Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[w3pa]

Cheers bro. Hope you find the right one. Wishing this for most of the other people in this thread as well

We have the same go to term. "Cheers" to you as well mate. Yes that would be best.

[w3pa]

It's a good thing she never used you for money. At least, that is a consolation that could assuage your wounded feelings.

 

Yeah. That's the worst. I know some details about her history. I think mostly she's looking for validation. That's usually the thing with women who were cheated on. Especially the single moms. Honestly she doesn't need that. She's an attractive and smart woman. I've experienced that with someone years ago. A woman who felt like she needed to feel attractive because her husband cheated on her.

Ako naman, ayaw ko muna magpaligaw sa mga Guest ko.

 

That's a good mindset naman. Mahirap nga naman pag na-fall sayo lahat ng client mo but it's a risk for giving a good GFE talaga.

[Drew13Nash]

Ako naman, ayaw ko muna magpaligaw sa mga Guest ko.

 

 

Dapat ganyan keysa yung magpaasa pa.. paligoy ligoy pa nangagamit lng tao eh..

[Drew13Nash]

Once a GM fall in love sa thera. Especially the GM told her everything about his life he is genuine and true to the thera. Not because you two met in this f*cking industry for me trust should not be an issue if you both like each other. I will always repeat this, if the GM is willing to understand your situation regarding your job they are sincere to you. Dont think that the cannot love the way you want to be loved. Mas seryoso pa sa inaakala niyo.. sana lang din sa mga thera konti unawa din kasi kaya naming unawain ang trabaho niyo.

[w3pa]

Once a GM fall in love sa thera. Especially the GM told her everything about his life he is genuine and true to the thera. Not because you two met in this f*cking industry for me trust should not be an issue if you both like each other. I will always repeat this, if the GM is willing to understand your situation regarding your job they are sincere to you. Dont think that the cannot love the way you want to be loved. Mas seryoso pa sa inaakala niyo.. sana lang din sa mga thera konti unawa din kasi kaya naming unawain ang trabaho niyo.

I guess it's a defense mechanism for them bro. Isipin mo nalang ano iisipin mo sa GM na may GF of asawa but still partake off your services. You'll be guarded for sure. Kung kaya niya gawin yun sa partner niya, pano pa sayo. At least that's how I see it.

[Jake Celestine]

 

Maybe sir, maybe not. I like to believe in the good in people, and as much as possible I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt on this, even until now. She never used me for money (sometimes she would shoulder the dinner or drinks), she tried to fix things with me when I tried to end it, which I think shows that she at the very least cares about the friendship. Maybe I was just looking for something she really couldn't give, and I guess this can be a learning opportunity to some of our GMs here who might start falling for Theras as well. Or a lesson for everyone who chooses to love in general.

 

"Believe in the good in people"

 

Maybe what you need is a spiritual/religious support group.

 

You're looking for that in a spa?

 

To be honest, the peeps who have been replying to you probably try their best not to be blunt.

 

Not that I wanna act preachy, but really?

[Solaryan]

I guess it's a defense mechanism for them bro. Isipin mo nalang ano iisipin mo sa GM na may GF of asawa but still partake off your services. You'll be guarded for sure. Kung kaya niya gawin yun sa partner niya, pano pa sayo. At least that's how I see it.

 

 

Parang kilala ko ang thera na namention mo at di lang ata ikaw ang may ganyang story sa thera na yun

 

Anyway, thanks for sharing your story bro...sa ngayon, sana mamasyal at marami ka pa makilalang thera. enjoy mo na lng nga muna yun ESploration..

 

Hehe anyway, natatawa ako sa pagbackread ko.. andami happenings...

[curvermay]

 

"Believe in the good in people"

 

Maybe what you need is a spiritual/religious support group.

 

You're looking for that in a spa?

 

To be honest, the peeps who have been replying to you probably try their best not to be blunt.

 

Not that I wanna act preachy, but really?

 

No one looks for "goodness" in people in a spa...but it doesn't mean one can't find it there.

[Piaggio]

No one looks for "goodness" in people in a spa...but it doesn't mean one can't find it there.

Yes. I'm more inclined to look for the "bad" girls there hehe joke

[pepejoe]

Playing with your hearts - siopao zone. Tsk, tsk.

[Mogster]

Nakilala ko ang nag-iisang minahal kong thera.

Sa Spa Hiroshima.

But that was last year.

And she already left the business.

