Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Solaryan]

MU lang masaya na ako.. Haha!

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MU lang masaya na ako.. Haha!

 

Sinabi ko rin yan dati. Kaso the moment na andun ka na, there is a chance that you will want more than M.U. Masaklap nito, pag mag isa ka lang na gumusto na mag level up. Hehe

[drewbrees]

 

1. I know we don't call our female friends and offer to pay them to spend time with us. But, I have on several occasions, called on my friends (female) and asked them to accompany me to a movie or eat somewhere new that I want to try out and they sometimes will tell me that they don't have enough money, so I treat them (not always. so don't get any ideas. hahaha) Is that any different from this situation? Where a guy spends some money to have female companionship?

 

On a few occasions, here in the office, I chat or talk to some of my female colleagues while they are working (and I am lounging about), that is feasible because we are in the same work environment. Now, what you said about the thera and her GM. It just so happens that the thera is on duty and her "friend/GM" wants to spend time with her. So, given that she is in her place of work (Spa) then he has to pay for the entrance/service to avail of her time to hang out with her. Is this really difficult to comprehend?

 

Now we don't know that this is the only time that they see each other or if on her time offs or after her work they also spend time. Since what they do is their own business.

 

2. If by circumstances within my control, I do end up with a thera. Personally, I will give the decision to her (thera). If she wants me to tell the world (including my family and work colleagues) that she used to be a thera, I will do it. They can all suck an orange for all I care.

 

That for me, is what love is. I am happy that I am with that person, devil may care about her past, so long as we are together and that we want to have a future together.. But again, that's just me.

 

Now, if she (the thera) does not want me to tell people about her past, then I will honor her wishes. Since it is HER PAST. She did the things she needed to do to get by. It's like meeting a former assassin, then you fell in love with that person. Is that really different? Morally speaking isn't an assassin more sinful than a prostitute? Hahaha!

 

3. Yeah, porn stars are exactly that - STARS. Meaning, they are more visible and less discreet than theras. Why? Because, for most porn stars they make more money, but at the expense of their private lives. People, can save copies of their work and jack off or watch it lustfully whenever they damn want to. As they say, what is in the media nowadays, are forever (haha andun pala ang forever).

 

So please don't compare porn stars to therapists. Because, therapists still enjoy a certain level of privacy. I know they have picture posted in their thread and all. But, the pictures posted are sexy and gives hints of naughtiness, but it is not and in NO way the same as the pictures of porn stars f*cking or sucking d*cks. If you see a picture of a thera posted here in MTC doing that, please PM me Coz' I haven't seen that one yet.. Hahahaha! Just kidding Mods.

 

Anyway, like I said. This is me throwing my 2 cents into this discussion, so I look forward to more input from my fellow GMs who may or may not share the same thoughts that I have on this matter.

 

Good day! =)

 

1. are you trying to be slick with how you answer? Treating your friends and paying them and giving them money to spend time with them are two different things. I don't even need to elaborate on this. Self explanatory. SMH

 

2. I wasn't talking about if the thera and GM decide to care what other people think. Nothing wrong with that. I am merely talking about the lying part. Where a friend or family member of the GM or even the thera decide to ask how they met or what she does for a living when they met. And the GM straight up lies. If the GM doesn't care what other people think then it should'nt matter if they tell them right?

 

Omitting the truth and lying are two different things. If they don't care what other people think and it should'nt be a big deal to tell the truth. Instead of making up a story when your family member or friend is asking about it. If you decide to lie, not only are you lying to yourself. But also to your relationship. That's my point.

 

You made your bed. You sleep in it.

 

3. I wasn't comparing Porn stars to the theras in their exposure to social media and the internet. I wasn't even talking about the pictures. I was talking about the details of the work and how it compares to their private lives. That's why i said BF's of porn stars are accepting of their porn star GF's because they know its work and yet they still accept them. From your explanation you make it sound like porn stars can't have private lives.

