Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[wheeljack]

I don't get it. What does the chit chat among theras and gms about tips and service have to do with falling for a thera?

 

If what people are trying to say is that theras are just like other girls who talk about boys with their friends then that gives a humanizing factor to them. Otherwise, I can't see how them talking about tips will help a GM when he falls for a thera

[wheeljack]

Some GM's are delusional. Withholding ES info about theras they fell for, saying "sa amin lang ito" in the hopes that it will somehow protect whatever he has with the thera. Isang beses palang na-ES, love na raw.

Some GMs withhold their ES because they also want to protect the thera. If says that he went the whole 9 yards with a thera, the next GM will expect the same. Whatever mileage they got from their theras can also be attributed to the number of times they've been together. It does not necessarily mean that they are in love

[wheeljack]

That's precisely why I said "some" GM's.

And that's the reason why I asked how theras talking about the GMs have to do with falling for a thera.

 

If some GMs are delusional then that's their problem

[Shaitan]

Alam narin naman natin ano ginagawa sa ES. Hj bj etc. Minsan tulong narin sa thera yun para kunin sila ng iba at ma-exp yun at hinde lang yun nabasa nila. Iba iba rin kasi moves nila depende sa new client vs regular.

 

Ang layo na sa topic. Lol!

[3mpathicMan]

Alam narin naman natin ano ginagawa sa ES. Hj bj etc. Minsan tulong narin sa thera yun para kunin sila ng iba at ma-exp yun at hinde lang yun nabasa nila. Iba iba rin kasi moves nila depende sa new client vs regular.

 

Ang layo na sa topic. Lol!

I know right. Sobrang layo na sa usapan.. XD

[Solaryan]

Transactional at first, but it could lead to something. If both parties (GM and therapist) are truthful and they really want to have more to it than just service being provided. But, after a bit more personal experience, I am seeing that most of them (therapist) are also apprehensive/wary of trusting GMs. And I can't blame them...

 

Anyway, as for me. I don't want to be like most of the guys here and lose my "sense of wonder"/ noobness and just be in it to "get off". I still want to get the "kilig" effect. But then again, that's just me.

 

My take on it is this: I dont' want to get mechanical ES, so I don't want to be mechanical GM. hehe if that makes sense... If not, let me know, I can elaborate

[Solaryan]

Not all of us have that level of control to our "kilig" glands/hormones/brain portions what have you... hehe...

 

Again, we are humans. Not robots. We are emotional. We feel, we love, we get hurt, we lie, we cheat, we commit the most selfless acts and most selfish acts all in the name of what we think and believe is right. So why, in tarnation should we not be humans in or out of the confines of the spa?

 

I had fun. I enjoyed the company of a beautiful and attractive therapist. I felt the "kilig" of spending time with her. And if I still have the lingering effects of that days after my session, for me, that is money well spent

 

It's like getting a good massage wherein the relaxation and serenity I got lasted the entire week. hahahaha!

Edited March 3, 2017 by Solaryan

[3mpathicMan]

In all honesty, It boils down to one thing. Trust. Just like in any relationship. The difference is it is that much harder for this kind of relationship, but is is possible. If both GM and Thera trust each other, it will work.

 

If you guys are still not convinced, I am living proof.

 

I dated a well known thera, well known in a smaller community than MTC, but well known none the less. So yes, it was hard whenever she had a guest and I was there in the Spa Lounge waiting for her to finish. I would just talk to the other thera's while waiting. Masakit isipin whatever was happening inside and I never once forced her to tell me or forced her to talk about it with me. It just had to be clear na trabaho lang. We sometimes would talk about her guest, quietly it would k*ll me inside, but I never got mad at her for it. For me it was part of the trust building process. Like in any relationship, a couple would talk about the day they had. I could not ask her to stop because I for one could not fully support her yet. She did stop eventually. Long story short, cut to 5 years later, we are still together. Happily living together with our kid.

 

So yes. It is possible. You just need trust.

Edited March 3, 2017 by 3mpathicMan

[Solaryan]

For dogs, there are no colors. Just because someone can't feel it or see it, doesn't make things an "illusion". I have read and heard stories of people finding love inside the Spa they went to.