Kaya Spa Hiroshima will always have a special place in my heart, like her.

[rag doll]

ako puro crush lang.

[w3pa]

"Believe in the good in people"

 

Maybe what you need is a spiritual/religious support group.

 

You're looking for that in a spa?

 

To be honest, the peeps who have been replying to you probably try their best not to be blunt.

 

Not that I wanna act preachy, but really?

I don't think you get it. What I meant is that I don't assume people are bad unless proven otherwise. Of course in certain places you have to be more cautious about who to trust. It's just my nature as a person.

[w3pa]

Parang kilala ko ang thera na namention mo at di lang ata ikaw ang may ganyang story sa thera na yun

 

Anyway, thanks for sharing your story bro...sa ngayon, sana mamasyal at marami ka pa makilalang thera. enjoy mo na lng nga muna yun ESploration..

 

Hehe anyway, natatawa ako sa pagbackread ko.. andami happenings...

Like I said in my story. MAY nahanap making babalikbalikan. Haha salamat Solaryan. Fire and Blood bro!

[Jake Celestine]

I don't think you get it. What I meant is that I don't assume people are bad unless proven otherwise. Of course in certain places you have to be more cautious about who to trust. It's just my nature as a person.

And that's how people get taken advantage of.

[Jake Celestine]

Not that I'm against a particular person here. I'm just playing the devil's advocate. I think the thread seriously needs one.

 

This thread already has near 500 pages and how many therapists have shown interest by participating here? Ilang linggo na ako nangbabasa neto at mukhang isang thera lang ang MAY pakialam. Hahahaha

 

Yan ang hirap sa ating lalaking MARURUPOK ANG PUSO (or let's call ourselves VIRGINAL). Sometimes we lack the tools needed to charm women in the outside world, so we PRESENT OURSELVES as GUYS who are willing to COMMIT, in the hopes that women will find this trait of ours to be endearing, and if we're lucky, she'd reciprocate our actions.

 

Truth is, this behavior is seen as a MAJOR TURN OFF. If you don't believe me on this, ask ANY WOMAN you know.

 

If you look like a wreck of a man who uses the SYMPATHY bait in the hopes that someone will like you, you're using the wrong approach.

 

A guy should treat a spa as a tool to build his confidence up, not as an end goal for getting a relationship.

 

Get the most attractive thera you can get, avail the most wicked mileage your money can buy, do the intimate moves you fantasize about. Do all of those things, so that when you go out of the real world and finally get that chance to approach the woman of your dreams, you'll have the tools needed so that you won't look like a doormat.

 

But presenting oneself as a doormat of a client, that's another story.

[Solaryan]

Not that I'm against a particular person here. I'm just playing the devil's advocate. I think the thread seriously needs one.

 

This thread already has near 500 pages and how many therapists have shown interest by participating here? Ilang linggo na ako nangbabasa neto at mukhang isang thera lang ang MAY pakialam. Hahahaha

 

Yan ang hirap sa ating lalaking MARURUPOK ANG PUSO (or let's call ourselves VIRGINAL). Sometimes we lack the tools needed to charm women in the outside world, so we PRESENT OURSELVES as GUYS who are willing to COMMIT, in the hopes that women will find this trait of ours to be endearing, and if we're lucky, she'd reciprocate our actions.

 

Truth is, this behavior is seen as a MAJOR TURN OFF. If you don't believe me on this, ask ANY WOMAN you know.

 

If you look like a wreck of a man who uses the SYMPATHY bait in the hopes that someone will like you, you're using the wrong approach.

 

A guy should treat a spa as a tool to build his confidence up, not as an end goal for getting a relationship.

 

Get the most attractive thera you can get, avail the most wicked mileage your money can buy, do the intimate moves you fantasize about. Do all of those things, so that when you go out of the real world and finally get that chance to approach the woman of your dreams, you'll have the tools needed so that you won't look like a doormat.

 

But presenting oneself as a doormat of a client, that's another story.

 

Thanks for playing the devil's advocate Jake.

 

But, for me personally, a spa is not a tool to sharpen my charms or sexy moves or what not. It's like what Johnny says. Its a way for me to pamper myself. Hehe I don't think I need to elaborate on how exactly I want/need to be pampered.

 

 

Anyway, to be on the topic, we can't really force others to be practical or smart just because we tell them. They have to come into that "realization" themselves. Like what was said in the Matrix, you have a choice the red pill or the blue pill.

