Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Sir Galahad®]

I think we already established that she is just clinging to him for the money. Yeesh!

 

Jayze, try not giving anything except the standard when you are in the cubicle.

Refuse to give anything else.

[hilong_talilong]

skin lang sir tigil nyo na lang tulong or advice nyo.. i mean common...humingi advice pero tuloy pa din sa pagbigay sustento or pera..pabayaan mo siya mismo madapa...dami nako na encounter na ganyan sa mga tropa ko..

 

If yan ang trip nya let him be..

[JegaJega]

Salamat sa lahat ng advices nyo mga braders ill be facing today all the demons na kinakatakutan ko khpon pa.... i justbhave to make a decision.

No posts sa fb nya pati dun sa jejemon no posts so i assume alam din nung lalaki sinabihan nya lng na wag na mg posts... ill have to cguro stop now

Thanks sir soundwave i will

 

Salamat sa lahat ng advices nyo mga braders ill be facing today all the demons na kinakatakutan ko khpon pa.... i justbhave to make a decision.

No posts sa fb nya pati dun sa jejemon no posts so i assume alam din nung lalaki sinabihan nya lng na wag na mg posts... ill have to cguro stop now

Thanks sir soundwave i will

 

 

Salamat sa lahat ng advices nyo mga braders ill be facing today all the demons na kinakatakutan ko khpon pa.... i justbhave to make a decision.

No posts sa fb nya pati dun sa jejemon no posts so i assume alam din nung lalaki sinabihan nya lng na wag na mg posts... ill have to cguro stop now

Thanks sir soundwave i will

 

 

As Bob Dylan said: "You can't be wise and in love at the same time".

[soundwave07]

On a different note, anyone thinking about retiring? For reasons related to this thread topic.

 

Nothing as serious naman as our friend jayze, im not heartbroken or anything, but i know whatever "relationships" may form here are, well, difficult to say the least. I know we all started doing this for a bit of fun, bit its come to a point for me where i think im looking for more. After reading the horror stories and self reflection, thoughts of retiring came up.

 

Thoughts?

[ghostwriter.senpai]

Oo nga eh..... alam ko nmn na ginagamit nlng ako mga braders pero ang tanong ko sa sarili bkt dko mahiwalayan. Me mga pinangako pko sa knya to start with para mka alis na sy sa biz

Sa mga nasabi mo i suggest to stop seeing that thera, namemera lang yan, kung di ka pa sure i test mo, standard tip lang ibigay mo, tapos wag mo bigyan ng gifts at extra cash. Pag naging matabang ang pkikitungo alam na, di ba..

 

Pag heartbroken ka divert mo atensyon mo sa iba, ang dami na thera dyan, kumuha ka ng magaling sa ES tapos yung mabait, yung di nang uuto ng guest para lang kumita. Basta palitan mo sya, talo ka dyan. Mas maganda nga lumipat ka ng MP mo, para fresh start. Di ako mag suggest na magretire ka kasi alam ko mahirap yun, nagtry ako dati di ko kaya, di sa pagmamayabang lagi kasi ako may budget na pumunta. Tapos lagi ako may nakikita na pamalit sa love ko dati.. Sarap pa ng ES pag inlove na kami, wala na restrictions. In summary humanap ka na lang ng iba, move on bro..

[frank martin]

Ewan ko mga braders magbsuicude nlng kaya ako para matapos na

Bro don't entertain this kind of thought. You're earning six digits so please give yourself the respect due for your skill sets and personality. You have the purchasing power to go after some high class escorts and other women so do it.

 

Remember we are here to do taste testing and not to keep them on our refrigerators. Tikim tikim lang. You'll get over this, just give it some time.

[JegaJega]

Bro don't entertain this kind of thought. You're earning six digits so please give yourself the respect due for your skill sets and personality. You have the purchasing power to go after some high class escorts and other women so do it.

 

Remember we are here to do taste testing and not to keep them on our refrigerators. Tikim tikim lang. You'll get over this, just give it some time.

 

There is no need to buy the whole chicken if all you want is to have the thigh portion of the fried chicken.....

 

There is no need to buy the whole cow if all you want is a rib-eye steak.....

 

Kitam.......hahahahaha................. .

