butters Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 i think, im falling for someone right now...(GRO)...she's like no other I've met...sweet, makulit, makwento as in sobrang daming mapagkwekwentuhan...nakakalimutan mo yung past relationships mo...he he wierd...txt mate kami ngaun. try ko nga minsan ayain sa labas... Quote Link to comment
cricket Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 (edited) they're professionals... kaw din mahihirapan if you'd fall for one... better to keep your relationship a professional one as well... Edited October 28, 2007 by cricket Quote Link to comment
Palakol Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 if you can handle her f#&king left and right, then why not? Quote Link to comment
Jillian Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Business is business. If you cant keep things straight, ikaw din ang mahihirapan. Quote Link to comment
cuatro_ojos Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 I have a confession to make. I fell in love with an MPA over a year ago (I still am). At first, she told me that she was single (oh yeah, I was so naive hehe...love is blind indeed). I told her that I'll support her financially if she leaves the trade (she did...and in return, I kept my word).  Several months later, I found out that she was NOT single (married, but to the point of separation and she has two kids). Now the natural response would have been to let go of her and close the chapter. But no, I kept on supporting her, sending her money regularly and sometimes even more, especially in times of need (ex. when her kids were sick).  What motivated me to do it? Mahal ko kasi eh. I sort of took over the role of the husband. I have pictures of her and the kids in my office (hidden in my drawer, of course). She tells me stories about how her eldest daughter is doing well in school. I even sent money para makapag-birthday party 'yung dalawang anak niyang girls. My support enabled her to start a little sari-sari store of her own infront of their house and, along with a friend who still does stints in the flesh trade once a while, to get a stand at a nearby public market. And to top it all, she's now in a Middle Eastern country working as a babysitter (yup, I also helped her financially so that she could get her passport).  We still keep in touch (I just called her a few hours ago). Now that she's earning her own dough, it looks like tapos na ang role ko ng pag-support sa kanya financially. And even though I spent a lot of money, I don't consider it a loss kasi I managed to pull her out of the flesh trade at nasa mas mabuti na siyang kalagayan ngayon. Quote Link to comment
inode Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 I have a confession to make. I fell in love with an MPA over a year ago (I still am). At first, she told me that she was single (oh yeah, I was so naive hehe...love is blind indeed). I told her that I'll support her financially if she leaves the trade (she did...and in return, I kept my word).  Several months later, I found out that she was NOT single (married, but to the point of separation and she has two kids). Now the natural response would have been to let go of her and close the chapter. But no, I kept on supporting her, sending her money regularly and sometimes even more, especially in times of need (ex. when her kids were sick).  What motivated me to do it? Mahal ko kasi eh. I sort of took over the role of the husband. I have pictures of her and the kids in my office (hidden in my drawer, of course). She tells me stories about how her eldest daughter is doing well in school. I even sent money para makapag-birthday party 'yung dalawang anak niyang girls. My support enabled her to start a little sari-sari store of her own infront of their house and, along with a friend who still does stints in the flesh trade once a while, to get a stand at a nearby public market. And to top it all, she's now in a Middle Eastern country working as a babysitter (yup, I also helped her financially so that she could get her passport).  We still keep in touch (I just called her a few hours ago). Now that she's earning her own dough, it looks like tapos na ang role ko ng pag-support sa kanya financially. And even though I spent a lot of money, I don't consider it a loss kasi I managed to pull her out of the flesh trade at nasa mas mabuti na siyang kalagayan ngayon. You did a really good thing, giving a person another chance at life even though walang assurance na babalik sa iyo. But I'm sure it will, karma has its way of working out for the good-hearted ones. Wish I could do the same once I'm financially capable of it already. Quote Link to comment
gonefishing Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 Anything is possible in this world. A thing to remember, people enter in a certain profession because they enjoy doing it. Doctors like science, accountants like math and prostitutes like sex. You have to ask yourself constanstly can I satisfy her not only on cash but also on sex... Quote Link to comment
