lgbt girls of course there was no way they havent had D's before. 

(sorry kung out of topic)

 

Thanks for sharing hehe. Yeah the reason why this topic was brought up is to ease the confusion that a GM might experience after a bad thera encounter. Yung iba kasi they go to Espa to unwind and relax tapos badtrip pala yung encounter nila - they May question themselves like it could probably because they lack hygiene ba, not that good looking, etc. only to find out that the Thera was a lesbian and is in fact disgusted in doing it with a male client… like yung encounter ko dati pucha halos sakalin yung ratbu ko ng thera na yun… tomboy pala ang Gaga hahahahaha 

[plug]

2 hours ago, lank said:

like yung encounter ko dati pucha halos sakalin yung ratbu ko ng thera na yun… tomboy pala ang Gaga hahahahaha 

Yung isang na encounter ko sa spa years ago sa Makati later on nalaman ko na tomboy.

Una sabi niya paano ka makakaraos e hindi ako nagpapa atw dahil virgin daw siya. Nagkasundo kami ng daty pero napansin ko medyo ang reaction niya parang pinakikiramdaman ang sarili at tahimik lang. Hanggang naparaan umabot sa penetration. Sumabay pa sa shower at panay ang yapos. Prepared me coffee sa lounge habang naka akbay sa kwentuhan. 

Later nakakwentuhan ko yung dating co thera niya sa kabilang spa. Nasabi sa akin na tomboy kasi yun kaya virgin pa at the age of 22.

 

[puakangbu]

Nice

[Griffin_]

Meron akong ganyan na experience before with a therapist in a spa in Ortigas.  Sa dalas kong kunin siya. We became friends and kinda attracted to one another. It came to a point na nakikita na lang kami for sex.  It lasted for about a year.  Ang saya nun.  Iba yung feeling na may "syota" ka na ganun ang trabaho.  Parang feeling pelikula.  Alam mong may tumitira ding iba sa kanya pero may bayad but in my case there were some feelings involved. Mas nakakalibog ang experience.

[BlackDiamond]

It comes with the territory.

Certain jobs require people to be extremely guarded.

What may be a "minsan" or one time fall for a client is not something a thera can afford to always have. 

To me, Respect goes a long way. 

Understand that therapists are real people with real feelings and that at times, also want something real, kahit sandali lang.

Same goes with clients, falling might not go the distance, but knowing na there is a real connection that happened sometime somewhere, may be the best gift given to both the client and thera. 

 

[WhosThere]

On 7/4/2023 at 2:57 AM, BlackDiamond said:

It comes with the territory.

Certain jobs require people to be extremely guarded.

What may be a "minsan" or one time fall for a client is not something a thera can afford to always have. 

To me, Respect goes a long way. 

Understand that therapists are real people with real feelings and that at times, also want something real, kahit sandali lang.

Same goes with clients, falling might not go the distance, but knowing na there is a real connection that happened sometime somewhere, may be the best gift given to both the client and thera. 

 

Amen po!