[Sir Galahad®]

I wonder how is he doing now?

[frank martin]

There is no need to buy the whole chicken if all you want is to have the thigh portion of the fried chicken.....

 

There is no need to buy the whole cow if all you want is a rib-eye steak.....

 

Kitam.......hahahahaha................. .

Spoken like a six digit earner! Hahaha way to go

[soundwave07]

I wonder how is he doing now?

He pm'd me, seems like he's on the right track.

[KAPITAN_Tutan]

Wanted to share my experience with this. I have two theras in a relationship with me right now. Both are semi-popular theras in QC. I dont consider myself attractive, and I dont know what they saw in me, and they dont know each other.

 

One of the relationships started when I got this thera almost everyday with generous amounts of tips, until I asked her out on a date. Things eventually went further from there until I fell in love with her and I asked her to be my gf. It was complicated because she also had another bf, and we fighted a lot about it. But she went with me. It was a hard start full of jealousy and lies but it became better, and things got more tolerable. Most of our fights would happen mainly because of her job, and she would threaten to f#&k a guest if she got angry. I would also threaten to f#&k another thera beside her cubicle if I got angry. Believe me, those threats were real, but it all died down until we got just tired of fighting over the same things. We resolved our issues one by one and she introduced me to her family, and we got better.

 

The other one was not meant to happen, but I got her as a thera a few years earlier than the first one. It was a connect-disconnect-reconnect kind of thing, until we started seeing each other on dates more often. When my first thera gf would be on her shift, I would go to the spa of thera 2. It's a purely carnal relationship, and the sex is incredible. I also love her and she loves me, but I know that I'll never fully have her heart because of some issues.

 

Aside from this, I still visit other spas and have some fave theras. Why? Because honestly, even though I like and even love my thera gf's, almost all theras can agree that no one should take these things seriously, especially so quickly. And these relationships are not necessarily about just sex, there's quite an emotional investment involved; but it's like staring at a wall, wondering how far you're really willing to climb to get to the other side. Right now, I'm not ready to climb it or commit anything super seriously, and they both understand it. Im just taking my time to decide whats next. There's plenty of time anyway.

 

Tips:

1. Never let them get angry at you while they're on duty

2. Gifts mean a lot if they like you. Smaller more senti gifts are better.

3. Understand that what theyre doing is just a job. To them, its not different from making spreadsheets. Really. This is the most important thing.

4. Keep an eye out for signs of cheating. Always.

5. Falling is okay but dont fall too hard, too fast. Really get to know more.

[private5star]

Ewan ko mga braders magbsuicude nlng kaya ako para matapos na

 

Just do it!

[-DELETED-]

Wanted to share my experience with this. I have two theras in a relationship with me right now. Both are semi-popular theras in QC. I dont consider myself attractive, and I dont know what they saw in me, and they dont know each other.

 

One of the relationships started when I got this thera almost everyday with generous amounts of tips, until I asked her out on a date. Things eventually went further from there until I fell in love with her and I asked her to be my gf. It was complicated because she also had another bf, and we fighted a lot about it. But she went with me. It was a hard start full of jealousy and lies but it became better, and things got more tolerable. Most of our fights would happen mainly because of her job, and she would threaten to f#&k a guest if she got angry. I would also threaten to f#&k another thera beside her cubicle if I got angry. Believe me, those threats were real, but it all died down until we got just tired of fighting over the same things. We resolved our issues one by one and she introduced me to her family, and we got better.

 

The other one was not meant to happen, but I got her as a thera a few years earlier than the first one. It was a connect-disconnect-reconnect kind of thing, until we started seeing each other on dates more often. When my first thera gf would be on her shift, I would go to the spa of thera 2. It's a purely carnal relationship, and the sex is incredible. I also love her and she loves me, but I know that I'll never fully have her heart because of some issues.

 

Aside from this, I still visit other spas and have some fave theras. Why? Because honestly, even though I like and even love my thera gf's, almost all theras can agree that no one should take these things seriously, especially so quickly. And these relationships are not necessarily about just sex, there's quite an emotional investment involved; but it's like staring at a wall, wondering how far you're really willing to climb to get to the other side. Right now, I'm not ready to climb it or commit anything super seriously, and they both understand it. Im just taking my time to decide whats next. There's plenty of time anyway.