yang62 Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 Anything is possible in this world. A thing to remember, people enter in a certain profession because they enjoy doing it. Doctors like science, accountants like math and prostitutes like sex. You have to ask yourself constanstly can I satisfy her not only on cash but also on sex...  i'm not sure i agree with you 100% on that bro. The issue is choice.... doctors and accountants CHOOSE their profession freely. Some PSPs are forced into the trade, either by circumstances or in some 5th world countries, literally forced. Ever since i visited, KTVs and MPAs I realized these were real people, and its soooo easy to fall for them. i found myself getting so infatuated with one of them that she occupied my thoughts constantly. Buti na lang i chanced upon this thread - reading all these stories woke me up! Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 I have a confession to make.God Bless you :flowers: Anything is possible in this world. A thing to remember, people enter in a certain profession because they enjoy doing it. Doctors like science, accountants like math and prostitutes like sex. You have to ask yourself constanstly can I satisfy her not only on cash but also on sex... Whatta concept! That's pure s@%t. No wonder you're always gone fishing. Quote Link to comment
Mobius Stripper Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 (edited) Anything is possible in this world. A thing to remember, people enter in a certain profession because they enjoy doing it. Doctors like science, accountants like math and prostitutes like sex. You have to ask yourself constanstly can I satisfy her not only on cash but also on sex... And you fish because ... you like fish?  I think that logic doesn't work with the kids I saw swimming in mercury laden flooded mines in Diwalwal years ago or kids selling sampaguitas late at night. People who love their jobs are not as common as you think. Cuatro Ojos, that was truly inspiring. I wish you well. Edited November 8, 2007 by Mobius Stripper Quote Link to comment
spongebobby Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 Anything is possible in this world. A thing to remember, people enter in a certain profession because they enjoy doing it. Doctors like science, accountants like math and prostitutes like sex. You have to ask yourself constanstly can I satisfy her not only on cash but also on sex... some porn stars have gone on record to say that a love for sex and exhibitionism is a prerequisite in their business. but for mpas, psps, gros? i don't think so.  tibay ng sikmura, hindi libog ang kailangan sa trabahong ito. and kudos to the guy who loves them for what they have become, and sees what they can still be... Quote Link to comment
megaman_0000001 Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 we are but human.. but it shouldnt serve as an excuse lalo na pagpaulit ulit di naman natututo  korek? amen :mtc: Quote Link to comment
gonefishing Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 And you fish because ... you like fish?  I think that logic doesn't work with the kids I saw swimming in mercury laden flooded mines in Diwalwal years ago or kids selling sampaguitas late at night. People who love their jobs are not as common as you think. Cuatro Ojos, that was truly inspiring. I wish you well. I fish for the thrill and adventure to eat what you have actually caught on the line, not for the fish. Any MPA or GRO can choose to work in SM or Robinson as saleslady they should meet the minimum requirement for this job. To say that it is not their choice, that they do not enjoy doing it, that is they are only forced by economic circumstances is completely untrue. Kailangan ng landi at libog, and they have it.  There is a rule of thumb for foreigners visiting Thailand who fall in love with the bargirls there: You can take the girl out of the bar and marry her, but you cannot take the bar out of the girl. Meaning the barlife is her life. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 9, 2007 Share Posted November 9, 2007 I fish for the thrill and adventure to eat what you have actually caught on the line, not for the fish. Any MPA or GRO can choose to work in SM or Robinson as saleslady they should meet the minimum requirement for this job. To say that it is not their choice, that they do not enjoy doing it, that is they are only forced by economic circumstances is completely untrue. Kailangan ng landi at libog, and they have it.  There is a rule of thumb for foreigners visiting Thailand who fall in love with the bargirls there: You can take the girl out of the bar and marry her, but you cannot take the bar out of the girl. Meaning the barlife is her life. yeah...one has got to be so f#&ked up to be able to see things the way you do...come to think of it....maybe i should praise you?...it takes alot of crap to come up with such perception....and i say alot!....and you got it all baby...bravo! Quote Link to comment