 

The nature of a thera's work is comparable to a porn star. Same things done, and they get paid to do it. This is my point. Now if the GM who turns out to be their BF. That's a big question on whether they all shout this Love Conquest All cliche and it shouldn't matter to other people. If it doesn't matter to other people then it should'nt be a big issue to lie to your own family about your relationship with a thera.

Edited January 4, 2017 by ppk

[Solaryan]

 

Sinabi ko rin yan dati. Kaso the moment na andun ka na, there is a chance that you will want more than M.U. Masaklap nito, pag mag isa ka lang na gumusto na mag level up. Hehe

 

Hehe agree ako bro. I think pag nakakuha nga ako ng daliri, next kamay naman, tapos braso, tapos sya na buong buo na.. hahaha!

[Solaryan]

 

1. are you trying to be slick with how you answer? Treating your friends and paying them and giving them money to spend time with them are two different things. I don't even need to elaborate on this. Self explanatory. SMH

 

2. I wasn't talking about if the thera and GM decide to care what other people think. Nothing wrong with that. I am merely talking about the lying part. Where a friend or family member of the GM or even the thera decide to ask how they met or what she does for a living when they met. And the GM straight up lies. If the GM doesn't care what other people think then it should'nt matter if they tell them right?

 

Omitting the truth and lying are two different things. If they don't care what other people think and it should'nt be a big deal to tell the truth. Instead of making up a story when your family member or friend is asking about it. If you decide to lie, not only are you lying to yourself. But also to your relationship. That's my point.

 

You made your bed. You sleep in it.

 

3. I wasn't comparing Porn stars to the theras in their exposure to social media and the internet. I wasn't even talking about the pictures. I was talking about the details of the work and how it compares to their private lives. That's why i said BF's of porn stars are accepting of their porn star GF's because they know its work and yet they still accept them. From your explanation you make it sound like porn stars can't have private lives.

 

The nature of a thera's work is comparable to a porn star. Same things done, and they get paid to do it. This is my point. Now if the GM who turns out to be their BF. That's a big question on whether they all shout this Love Conquest All cliche and it shouldn't matter to other people. If it doesn't matter to other people then it should'nt be a big issue to lie to your own family about your relationship with a thera.

 

 

1. I am not trying to be anything. I am sharing my thoughts on what you posted. I know treating your friends and paying for the services of a thera are different. But, like I said, a GM visited the thera in her place of work, so he had to pay for the entrance, right? Now, if you back read a little, it was even mentioned that sometimes she (May) returns the tip/s of that GM. So basically, somehow, it is like a friend going over to another friend's place of work just to hang out. He paid the establishment to get in, but not the friend (in that 1-time that was mentioned).

 

 

2. I already shared my thoughts about this but allow me to expound. Yes, they may lie to people or they may not. That will be their choice. It can be because of shame or a number of OTHER reasons. But, I think it is a bit narrow-minded to just state it as a fact, that they usually lie to people because they are ashamed of how they met.. But, then again, I am no expert. I just want to keep an open mind.

 

 

3. If it is the details of their work, then please let me remind you that NOT all theras have sex as part of their ES. And I dunno about you, but the porn I watched have a lot more stuff than what most theras have in their ES arsenal. Allow me cite a few examples. Not many theras allow anal, CIM, CIF, fisting. DP and other things in their ES. So, to compare porn stars to a thera by the services/ things that they do is again, funny to me.

 

 

Lastly, like I said. What if it is not an issue to the man (GM) but, it is the lady's wish to be introduced/ not as a former thera, but as someone whom the guy met at the mall or in her new place of work. Should the guy deny his lover's request, just because he wants to show that he is not ashamed of the way/circumstance that brought them together?

 

Just because she used to be a therapist (who provides ES), does that mean, that she can't re-invent herself in the future?

