Madvillain Posted October 10, 2021 Share Posted October 10, 2021 17 hours ago, Boytukmol said: The million dollar question is how do you stop? Alam mong ginagago ka na, alam mong niloloko ka na, alam mong pera pera lang lahat, pero d mo parin matigilan 🥺 How do you "break-up" and pano panindigan yon... 😒 help 😒 I think to remedy this is kung titikim ka ng iba......para makita mo there are options! Quote Link to comment
burnout31 Posted October 11, 2021 Share Posted October 11, 2021 1 hour ago, Boytukmol said: I just did it... finally gathered the courage to end it... d ko na talaga kaya. Pera pera lang talaga. Sya pa ang defensive 🤦♂️ i just hope na mapanindigan ko na to... wish me luck guys 🤞 Bro your emotional health is much more important. Better to keep yourself busy and something to hold onto habang nasa stage ka pa na ganyan.. Good luck Sir! 2 Quote Link to comment
deatheater06 Posted October 11, 2021 Share Posted October 11, 2021 mas ok yung client-thera lang. don't go below the belt. masakit. 1 Quote Link to comment
Richang Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 On 10/11/2021 at 6:26 AM, harahirana said: I think to remedy this is kung titikim ka ng iba......para makita mo there are options! Agree. Look for other theras para mag stop k n sa kanya. Pero dapat hindi k uli mag fall s susunod. 1 Quote Link to comment
Harding Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 23 hours ago, deatheater06 said: mas ok yung client-thera lang. don't go below the belt. masakit. sa dami ng thera choices. di ka mauubusan ng flavors . baka ikaw ang magsawa 1 Quote Link to comment
IgniT1on Posted October 13, 2021 Share Posted October 13, 2021 Before meron pero since pandemic bihira nalang kami nagkakausap. Pero medyo natuto na rin kasi pag nagkaroon ka nang emotional attachment sa thera lagi mo siya iniisip at inaalala. Pero maisip mo na di naman din siya ganun sayo hahah. Quote Link to comment
MinsanLang Posted October 13, 2021 Share Posted October 13, 2021 27 minutes ago, Boytukmol said: Day 3 done... miss ko na talaga sya pero kelangan ko tiisin... i know this too shall pass. 🙏 Kaya mo yan bruh Quote Link to comment
Madvillain Posted October 13, 2021 Share Posted October 13, 2021 20 hours ago, Boytukmol said: Believe me guys, kung malaman nyo if sino ung thera, gano katagal na kami, and ano na pinagdaanan namin, you'd understand why i feel this way... but thanks for the pep talk... day 2 done way way before din sir may nakilala din ako na ganyan, akala ko happy ever after na sila nung girl -- the guy is one of the kindest online person I know, and si girl naman napaka sweet pero naka ilang years din sila and hindi nagtagal sayang na sayang....bumalik pa nga si girl sa spa for a short while pero umalis din agad, but I feel for you and hope that you're situation gets better! 1 Quote Link to comment
malp05 Posted October 14, 2021 Share Posted October 14, 2021 Umay tong mga to bro, wag kayong umasang masasave niyo yung girl. Etong girl ko ngayon akala ko hindi na magwawalk. Pero enough na talaga nung nakita kong nagpost nanaman siya. Umay. Ayoko na. Ang masasuggest ko lang, mahalin niyo ng sobra yung girl. Then pag nagloko kayo na mismo makakarealize na mali yung ginagawa niyo at kayo na mismo yung makikipagbreak/lalayo 1 1 Quote Link to comment
cutiechavez Posted October 14, 2021 Share Posted October 14, 2021 4 hours ago, malp05 said: Umay tong mga to bro, wag kayong umasang masasave niyo yung girl. Etong girl ko ngayon akala ko hindi na magwawalk. Pero enough na talaga nung nakita kong nagpost nanaman siya. Umay. Ayoko na. Ang masasuggest ko lang, mahalin niyo ng sobra yung girl. Then pag nagloko kayo na mismo makakarealize na mali yung ginagawa niyo at kayo na mismo yung makikipagbreak/lalayo saang ktv mo na meet Quote Link to comment
