Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[billybong]

 

 

Iba talaga si Mister Yozo.. Gusto ko rin mag-masaya kami ni.....

 

Hahaha Thursday pa lang pero I feel like its a Fri-YAY!

 

Mukhang maganda nga yang relasyon na maging mag-masaya...masubukan nga rin...hehehe

[Beemer of Hiway]

I might be mistaken, but in this kind of relationship...i think "Chemistry" is of utmost importance.

 

Like Chemistry in the real world, some elements will combine with others to form compounds. Hydrogen for example when combined with Oxygen in just the right amount will form water (needed for life), and that same Hydrogen when combined with Chlorine will result to Hydrochloric/Muriatic acid (needed for...cleaning the toilet). In the same way, we GMs interact with people in our lives, including our dear therapists, and each interaction produces different "chemical" combination so to speak...and sometimes, we combine with a few people to produce the legendary substance known as the "philosopher's stone" that can turn anything into gold...ahh.. that "elixir of life!"

 

I would like to share a conversation between a thera and a GM that goes something like this...

 

Therapist: Tinatanong nila kung mag jowa daw tayo.

GM: Anong sagot mo?

Therapist: Hindi ko jowa yun

GM: Tama ka, alam mo naman na di tayo pwedeng mag-jowa. Hindi rin tayo pwedeng mag-asawa. Pero pwede naman tayong maging mag-masaya. OK lang ba sayo na maging mag-masaya na lang tayo?

Therapist: Sige, ok lang.

GM: Ayan ah, mag-"masaya" na tayo...yan na ang relasyon natin...hehehe

 

I suppose that Therapist and that GM have good chemistry...eh?

 

Hey boss!!gusto ko yan na magmasaya relationship..pwede din yan maramihan????heheheh peaceee..

[Solaryan]

Hey boss!!gusto ko yan na magmasaya relationship..pwede din yan maramihan????heheheh peaceee..

 

 

Wow! Mister Yozo, your Mag-masaya relationship is catching... like fire. IF we burn, they burn with us ang peg.. like! Hahaha

[- The Godfather -]

Hey boss!!gusto ko yan na magmasaya relationship..pwede din yan maramihan????heheheh peaceee..

 

Basta maganda ang "chemistry" boss, pwede maging mag-masaya...hehehe....palagay ko yung stage ng mag-masaya relationship is a compromise or transition stage habang nasa indstriya pa si therapist...then pwede siya mag move on later (pag wala na sa spa si thera) into ...mag-jowa or mag-asawa or pwede rin mag-friends.

 

Ang importante, masaya kayong pareho habang kayo ay mag-masaya. Ang mag-masaya na relasyon ay hindi permanent at matatapos rin itong stage na ito someday...it may be sooner or later...depende na kung kelan aalis sa industriya si therapist. Basta, maging masaya lang kayo habang kayo ay mag-masaya....hahaha

 

Mag-masaya relationship is ephemeral....

 

 

PS...the following is an excerpt from the book of Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince

 

"I have also a flower."

"We do not record them," said the geographer, "because they are ephemeral."

"What does that mean--'ephemeral'?"

"It means, 'which is in danger of speedy disappearance.'"

"Is my flower in danger of speedy disappearance?"

"Certainly it is."

"My flower is ephemeral," the little prince said to himself, "and she has only four thorns to defend herself against the world..."

[oninpoto]

Matagal nang malaman si Camry. Hi-Way 88 pa lang. Lol

I met her there di ko na alam kung saan na sya or what name na gamit nya cute yung chic na yun hope shes ok

[Jake Celestine]

Nasa Roadstar Spa na sya. Same name.

[bill lomita]

I enjoy reading this thread, very informational.

 

I can't blame some GMs to fall in love with their ESPA therapists because some ESPA therapists are really beautiful and full of sex appeal.

 

But if your faint-hearted, it's better to stay out of Spas because it will overwhelm your sensories.

 

Just enjoy and be happy.

[oninpoto]

ang layo lol

[James5486]

I kinda had the same experience... it was one of those times na sobrang down ka and you found comfort on a very friendly and sweet thera...

I was very lucky that she agreed to go out with me and we did go on a date several times... i agree with everyone that it was against all odds... especially when you know that she needs to go back to her work and you need to go back to your real world...

[James5486]

it was like being in a virtual world where only euphoria exists except that in the deepest of your subconscious mind you know that it has to eventually end... and end it did... i have to admit that every now and then, i long for her laughter, her smile, and especially that never say die attitude that i know i personally lack...