 

Imagine this for second, man meets thera. Man and thera hits it off, and the man courts the thera. They end up together. 2 years later, the thera quits her job and she marries that man.

They start a business together and they tell people (that they are not close to) that they met in a mall and hit it off. But to those people they trust the most, they share the real story. Is that a bad thing?

 

Or if they tell everyone the same story that they met in a mall, does that mean they are ashamed of how they met or just simply, they don't want people judging them? Especially since there are a lot of people who are quick to throw the first stone to the people they think are beneath them.

 

Anyway, I read that there were a few people who ended up marrying a thera, I would love to hear their stories and what they tell the people around them how they met and all the other things.

 

Because for me, at the end of the day, I am a believer of sleeping in the bed I made. So, I make sure, it is as comfortable f*ck! hahaha!

Edited January 4, 2017 by Solaryan

[drewbrees]

 

Lastly, like I said. What if it is not an issue to the man (GM) but, it is the lady's wish to be introduced/ not as a former thera, but as someone whom the guy met at the mall or in her new place of work. Should the guy deny his lover's request, just because he wants to show that he is not ashamed of the way/circumstance that brought them together?

 

Just because she used to be a therapist (who provides ES), does that mean, that she can't re-invent herself in the future?

 

Imagine this for second, man meets thera. Man and thera hits it off, and the man courts the thera. They end up together. 2 years later, the thera quits her job and she marries that man.

They start a business together and they tell people (that they are not close to) that they met in a mall and hit it off. But to those people they trust the most, they share the real story. Is that a bad thing?

 

Or if they tell everyone the same story that they met in a mall, does that mean they are ashamed of how they met or just simply, they don't want people judging them? Especially since there are a lot of people who are quick to throw the first stone to the people they think are beneath them.

 

Anyway, I read that there were a few people who ended up marrying a thera, I would love to hear their stories and what they tell the people around them how they met and all the other things.

 

Because for me, at the end of the day, I am a believer of sleeping in the bed I made. So, I make sure, it is as comfortable f*ck! hahaha!

 

You missed my point entirely. If they don't care what people think. Then it shouldn't be an issue. If they are conscious about people judging them or even being ashamed of how they met then that means they still care what other people think. I'm just talking about the GM and the theras family im not even going to include other people they just met or people they aren't close with.

 

That's why i asked May if she thinks that more 50% of men are willing to be open to their own families and close friends if questions arise from the details of their relationship with a therapist? I am merely pointing out that more often than not, this is the Main reason they lie about it.

 

If GM's are willing to put aside their own egos and pride. They shouldn't be ashamed or fearful of what their own families or close friends might think. It doesn't fall on the families or friends to accept it. But at least the GM would show that he is honest and open to the relationship. Don't build that relationship on a lie.

 

But i doubt that many GM's are open that way. They still have those insecurities. Even those GM's that married their these theras. I base my point on what i've seen and what society dictates of these types of situations.

 

I'm here to point these out because i don't see these being talked about on this thread.

 

I find it rather amusing to your point that theras have to do have all what the pornstars do in order to be compared. You missed the complexity of my point where i was trying to say, the nature of both jobs falls under the same category. The theras don't need to be doing what all the pornstars do in order to be compared. They are under the same umbrella. Pleasuring strange men in exchange for payment.

 

Its like you saying taxi drivers and jeepney drivers are different. These are under the same category. Public Utility Vehicles.

[Solaryan]

 

You missed my point entirely. If they don't care what people think. Then it shouldn't be an issue. If they are conscious about people judging them or even being ashamed of how they met then that means they still care what other people think. I'm just talking about the GM and the theras family im not even going to include other people they just met or people they aren't close with.

 

That's why i asked May if she thinks that more 50% of men are willing to be open to their own families and close friends if questions arise from the details of their relationship with a therapist? I am merely pointing out that more often than not, this is the Main reason they lie about it.