 

So yeah, I don't need anyone's permission to feel or think what I want to feel or think. Hehe I find it entertaining to read other people's "thoughts"

[Solaryan]

Hehe still, it's my choice if I don't want to get rid of it after an hour or two hours at the spa...Like I said, it's a feeling and I want to enjoy it. Also, it really depends on how I work on getting a fairy-tale ending. I may or may not be able to win a thera's heart. But, I continue to cherish the kilig to the boners bones that they made me feel. LOL

Edited March 3, 2017 by Solaryan

[wilmerjim]

In all honesty, It boils down to one thing. Trust. Just like in any relationship. The difference is it is that much harder for this kind of relationship, but is is possible. If both GM and Thera trust each other, it will work.

 

If you guys are still not convinced, I am living proof.

 

I dated a well known thera, well known in a smaller community than MTC, but well known none the less. So yes, it was hard whenever she had a guest and I was there in the Spa Lounge waiting for her to finish. I would just talk to the other thera's while waiting. Masakit isipin whatever was happening inside and I never once forced her to tell me or forced her to talk about it with me. It just had to be clear na trabaho lang. We sometimes would talk about her guest, quietly it would k*ll me inside, but I never got mad at her for it. For me it was part of the trust building process. Like in any relationship, a couple would talk about the day they had. I could not ask her to stop because I for one could not fully support her yet. She did stop eventually. Long story short, cut to 5 years later, we are still together. Happily living together with our kid.

 

So yes. It is possible. You just need trust.

 

 

Kung living proof ka na nag fall ka sa thera. ano pang ginagawa mo dito sa forum na ito kung masaya ka na dapat hindi ka na pumupunta sa mga spa. Hindi ka ba masaya sa asawa mong ex thera? alam ba ng asawa mo at anak mong nagtatanong ka pa rin ng promo sa mga spa na pinupuntahan mo at iba ibang thera kinukuha mo?

 

ano kaya magiging feeling niya kung alam niya na pa spa spa ka pa rin? alam ba niyang na mimiss mo si margo? hahaha nakakatawa itong mga nagpopost na ito.

 

mangangaral pero sa totoo puro pulpol pala ng kasinungalingan

 

 

[Solaryan]

Hehe little bit. Because for me, "kilig" is not an illusion may it be inside or outside of the cubicle..

 

I consider it as the cherry on top of my vanilla ice cream (euphemism of going to an ESpa)

[Solaryan]

Whoever said that therapist are working in a Spa for love? I think only a dummy will make such that claim.

 

Simple solution,if you disagree with people falling/liking a therapist, then why are you here? To disagree or judge them? Tsk tsk. Simple trolling/flaming lang ba ang thrill na hanap mo? Kasi ako "kilig" at sarap hanap ko.

 

Anyway, dude happy weekend na lang.. hehe ayoko ma suspend or ban from here. I don't have secondary or multiple accounts.

 

 

Mods, pauwi na ako so sana if mabasa nyo po ito, I am not fighting or flaming anyone. I am simply stating an observation. I don't want this thread to be locked or closed, and I strongly believe some are instigating not just a healthy debate but are bordering on being a flamer-troll hybrid. If I am overreacting then I apologize...

[oninpoto]

dapat alam nyo kung marupok kayo. minsan pumupunta kayo sa karinderya kada lunch break kahit olats pagkain kasi cute yung tindera. nag grogrocery kayo sa iisang lugar namamaksali na yung type nyong kahera mapilahan nyo. kahit umay na umay kayo sa turon bile kayo ng bile kasi si ate nagtitnda. pano pag pag may haguran ng nangyayare diba. wala namang nag sasabing masama. ingatan nyo na lang sarile nyo pati si ate. pag napasubo kayo di nyo naman pala kaya. tayo mga lalake kahit papano dapat kaya nating pangatawanan yan. masarap masaya ang magmahal at mahalin pero responsibilidad yan buhay yan kaya dapat ingatan bow.....

[SnowWhiteDakota]

I agree with you Sir oninpoto. Simple lang naman ang buhay eh. Kung gusto mong maging masaya, go ahead... Pero pagdating sa responsibilidad, maging seryoso na tayo. Dilang puro sarap. Kung gaano katigas ang inyong...dapat ganun din katigas ang inyong paninindigan. Sa amin namang mga babae, dapat eh kung nakatagpo na ng tunay na pag ibig at pinili naman naming ipagpalit sa work namin, manahimik na at masatisfy sa buhay. Para maging normal narin at maging simple at masaya narin ang buhay.

 

Ako kase dipa nakakatagpo kaya excepted pako d'yan...haha! Joke lang...

 

H'wag pong mainit ang mga ulo. Lahat po ng mga post dito ay opinion lamang.. pwedeng tama, pwedeng hindi. Ang mahalaga po eh, Igalang po natin ang isa't isa. Gandang gabi po sa lahat.