Emperor Eye Posted October 14, 2021 Share Posted October 14, 2021 (edited) On 10/11/2021 at 12:00 AM, malp05 said: Mga Sir, question lang din. In your perspective, matatanggap mo ba na yung girlfriend mo eh nagwawalk dati? In my opinion kasi, oo pwede mong tanggapin pero hindi mo maaalis sa isip mo na nagawa niya yun at pwede niyang gawin yung anytime. Kaya mo bang tanggapin yun habangbuhay? Mahirap yan bro. It takes a lot of courage to step in that shoe. Nasa sayo kasi yan. kung talagang matatag ka. At kung kaya mo mag turn ng blind eye sa past nya and love her sincerly moving forward. Nde ako against it, kasi besfriend ko ung wife nya ngayon happily married sila with 2 kids. Wife nya dati nag wawalk and worst may sex scandal video na I myself napanood ko. ang magandang lesson kasi jan... "Everyone deserves a second chance" and also hindi lahat ng Thera gusto ang ginagawa nila now. wala lang silang choice kasi dito lang talaga sila kumikita for the meantime pang tustus ng gastos , pagkain or pang skul nila. Kaya ako I salute lahat ng thera na working - thera / student - thera Edited October 14, 2021 by Emperor Eye 3 Quote Link to comment
deatheater06 Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 L-O-V-E them includes their dark past. Accept that ganun ang past nila. lawakan ang pag-iisip. wag maging selfish. --can you love me even in my darkest?-- 1 Quote Link to comment
burnout31 Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 23 minutes ago, deatheater06 said: L-O-V-E them includes their dark past. Accept that ganun ang past nila. lawakan ang pag-iisip. wag maging selfish. --can you love me even in my darkest?-- Agree Quote Link to comment
Mollig Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 (edited) I would be lying if I said that their past wouldn't affect me. however, I'm not going to be one to bring that up because I participated in and contributed to that past. When you love someone, you love them despite their flaws or past. You love them as a whole, and those are things that help make her who she is. The most important thing is to focus on the person. But what if the theras had been burned in the past before? Where they've decided to never take a chance with a client ever again. Most theras are wonderful people and I have no doubt that they'd be able to find love out there, but it's just sad that their past hurts prevent them from giving a chance to those that would love them despite having an idea of what they've been through so far. Edited October 15, 2021 by Mollig 1 Quote Link to comment
malp05 Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 16 hours ago, Emperor Eye said: Mahirap yan bro. It takes a lot of courage to step in that shoe. Nasa sayo kasi yan. kung talagang matatag ka. At kung kaya mo mag turn ng blind eye sa past nya and love her sincerly moving forward. Nde ako against it, kasi besfriend ko ung wife nya ngayon happily married sila with 2 kids. Wife nya dati nag wawalk and worst may sex scandal video na I myself napanood ko. ang magandang lesson kasi jan... "Everyone deserves a second chance" and also hindi lahat ng Thera gusto ang ginagawa nila now. wala lang silang choice kasi dito lang talaga sila kumikita for the meantime pang tustus ng gastos , pagkain or pang skul nila. Kaya ako I salute lahat ng thera na working - thera / student - thera Ayun, mahirap talagang timbangin pag ganyan ang reason nila. Pang gastos, school, etc. Pero tibay talaga ng sikmura kailangan ko para sa ganito. Feeling ko wala ako nun. Parang hindi ko kaya. Kahit ilang beses kong isipin na malalagpasan din ito, parang hindi ko pa din kaya eh. Lalo na pag nakikita mo yung post niya tapos may mga nagcocomment. Nakaka sira ng ulo. 2 2 Quote Link to comment
malp05 Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 16 hours ago, cutiechavez said: saang ktv mo na meet Di siya thera bro, nakita ko lang sa fb Quote Link to comment