 

If GM's are willing to put aside their own egos and pride. They shouldn't be ashamed or fearful of what their own families or close friends might think. It doesn't fall on the families or friends to accept it. But at least the GM would show that he is honest and open to the relationship. Don't build that relationship on a lie.

 

But i doubt that many GM's are open that way. They still have those insecurities. Even those GM's that married their these theras. I base my point on what i've seen and what society dictates of these types of situations.

 

I'm here to point these out because i don't see these being talked about on this thread.

 

I find it rather amusing to your point that theras have to do have all what the pornstars do in order to be compared. You missed the complexity of my point where i was trying to say, the nature of both jobs falls under the same category. The theras don't need to be doing what all the pornstars do in order to be compared. They are under the same umbrella. Pleasuring strange men in exchange for payment.

 

Its like you saying taxi drivers and jeepney drivers are different. These are under the same category. Public Utility Vehicles.

 

 

I pointed out that what if it is the thera's wish not to disclose her past. Does that still mean that the GM was not willing to put aside his pride/ego? Like I said, what if the thera wants to start fresh, without her past being disclosed at the onset? Wherein she tells the GM that they select the people to whom they can confide her past to? Does that still mean they they are ashamed of how their relationship began? Or are they simply being selective on whom to trust?

 

I would like to constructively disagree with this statement: same umbrella. Pleasuring strange men in exchange for payment

 

I think that this is being too broad. Isn't a simple massage without ES pleasuring people (man or woman) in exchange for payment? LOL

I can think and cite a few examples wherein people's services (jobs) involve around pleasuring clients in exchange for a payment. Albeit, it is not of the sexual nature, but I think that it is too one-dimensional to bucket a therapist doing ES with porn stars. But, again you're entitled to your opinion and ideas.

 

So to end this, I'll just say, to each his own. hehe

 

Thanks for the discussion.

 

Kain muna akong lunch bro.

[lone23]

 

Sinabi ko rin yan dati. Kaso the moment na andun ka na, there is a chance that you will want more than M.U. Masaklap nito, pag mag isa ka lang na gumusto na mag level up. Hehe

 

Kung sa bagay, ang MU eh yung masaya pa lang na part. Going more than MU is far more complicated.

[ninjakid69]

"This is an absurd moral, for you and I both know that sometimes not only is it good to lie, it is necessary to lie."

—Lemony Snicket

[curvermay]

 

 

That's why i asked May if she thinks that more 50% of men are willing to be open to their own families and close friends if questions arise from the details of their relationship with a therapist? I am merely pointing out that more often than not, this is the Main reason they lie about it.

 

If GM's are willing to put aside their own egos and pride. They shouldn't be ashamed or fearful of what their own families or close friends might think. It doesn't fall on the families or friends to accept it. But at least the GM would show that he is honest and open to the relationship. Don't build that relationship on a lie.

 

 

I would be willing to say sir, most men would not open up what we do to their loved ones. This is a Catholic country and this business is often frowned upon by most of the populace. If these were a European country, then it might have been different but we live in RP so it is what it is. However, despite that, "hiding" our jobs doesn't mean the relationship is built on a lie. The emotions are real after all. They are just managing the people's perception on how they think it will best serve their relationship.

 

Even myself, should that time come, I want my BF to introduce me to his family along the lines of "Ma, c May. GF ko.Accounting grad na nakilala ko sa Antipolo last month." rather than, "Ma, GF ko c May. Nagjajakol cya sa spa."...both are technically true, but one statement would better server our purposes in the long run. Don't you think?

[drewbrees]

 

I would like to constructively disagree with this statement: same umbrella. Pleasuring strange men in exchange for payment

 

I think that this is being too broad. Isn't a simple massage without ES pleasuring people (man or woman) in exchange for payment? LOL

I can think and cite a few examples wherein people's services (jobs) involve around pleasuring clients in exchange for a payment. Albeit, it is not of the sexual nature, but I think that it is too one-dimensional to bucket a therapist doing ES with porn stars. But, again you're entitled to your opinion and ideas.