 

Tips:

1. Never let them get angry at you while they're on duty

2. Gifts mean a lot if they like you. Smaller more senti gifts are better.

3. Understand that what theyre doing is just a job. To them, its not different from making spreadsheets. Really. This is the most important thing.

4. Keep an eye out for signs of cheating. Always.

5. Falling is okay but dont fall too hard, too fast. Really get to know more.

 

You sire, is one humble human being. You said you are not attractive but look at your photo. You are alden richards. lol kidding aside, just few comments if I may. Threatening to have sex with other theras/GMs is an immature thing to do. Never do it in this kind of relationship. Second, I wish you would not engage in a relationship to both of them, at the least, choose one. I can't imagine a thera (considering all the hardships he is already experiencing, including financial) will have a heartbreak. It would certainly break her. And the cycle continues.

[KAPITAN_Tutan]

You sire, is one humble human being. You said you are not attractive but look at your photo. You are alden richards. lol kidding aside, just few comments if I may. Threatening to have sex with other theras/GMs is an immature thing to do. Never do it in this kind of relationship. Second, I wish you would not engage in a relationship to both of them, at the least, choose one. I can't imagine a thera (considering all the hardships he is already experiencing, including financial) will have a heartbreak. It would certainly break her. And the cycle continues.

Thats why those threats eventually stopped.

 

Also, the thing is, both of them actually have multiple boyfriends. You'd be surprised how many of them are like this.

[ceddie.ece]

 

Before i fall in love to my regular therapist every weekend im going to spa to see her. Nadevelop ako sa kanya vice versa ganun din siya sa akin, we dated each other outside the spa watching movies, eating in restaurants, going to private places like baguio etc. Sobra akong nainlove im crazy everytime naiisip ko mga kasama niya na guy kung anong ginagawa nila sa room sa madaling salita nagseselos ako. Ako yung klase ng tao na madaling mainlove sa therapists basta sobrang lambing. Buti na lang at nakapag abroad ako, at siya mismo ang kumalas she didn't answer my text and call, she decided to end up our relationship. I decided to focus on my work in abroad to forget her but i can't i miss her so much, alam niyo mga tol hangouts with friends lang nakawala ng pagka miss ko sa kanya. Pero minsan naaalala ko pa din siya, she's one of my very bestfriend my beloved therapist i've ever met.

[Im25]

Stopping cold turkey- easier said than done. Last na ito......Hindi pa din.

[ghostwriter.senpai]

Paano mo malalaman kung totoo kna mahal ng thera? Pag nagsasabi na ba sya ng i love you? Pag binibigyan kna ba nya ng gifts at pasalubong? Pag pumapayag sya na magdate kayo? Ewan ko ba, ganun kasi sya sa akin, pero parang duda pa ako? Sira ba ulo ko? Hahaha

[royflirty]

may isang thera rin panay ang "i love you". not sure kung ilan kaming GMs ang sinasabihan nya ng ganyan hehe

[Im25]

Agree. Trust no one.

[Mr. Noble]

Agree. Trust no one.

This is true most of the time... But if you really feel something is different then that is the time that you should ask yourself if this is true or just lies.

[RФN S+EvЄ]

This is true most of the time... But if you really feel something is different then that is the time that you should ask yourself if this is true or just lies.

 

yeah bro hehehe better to love than not to love at all

[himura6789]

Kaya mo yan bro

[Mr. Noble]

 

yeah bro hehehe better to love than not to love at all

True...... Wag lang sobra sobra.

[RФN S+EvЄ]

True...... Wag lang sobra sobra.

+1

[JegaJega]

may isang thera rin panay ang "i love you". not sure kung ilan kaming GMs ang sinasabihan nya ng ganyan hehe

 

Yung "ex-thera-labs" ko, sinasabihan niya ako ng "i love you" at "ikaw lang...walang iba", pero nahula ko siya na gumimik at nakipag-lasingan hanggang 3:30am kasama mga boylets..............kaya tinapos ko na yung 8-year relationship namin........So Balik na ulit ako sa MP and SPA circuit.......