 

I think that is also the reason why this thread has nearly 500 pages. People can't help themselves, they cum to places like this to be naughty and do "the nasty" hehe (for most of us), but the people you call "marupok/virginal" can't help themselves that they develop a "crush/feelings" for a thera. It may be the 1st of the 100th thera they encountered, they can't help it.

 

Even if you (or other amazing and tenure/mature GMs) say, it's GFE or they are being tricked or taken for a ride. At the end of the day, they paid the admission fee and they may have gotten more than they expected. So, if they are happy or sad about the experience they had, I personally, don't see anything wrong if they post it here. After all, that is what this thread was created for.

 

In conclusion, you have a right to post your opinion and I can even forgive your name calling for people like us (hehe included ako kasi may crush akong thera eh), but, I don't see anything wrong with the "marupok/virginal" people posting here. THIS IS THE THREAD FOR THAT! Where else can they post? If not here? If you are getting tired with reading their posts, then don't. Haha! No one is forcing anyone to read other people's post. So long as they do not troll or attack others, I don't see anything wrong if they want to share their feelings/ thoughts.

 

Anyway, just me sharing my thoughts and opinion about this. Keep posting. I like this thread and I hope this remains active.

[Lesluthor]

Actually agree with Solaryan.Its not about lacking charms to have a chance at a girl outside the spa, its about developing feelings in the unlikeliest setting.You go here to get naughty, to get as they say pampered.I dont think any GM here entered the spa with the initial goal of getting a GF.It just so happened that something clicked with a thera and as time passed, with frequent interactions with the lady, we guys begin to see them more as than just therapists and actually realize that theras are women too that can be real partners.

[DorkVader]

I am not a spa goer but I know a lot of therapists. I used to regularly go out with a lot of them for food and drinks. In fact I can say that I am close to quite a few of them. The reason for which is another story, totally different from what most may think.

 

I can say that in all these years, I have not met a bad person among them. Maybe doon lang sa mga nakkasama ko. For most of them it was just a means to an end; although career na din for a few. Most had left and are enjoying the fruits of their labor.

 

It is not hard to fall for these girls I found out. On my part, I admire their strength and resolve to survive and succeed. When I feel really low, I draw strength from these girls. The lessons you will learn from them are truly amazing. Sino ba naman ang Hindi mahuhulog sa "maganda na, may sense pa, tapos napaligaya ka pa sa spa." Kaya Hindi ko rin masisisi yung mga nagkakagusto sa Kanila. But of course, isip isip din. Timbangin din ang mga bagay bagay bago lumusong. In the end, we are still responsible for all our actions.

[oninpoto]

Kadalasang spark na yan madals talaga libog lang yan talaga lol

[boyromantico]

Pansin ko lng...madami sa mga lalake nagpost dito nag fall either kay May or Mavic ng Midas...Lol

[w3pa]

Thanks for playing the devil's advocate Jake.

 

But, for me personally, a spa is not a tool to sharpen my charms or sexy moves or what not. It's like what Johnny says. Its a way for me to pamper myself. Hehe I don't think I need to elaborate on how exactly I want/need to be pampered.

 

 

Anyway, to be on the topic, we can't really force others to be practical or smart just because we tell them. They have to come into that "realization" themselves. Like what was said in the Matrix, you have a choice the red pill or the blue pill.

 

I think that is also the reason why this thread has nearly 500 pages. People can't help themselves, they cum to places like this to be naughty and do "the nasty" hehe (for most of us), but the people you call "marupok/virginal" can't help themselves that they develop a "crush/feelings" for a thera. It may be the 1st of the 100th thera they encountered, they can't help it.

 

Even if you (or other amazing and tenure/mature GMs) say, it's GFE or they are being tricked or taken for a ride. At the end of the day, they paid the admission fee and they may have gotten more than they expected. So, if they are happy or sad about the experience they had, I personally, don't see anything wrong if they post it here. After all, that is what this thread was created for.

 

In conclusion, you have a right to post your opinion and I can even forgive your name calling for people like us (hehe included ako kasi may crush akong thera eh), but, I don't see anything wrong with the "marupok/virginal" people posting here. THIS IS THE THREAD FOR THAT! Where else can they post? If not here? If you are getting tired with reading their posts, then don't. Haha! No one is forcing anyone to read other people's post. So long as they do not troll or attack others, I don't see anything wrong if they want to share their feelings/ thoughts.