 

So to end this, I'll just say, to each his own. hehe

 

Thanks for the discussion.

 

Kain muna akong lunch bro.

 

You took what i said too literally.

You can try to distance the difference between a thera and a porn star and try to add unnecessary comparisons by citing "a simple massage is also pleasurable"

The thing that binds them together is a "nature" of the job itself. sucking penises. is sucking penises. You can try dancing around the common factor between the two thinking they are different but their not.

 

I don't think that's also anything to be ashamed of either to be compared to a porn star. I surely hope you have no biases towards porn stars because you try too hard to differentiate what they do with therapists who suck dicks for a living. It's the same banana. sexual in nature is sexual in nature different levels of sexuality but the same categorically.

 

you can paint a zebra red but in the end its still a Zebra.

[drewbrees]

 

I would be willing to say sir, most men would not open up what we do to their loved ones. This is a Catholic country and this business is often frowned upon by most of the populace. If these were a European country, then it might have been different but we live in RP so it is what it is. However, despite that, "hiding" our jobs doesn't mean the relationship is built on a lie. The emotions are real after all. They are just managing the people's perception on how they think it will best serve their relationship.

 

Even myself, should that time come, I want my BF to introduce me to his family along the lines of "Ma, c May. GF ko.Accounting grad na nakilala ko sa Antipolo last month." rather than, "Ma, GF ko c May. Nagjajakol cya sa spa."...both are technically true, but one statement would better server our purposes in the long run. Don't you think?

 

I think you call that "white lies" calling it a white lie doesn't change the fact that its lying. Wouldn't you agree?

 

What if there was a follow up question to what your intro was. "Oh Accounting graduate ka pala. Saan ka nagtrabaho sa Antipolo?" (insert name of banks to her question since that's the conclusion she would come up to)

 

What would be your answer? or your BF/ GM. - he either makes up a story. Which is to lie.

 

He tells the truth and that ends the probing questions. I don't know what to you would sound better. Telling a lie and piling a bunch of lies on top the lie or tell the truth. God's honest truth.

 

Anyone can lie to anybody but in the eyes of God well.. that's a different story.

 

So only the GM, the thera and God knows what the real story is

Edited January 4, 2017 by ppk

[curvermay]

 

I think you call that "white lies" calling it a white lie doesn't change the fact that its lying. Wouldn't you agree?

 

I actually disagree. A white lie is an "untruth" that is told to prevent someone from being upset - "Ma, c May, nagtratrabaho cya sa banko." - This is a white lie.

 

Selective truth is presenting partial snippets of truth for the same purpose. "Ma, c May. Accounting grad cya.Working cya sa Antipolo ngaun." - This is a good example.This is factual, not a fallacy.

 

It is similar to submitting a resume. You highlight what you think are the best qualities to look at to achieve the desired perception. You indicate that you graduated lets say from UP or Ateneo, top notch schools. But you wouldn't admit in the same resume that you were dropped from 2 subjects due to delinquency. Right? Selective truth is not the same as a white lie.

 

My 2 cents.

[Okita Sougo]

Very enlightening thread 😇

Edited January 4, 2017 by Pachiboy Shimura

[Solaryan]

 

You took what i said too literally.

You can try to distance the difference between a thera and a porn star and try to add unnecessary comparisons by citing "a simple massage is also pleasurable"

The thing that binds them together is a "nature" of the job itself. sucking penises. is sucking penises. You can try dancing around the common factor between the two thinking they are different but their not.

 

I don't think that's also anything to be ashamed of either to be compared to a porn star. I surely hope you have no biases towards porn stars because you try too hard to differentiate what they do with therapists who suck dicks for a living. It's the same banana. sexual in nature is sexual in nature different levels of sexuality but the same categorically.

 

you can paint a zebra red but in the end its still a Zebra.