[tressaiyo]

Mahirap to

[Clydeskie]

magulo..

[Jake Celestine]

Personal conversation with a thera. I won't disclose who she is for personal reasons. Gusto ko lang mag share ng moment ko...

 

Thera: Do you consider yourself romantic?

 

Me: Malambing? That part is easy. Yun lang, if you've been in a relationship long enough and your partner is medyo manhid, mahahawa ka rin. You leave the relationship na manhid rin.

 

Thera: Seloso ka? Ever thought of having a thera as a girlfriend.

 

Me: Can't say. I've never been in that situation before. Di ko tantyado limits ng selos ko.

 

Thera: If you ever been in a relationship with a thera, mahihinto mo ba pag spa mo?

 

Me: I've availed a lot of great theras. Fair to say marami na ako nakuha. I think gusto ko nang bawasan punta ko. Maybe pang maintenance na lang. Pero I see myself na maa outgrow ko na to. I've been around. Little more to prove, I guess.

 

Thera: Bakit kayo nag break ng ex mo?

 

Me: YOLO ako. Somewhat conservative sya. Doesn't really match well together. Late bloomer ako. I didn't cheat on her nung kami pa though. Spa life came after the breakup. Dun na ako nahumaling sa spa. Iba iba ang pakiramdam ng babae, yun lang ang masasabi ko.

 

Thera: Ha?

 

Me: Vagina feels different. Each woman's vagina feels different. Some get wet easily, some are dry, some eh pasok kaagad, some are masikip. Pag may anak, may tendency mag loosen. Iba rin pakiramdam depende sa frame ng babae. Women with smaller frame eh mas madaling i lift, for obvious reasons.

 

Thera: Sino favorite mong thera?

 

Me: Other than you? Hahahahaha

 

Thera: Bolero. Hahahaha

 

Me: You have to appreciate kung ano kaya ibigay ng thera. Napansin ko na di ka comfortable sa BBJ so B2B na lang pinagawa ko sa yo. But then I noticed that you performed better sa CDBJ kaya I let you do that thing. Mas mahigpit ang CDBJ mo so I can tell you were more comfortable with it.

 

Thera: At least nakaka adjust tayo sa isa't isa.

 

Me: I also notice na di ka ganun ka comfortable sa deep tongue kissing. I can sense where your lips go. But it's okay. Galing ako sa sakit. Mahahawa ka sa akin. I will not ask for it. I respect your limitations.

 

Then she opened her mouth, stuck out her tongue, and allowed me to do the LONGEST TONGUE SUCKING I ever did on a thera. Nope, not deep french kiss, but the PORNY TONGUE SUCK variety. Last time I did this, sa girlfriend ko pa ginawa. And I just told my thera that I was sick. Sa ibang thera okay lang to kasi malayo naman ang ES sa bunganga ng client, but this one...

 

Well, di pa naman pa pala ako ganun kamanhid. Pucha, kinuryente ako.

Edited February 14, 2017 by Jake Celestine

[JegaJega]

magulo..

 

Most of the time people end up broken-hearted in this type of relationship......

[Mimo]

Mahirap malaman kung totoo ang mga GM sa hangarin nila.

[Zestochoco]

I'm currently in one such relationship. It started as a regular/gm thing then it involved into something serious and we became a couple. Masaya nman kami, until recently. Bago naging kami, tinanong ko muna sya kung may ka relasyon sya at ano ang status sa kanila ng ama ng anak nya. Di nman sila kasal pero nag live-in sila dati at ngayon ay hiwalay na. Yun ang paliwanag nya sa akin. So ako naman ay nag tiwala sa mga salita nyang matatamis at minahal ko sya ng lubos. Tinangap ko ang lahat sa kanya pati na ang pagkakaroon nya ng anak at ang kanyang trabaho sa espa. Pero lahat ng yon ay sinira nya. Nalaman ko na lang ang lalim ng kanyang kasinungalinan at panloloko. Nung nag out of town kami, nag karoon ako ng chance para magamit yung phone nya (3 phones, 1 for client nya sa spa na may sim at phone lock pa). Nagulat ako sa mga nalaman ko. It turns out na tuloy pa pala ang relasyon nila ng tatay ng anak nya. Pics sa gallery, sms exchanges at fb post and messenger. Asawa pa ang description nya dun sa lalaki. Ang masakit lang kasi eh nung time na medyo natunugan kong may ibang lalaki sya, gusto ko ng makipag break nun. Umiyak sya ng todo at sinabi nyang wala nman tlaga 3rd party, na ako ang mahal nya. Dahil sa sobrang mahal ko pinagbigyan ko pa sya. One more chance ika nga na ngayon ay pinagsisihan ko na. Tuloy pa rin ang relasyon nya sa ka live-in nya base dun sa mga nalaman ko. Sa ngayon ay di ko pa alam kung paano ko sya haharapin. How to cut it cleanly without her being hurt too much. Falling for a thera and having a relationship with one is not so bad. You just have to know the girl very well before trusting her with your heart.