Mobius Stripper Posted November 9, 2007 Share Posted November 9, 2007 I fish for the thrill and adventure to eat what you have actually caught on the line, not for the fish. Any MPA or GRO can choose to work in SM or Robinson as saleslady they should meet the minimum requirement for this job. To say that it is not their choice, that they do not enjoy doing it, that is they are only forced by economic circumstances is completely untrue. Kailangan ng landi at libog, and they have it.  There is a rule of thumb for foreigners visiting Thailand who fall in love with the bargirls there: You can take the girl out of the bar and marry her, but you cannot take the bar out of the girl. Meaning the barlife is her life. Not for the fish, hmmm ... So what is it you really eat that you catch at the end of the line?  So going back to my Mt. Diwalwal case, you think the kids actually enjoy swimming in mercury laden waters. Since you like adventure that much, why not try fishing in the Pasig & eating what you catch? You want more adventure? Try living on an SM salesirl's paltry salary & see if you can afford to tell us at MTC what a grand time you're having. What kicks do you get in making such a gross generalization on that part of humanity without giving them the benefit of any doubt? Quote Link to comment
dakota Posted November 9, 2007 Share Posted November 9, 2007 I fish for the thrill and adventure to eat what you have actually caught on the line, not for the fish. Any MPA or GRO can choose to work in SM or Robinson as saleslady they should meet the minimum requirement for this job. To say that it is not their choice, that they do not enjoy doing it, that is they are only forced by economic circumstances is completely untrue. Kailangan ng landi at libog, and they have it.  There is a rule of thumb for foreigners visiting Thailand who fall in love with the bargirls there: You can take the girl out of the bar and marry her, but you cannot take the bar out of the girl. Meaning the barlife is her life.  Here are three statements told to me by three different mpa's that I will always remember: 1) Wala naman akong alam na babae na pinangarap na maging pokpok.2) Eh nabasa na rin lang eh di maligo na lang na tuluyan.3) Kasi naman si tatay eh, malibog ang dami naming makakapatid, kaya eto kailangan kumapit sa patalim. From my own observations, I feel that majority of them are into it not by choice but by circumstances. Quote Link to comment
markvl3 Posted November 9, 2007 Share Posted November 9, 2007 Anything is possible in this world. A thing to remember, people enter in a certain profession because they enjoy doing it. Doctors like science, accountants like math and prostitutes like sex. You have to ask yourself constanstly can I satisfy her not only on cash but also on sex...  Sweeping generalization and trivializing the issue. you should take some time and think about your statements. its not as easy as as you see it. anyone engage if the flesh trade would tell you that they never like what they are doing. Have a heart and listen to their stories sometimes. You might learn a thing or two. about seflessness and sacrifices maybe.... Quote Link to comment
yhance Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 Honestly in the case of my friend the MPA feel in love with him in such short time. My friend is currently in a relationship so I advised him from the start to think of an escape plan before his GF finds out. The girl was so sweet with him, she always calls my friend more often and took charge of our breakfast in Mc Do. One time when she went out of my car without her knowing that she accidentally left her wallet which contains 20k in it. His BF (my friend) hurriedly chased her and gave the wallet. To make the story short by the time summer has ended, his GF is always checkin on his cellphone thats why everytime the MPA gf calls i took charge in answering it...giving alibis Quote Link to comment
spongebobby Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 i still remember that mpa newbie that i had a relationship with many, many years ago and i'm retelling our story. we had an accidental "live" session at her home, and sometime after that, she disappeared. she changed phone number and address without informing me. she reappeared after three or four months, and tried to rekindle the past, but i wanted answers especially on two nagging thoughts: did she get pregnant and did she have an abortion? she didn't want to say and she didn't want to talk about it. so we just broke up with finality. she then let go of all restraint and became a superstar mpa. no more demure last time i heard, she's still a superstar. though i was told she looks older now... minsan naiisip ko kung ako ang dahilan kung bakit siya nagpakasuperstar sa pagiging mpa. kasi dati palagi niyang sinasabi na hirap na hirap na hirap siya sa trabaho niya at tinitibayan na lang niya iyong sikmura niya. di naman pera ang gusto niya sa akin dahil ni piso di man lang siya humingi... it's sad. i used to read posts in mtc describing her performance like she's a piece of meat. i want to punch the poster in the face,but what i could i do? she's in that type of work, and mtc is a place for comments like that. and not everyone can be sensitive about mpas' feelings. Quote Link to comment