 

Haha! Bro, I admire porn stars! But, comparing them to therapists is bit of a stretch for me. It's like comparing a Nascar driver (some are even comparable to a Formula 1 race car driver) to a drag racer.

 

Drag racers are famous (locally or in their own circuit) and skilled but not as famous or high-profile as a Nascar or F1 driver. LOL. Like I said, let's just agree that your opinion is that they're the same and my opinion is that they are different.

[Solaryan]

 

I would be willing to say sir, most men would not open up what we do to their loved ones. This is a Catholic country and this business is often frowned upon by most of the populace. If these were a European country, then it might have been different but we live in RP so it is what it is. However, despite that, "hiding" our jobs doesn't mean the relationship is built on a lie. The emotions are real after all. They are just managing the people's perception on how they think it will best serve their relationship.

 

Even myself, should that time come, I want my BF to introduce me to his family along the lines of "Ma, c May. GF ko.Accounting grad na nakilala ko sa Antipolo last month." rather than, "Ma, GF ko c May. Nagjajakol cya sa spa."...both are technically true, but one statement would better server our purposes in the long run. Don't you think?

 

Hahahaha! This post made me laugh!

 

Hahahaha! May, panalo yun pagpapakilala nung guy sa nanay nya! Napahagalpak ako sa office ko ngayon at nagtaka tuloy yun ibang tao dito kasi tumatawa ako mag isa habang nasa harap ng monitor.

 

OwMAYgawhd! :D :D

 

 

Agree ako sa isa mo pang post, iba nga ang white lies sa perception management, iba rin yun sa information management... Again, not because you are selective to whom you divulge personal things to, does not mean that it's built on a lie or it has weak foundation. it simply means you are smart enough to discern whom to trust and who are superficial acquaintances pretending to be your friends/ best friends.

 

Plus, what if ganun mo nga pinakilala ang thera/gf mo tapos later on, nun mas nakapalgayang loob at nakilala na ni mommy yun thera/gf sinabi nyo na yun circusmtances how you met. At least, kahit sa una ma-shock ang mommy, may pagbabasehan na sya. Kasi nakilala na nya yun totoong tao, di yun naging trabaho nya dati..

 

Diba diba diba?

Edited January 4, 2017 by Solaryan

[RED2018]

Many men I know seek a 'limited' romantic or emotional connection, in addition to or instead of a purely physical experience, when taking a spa therapist's service...Testing the water or just checking and validating his 'worth'

 

These men describe the bond as 'confusion' that they feel about the blurring of the lines between the job and the emotional relationship. One man said, "I have an ATF (all-time favorite) provider that I thought I had made a 'connection' with... There was some real level of caring between the two of us, although we didn’t really interact outside the spa...

 

Lately, I sense I’m just another one of her clients…Maybe it was all a part of the illusion from the beginning. She’s one of my favorite people in any context, but I’d rather not see her if I’m just another client."

 

For the men who saw themselves as having a sort of emotional relationship with their provider, the decision to end involvement with her was treated like a 'break-up.' One described a former provider as always having a place in his heart.

 

If ever you're sure with the so-called connection (and not being confused), simply get her out of her work, pronto....and live happily ever after...

Edited January 4, 2017 by artedpro

[drewbrees]

 

I actually disagree. A white lie is an "untruth" that is told to prevent someone from being upset - "Ma, c May, nagtratrabaho cya sa banko." - This is a white lie.

 

Selective truth is presenting partial snippets of truth for the same purpose. "Ma, c May. Accounting grad cya.Working cya sa Antipolo ngaun." - This is a good example.This is factual, not a fallacy.

 

It is similar to submitting a resume. You highlight what you think are the best qualities to look at to achieve the desired perception. You indicate that you graduated lets say from UP or Ateneo, top notch schools. But you wouldn't admit in the same resume that you were dropped from 2 subjects due to delinquency. Right? Selective truth is not the same as a white lie.