[thespywhoshags]

I have this long story coming up. Decided to come out na since its valentines. Hugot day

[thespywhoshags]

Ang aking kwento: It all started sometime ber months of 2016 my habit was to try different spas, usually getting the top thera and then moving on to the next spa. That was the rule move on to the next always. Anyway I came across this spa in this area and got one of their popular theras and I was instantly smitten, I visited her again a couple of times and things got steamy and rough. She mentioned liking it rough so thats the way we did it, ala 50 shades of grey. Anyway during my few visits I found myself slowly liking her, not falling, just liking her. She had this "maamo" and "sweet" face kasi and looked like a caring and happy person altogether. When we used to talk I would subtly ask if she was looking for a relationship and she bluntly said "no red tape" so I guess that path was a no go. Keep it casual lang daw and you can try other theras naman if you want daw. So based on that, coming from her, I took it as an okay sign to try another thera. Come that day after my session with said thera I saw her outside by chance and boy was she furious. I think we spent two hours outside the spa, me trying to woo her again, she has this temper not all GMs see. So anyway I was able to win her back and calm her down but not after her telling me na "ayokong humahawak ka ng ibang babae". So okay go ako naman si sunod. Tigil ako spa, hanggang ngayon february wala na spa visit. Tinigil ko lahat ba. Sa sinabi niyang yun parang ultimatum na talaga.

So I thought we were okay. We'd go out sometimes when she was free, we'd talk often, she was really sweet in her chats and always responded promptly and would let me know if she had a client coming soon. Then new years happened, I have my personal life too, family, friends, etc. Spent new years with a female friend and since we haven't had a photo of us together since we met we decided it was time to have a picture and I posted it on fb. The thera (who I added on fb) saw it and got mad... again. Anyway I kept telling her the girl in the photo was just a friend and just because I made it my profile pic didn't mean we were in a relationship. It really wasn't. I even had my friend chat me saying she wasn't my girlfriend for me to screenshot and send to the thera. But ewan, ever since that the thera has been distant. No more frequent chats, no more sweetness, no more of anything.

I called her one time and asked to meet and I kept asking what she wanted. Peace of mind daw and naiinis daw siya, so sabi ko okay sige pag kita natin magusap tayo. Nung nagkita na ayaw na sabihin sakin, she just wants peace of mind daw and bahala na ako kung ano gusto ko gawin. And another thing everytime she thinks of me daw she remembers me hurting he, but she said she liked it rough!? I mean the rough parts were only during our play time and no more.

My main gripe lang talaga ay, lady its not easy adjusting! First she wants me all to herself so I stop my s@%t, now she wants me to do whatever I like, while cryptically saying I'm not that easy to get. Napakahirap mag adjust sa gusto ng isang tao tapos pag nagbago na magaadjust ka nanaman. You get used to them telling you what to do but when they get mad they tell you do whatever you like. Of course I wanna pursue.

So which is it guys? ano ba tingin niyo? pinaglalaruan ako? nakahanap na ng iba? naguguluhan siya? Something else? She won't tell me. Ewan ko talaga I miss her sweetness and her smiles. Sabi ko nga buti pa mga GM kahit work work lang naeexperience smiles mo. Because I could tell when it was one of her trabaho lang smiles and sweetness. Ewan ko guys lol. Since new years pa to.

Edited February 14, 2017 by thespywhoshags

[thespywhoshags]

That personality is familiar. I can only label it as a "psycho" personality. Mahirap yan.

Avoid or pursue, she's nice naman talaga on a normal day. I donno why I set these emotions off with her. Her client base and FRs say she's sweet naman. Pero now that I think of it, parang ako pa lang nakaka kita ng angry side niya, but not sure.

[Solaryan]

I would rather not elaborate on the personality but if I were you I would avoid. That type of personality is trouble.

 

Bro spy, I would have to agree with Johnny... Mejo tagilid naman yun na paiba iba sya ng sinasabi at disposition..Kung kaya mo pa, mejo distance yourself from that thera.. Take a step back, re-assess your situation and look at things with fresh perspective.