 

Anyway, just me sharing my thoughts and opinion about this. Keep posting. I like this thread and I hope this remains active.

 

Agree. You can enter into this with the right mindset but can still develop feelings for someone. I've been exposed to this for more than 10 years (albeit had a 4-year hiatus because I had a GF). Yes other theras add me on FB or give me their numbers, but I never fell for them. It was just the one I shared about. I guess when you see something different about someone in this industry, something you can really respect and admire about this person, you start seeing them in a different light, and maybe even develop feelings for them . I agree as well with Hadouken99 though. You shouldn't let your guard down that easily. With anyone, especially in this industry. In a way, the girls here may have to do more to prove to men that they are genuine. That may be one of the burdens of being a thera in this industry. And a lesson learned as well for me. Edited February 6, 2017 by w3pa

[w3pa]

Just to clarify, I'm recommending that you don't let your guard down AT ALL when dealing with anyone in this. Sorry, but from experience, I think that's the nature of all this.

Exactly what I said. But most especially in this setting.

[LYCHEE]

Kadalasang spark na yan madals talaga libog lang yan talaga lol

 

Agree ako dito 101%...but sometimes at the end of a very special deed, which only both you can relate to, i cannot help but feel respect for the lady who gave her all if only to make her man special.. Imagine 3 pops each at the shower room, jacuzzi, and, of course, the bed...no quarters left on the battlefield, so to speak.. no mercy, no inhibitions...master-slave positions...sumayad lang uli ang mga balat nyo, game na naman...time just stops for 2 hours...GFE to the max...the chemistry was just there from beginning to end... and what's really awesome was i handed her 5 thou...and she gives back to me 2 thou..saying, unbelievably, that it was already too much...i took the 2 thou back only to give her the time of her life at a 5 star hotel i was staying the day after.... whether she admits it was her first time to accept an invite from a guest she trusted for some reason she cannot explain makes really no difference to me...whether she felt something there moving forward, she can sense what my answer will be.....it was MUTUAL LUST matched only by MUTUAL RESPECT at the right place and at the right time..that's all there is to it..no more, no less for the hopeless romantics. Happy Hunting, Gents!

 

Btw, she was P10 thou richer thereafter...:-)

Edited February 6, 2017 by LYCHEE

[pepejoe]

Pansin ko lng...madami sa mga lalake nagpost dito nag fall either kay May or Mavic ng Midas...Lol

Mga theras na nagpost din dito. I think marami sa posts ay para kay Mavic. The spark girl.

 

Kadalasang spark na yan madals talaga libog lang yan talaga lol

Sa libog nagsimula tapos nadevelop sa malasakit at pagmamahal. Proof is kahit walang ES, masaya pa rin si GM.

 

Not that I'm against a particular person here. I'm just playing the devil's advocate. I think the thread seriously needs one.

 

This thread already has near 500 pages and how many therapists have shown interest by participating here? Ilang linggo na ako nangbabasa neto at mukhang isang thera lang ang MAY pakialam. Hahahaha

 

Yan ang hirap sa ating lalaking MARURUPOK ANG PUSO (or let's call ourselves VIRGINAL). Sometimes we lack the tools needed to charm women in the outside world, so we PRESENT OURSELVES as GUYS who are willing to COMMIT, in the hopes that women will find this trait of ours to be endearing, and if we're lucky, she'd reciprocate our actions.

 

Truth is, this behavior is seen as a MAJOR TURN OFF. If you don't believe me on this, ask ANY WOMAN you know.

 

If you look like a wreck of a man who uses the SYMPATHY bait in the hopes that someone will like you, you're using the wrong approach.

 

A guy should treat a spa as a tool to build his confidence up, not as an end goal for getting a relationship.

 

Get the most attractive thera you can get, avail the most wicked mileage your money can buy, do the intimate moves you fantasize about. Do all of those things, so that when you go out of the real world and finally get that chance to approach the woman of your dreams, you'll have the tools needed so that you won't look like a doormat.

 

But presenting oneself as a doormat of a client, that's another story.

 

Look in the mirror GM if you have the charm to attract or make a thera fall for you. The married ones have different reasons why they still fall for a thera. I had my reasons and happy that It's over. I'm free from the spell of the spark. I'm back to regular programming of availing a thera every other week, contended whether I get the standard or the full mileage. Cheers to the GMs and the theras that adds more color to our lives. Edited February 6, 2017 by Usebyo