 

My 2 cents.

 

Call it what you want May. A lie is a lie. Selective truth is also called omitting the truth. Partial Truth is not wholly honest. What if i'm to tell you lying on a job application is a federal offense? Probably depends on the job you are applying for but there's a question on a job app that asks about solicitation for sexual activity.

 

I only mentioned that because you are cited submitting a "padded resume" just so you can make your background look good.

 

But going back to your "selective truth". Its not me that's going to judge you. God will. you don't need me or anyone to tell you if you're telling a lie or not. Like i said you made your bed, you sleep on it. But remember, the man above is watching all the time...

 

 

 

Haha! Bro, I admire porn stars! But, comparing them to therapists is bit of a stretch for me. It's like comparing a Nascar driver (some are even comparable to a Formula 1 race car driver) to a drag racer.

 

Drag racers are famous (locally or in their own circuit) and skilled but not as famous or high-profile as a Nascar or F1 driver. LOL. Like I said, let's just agree that your opinion is that they're the same and my opinion is that they are different.

 

 

A logic full of flaws. Comparing Nascar drivers to F1 drivers and drag racers. You're talking about the same thing. They are all drivers. You're saying that because Nascar and F1 are popular that means they're different from each other? If it's Because of popularity or "high profile" that makes them different, then you totally missed the point.

 

a F1 or Nascar Driver can just as well become a drag racer or vice versa. They're not different because they are All drivers and they can drive those cars. Only difference is, they are driving different cars.

 

Until you can cite a True comparison to me then you just dug yourself a hole with your argument. Give me an example other than a porn star who sucks dicks for a living that would be comparable to a spakol therapist or massage parlor attendant. You can probably cite psp's, hookers, and escorts. but that only proves my comparison to be right.

[3stooges]

Missing this thread...

 

Been a Very Willing Victim always of this scenario...

 

Kilala na nga sya(sila) ng parents ko pero wala nde rin nagtatagal...

 

Reasons... Petty Quarrels and Time... Walang Guest related na away kasi alam ko naman at tanggap ko pati ng parents ko work nila... you may say Kalokohan pero pag mahal mo mahal mo eh and my parents love who i love... walang sikreto sikreto pero nde pala yun sapat para magtagal...

 

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From Ginza, Paragon, Kuusamo, LeJoyz, EastWest, Anantara, Eros, Shizuka, Primero, SSS, *other nonMTC spa, name it...

 

Masakit, Masarap, Mahirap, Masaya, ah basta yang LOVE na yan ang gulo either Puso or Utak pero at the end of the day i could say proudly to everyone naging at magiging masaya ako anuman mangyari...

 

Ika nga ang Pagmamahal ang natatanging regalo ng nasa itaas sa atin at dapat lahat tayo marunong magmahal

[Solaryan]

 

A logic full of flaws. Comparing Nascar drivers to F1 drivers and drag racers. You're talking about the same thing. They are all drivers. You're saying that because Nascar and F1 are popular that means they're different from each other? If it's Because of popularity or "high profile" that makes them different, then you totally missed the point.

 

a F1 or Nascar Driver can just as well become a drag racer or vice versa. They're not different because they are All drivers and they can drive those cars. Only difference is, they are driving different cars.

 

Until you can cite a True comparison to me then you just dug yourself a hole with your argument. Give me an example other than a porn star who sucks dicks for a living that would be comparable to a spakol therapist or massage parlor attendant. You can probably cite psp's, hookers, and escorts. but that only proves my comparison to be right.

 

You my friend love to generalize things. Hahaha!

 

F1 drivers, Nascar drivers and drag racers are all drivers for you. Heck why not generalize them all as humans.