 

Now, I know that is easier said than done, but if you can. Do it. Save yourself the trouble...

[thespywhoshags]

Thanks guys, this is the second thera I've had a situation like this na. Now don't get me wrong hindi ako naghahanap ng romance sa spa. It just happens eh. I try to avoid it but they're so sweet minsan. Anyway the only good thing that happened out of this is I finally stopped going to spas which in reality has a negative on men psychologically talaga. This final experience really helped me move on from the spa industry and do more productive things with my life and dick. lol

 

Thanks for your responses.

Edited February 14, 2017 by thespywhoshags

[Uncl3Dr3w]

Ang masarap na bawal..

[JegaJega]

 

Ang aking kwento: It all started sometime ber months of 2016 my habit was to try different spas, usually getting the top thera and then moving on to the next spa. That was the rule move on to the next always. Anyway I came across this spa in this area and got one of their popular theras and I was instantly smitten, I visited her again a couple of times and things got steamy and rough. She mentioned liking it rough so thats the way we did it, ala 50 shades of grey. Anyway during my few visits I found myself slowly liking her, not falling, just liking her. She had this "maamo" and "sweet" face kasi and looked like a caring and happy person altogether. When we used to talk I would subtly ask if she was looking for a relationship and she bluntly said "no red tape" so I guess that path was a no go. Keep it casual lang daw and you can try other theras naman if you want daw. So based on that, coming from her, I took it as an okay sign to try another thera. Come that day after my session with said thera I saw her outside by chance and boy was she furious. I think we spent two hours outside the spa, me trying to woo her again, she has this temper not all GMs see. So anyway I was able to win her back and calm her down but not after her telling me na "ayokong humahawak ka ng ibang babae". So okay go ako naman si sunod. Tigil ako spa, hanggang ngayon february wala na spa visit. Tinigil ko lahat ba. Sa sinabi niyang yun parang ultimatum na talaga.

So I thought we were okay. We'd go out sometimes when she was free, we'd talk often, she was really sweet in her chats and always responded promptly and would let me know if she had a client coming soon. Then new years happened, I have my personal life too, family, friends, etc. Spent new years with a female friend and since we haven't had a photo of us together since we met we decided it was time to have a picture and I posted it on fb. The thera (who I added on fb) saw it and got mad... again. Anyway I kept telling her the girl in the photo was just a friend and just because I made it my profile pic didn't mean we were in a relationship. It really wasn't. I even had my friend chat me saying she wasn't my girlfriend for me to screenshot and send to the thera. But ewan, ever since that the thera has been distant. No more frequent chats, no more sweetness, no more of anything.

I called her one time and asked to meet and I kept asking what she wanted. Peace of mind daw and naiinis daw siya, so sabi ko okay sige pag kita natin magusap tayo. Nung nagkita na ayaw na sabihin sakin, she just wants peace of mind daw and bahala na ako kung ano gusto ko gawin. And another thing everytime she thinks of me daw she remembers me hurting he, but she said she liked it rough!? I mean the rough parts were only during our play time and no more.

My main gripe lang talaga ay, lady its not easy adjusting! First she wants me all to herself so I stop my s@%t, now she wants me to do whatever I like, while cryptically saying I'm not that easy to get. Napakahirap mag adjust sa gusto ng isang tao tapos pag nagbago na magaadjust ka nanaman. You get used to them telling you what to do but when they get mad they tell you do whatever you like. Of course I wanna pursue.

So which is it guys? ano ba tingin niyo? pinaglalaruan ako? nakahanap na ng iba? naguguluhan siya? Something else? She won't tell me. Ewan ko talaga I miss her sweetness and her smiles. Sabi ko nga buti pa mga GM kahit work work lang naeexperience smiles mo. Because I could tell when it was one of her trabaho lang smiles and sweetness. Ewan ko guys lol. Since new years pa to.