DonImus Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 (edited) One has to be a little wary about this type of falling in love. A friend of mine fell hard but it was clear to the rest that the girl was just really good at what she does (GFE). It was just sad how he got milked for whatever he's worth emotionally and financially. There may be those that reciprocate a client's love in good faith but these are the exceptions rather than the rule.  Simple lang naman yan eh, kung tumatanggap sya ng pera from you, kahit gano pa ka-lehitimo yung paggagamitan nya, hindi pa rin yun ang hanap mong pagmamahal na binibigay nya. The only way this could turn out right is that she becomes your real GF while supporting her. She's loyal to you and you end up getting married and having a family. Otherwise it's just a another case of one human being selfishly using another. Edited November 10, 2007 by DonImus Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 it's sad. i used to read posts in mtc describing her performance like she's a piece of meat. i want to punch the poster in the face,but what i could i do? she's in that type of work, and mtc is a place for comments like that. and not everyone can be sensitive about mpas' feelings.  not surprising...she was still a newbie then...One has to be a little wary about this type of falling in love. A friend of mine fell hard but it was clear to the rest that the girl was just really good at what she does (GFE). It was just sad how he got milked for whatever he's worth emotionally and financially. There may be those that reciprocate a client's love in good faith but these are the exceptions rather than the rule.  yep...maraming ganyan Simple lang naman yan eh, kung tumatanggap sya ng pera from you, kahit gano pa ka-lehitimo yung paggagamitan nya, hindi pa rin yun ang hanap mong pagmamahal na binibigay nya. The only way this could turn out right is that she becomes your real GF while supporting her. She's loyal to you and you end up getting married and having a family. Otherwise it's just a another case of one human being selfishly using another.  yup! and all these talk...*sighs Quote Link to comment
loser Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 not surprising...she was still a newbie then...My best friend is currently in love w/ a MPA right now & believe me their love is story is way too full of drama for my taste. I try to discourage him by bringing him to Sylvanus, Euastacia, P1, etc...to no avail but I guess that GL girl ay hinahanap nya palagi. She has been exhibiting signs & symptoms common to all sex workers: split-dual personality (good girl -bad girl) & somatotization disorder. She always say she does this kind of livelihood for her family, but research shows that in a place where she works sex does provide a feeling of an emotional high & physical satisfaction: - they forget their problems for a moment - they have absolute control of their male partners - they receive cash for the effort My friend is trying everything in his power from preventing this girl going to work, & actually Ms. KARA, you've met him only twice & he did confide to you all his troubles. {CLUE: you did invite him to join MTC but his geeky sensibilities doesn't care for the antics of a typical MTC member, love does that to you} But I guess logical research findings are againts him & the odds of getting the girl to quit is lot more than he can handle. I'm really, to be exact, we are really wondering how did YOU walk away from that place & never looked back, MS. KARA? Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 (edited) I'm really, to be exact, we are really wondering how did YOU walk away from that place & never looked back, MS. KARA?easy...i don't need to work in that kind of business anymore...my aunts are supporting me now..financially...just enough for the very basic necessities though...a friend (a philantrophistphilanthropist :upside: ) is helping me pay this apt monthly, otherwise i wouldn't be able to stay here...i pray to not get sick (but the things i do are...so well...i just pray )..and...well perhaps i'm just the kind of person who never needed ...never wanted much ... things (material things) mean nothing to me... if someone gives me things then i'm happy...if i see nice things on other people...then i feel happy for them...if i don't have what others have..i just shrug it off... i really don't care...if i have something to give, i share. it's all about..me not wanting too much, and people helping me.. i guess. i hope i answered your question. Edited November 11, 2007 by iwalkalone Quote Link to comment
spongebobby Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 may naalala akong taga-gl na nagkaroon ng sobrang bait na boyfriend. binibigyan siya ng suporta ng bf niya. kaso nagkabisyo ng drugs kaya kinulang iyong bigay ng bf. ang ginawa niya, bumabalik siya sa gl, o di kaya nagdadala ng guest (daw) sa bahay. malas lang niya dahil nahuli siya ng pinsan ng bf niya. pero suwerte pa rin, dahil pinatawad siya ng bf. siguro mga one year ago na iyan. iyong girl alam ko nasa gl pa rin. pero usually bangag sa aquarium o di kaya absent. bilib ako sa bf niya. sana lang di sayangin ng girl. Quote Link to comment
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