malp05 Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 13 hours ago, deatheater06 said: L-O-V-E them includes their dark past. Accept that ganun ang past nila. lawakan ang pag-iisip. wag maging selfish. --can you love me even in my darkest?-- What if ginagawa pa din until now? Quote Link to comment
deatheater06 Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 4 minutes ago, malp05 said: What if ginagawa pa din until now? it's your call. for me if tatamaan ako ulet sa thera. matic aalisin ko na sya sa work nya. i can provide naman. i'll give her new options or should i say a "fresh start" if di mo kayang alisin sya at walang kang resources to support her. di tiis tiis ka muna. endure the pain. nagmahal ka ng thera. accept the reality. 2 1 Quote Link to comment
cutiechavez Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 learn to play their game Quote Link to comment
malp05 Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 9 minutes ago, deatheater06 said: it's your call. for me if tatamaan ako ulet sa thera. matic aalisin ko na sya sa work nya. i can provide naman. i'll give her new options or should i say a "fresh start" if di mo kayang alisin sya at walang kang resources to support her. di tiis tiis ka muna. endure the pain. nagmahal ka ng thera. accept the reality. I can support her kung gugustuhin ko sir. Ang winoworry ko, kung sure ba akong totoo to? What if ginagawa niya pa din? I'm having trust issues na kasi. What if sinupport ko din then mababalewala din hanggang huli? Yung mga ganung thoughts sir. Quote Link to comment
deatheater06 Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 1 minute ago, malp05 said: I can support her kung gugustuhin ko sir. Ang winoworry ko, kung sure ba akong totoo to? What if ginagawa niya pa din? I'm having trust issues na kasi. What if sinupport ko din then mababalewala din hanggang huli? Yung mga ganung thoughts sir. open communication . sincerely talk to her. give her eye-2-eye contact. tell to her your doubts and fears. once na sabi mo na. you decide sa sasagot nya. yes. may trust issues ka. possible sa previous relationship/s mo but remember that you need to let go of them. excess baggage mo yan which nadala mo sa current relationship you have. tsaka kung mahal mo naman paglaban mo. ang tanong is... is it worth it? kaw lang makakasagot nyan 1 2 Quote Link to comment
Madvillain Posted October 15, 2021 Share Posted October 15, 2021 I am going back head first into the scene, yung mga theras ko na namiss when I was still attached, makikilala ko na, hahaha kaya sana di ako mainlove sa kanila pero may 1 na mukhang malakas tama ko sana lang wag akong mainlove ng husto, hahaha be wise gentlemen!! Quote Link to comment
Manilatonight12345 Posted October 17, 2021 Share Posted October 17, 2021 Mga brothers and sisters, opinion ko lang as long as ready na kayo kalimutan ang nakaraan at handa na kayong pagtiwalaan ang isa't isa eh why not diba. Bilang isang parokyano handa kana rin bang kalimutan ang spa/mp? At handa na rin ba ung magiging partner mo iwanan ang trabaho sa spa/mp to be fair. Pare parehas tayong hindi malinis. Madali magmahal/magmahalan/mainlove etc. Ang question is hanggang kailan nyo kayang panindigan yan - I'm married and in a happy relationship for 14 years. Much love everyone. 1 Quote Link to comment
DIRTY HARRY Posted October 18, 2021 Share Posted October 18, 2021 On 10/16/2021 at 6:43 PM, amberbessy said: ang sarap sa tenga, thank you sir!! Maniniwala na ulit ako sa love between thera and guest!😘pagtinamaan ka ulit!hehe Miss ko na boholana Quote Link to comment
DIRTY HARRY Posted October 18, 2021 Share Posted October 18, 2021 Meron talaga mga babae na mahirap iwasan... Kahit anong tibay ng depensa nawawasak...giba... Meron sila anting anting he he he 1 Quote Link to comment
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