 

If you logically think it over, a drag racer who is really great can become a Nascar driver or an F1 driver. Same thing as thera who can venture as a porn star if they get discovered by porn producer. Right? hehe. Things can also go in reverse, as a dare, an F1 driver can compete in a drag race. But, it does not change the fact that there are such people as drag racer and F1 race car driver. So, again to say that therapist and porn stars are the same, this is for me, a big stretch.

 

By the way, it was you who compared a therapist to a porn star in your example not me. I just disputed your idea/analogy. I don't have to cite an example/analogy that will compare a thera's job to another profession.

 

 

Anyway, since we are sinners and I am not one who wants to rub off my sinful ways to others, I'll just end our lovely discussion.Good night bro.

 

 

"Let him who is without sin cast the first stone." - Remember this quote as you judge us. As you said, God is above and he sees all.

Edited January 4, 2017 by Solaryan

[Makatiscribe]

Falling for a thera is complicated. But chances are there are already those who got into it and managed to make things work out. Perhaps the relationship is not bound to what other people consider acceptable or not.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, May.

[Chupapi Muñañio]

Missing this thread...

 

Been a Very Willing Victim always of this scenario...

 

Kilala na nga sya(sila) ng parents ko pero wala nde rin nagtatagal...

 

Reasons... Petty Quarrels and Time... Walang Guest related na away kasi alam ko naman at tanggap ko pati ng parents ko work nila... you may say Kalokohan pero pag mahal mo mahal mo eh and my parents love who i love... walang sikreto sikreto pero nde pala yun sapat para magtagal...

 

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From Ginza, Paragon, Kuusamo, LeJoyz, EastWest, Anantara, Eros, Shizuka, Primero, SSS, *other nonMTC spa, name it...

 

Masakit, Masarap, Mahirap, Masaya, ah basta yang LOVE na yan ang gulo either Puso or Utak pero at the end of the day i could say proudly to everyone naging at magiging masaya ako anuman mangyari...

 

Ika nga ang Pagmamahal ang natatanging regalo ng nasa itaas sa atin at dapat lahat tayo marunong magmahal

One more thing my advice for inexperienced GM who are planning to have a relationship with a therapist...

Dont make her fall in love because of money that you have...

For that you will know if the feeling of the thera is mutual...

Because if ang foundation ng relationship niyo ay "You need sex she needs money" it is bound to fall apart...

Edited January 4, 2017 by Thugsoulja6g

[Turk]

Many men I know seek a 'limited' romantic or emotional connection, in addition to or instead of a purely physical experience, when taking a spa therapist's service...Testing the water or just checking and validating his 'worth'

 

These men describe the bond as 'confusion' that they feel about the blurring of the lines between the job and the emotional relationship. One man said, "I have an ATF (all-time favorite) provider that I thought I had made a 'connection' with... There was some real level of caring between the two of us, although we didn’t really interact outside the spa...

 

Lately, I sense I’m just another one of her clients…Maybe it was all a part of the illusion from the beginning. She’s one of my favorite people in any context, but I’d rather not see her if I’m just another client."

 

For the men who saw themselves as having a sort of emotional relationship with their provider, the decision to end involvement with her was treated like a 'break-up.' One described a former provider as always having a place in his heart.

 

If ever you're sure with the so-called connection (and not being confused), simply get her out of her work, pronto....and live happily ever after...

Bow! Well said

[wheeljack]

I think it's been pretty much elaborated time and time again in this thread that falling for a therapist is not without its own set of complications. A lot of GMs have repeatedly mentioned how difficult it will be and how her profession is a major hindrance to having a lasting relationship with one. On the other hand, so many people, ms may included, have repeatedly emphasized that for the relationship to work, one must look beyond the profession and just look at her just like any other woman.

 

So it's really your call, if you can look beyond what she does then go for it. If you can't then think long and hard about pursuing her. In the end, what's important is that we let them make their own decisions. We don't need to put anyone down simply because we don't agree with their choice. At the end of the day, it's their lives and not yours, so let them be.

[global4]

Therapist are very loving and caring. I like it.