 

 

 

Ganyan talaga yung mga gurls.........dapat meron kang "enygma machine" to decode their encrypted messages. Hahahaha.......Pag-sinabi ng gurls na "ok lang" ibig sabihin noon e "mga-ingat ka sa mga balak mo"......hehehe

[JegaJega]

I'm currently in one such relationship. It started as a regular/gm thing then it involved into something serious and we became a couple. Masaya nman kami, until recently. Bago naging kami, tinanong ko muna sya kung may ka relasyon sya at ano ang status sa kanila ng ama ng anak nya. Di nman sila kasal pero nag live-in sila dati at ngayon ay hiwalay na. Yun ang paliwanag nya sa akin. So ako naman ay nag tiwala sa mga salita nyang matatamis at minahal ko sya ng lubos. Tinangap ko ang lahat sa kanya pati na ang pagkakaroon nya ng anak at ang kanyang trabaho sa espa. Pero lahat ng yon ay sinira nya. Nalaman ko na lang ang lalim ng kanyang kasinungalinan at panloloko. Nung nag out of town kami, nag karoon ako ng chance para magamit yung phone nya (3 phones, 1 for client nya sa spa na may sim at phone lock pa). Nagulat ako sa mga nalaman ko. It turns out na tuloy pa pala ang relasyon nila ng tatay ng anak nya. Pics sa gallery, sms exchanges at fb post and messenger. Asawa pa ang description nya dun sa lalaki. Ang masakit lang kasi eh nung time na medyo natunugan kong may ibang lalaki sya, gusto ko ng makipag break nun. Umiyak sya ng todo at sinabi nyang wala nman tlaga 3rd party, na ako ang mahal nya. Dahil sa sobrang mahal ko pinagbigyan ko pa sya. One more chance ika nga na ngayon ay pinagsisihan ko na. Tuloy pa rin ang relasyon nya sa ka live-in nya base dun sa mga nalaman ko. Sa ngayon ay di ko pa alam kung paano ko sya haharapin. How to cut it cleanly without her being hurt too much. Falling for a thera and having a relationship with one is not so bad. You just have to know the girl very well before trusting her with your heart.

 

I also experienced this type of relationship dude........mahirap at masakit talaga iyan kasi you will feel na ginagawa ka lang "damulag" at gatasan ng Labs mo, while yung mga boylet/s niya yung nakikinabang. I will not be surprise if you Labs has secret fb accounts and meron din siyang mga special CPs na hindi mo pa alam.

 

Mahirap talaga kasi you need to work extra para meron kang pang-tustus sa Labs mo. On top of that kelangan mo pa mag monitor ng Labs mo para to make sure na hindi ka "ma-torotot". And the worse part is mahuli mo si Labs mo na inu-ulul ka lang pala niya......hayz.......

 

Yung "winner" dyaan e yung mga boylet/s niya na nakipag-harutan sa Labs mo na hindi man lang nagbibigay ng pang-tustus.....what a life......

[oninpoto]

I'm currently in one such relationship. It started as a regular/gm thing then it involved into something serious and we became a couple. Masaya nman kami, until recently. Bago naging kami, tinanong ko muna sya kung may ka relasyon sya at ano ang status sa kanila ng ama ng anak nya. Di nman sila kasal pero nag live-in sila dati at ngayon ay hiwalay na. Yun ang paliwanag nya sa akin. So ako naman ay nag tiwala sa mga salita nyang matatamis at minahal ko sya ng lubos. Tinangap ko ang lahat sa kanya pati na ang pagkakaroon nya ng anak at ang kanyang trabaho sa espa. Pero lahat ng yon ay sinira nya. Nalaman ko na lang ang lalim ng kanyang kasinungalinan at panloloko. Nung nag out of town kami, nag karoon ako ng chance para magamit yung phone nya (3 phones, 1 for client nya sa spa na may sim at phone lock pa). Nagulat ako sa mga nalaman ko. It turns out na tuloy pa pala ang relasyon nila ng tatay ng anak nya. Pics sa gallery, sms exchanges at fb post and messenger. Asawa pa ang description nya dun sa lalaki. Ang masakit lang kasi eh nung time na medyo natunugan kong may ibang lalaki sya, gusto ko ng makipag break nun. Umiyak sya ng todo at sinabi nyang wala nman tlaga 3rd party, na ako ang mahal nya. Dahil sa sobrang mahal ko pinagbigyan ko pa sya. One more chance ika nga na ngayon ay pinagsisihan ko na. Tuloy pa rin ang relasyon nya sa ka live-in nya base dun sa mga nalaman ko. Sa ngayon ay di ko pa alam kung paano ko sya haharapin. How to cut it cleanly without her being hurt too much. Falling for a thera and having a relationship with one is not so bad. You just have to know the girl very well before trusting her with your heart.

Honestly madali yan knowing na merong iba or ikaw ang iba. honestly wag ka ng makisawsaw dyan ive been that guy at nako death threat to the max ang naranasan ko nung nalamn ng spouse tungkol sakin. Same as you akala ko tapos na sila.